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Enwhen:
That will not stop her from sleeping with another man who offer to buy her Benz

thats how you fool yourselves online and show how low your upbringing was. Try to hide the fact that you are a bastard sometimes.
Guess that was how your mother left your father for someone who could afford to feed her, its such a pity kids like you keep popping up

Barrywest:
nairalanders pls what should I do, business associate of mine transferred some money yesterday night using Wema bank's Alat banking app, he showed me screenshot of the successful transaction, and up till this hour I've not gotten the money

ah! Wema? I went to withdraw with my card and it showed insufficient funds, I know I had 12,344 in the account. I nor get money so I always know the exact amount in my account. I was surprised and checked my transaction history and the money was not there, no debit. I went to the bank and they said the money was floating. I thought it was only a failed transaction that could cause that, so how come I didnt do any transaction but my money was floating? I nor talk, I filled the form and they said I should wait 14 working days, I felt like to beat the customer service guy, chi chi I nor get for hand. I still dey wait for 14 days

Millenniumlady:
He's so cute

is it him or his money? Na joke o, dont come for my head abeg

Westernlove:
See leeches salivating and jumping around on this thread. Small time now, I will be busy counting my millions and fully enjoying myself when News will pop-up that this particular SIMP In the picture Is dead lol......TYPICAL SIMPS would go any length to satisfy pvssy. Even If It's to Cut him mama neck to do blood money. Wetin eyes never see, Nothing moves me anymore,.....Fooooools. Next Please.......

see how the matter pain you, lol. Chill bro before you die on top another person money and how he spend am

jericco1:
You're madder for claiming to know what you do not know

you are maddest for not knowing that you are mad omg abeg lemme o

boyjo:
Which woman you know, for all the families of married people wey you know, wey no get "something doing"?

my guy, they many. And they are the once more prone to domestic abuse. Dont get me wrong, working class ladies are also prone to same but its more on the full time house wives

jeffchinedu:
Pls house i need your help and advice on the solution to my baby skin problem, it has bn like dis for over three month after seeing a doctor it refuses to go. Pls someone help with a better way of doing helping my baby. God bless in ur effort towards this.

its called ibe in my place. Baby Tribotan creams works well for it

jericco1:
They should go to Kano state and do that one.. busybodies

you are mad, you just dont know it

manontree:
Rubbish. Marriage is this, marriage is that yet week in week out thousands are getting married. Am I missing something here? If it's that bad why are thousands or even millions getting married. Social media has swamped the institution to the extent that the few bad cases are highlighted and scorned making people think marriage is hell

It is not. Simply marry with no intention to scam your spouse. It is a continuous work in progress for both and approach it with the spirit of give and take and NOT me me me

Also make sure you do not jump into marriage with anyone that catches your fancy. Avoid using looks, wealth and dress sense as a basis which a lot of ladies live and hang by. Character trumps all these. Marry someone with good character and every other would be added onto you

Finally what you expect from your spouse, be that character first

men have spoken

KingSatan:
As a man, a father and a grandfather. I have lived life to an extent and this is my view on this subject.

The previous thread was simple and concise, "Never marry a woman who has no means of income".

But that is the truth!

Gone are the days when people marry "Obiageri's" according to the Igbos.
Back then, things weren't this bad. Considering the family setting in those days, women had no other role than to cook, birth, raise children and clean the house.

So their parents prepare them for marriage, teach them how to cook, satisfy a man and raise children. They also spend alot of time grooming their hairs, taking care of their skin (Some parents send their children to fattening rooms) and waiting to get married.

When we got married, we married to keep them at home and show off to our friends. Only a few of us married because of love. Some of our partners were not our choice but our parents.

So when you marry, your wife and children should always reflect your wealth and networth. Most especially, YOUR WIFE.

I repeat, back then things were not this bad and everyone knew their roles.

But in today's world, so many things have changed.

Women should bring to the table as much as they expect from the man.

Raising children costs alot of money and shouldn't be the responsibility of the man alone.

So many marriages have crashed on the alter of poverty or "One stream of income".

We must learn to tell ourselves the truth always.

Back then, you don't spend so much to raise a child. If he or she wants to go to the community school or follow the white man's way of life, you send them as a punishment. But those humble and loyal sons, follow you to the farm and when they come of age, you give them farmlands and wives if possible. But that's not the case anymore.

