anochuko01:
ma'am i spoke with one today, he said her hubby must stay in abuja or island. She was damn serious. I almost chocked on my noodles.

Lol...I have an old friend who says her hubby must have a big backyard where she will be having barbecues with her friends regularly. I was amazed when I found out she wasn't joking. What a priority!

This is someone that specialises in begging & scheming out money from guys and ladies alike but you will never see her 1 naira. Lol

Ritzy10:
"Why Has God Forsaken Me, I Will Kill Myself" — Lady Breaks Dow In Tears On The Street Of Surulere




Watch the video
https://zenithnaija.com/nigerian-lady-expresses-her-frustration-over-inability-to-find-a-husband/

Publicity stunt. She has been noticed.

TempleHouse:

Look, there are thousand of Men looking for a decent girl also, and it's just a case of both meeting each other.
Why not dress well and go to shopping mall like Shoprite, Parties, Churches and be accessible than crying in the high Street?
No one will take her serious crying in the street, I'm afraid and every decent guys will be scared to approach her.

no wonder na girls dey full mall pass. So it’s a hunting strategy. Them go fck u tire. Guys don wise up.

AntiBrutus:


Continue deceiving yourselves.

Reverse psychology to keep making women think they are the ones who want marriage more. Women keep falling for it and behaving like this lady.

Wed the day he wishes? To who?
The one he wishes or just any available one?

Tell this trash to ladies without responsible welldoing young men in her circle.

Don't mind them. They know the truth but just choose to project something else entirely to feed their ego & make themselves feel good!

I know a lot of guys who are ready to settle down but haven't seen the one they want yet. You really need to see how worried they are. Here, our NL warriors hide behind their keyboards causing gullible women to be depressed by impressing on them how scarce men are & how their time is running out. But these friends of mine are facing reality not VIRTUALITY! Their time is also running out!! They very well know that the key word in the choice of a partner (any partner) is GODLY. There are ladies and there are wives...same for men and husbands.
Even these ones here talking about being the prize might also be finding it difficult to get a wife. Of course why won't they when every Nigerian girl is a hoe, loves money & is a leech. One arrogant friend then was boasting how he could get someone to marry in a day if he wants. He was on my case and still boasting up & down. But even with all the money he has (and he has a lot!) he still isn't married yet.

No one is more important than the other in this marital journey biko. Our alphamales should be aware that the God-designed differences between male and female are to be seen as COMPLEMENTARY not competitive.

CC: essenceplus & Ranchhoddas

Ranchhoddas:
Funmisticqueen

MissJoy29

Who is the prize

Prize ko! Prizeless ni!!

My husband will be a prize to me...

& guess what?


































































































I WILL ALSO BE A PRIZE TO HIM!!!!!!!!!

Yewandequeen:
The truth is there are few responsible men out there.
As at last might 2of my female neighbors and I actually discussed this.
Not that there are no men out there but there are less of those responsible ones, who will be committed and settle for one woman. Many still wanna play around till they are 34/35yrs before they think of settling down.
As I always say there are less responsible partners out there, if you have anyone that loves you so much, stay and brush the person to what you what. Stop all these yanga and time wasting thing.

I know she will have friends that loves her but cos they are not really her spec she won't look in their direction. As my dad always says, when a man/woman has 75% qualities of your desire help him make up the 25%.
Stop looking for 100% made cos no one is!

Oil dey ur head �

Yewandequeen:
The truth is there are few responsible men out there.
As at last might 2of my female neighbors and I actually discussed this.
Not that there are no men out there but there are less of those responsible ones, who will be committed and settle for one woman. Many still wanna play around till they are 34/35yrs before they think of settling down.
As I always say there are less responsible partners out there, if you have anyone that loves you so much, stay and brush the person to what you what. Stop all these yanga and time wasting thing.

I know she will have friends that loves her but cos they are not really her spec she won't look in their direction. As my dad always says, when a man/woman has 75% qualities of your desire help him make up the 25%.
Stop looking for 100% made cos no one is!

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On the contrary, i know quite a number of Nigerian men that are responsible. The ones that are married and being faithful and the single ones waiting to settle down. And this is just me...one out of many other people that know responsible men.

Most of my friends while growing up were guys. Infact the ones i have hooked up with my female friends are doing well. I don't know where you people keep seeing the irresponsible ones.

There are many responsible men out there. Don't doubt it

generationz:

So finding a good wife isn't a mans biggest challenge?

Allow them live in denial. That's their speciality

TheKingIsHere:

Nope. Getting the money big time is man's greatest challenge

After the money comes, what next?

ImaIma1:
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On the contrary, i know quite a number of Nigerian men that are responsible. The ones that are married and being faithful and the single ones waiting to settle down. And this is just me...one out of many other people that know responsible men.

