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Cammo:
It's true, sir

How does the disappearance of

Cammo:
The little bride!

stop a wedding from going on, for Christ's sake she isn't even the bride!

Besides, from what you typed is seems it is the Wedding reception that the little bride absconded from and not the wedding itself. Most wedding recptions don't feature the little bride !

Op ur story try sha, buh na lie

Before the elections I would hve just replied "sai buhari" and get 273 likes now I have to write something sensible, oya OP:

Now for the poster above me; if ur 18yr old daughter wears it, wha would be ur reaction?

Op u case has passed judgement! Oya,

agoadiv:
op is beautiful






now if twas wen election hadn't taken place i would hace said "SAI BABA...SAI BUHARI" and get 276likes



mtchewww

ODE!!!Laff has finis me! Oya,

Op

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Pour Orijin ontop to jegarize am den visit bnk

..OP

D guy no sabi mk money shaa, thanks to CHANGE so the change reach yonder sef?




Quote me @ ur own peril

Crazy world. Oh Wike(d) and mama piss

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orubebe1:
@ op, carry yur sister gimme nah

Her name is Jega!

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If I click that link, make dem annul dis election

Op

mirexxx:

Tallesty1:
Not interested in older women.


Catch them young.

Older wine tastes better except that Jesus own

iceberylin:
The reasons aint Good enough

Does this mean u prefer younger ladies?

Dating an older woman is quite the rage these days. As a woman over 35, I’ve never felt more desired by men in their late 20s and early 30s than I do now—moreso even than when I was that age. So if you’re only seeking women in the 21-29 age range, let me tell you, you’re missing out. Big time.

Why are men so keen on dating more mature ladies?
Pay no attention to the ol’ elbow-jabbing, wink-wink idea that cougars* are “more likely to put out and pay for everything.” Meh, that may be a reason a naïve man attempts to score with an older lady, but it’s hardly the reason a smart man enters a relationship with one.

1. She’s got her own life.
And by that I mean: her own career, her own friends, her own apartment, her own money. A 30-year-old man from Brooklyn told me these factors are what makes older women a turn on. “I find it comforting to know that her life goes on when I’m not around,” he said. (This is code for, “I dread clingy girls who abandon their own ships the moment we have sex, and set up camp on my shore.”) Also, the fact that an older woman has her own money means she likely worked hard to get it. Should you automatically go dutch or expect her to pay? No. In fact, you want to impress someone, treat a lady with some bank to a nice meal, because she appreciates exactly how much it costs.

2. She can hold her own.
This ain’t her first rodeo. So when you take her out with your friends or coworkers, be it to a wedding or work event, you don’t have to worry she’ll perish without your constant attention. She’s been to enough of these things on her own to manage just fine while you’re talking to someone else. And, unlike the 23-year-old who gets tanked and throws shade at your ex, she’s got class. In fact, your ex will likely friend her on FB (like my old bf’s ex-wife did).

3. She knows what she wants—and doesn’t want.
And at this point, she’s not afraid to say it. In the bedroom? Go ahead and try to shock her. Bondage? Bisexual encounters? Threeways? Role play? If she hasn’t tried it herself, she’s likely considered it. Plus, I’m talking about outside of the bedroom as well. You may buy into the idea that all older women are “desperate.” Granted, some are. (Some older men are too. And some younger women, And some etc. etc.) But many are not.** She’s choosier, and, unlike the 26-year-olds who think they’ll drop dead if they’re not engaged by 27, married at 28, and prego before 30, she’s looking at life a little differently now. This doesn’t mean she doesn’t want marriage/kids, because she might—but if so, she’ll be pretty clear about it up front. Since she’s got a little life on her (and maybe even a marriage in her past), she may not have the rigid checklist that a younger girl has. Most of the single women I know over 35 just want a good man, period.

4. She doesn’t move in a herd.
I once went out with a young man from Queens who only dated older women because younger ladies, he found, couldn’t do a thing without checking in with 15 of their friends. When you date a younger woman, he said, you also date all her friends, and it’s “a pain in the fucking ass.” You can’t just go out and do your own thing because she must receive approval from a larger governing body. A slightly more mature lady has friends—but she sure as shit doesn’t need their permission to live her life.