Apart from formal education abroad, I also encouraged my children to learn sellable skills. One of my son is a fashion designer and that is what puts food on his table in the UK. His college degree only reflects on his call cards.

I told this to my children (Daughters inclusive) never to marry a man or woman who has no verifiable means of income.

Money is needed to run a home in the 21st century. Alot of money!

We no longer live in mud houses or drink from pots.

As for "Entitlement", I think every couple should have that mentality depending on the context.

The man is entitled to his wife's emotional commitment. She is his wife and this also applies to the man.

I am tired of typing.

To be truthful, i warned my son's against mingling with an average African woman. They simply don't want to know the truth. They hate the truth with Passion and that is why true feminism failed woefully here.

In the Diaspora, most men who want peace of mind avoid African women because of their "Entitlement Mentality" and how exploitative they are.

Many of these women don't work but enjoy proceeds of child support from numerous partners. You think it's a coincidence? No it not. It was deliberate.

They just want to seat at home, get fat, enlarge their butts and walk up and down the street like a pussy cat that resides in Buckingham Palace.

Should I talk about Nigeria, where you meet an average Nigerian lady and realise that;

1. She is a college graduate because a "Man" sponsored her in school (Both of them are no longer together as a couple).

2. She has a roof over her head because a "Man" made that available (She has no intention of marrying him).

3. She uses the best smartphone because a "Man" bought it for her (Just another random man).

4. She has clothes on her body because a "Man" gave her money for shopping (Obviously he is "One of those mugus".

5. She has food on her table because so many men send her money.

This same woman has no other skill but sexual skills. The only thing she can offer is "Sexual Intercourse", "Birthing Children" and "Companionship" but she expects the man to "Mark her birthdays with a brand new Escalade", "Buy her parents a new house and train her younger ones in school". Is that not exploitation?

This same woman hates her mother inlaw because she sees her as her rival. Anyway, women have always hated themselves from time immemorial, don't get moved when you see them shout in solidarity, it's just for a few seconds.

When asked about their contribution in the relationship or Marriage, some will say "I birthed children for him". But that's your natural default woman!

Even if you sleep with a sexually active mad man, you will get pregnant and birth for him.

Some will even say, "I satisfy him sexually. I gave him my body and soul". But that is same thing you did with your numerous ex lovers.

According to Pastor Sam Adeyemi, he said "If a woman does not help her husband financially, then how else does she want to help him".

In this age and time, it takes two adults who have a verifiable means of income to build a healthy family.


Cheers!

wish I can like your post over and over again.

Made4naijalove:
These classless and mentally retarded bbn girls should take several seats.They have got no class at all and their brains be filled with stones.Airheads!

I swear

Someone7:
They're everywhere. The other day called me 'simpleton' because I said I'm a better man because of my wife. This is a woman who had a very good job, over 450k monthly but she stood by be through the trying and defended me (even fought some people) when they called me 'lazy' until I got a job that pays even more than hers. She respected me then and still respects me now. I will always appreciate her for that

and they call me asslicker and simp because I said they are still responsible women everywhere who are hardworking and can stand by their men during trying times. Sometimes, I wonder where these guys come from.
All is well, let them continue in their ways, either life will teach them the hard way, or they will simply end regretting at old age

boyjo:
Don't be deceived bro.
The first criteria God gave women to pick their man from the lots of men surrounding them is his ability to provide.

She will scrutinize you wella to see if you can provide for her and your unborn kids.
Who go provide for your pikin?

Only a foolish women will marry a man without potentials or money.

She go suffer carry pikin, born all of them, still come slave to provide for them when you dey alive?
Wetin come be your job?

N only for nairaland women no dey marry men for what he can provide

lol, thats not what I meant bro, a man is meant to provide, that fact cannot be disputed but when you marry a woman who didnt marry you just for your ability to provide, then you know you have a blessing in your life.
A man might meet with misfortune in life doesn't mean he wont stand up again, I don't want a woman who will start running to family and friends to beg simply because things are rough for me, or start prostititing herself because she have nothing doing or will simply walk out the marriage because I am incapable to provide fir a little period. I dont want that woman

hybridblood07:
I'm wasting my time replying you.

bloody private bloody private bloody private bloody private

Millenniumlady:
This is deep but i think those men played you for having kids for them try to get custody of the kids so you can start earning from child support.

what da heck is this? Did you even read the story?

