₦airaland Forum

AmazonTopaz:
I saw the preying mantis first

Me too

Wetin i won tell you now? What kind of mumu talk is all these ones

MissJoy29:
Lol...I have an old friend who says her hubby must have a big backyard where she will be having barbecues with her friends regularly. I was amazed when I found out she wasn't joking. What a priority!

This is someone that specialises in begging & scheming out money from guys and ladies alike but you will never see her 1 naira. Lol

na them. They have nothing to contribute to a mans life but they want you to work you ass off to finance their luxirious lifestyle. If you take note, these ones are also lazy in performing house chores, they are lazy in everything

Skmoda360:
misplaced priority.....she needs to look deep to why she can't get a man for herself and besides who says being in a relationship will make you happy ....realest shit....this one no get job oooo

Thank you my brother, she is not looking for a husband because she wants a companion o, but because she wants someone who will shoulder all her financial burden and probably that of her family

frbona:
[s][/s] calm your fears bro Not all girls are like your sisters

Oh my geez!

Regiomontanus:
All these things you've typed, do they justify the op's wife toxic attitude? Do they mean that the op should endure a toxic marriage? SMH.

You just clearified my thought about you, you are foolish! The woman is toxic because the man said so? Na you dey hold torch for her while she was performing the toxicity? Las las, you go dey alright shaking my dick

Westsida:
Sorry I been following your point with the other moniker, both of you gave some good points as support/oppose. But at the bolded, I hate seeing such. He ate the puna for 8 years or they both ate each other for 8 years? Was the wife not receiving deek? Or a deek isn’t a sexual organ? Like I said, you gave some good and viable points, but to me, he ate the Puna is so wrong to say. After all they were married and she wasn’t a Puna seller!

I understand you, the thing is, women are always at the loosing end in such issues. She will be the one to birth children and loose shape, have slacked punna and all. We men remain the same but i get what you mean. I live in an environment where i've seen women abused in the name of marriage with no one to defend them. At the end, the husband toss them aside with nothing and bring in a new woman, he remains unchanged while the woman is seen as a 2nd hand wife, with so much blame on her for not being able to keep her marriage

Regiomontanus:
I believed the op as there are no good reasons for a woman to behave like that except she is a terrible person. Many women are like that. If you doubt the op, the question is why do doubt the op? Even if you doubt the op and really want to hear both sides of the story, why not wait for both sides of the story first instead of being biased against the op and turning the table on him right away?

At this rate, I see you children being ashamed to mention you as their father because they don't want to be known as the offsprings of someone with a disgraceful stupidity. Who knows if they are being taunted and joked about for being your offsprings? Sit up or they obliterate you from the family records. Good day

when a man give a woman fire, she gives him hell in return. My kids will be too Proud of me

MNDY:
I don't think so. Nigerian ladies/women have attitude problem. It is a known fact.

If you are Nigerian, its safe to say then that your mother and sisters have attitude problem. Now i understand, its the environment you were raised in

Regiomontanus:
Olodo. Did he eat the punna in peace? Did he eat it as he wanted? Didn't you read that the wife always used sex as a bargaining chip and heaped conditions on it?

Even if he ate the punna and enjoyed it to the fullest and whenever he wanted, it still doesn't give the wife the licence to be toxic and deprive him of his peace of mind. So you think a man should continue suffering under a toxic woman because he has been eating the punna? You are sick. His wife is a demon and he has the right to call her such and dump her ass. It's not defying of any reasonable ethics. Good day.

Who said the wife is toxic? So i should just accept that the wife is toxic because he said so? Lol, hell no, i'm not buying this crap see conclusion from you o, the wife is a demon? Did she bewitch you? Sense is far from you, who said he should remain in the marriage? He should go and amend his life and stop terrorizing people's daughters. Good bye? Hell no I'll be waiting

Regiomontanus:
So being happy that a man got rid of a toxic partner makes me hate filled? So because a man has been in a marriage for eight years means he should keep on suffering? Why should the number of years matter? You want him to keep on suffering? At this rate, your offspring would consider deleting your name from the family history as they wouldn't want to have a connection with someone so disgracefully stupid.

shut up joor, he ate the punna for 8years, didnt know she was a demon but now that he has found a fresh one outside, he is claiming that she is a demon. If you want divorce no one is stopping you, stop trying to save face by calling the woman a demon, Nobody cares if you house is in disarray. I'm sure your ancestors are turning and crying in their graves because of your stupidity right now

Regiomontanus:
Why do you think he is economical with the truth? I also noticed that you seemed biased against the op.