Most of my friends while growing up were guys. Infact the ones i have hooked up with my female friends are doing well. I don't know where you people keep seeing the irresponsible ones.

There are many responsible men out there. Don't doubt it

I do not get what u driving at to say you people. I am not single neither am I searching, It was just my contribution.

I have my man so I need not doubt. Moreover I never said their are no responsible men, I only stated that they are few. Of which they would be amongst friends list but peeps won't look there cos they ain't 100% their choice.

You can reread my post but this time slowly.

Phoenix999:


Oil dey ur head �

You mean?

MissJoy29:

Allow them live in denial. That's their speciality

She may not be mentally sound. she may be depressed.

TheKingIsHere:


Oga, the lady is only frustrated. Nothing new here

Guy pity am na.

Yewandequeen:

I do not get what u driving at to say you people. I am not single neither am I searching, It was just my contribution.

I have my man so I need not doubt. Moreover I never said their are no responsible men, I only stated that they are few. Of which they would be amongst friends list but peeps won't look there cos they ain't 100% their choice.

You can reread my post but this time slowly.

You have your man that is probably responsible. Yet you imply from your comment that they are hard to find.

My point i was driving it was crystal clear except you want to read it again... slowly this time

Ikeh01:
She may not be mentally sound.
she may be depressed.

First thought that came to my mind.

generationz:


Great advice


I hope you give your daughter the same advice when she gets HIV from her philandering husband.

Yes the number of Faithful partners are reducing due to dwindling levels of morality among people but that doesn't change the fact that accountability is expected of both partners for a happy marriage.

Another ignorant stance.

Is there anyone that is really free from STDs?

You can only be free if you will never ever make love to any man again in your life after leaving a "philandering husband"

So why not kuku start using a condom for that your philandering hubby and switch him to a booty call guy rather than fool your life by leaving a philandering husband with the crazy hope you will find one faithful man out there.

Wait make I even ask you..if by chance you leave an unfaithful husband to another who also gets unfaithful will you start changing husbands in the bid to get a faithful husband?

Sis abeg use your head before you get used again and again by Randy men in the name of finding a faithful husband upandan.

CsRockefeller:


Gosh!! I never knew there are deep thinkers on Nairaland.

God bless you Sir, you are filled with so much wisdom, may that fountain never run dry.

You have a total understanding of the role women should play in a marriage. You will truly have a happy and long lasting marriage with your wisdom, knowledge and understanding.

I won't say more, than to thank you for sharing this. Now, I know that there are people on this site that are filled with so much wisdom. Have bben seeing a lot of rubbish of late, but, you are a proper man that has understanding and finding the right woman will be so easy for you.

Thumbs up Sir.

GOD BLESS YOU BRO.

Just so unfortunate that they will never learn but will prefer to complicate their lives the more.

May GOD help us all.

MissJoy29:

After the money comes, what next?

The bitches

Seriously isn't easy at all.

Even me that's a male of 27years, my families are on my neck to get serious and settle down; let alone a female of 30+ years.

Toks2008:


Another ignorant stance.

Is there anyone that is really free from STDs?

You can only be free if you will never ever make love to any man again in your life after leaving a "philandering husband"

So why not kuku start using a condom for that your philandering hubby and switch him to a booty call guy rather than fool your life by leaving a philandering husband with the crazy hope you will find one faithful man out there.

Wait make I even ask you..if by chance you leave an unfaithful husband to another who also gets unfaithful will you start changing husbands in the bid to get a faithful husband?

Sis abeg use your head before you get used again and again by Randy men in the name of finding a faithful husband upandan.

Tell that to your daughters not me.

CsRockefeller:


Gosh!! I never knew there are deep thinkers on Nairaland.

God bless you Sir, you are filled with so much wisdom, may that fountain never run dry.

You have a total understanding of the role women should play in a marriage. You will truly have a happy and long lasting marriage with your wisdom, knowledge and understanding.

I won't say more, than to thank you for sharing this. Now, I know that there are people on this site that are filled with so much wisdom. Have bben seeing a lot of rubbish of late, but, you are a proper man that has understanding and finding the right woman will be so easy for you.

Thumbs up Sir.

Finding the right wife you say?

Someone who's wife left him after many years together

Be careful who you take advice from


It's OK for people to have opinions . That's what makes us humans

However when you meet a person who thinks he knows it all and never takes advice from anybody....

Be careful who you take advice from

If you think I'm lying go through the comment section of his topic.

Weather staged or not I fell concerned. I have an Aunt going through same problem of finding a man to marry.

It has been linked to spiritual stuff, enemies, et AL. But truth be told must of these ladies with such issues are architect of their own problems.

Must of them either fells they know it all, they want an already made man, they can't allow a man to control them, they want to marry a man that will allow them wear and do what they fell like doing even if it wrong, they can tolerate any nonsense from their in laws... and that gets me worried; how can a lady who is yet to find a man be dishing out such wish? the intention of any marriage is to meet advance challenges with the hope conquering them with ease by support of their spouse.



