₦airaland Forum

Martinez19:
Show me what I have said about feminists. Let's start from there.

I asked, its a yes or on thing.

Martinez19:
It's true that the feminist group have been hijacked by entitled, stupid and easily offended demons. Where have the MGTOW movement been hijacked? Our ideas still remain the same. In fact, the MGTOW movement has been cruelly shamed that people just join except they've properly reasoned and understood what the MGTOW movement is all about.


As I ask, What do you understand by the term "ALPHA MALE"? You have been shaming the so called NL alpha males, answer my question and let's see if you know what you have been typing.

Mgtow have not been hijacked? That means all the hate i read from its members here on nl are true about the movement? An Alpha male is purpose to be a man that have his shit together, a man with confidence and knows how to take responsibility for his actions. But what do i get here? Men who believe insulting women is the way to show they are men, men who nag (one quality i hate in a woman) over everything (especially women issue), just really

Martinez19:
Thank you. The narrative that mgtow men are damaged, frustrated in forming relationships and are maggots of the society is a lie that ignorant or dishonest people tell and spread. Given the availability of the Internet and social media platforms where people can share their views, I ignore those who spew these nonsense against MGTOW. Let them do their research or remain ignorant.

Haven't you said such or similar notions about feminists?

Martinez19:
Being a feminist, as we them now, is a bad thing. No one, I repeat no one, is trying to enforce the idea of alpha male on any woman. Do you even know how silly this accusation sounds?

Let me ask you, who is a alpha male? Let's start from there.

No, being a feminist is not a bad thing, some elements have decided to abuse it same with mgtow. I'm not against any but there are some things i just Cant accept like the example of my woman changing tyres. The Nairaland version of Mgtow is hatred for women

Melonny:
No one hates women..Are you saying, your woman doesn't have the physical strength to change a flat tyre? Do you know some ladies earn a living from that?..

No my woman Dont have that kind of strength and i wont even want her to, there are some chores ment for men and some for women. It should only be done by the opposite sex if the other is too busy or out of reach. Just imagine that my wife is home and i'm bathing our kids

Cc pansophist, i've read alot about feminism and Mgtow, both have good intentions but some useless group of people have decided to hide under these umbrella to do Nonsense. Men Dont want to see the good part of feminism anymore but using the useless ones to judge the true intention of the movement, to the extent that one of the criterias of a good wife is that she must not be a feminist, yet men wants the women to accept their own movement? Things Dont work that way

pansophist:
My brother, the matter tire me o. As far I know, mgtow have a legitimate reason to be angry, no one can dispute it. I just do not agree with their solution, which is
distancing themselves from women, and the misogyny that hides under it. But their anger is valid. Many conflate mgtow with incels. As for the incels, they are idiots who refuse to be men and blame all their problem on women and society, but not mgtow.

I mean any one with common sense will Google mgtow, especially the wiki page has good info that no one with good conscience will disagree with. Feminism has gone too far in the west that men are basically oppressed, I see it everyday here. Mgtows have always said women are incapable of leadership and narcissists, it's one of their arguments and with the way funmisticqueen attacked them without actually listening, it only proves their point that indeed, women cant handle power. Men listened, now women wont. Typical.

Same as feminism

Melonny:
I have read this book as well.. The book opened my eye.. The part I remember vividly was the man having to fix the girl's car.. Why can't a woman change a flat tyre?
I am applying this principle in real life...i just ignore issues that normally a woman should be able to fix..

God forbid that i allow my woman change a flat tire, is this what being an alpha male means? hate women (so says the post you quoted) i Cant believe what we have been reduced to, so i have to hate women to prove i'm a strong?

djon78:
The real issue is that there are many movements springing up in this modern times. Women have been championing Feminism movement. So men are now championing the redpill mgtow or whatever you call it movement.

And op for the movement you were castigating, your lamenting cannot stop anything.
I even believe Ubunja has gotten very massive following on this forum, just like feminist do there own.


So your coming online to blast them to me is more of rable rousing or just making noise.
Whatever there movement, its there right, you cannot force your own views on them


That's all I have to say here

Yet men try to force their own views on women and make them feel bad for being feminists and they want women to accept the Alpha male Nonsense? What a joke, its live and lets live, not until men learn to understand that women also have rights to association, they shouldn't expect to be accepted either

bigpriik:
I am not hypocritical like you,you claim you don't fancy women but look at your moniker... smh

It's natural for men to want validation from the female whether you either know this consciously or subconsciously we are programmed that way you cannot escape it we are all sexual animals every straight man desires women .why do you hustle my nigga,why do you want to have money ,why do you want to drive a car,why do you wear designer clothes ,are you doing it to impress me a guy look deep within you and say the truth no man can be 100 percent happy without a woman in his life and no woman can be happy without a man in her life...

As for the alphamales thing sorry bro not every guy is a mommys boy like you I have my own apartment and will be getting married in 3years time so Bleep off nigga.

I hope its a white girl you are planning to marry cause all Nigerian girls are whores

properties4sale:
Mr teacher, thank you.. Sir.

But I know what annual means, and that is what I earn.