Biased cause he said there are two sides to a coin? But you are not biased for supporting the op without hearing from the wife? Lwkmd

Regiomontanus:
Banzermy asked a logical question. It takes intelligence to give logical answers to logical questions.

Excuse your ass, where is the intelligent question? Someone (both of you) who is being so emotional because his brother came online to cry, searching for sympathy and couldnt get it from everyone. Not everyone is dumb and hatred filled like you

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Bro calm down... There are always two sides to a coin...
I think the man is being economical with the truth.

He thinks everyone is dumb to just buy the story and start insulting the lady

Banzermy:
Stfu. What’s your business with when he chooses to divorce the demonic wife? If you ain’t satisfied, you can go and marry her since you’re a senseless idiot. Weak ass mofo. Na heavy thunder go scatter your useless and miserable life

Ordinary condom of fifty Naira would have saved the world from a miscreant like you. I go soon read your frustration story on NL Your own go be "my satanic wife returned me to the gutters"

Regiomontanus:
You are very stupid. I never said the man was a good man. How is he supposed to know that the wife is a demon before the marriage? Is he a mind reader? Don't you know that a lot women pretend before marriage only to show their true colours after marriage? For this reason, even good men end up marrying demons and that doesn't make make them demons. To say that a man marrying a bad wife makes him a bad man is to be a high ranking id1ot.

If you doubted that he was saint, why don't you go and ask his wife for her side of the story first instead of turning the tables on the op straight away. You are deserving of a psychiatric evaluation and if you continue at this rate, your children will be ashamed to associate with you or acknowledge you as their blood because your stupidity is disgraceful.

You are a disgrace to all female members of your family and your village in general. Your daughters will be too ashamed to call you father cause you are a beast.

Banzermy:
Stfu senseless mofo. People pretend before marriage and now that he doesn’t want the marriage anymore, what’s your own business? Olofo

sit your dirty ass down and allow your brain to function, you didnt divorce her after one, two, three years, you waited 8 whole years before your decide to "return her to her parents house". Your stupidity is bigger that your entire village

Godoverevery:
Oga you are not in Europe....... you are in Africa were it is the men world...... you can't change that nobody can...so if you want to advise women to rebel against there husband fine but I can assure you most of them will end up somewhere very bad.....so it is common sense to just follow the trend and endure till Wen power will shift to them ....Wen the kids are older and can defend them.

So you want this life style for your daughters? Your sisters? Sorry, i Dont want same for the females in my life and the ones to come Hence i'll teach them to fight for themselves. Power is not given to anyone, power is taken by force

delishpot:
Fact. But women are pushing back now which is not going down well with guys. They call it feminism

Its their headache o, i Dont think wise women will ever go back to the backward way that some men want. I wont even want such a woman for a wife

Regiomontanus:
Why are stupid people abundant in Nairaland? I never said op is a good man. Are you trying to tell me that no woman can behave like the op's wife just like that? You are still inexperienced.

You are the stupid one here, judging a one sided story. If she was a demon before marrying her, then why did he marry a demon? If not, you want to tell me he is completely innocent all through the marriage? He is the saint? You are really stupid

Godoverevery:
sorry to say ma....... you really sound shallow and it already say alot about you....waooo you are asking him to beg her for how long.... elderly people sud talk to her calmly cos she is a goddess.
A water beg for can never quench a thirst...

Is this not the same advise given to women all the time? Double standard, i pity any woman who listen to such advise

delishpot:
Be rational na. I have seen many wives infected with HIV from their husbands. Some men catch VD treat their selves and hide it from their wives. Some catch HIV and hide it too. I have seen many men torment the good wives they marry. I know 1st hand of men who abuse wives one left only after her husband beat her till she lost 1 eye. Still I will not say men are evil and all girls should do is to have baby dafies and enjoy their lives. You hate women we know but don't make your disappointment a national problem.