hybridblood07:
You're fed up of life due to the pandemic. I still receive my full salary from FG.
I'm a Lieutenant.....Is that clear??!

online lieutenant, offline BLOODY PRIVATE. cry me a river puppy

hybridblood07:
Your whole family will die in jail

this lost puppy again. Did you see your lost bone with me? abi life don tire you? I can get you cold sniper

hybridblood07:
Genru man, you're a bastard

wailing up and down like a lost puppy with rabies. Go and cry on your useless uniform, bloody private

hybridblood07:
Have you done the assignment I issued you?fucking bastard

bloody private, do I owe you money? I wasn't expecting to hear from you this evening o, I thought you were the idiot that killed that innocent guy because of money. Now I see its your brother, you will soon go to jail. Bloody private

Someone7:
Funny but interesting.

Another tip: NEVER be idle and help out with chores. I lost my job and for 3 months I was searching. I never let myself get idle though. I insisted on driving my wife to her office everyday, then spent the rest of the day trying to make contacts to get a job and taking care of house errands before picking her up after work.
My wife respected me for this, and even though those days weren't easy it was a little bearable and I got through.

where are those babies on nl calling themselves redpillers? The "women are useless" crew? Come and see men talking. I pity the women that will marry you

BrownLondon:
The husband is the head, my point is this thread is needless.

Men are the breadwinner in an average NIGERIAN home, at least 95% the rest 5% is negligible.

Op should create a thread on how unemployed husbands can get a new job not how to be a slave.

I repeat this thread is against our culture.

see how you dey wail up and down , abeg nor quote me o, I nor get time for the ranting of a jobless man who can't drop his useless ego. You want to be poor and still stand on your ego? Lol

Essenza01:
Lol, I understand your tone... ego ego ego... I had that in excess, I was 100% in control, the Alpha Male, the Hercules of the family.. ...God humbled me,

It's only your family that has your back, friends would desert you, business associates would desert you, your ego would deflate like ball when you are desperate throwing monies into thin air right, left and centre on any business idea brought to you just because you want to prove people wrong..

If you have a working reasonable wife that period, cherish her while you pray to get out of your many troubles..

Ego would not take you anywhere..

and they call me a simp when I say these same things. Lol, dont bother correcting them, life will humble them. All they talk about every day is how women are useless and his they add nothing to a mans life, whereas some women are the breadwinners of their homes, they keep trying to cover for their husband and if they ever complain about him pouring his frustration on them, she becomes a bad woman who feeds her husband for only one day and starts complaining.
Life will teach them

VickyRotex:
Why e dey pepper you

I am a member of comment readers association of nairaland. The reading nor come sweet again na

Essenza01:
You have to try one way or the other... anyway at all.

Jobless does not mean you cant do one or two deals, referral deals etc...

I laughed all through, I like you tho, from your write up, its obvious you married your friend. Not someone who married you for what you can provide. Kudos

ibkayee:
Lol no mention of actually looking for a job? Or maybe I missed it

you missed it, read again

robosky02:
wow un gros coup pour vous

je ne parlerai plus anglais. nous irons uniquement en français maintenant

come, I go slap una two o, can I not enjoy reading comments in peace again?

Kenturkey048
joyandfaith
Come and see your demigods o. I thought they dont involve in such? you all fail to realize that corruption has eaten so deep into every corner of our society and there is nothing as the "most corrupt". We have good and bad in all organization

Bola146:
Yes I'll if see the real potentials in him. It's not necessary we get married. I'll do it for humanity

why you dey lie like this?

Davash222:
You're unique in your madness. I enjoy that alot. You've come to be one of my favorites here.

this guy nor just well

Kylekent59:
No!

I would rather use the money and sponsor my mother by adding more goods to her business, use part of it to buy machine for my sister so that she can start tailoring.

The purpose of this is that when i fall or wreck, I have people to sponsor/lift me up back.

Girlfriend would never lift you up when you are wrecked and broke. Don't let grammar confuse you; fiancee and girlfriend are likewise the same, only when the deal is sealed off it becomes marriage, there you have a wife.

even wife sef. I dont support such for anybody, I can support little by little like money for foodstuff, one or two text books. Aside that one, I nor do o. I nor fit cry later

It will end in tears o

dairykidd:
Me.. I don't fvck around when I'm in something serious. I only have time to test different waters when I'm single. Otherwise I'm one very loyal muthafukka who loves to fvck alot

lemme believe you