Not trying to act teacher, the amount just seem unreal.

ednut1:
lol. Asif u fit tolerate half of the bullshit our grandmothers endured . Relationship these days na business transaction one brings money one brings sex

Yes, without women, we wont have children, good food, warm house, companion etc so why all these "what are you bringing to the table" talk? A woman should not walk into marriage empty handed not for her husband but for her own good cause she will suffer if she do. All these questions are just Rubbish

beatmonster:
This is where I respect white girls so times. They stick with you during your hustling period. They support you throughout the struggle.

Most Nigerians girls are fair weather people

So white girls Dont leave their men when they are broke? Yet rate of divorce is higher over there. They divorce and continue to leeche on their ex and so on yet they are all angels and Nigerian girls are demons?

Pavore9:
Social media...

Are families not nurturing their daughters to be financially independent or at what point did things go wrong?

And you believed the story because he typed it? No evidence like screen shot or text? So you Dont know that many Nigerian women are bread winners in their homes? Or you Dont know that some Nigerian guys are gold diggers? Because you see these little hoes parading on social media you think it qualifies "Nigerian women"? Once a guy gives a sad story about how he was dumped by a girl even if its not true, the Insults on girls start coming in. Girls una dey try

ayomikuolatunji:
Please how can i stop been jealous whenever i see my babe with one guy she called friend. It gives me headache almost every time . she even told me she just like the guy and nothing more. Both of them will be playing and talking as if there is something between them. I want to save myself from emotional problem. please help me

You better find another girlfriend

Fountainofyouth:
Good comments above, but there will still be idiots who will come here and insult the girlfriend for not helping, I'm waiting for them

Day just break you don begin dey find trouble

So i should believe because he said it happened. Ok, Nigeria police and army stole my 500k in my boot yesterday during stop and search. Nonsense

cy4eve:
Hei take it easy on us.......ur though is d more reason most gals hate attending weddings.

i am not trying to insult girls but what I typed is true about some girls. I didn't say all girls

Kenneth10110:
That doesn't stop the fact most girls are just there to dry a man up. Your case was a revenge.

stop it, stop supporting rubbish. if you bash a girl for leeching, you should do same to a guy. there's nothing like revenge here, if it is revenge then girls also have an excuse cause everybody have been hurt before

AreaFada2:
Hope you are right.

Some girls do not ask and work BUT are quietly seething that you do not do what a man should be doing.

That's how complex ladies are. Some won't ask directly.

You only get to know if one day an argument breaks out.

The consequence can be that she takes your poor financial commitment as a licence for her to cheat.

Lots of girls juggle several men either to have options/plan ABC, or for the perks from the men.

Unless you are very lucky to meet that extraordinary girl, do not celebrate too much that she's not billing you.

i understand, thanks

I thank God for the kind of girl I have sha, no billings of any kind. I fit just use my mind when I know say she not get just give her small. she works hence doesn't need mine

nwanneni:
How did I entice her with money?
I wasn't even in the mood to talk o!na she come meet me dey engage conversations.

i have noticed that most girls in wedding receptions and malls go there to look for boyfriends (maga) the real ones will just be working and may not even stay till the end of the party

okirewaju:
She shouldn't have slapped him

He shouldn't have slapt her too


They we're both wrong












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no, the man was not wrong, to every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction

emyibe:
This guy self. Marry that lady mba you no marry. Born another pikin mba you no born. Social media player of the year. Twitter fc

wakanda bad belle is this?

Amanda4life:
Sorry man God forbid any day you die those two children may follow their mum and that will the end

i nor understand, are they suppose to follow you or follow him to the grave?

[quote author=danhiels post=79339298][/quote]uncle take it easy na, person offend you before?

bjbjbj:
Dey post the one make oyibo born. Wetin happen to the other two from the black women.

he have other kids? I nor know before o

enemyofprogress:
Imagine the names he gaved his daughters Ava and Mia Gistvic. WHAT happened to Adaobi? Ngozi? Ebere? Chinonye and Chinansa? Mtcheeeeeeeeeeew

is it by force? if you like the name well we'll, give them to your children when you born

comshots:
The man that hurt you was giving you money before he cheated on you.If I am giving my girlfriend money, I will cheat on her because she is staying because of the money.If I stop giving her money she will end the relationship for another man who will be giving her money.

What kind of reasoning is this?

BABANGBALI:
Me to marry Nigerian girl? God forbid. It's either oyinbo or a Ghanaian babe

White women are more involved in domestic abuse against men. The men are scared cause they have alot to loose most times in cases of divorce. I'll rather stay with my Niger babe

DaddyNimo:
the woman dat will make me go tru any kind of abuse hasn't been born....infact the woman's dad haven't even met her mom talk less of forking her to pour cum inside her to conceive. I hate weak men, I hate men dat go soft on a girl when she forks up, such a man deserves to be used for rituals.

Abeg sit down first, you are not super man at heart, even if you are, not every one is. Does that make them less human?

Reelmii:
the annoying thing is when the going was good, we were not told o




u are disturbing us now because she wanted to stab u



there are always two sides to a story, the woman's part of the story must be heard be judgment is passed

No bro, two sides of a story when stabbing someone is involved, hell no. If it was just verbal abuse, i would have agreed but physical abuse, no no.