Ha ha ha ha ha ha Lwkmd o, national problem ke? these kind of guys will never meet good girls cause they can percieve the hate from them. Wailers association, na them

delishpot:
This theory would hold water for many men if it was the wife that dumped the husband. That is when the average man will ask..... What did you do to him to make him act terribly towards you in the first place? So long as its the man doing the dumping, people hardly ask for the other side of the story. In Naija all husbands are saints. All are perfect and if any is bad then it's the wife's fault.

Sometimes i feel Sorry for the women in this part of the world

theAccountant:
This isn't what feminism is about.

Feminism is a range of social movements, political movements, and ideologies that share a common goal: to define, establish, and achieve the political, economic, personal, and social equality of the sexes.

Feminism incorporates the position that societies prioritize the male point of view, and that women are treated unfairly within those societies. True feminism in it's absolute form is the most beautiful thing the world has experienced. It's not about who cook food or who pays the bill, or who decides when not to have sex
Please friend, don't allow social media definition of feminism define yours.
Please read up here.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Feminism

These ones are the sheep, they Dont read, they simply follow what others say

Regiomontanus:
Calling someone a "demon" does not indicate anything about the sayer's character. If all the op listed is true about his wife then she is a demon. Be logical and don't turn the tables on the op. Even good men end up marrying demons.

And you decide that the op is a good man because he came here to give his own part of the story without him having any fault at all? So the woman is mad to just do all these without any response from the op or without him doing anything to trigger such attitude from her? The way some people reason in this forum is funny

QuickStandard:




She's way way cuter than Totodiick.

Will take her anytime anyday, than that toxic devilish, yellowish undiluted wicked pawpaw IDI.ot

I'm sure this was the same way himself and Tonto were gushing over theirselves before the breakup

Ranchhoddas:
Utter crap. The man is the prize. It is women who are competing. Any woman that thinks otherwise is delusional.

Dont worry, you will soon open thread on how no woman wants to date you. A woman is a prize men compete for except those who Dont know their worth and the power they hold. Treat a woman like a queen and watch her submit (not referring to slay queens)

Unrated900:
OP you need to travel to Ghana to pick a pretty beautiful bbw who will love you for who you are

And not what you have,like the way our Nigerian ladies do.

Ghana girls are pretty soft spoken easy and calm women.they are family oriented and can plan with ur 500GHC which is 35k here compair to our iPhone girls here

Likes for Ghana women,shares for Nigeria ladies.

Thats how you guys type Rubbish, later you will come here and cry about how Nigerian girls refuse to marry you. Who will want to marry someone with this kind of mentality?

bukkyemotions:
Can a girl of 36 develop friendship first? is it not marriage they want?

Majority of your posts seems to target women above the age of thirty, maybe you are among those who think all ladies are crazy about marriage once they cross the thirty mark, Sorry bro, thats a big mistake

Safiaa:
Darling no. Let’s be real here, sometimes we need to look in the mirror and tell ourselves this truth. No it’s not always about money, but look at your character. Some men have really serious issues and baggage, laziness, addiction, lack of motivation etc are huge character flaws. I don’t believe a man has to have it all to get married, but please sometimes the reason you are not meeting the right woman is because you are full of problems.

I think you just typed the one thing lot of peeps here are scared to point out

Khaleell001:
We are not tying anyone to their dead husbands.We are only saying she should be a little bit circumspect with her display.

We know of Stella Damusus who did a somewhat low-key marriage to her second husband.
So, it is simple understanding that helps here not trying to look woke.

She is not Stella Damascus, allow people live their lives without guilt tripping them. She owe Nobody a low key marriage, its her life, she will do with it as she please. or are you the dead husband? Member of his family? or did any of his family members complain to you? Even them knows they Dont have a say in that yet strangers think they do. Fear Nigerians

dear ladies, the age 30 is not a dead line for marriage, Dont let anyone push you into marriage when you are not ready or when you Havent found the right one. Never settle for less because of some stupid age limit set by some senseless people. go out and achieve your desire