₦airaland Forum

Tonnyray:
Got stung by one 2 years ago.
That sh!t was fvcking painful.

is it possible to die from the sting? Did you take any antidote?

NockMedia:
LOL if that is how you want to see it, then yes.

mehn! Thank my lucky stars I am not a woman. But that is nonsense sha

Kiddo01:
All of u saying age is nothing, for those of you who are Christians, between Adam and Eve who was older. Abi you think say God no get sense as he created Adam before Eve? Don't let any old woman deceive you to marry her if she is older than you. She should go and look for her size, they can lie about age tooooooo much. Tufiakwa

relax bro, stop taking life too serious. Live, love, be happy. My babe use 1yr 3months senior me, I still want to marry her. I have never had this kind of relationship with anyone before, isn't that what life is about? Peace of mind?

And talking about the bible, do you know how many things have changed since then? Reason am na

Olamilekxy:
Did he mention any where in the post that he want to eat it?

he know he country people

SultanOfAbia:
Scorpion Wey Get 6 packs
This Scorpion Na Agbero

I just tire for you

kudinkarfe:
She should be worried. The older women become their sex desire reduces while a man sex desire increase with increase in age. Their is high tendency the Man will cheat not because he wants to but because she might not meet his demand in future.

man when go cheat go cheat. Leave that matter

Roon9:
No friend jor.... You are the frd

you can't just keep a secrete

nickvanilla:
I understand the awkwardness in this sha, as I have had a similar experience. In my case, the babe was even 3 years older.

Truth is, many guys would not mind dating/marrying older girls if not that many ladies don't know how to control their toungues in the heat of an argument.

Imagine having a little fight with your babe and she goes like, "I never knew you could be this childish" "stop acting immature" etc. How would you as a guy feel.

Ladies have this nasty habit of using the weakness/disadvantage of their partners against them when things go south. And even if they don't do it intentionally, they will still hurt you because whenever they are angry with their partners, they always talk before they think.

So except the babe is constantly loyal, down to earth, sensible and respectful, there are going to be issues.

even the one you are older than will tell you worse in an argument. Nor just count that one join, if you reason women mouth eh

NockMedia:
Age ain't nothing but a number, but when you grow old as a man, you will understand the advantage of marrying a younger woman.
When you become weak and frail and your wife is also weak and frail because she is older than you...how do you cope if you don't have money to hire a nanny or your kids are gone?

lol, men marry younger women so that they can babysit them (husband) at old age?

Confusedgirl869:
It's going to be hard. Thanks dear

hard? You really dont know what you want.

JasonScoolari:
The spokesman and the "Those who knew him" gang just wanna protect the already stained image of the Police.




He died in his fornicating fantasies jare.

and you dont or didn't (if married) fornicate? Hypocrite!

Binikingdowm:
my point exactly.

Main Benin is oredo but due to developement, it's now eating different part of Edo south.

In 20 years time you'll be surprised seeing the whole of Edo south is now refer to as Benin

we dey talk about fine and more infrastructure not size

dairykidd:
Why u dey lie na.. Even lagos when everywhere dey ooze from mainland to island if u no get car with ac belle must turn u every morning as u dey go work.. abi u want argue am

baddest

Chekwume16:
Is there anything in asaba to compare with Benin. I am from delta but asaba is just a glorified capital.

and Benin? I am sure you haven't toured Benin, if you have, you won't type this

Binikingdowm:
to be fair third and upper side aren't really Benin...

The main Benin is oredo local government but due to developement, it now contains ikpoba okha, Egor etc

what? Third and upper arent Benin? But he put pix of Kada and market square there, where those two dey? Lol, small small o

Binikingdowm:
you are a big liar.. mumu nyamirri

he pain am

pek:
You learnt the wrong thing. We are talking about your spouse. If your spouse doesn't know and have a say in your salary, then something is definitely wrong with the marriage. Couples have issues like these there is no trust and understanding and this is what marriage should be about. You share your body, thoughts, plans etc but you can share your money. How weird.

I can't do it. You sound as if humans are so perfect and are not known to take advantage of people. Forget spouse, we are humans and its in our nature to take more. I can't leave myself to prone to anybody, not even spouse

iluvdonjazzy:
More photos

you are biased, I keep seeing beautiful pix of benin and very few not so good pix of Asaba. Nor be the Benin when i dey? Why you nor snap new Benin? Third? Temboga? Textile mill?

dalass:
Your husband obviously married you for your buoyant financial status...

Gone are the days when men married women for love. Now no man wants liability but someone they can control with her finances (fat bank account)....

You demonstrated the extent of your worth by that refurbishment... Now, you can't hide it... Don't give him any pin no oh... And don't make him your next of kin... You married a gold digger...