5. She had sex before she had a FB profile.
Hard as it may be to imagine a world before Facebook, the fact is, there was one—and I, along with many of my lady cohorts, lived in it. Given that we didn’t suckle at that digital teat so early on like Millennials, we’re not going to live and die by whether we change our relationship status. I even forget it’s there. Get this: I’m not even FB friends with the guy I’m currently seeing. I’ve found it refreshing. It retains a bit of mystery, and privacy, for now. I don’t need to be omnipresent, liking everything he says or does, and I don’t have to monitor what I say, worrying it’ll be taken a certain way. I did get a glimpse of his page when he left it open one day, and I did take a gander at his ex, but I found it so stressful that I closed out of it immediately. Try getting away with that with a 27-year-old.

6. She doesn’t need you; she wants you.
If she’s gotten this far on her own, regardless of whatever relationships are behind her, she’s been through enough ups and downs to know she can handle just about anything. And she knows she won’t fall into a million pieces if she doesn’t have a boyfriend. But she would love one, for sure. And whereas younger women are putting you through the paces to see if you can provide her with a life, an identity, and a future, an older woman already knows who she is and what she wants to do—she’d just love someone to share it with.

She can make you a better man.
A friend of mine dated a 40-year-old woman when he was 22 and new to New York. “She picked the restaurants, paid for things, took me places. She had access to a world I didn’t, and she had done all the things I hadn’t done yet,” he said. Now he’s in his mid 40s, and married with a kid, and remembers that relationship as critical to making him the man he is now. “As a dude, I’m told that I’m supposed to date girls my own age and take care of them, pay for dinner, and so on. But for that period of time, the roles were reversed. She had the power. And it felt great—who doesn’t want to be taken care of? That’s when I understood what it was to be in that role, to be someone’s bitch, essentially. And I could appreciate it when it was my turn to take care of someone else.”

*A note on cougars: The general consensus on cougardom is not so much a specific age as it is who you date. So, if you’re 35 and dating a 37 year old, yeah, not a cougar. But if you’re 35 and dating a 22 year old, ok, you might qualify. As might someone who’s 55 and dating a 30 year old.

[b]**There is a caveat here:[b]
Older doesn’t always mean wiser. And someone who was impossibly needy at 25 may be even moreso at 35, especially if she hasn’t had the relationships she’s wanted. There is, however, some considerable perspective and confidence that comes with age, and the more evolved woman will exude it.

Source: http://www.thedatereport.com/dating/modern-love/7-reasons-why-you-should-want-to-date-older-woman/

diddydiva:

is ddis another "green light for the op?

1. My Fiancee's Station if you're guilty
2. In front of my car when am with my fiancee
3. To be continued...

Happend to me a couple of minutes ago @ Mobil along aminu kano wuse2

They should replicate their behaviour but make sure APC gets majority of votes!

CharlesNneji1:
For what?

By the way, that book is for women. You sure you've read it?

Oh jes I have read it, I also hope reverse mechanics isn't new to you?

CharlesNneji1 copied and modified the book "Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man" by Steve Harvey.


I am watching you!

talktrue1:
find out from your friend why they broke and if he still loves her.

Brugo:
Since you broke no code why can't you tell him?
Why is your mind not free?

Decale:
So of all the 35 million+ girls in Nigeria that you could fall in love with, you just conveniently chose that one
It's all your fault. Tell the guy, whatever comes of it is yours to bear.

Decale:
So of all the 35 million+ girls in Nigeria that you could fall in love with, you just conveniently chose that one
It's all your fault. Tell the guy, whatever comes of it is yours to bear.

She told me her version of the break-up, but am not suppose to judge, I just want to get married to someone that I trust, care about and love, don't you guys understand?

Houseofglam7:
He's your best friend, you alone know how to break the news to him.
Tell him though, but don't let his actions/attitude stop you from finding true happiness.


Friends come and go.

Funny thing is I kept postponing telling him for a while now...and the date I intend to propose to her is getting closer