To any Man/Lady going through such problem of finding her own partner here are some advice for you

*Ask yourself if you have lived a life as a single worthy to be emulated by anyone.

*identify you weakness, accept them and work on them.

*Never maltreat or look down on anyone; that junior colleague's remark about you to his friends could fetch you a good husband.

*don't be carried away with the enjoyment that comes with marriage, the real enjoyment comes after overcoming/conquering marital trials, challenges, temptation et al.

*if you believe in God and you love him with all you life then let it reflect on you partner.

*Be careful not to be used to saying things like "I don't care", "to hell with you", "whatever " et AL. they send wrong message about to people listening.

Don't stop learning from those who have been married for decades and it working for them.

You have just given a good description of who you are and the kind of family you came from. Tell me more!

NNEWIsuper:

u don't mean it...I didn't know your dad was a scum to your dad...you must be from a dysfunctional home where your dad maltreated your mom in your presence or possibly have been in abusive relationship before

I'm sure u can attest to any of this because you're actually having post traumatic stress disorder..

kindly enroll in a rehab ASAP

Skmoda360:
misplaced priority.....she needs to look deep to why she can't get a man for herself and besides who says being in a relationship will make you happy ....realest shit....this one no get job oooo

Thank you my brother, she is not looking for a husband because she wants a companion o, but because she wants someone who will shoulder all her financial burden and probably that of her family

MissJoy29:

Lol...I have an old friend who says her hubby must have a big backyard where she will be having barbecues with her friends regularly. I was amazed when I found out she wasn't joking. What a priority!

This is someone that specialises in begging & scheming out money from guys and ladies alike but you will never see her 1 naira. Lol

na them. They have nothing to contribute to a mans life but they want you to work you ass off to finance their luxirious lifestyle. If you take note, these ones are also lazy in performing house chores, they are lazy in everything

Ritzy10:
"Why Has God Forsaken Me, I Will Kill Myself" — Lady Breaks Dow In Tears On The Street Of Surulere




Watch the video
https://zenithnaija.com/nigerian-lady-expresses-her-frustration-over-inability-to-find-a-husband/

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LilMissFavvy:
You have just given a good description of who you are and the kind of family you came from. Tell me more!

you can actually collaborate what I just wrote...you can actually live in denial if you choose to

unpredictedone:
Weather staged or not I fell concerned. I have an Aunt going through same problem of finding a man to marry.

It has been linked to spiritual stuff, enemies, et AL. But truth be told must of these ladies with such issues are architect of their own problems.

Must of them either fells they know it all, they want an already made man, they can't allow a man to control them, they want to marry a man that will allow them wear and do what they fell like doing even if it wrong, they can tolerate any nonsense from their in laws... and that gets me worried; how can a lady who is yet to find a man be dishing out such wish? the intention of any marriage is to meet advance challenges with the hope conquering them with ease by support of their spouse.



To any Man/Lady going through such problem of finding her own partner here are some advice for you

*Ask yourself if you have lived a life as a single worthy to be emulated by anyone.

*identify you weakness, accept them and work on them.

*Never maltreat or look down on anyone; that junior colleague's remark about you to his friends could fetch you a good husband.

*don't be carried away with the enjoyment that comes with marriage, the real enjoyment comes after overcoming/conquering marital trials, challenges, temptation et al.

*if you believe in God and you love him with all you life then let it reflect on you partner.

*Be careful not to be used to saying things like "I don't care", "to hell with you", "whatever " et AL. they send wrong message about to people listening.

Don't stop learning from those who have been married for decades and it working for them.

wisdom...aptly put

Danwakae:



Why are u saying these, despiration ??


Pray you don't get to that stage, that everyone will be on u, like Aunty how far , when is the date ??, Families pressure....chai , I feel for her , it's not despiration but frustration as a results of depression, May Allah not allow her mind on SNIPER, that is trending, see, it's real o, don't condemn her action, u hardly see any lady at that stage who can withstand it positively, I guess u r also a female so pls pray for her and urself , if u r yet to get married, cos most guys are getting poorer daily and cannot live up to responsibilities, while some involves themselves with diabolic act and the girls also be at the receiving end as these guys take things away from them without their knowledge for ritual purposes...

Allah is most merciful...don't blame her, pray for her pls

You've said everything on my mind, Most especially that part of "Many Youths and Men who are due for marriage are getting poorer everyday.....These are words of Wisdom. The tussle and hustle Is real. As things keeps on going In this Nation. Things will drastically eacalate comes 2020. May Almighty Allah help us All.

Yewandequeen:
You mean?

u are blessed with wisdom dat wat he means

lefulefu:
u are blessed with wisdom dat wat he means

. Thank