Gently but firmly talk to him so that he can have a foggy idea on what you earn. Not exact amount.. ...But if he doesn't hide anything from you, maybe you're the one with trust issues.... Maybe once bitten twice shy

Don't escalate the matter, use wisdom oh

I like this

Kekereekun123:
Nigeria is hard. Husband and wife should contribute funds. The days of man only are gone

correct but she is to support. According to the post, it was obvious she was supporting but trying to know her complete income is her decision. It can't be forced as long as she is contributing her own quarter

dingbang:
I just wonder how two people will live as husband and wife and yet...act like people that aren't married.

my finance is private, no woman should force me to reveal that to her as long as I am providing for the family, same goes for my wife. I learnt from my sisters that, the minute a person knows your true finance, they start having expectations. Its a no no for me

Kekereekun123:
Men are no longer fools. Times are hard you cannot hide salary and finance details from your husband. Thunder fire ladies who say my money is my money and his money is ours

better go and work and stop looking for a woman to feed you. See how they dey disgrace their selves up and down

aeion:
He doesn't have the right to take your ATM card away from you nor demand your PIN. If he needs money, I'm sure he knows how to ask but forcefully having direct access to your money at his choosing should be a no-no. If he's threatening you over this, tell your family and get yourself and the baby in your belly to a safe place, but do not give him that PIN. A man who behaves like this is up to no good and can't be trusted.



These are the words of a controlling, abusive man. He does not own you, neither does he own your salary.

thank you. I see guys here ignoring all these red flags but hanging on to the fact that she refuse to tell him her pin. What manner of fvckery is this?

FromZeroToHero:
It's good to discuss issues of finance (very important) during courtship to avoid situations like this.
I think both of you still have trust issues (then why did you get married) I guess he's just insecure, it's something you both can sit down and talk about, if he insists give him the pin n watch what he does with it before you conclude on ur next line of action.
Don't allow money matter to end ur marriage!!

which kind advice be this? Turn the tables around, would you have said the same thing? Is she working for him? I dont understand

Funny people. How many men give allowance money yo their wives? Abi nor be Nigeria be this again? Is it not money for the daily upkeep of the house they drop by month end? Allowance money ni, contribution money ko

SenorFax:
.
I thought as much too, but it's Falcon.

Very rare

wow!

angelfallz:
i have the same issue of failed transaction on POS with GTBank. they told me mine would be resolved in 8 days. i am patiently waiting. their complaints email is not working, but i have filled out a dispense error form.
You can also escalate to CBN.

mime was WEMA also. Exactly the same thing that happened to the op. They asked me to wait 14 working days, yesterday completed the 14 working days(approximately 3 weeks) yet I haven't seen the money back. I can't go now due to work related issues but i will surly be there next Wednesday. Bank matter tire me

Help2020:
That's what I didn't understand. If they can be taken unaware like this what's there usefulness there?

they are usually not given rifles. I dont want to say much cause it will give some unscrupulous elements morale to do more

paul3429:
Y she dress like that. Modesty how I wish she cover her things well d guy for no touch her. My opinion.

so the ladies on hijab that have been raped nko? Why una stupid like this? You will look for any means to defend a rapist. God will punish you

Omeizadean:
First of all. You all should stop calling this rape.
There is difference between rape and sexual harassment or molestation

No! She was enjoying it. There is nothing that can prove she wasn't enjoying it. Do u think the man was dumb enough to not see that he is being recorded by the girl? It may have been silent agreement between the two.

I think the man clandestinely did the fingering cos he doesn't want the rest of the passengers to be privy to their escapade.

What the fuckry! Like u reported the case to a soldier and the soldier dismiss it cos of hausa language?
Is he the only law enforcement agency on the road that day?
No other checkpoint?
OK what happened when u reach ur destination?
How about squizzing the collar on the goat's neck till people gather to enquire what happens?
Even if all the passengers on bus are males chances are that u will still have atleast 2 to 3 that will support u and be on the lookout

How come the man is boiling with too much guts? U said u reported him and the passenger said u overreact so the man still have the gut to continue again after he has been cast in the open?
No this aint connecting!
Lady how many time did I called u?
Stop all these sudden wokeness
Its now a fad for a lady to have one sort rape allegation on twitter nowadays but u re so dumb cos u screamed of a contented lady on that video
Get the fucck out of here!

My sisters can never be this dumb to keep quiet if truly the man is molesting u.
So u opt for a video while enduring a total stranger finger minister ur lap. What can the video do for u now?

I have been on twitter for long and have seen evidence of some ladies who consented only to spurned around to say they didn't consent middle way or before the end of the sex just cos they want more men to jailed or publicly shamed cos the relationship went sour.

There have been more false rape accusation lately that a man must wise up.
Any girl that want to hold my male member these day must sign my dotted line.

so she did this just because she hates men and wants to see them in jail?
Are you sure all is well with you?

Lightangel64:
But you ladies molest men too just like this and when they say it everyone take them for fools, so you get what you get

at first, I thought you were trolling when you made those stupid posts about ladies, now its clear. You are a rapist and a fool. You are frustrated and you will definitely die as one.

emmyrate1:
so he was molesting her and she was busy making a video of it just to post on NL. Liars maybe she was enjoying it.

another fool.