Business › Re: Cac Online Company Registration: Is Anyone Registering? I Need Your Help by Saao(op): 6:44am On Sep 26, 2018 |
archsaints8429: Well can u contact me on whatsapp and let's figure it out 07032750377 OK then thanks |
Investment › Re: Has Anyone Successful Register His Company Via CAC Online? by Saao(op): 8:47am On Sep 25, 2018 |
makavele: Website is fine, It's your fault. Send me a PM Or drop your whatsapp line. OK then, thanks alot. 08036529966 |
Investment › Re: Has Anyone Successful Register His Company Via CAC Online? by Saao(op): 8:20am On Sep 25, 2018 |
makavele: The same way you tried. Just upload all required documents one after the other and submit. After successful upload, the document names will be listed on the page. You will still get an error but it has been sent. No need to reupload again. thanks alot but Uptill now I can't upload any of them. Is anything wrong with their website or my fault? |
Investment › Cac Online Company Registration: Is Anyone Registering? I Need Your Help by Saao(op): 7:45am On Sep 25, 2018 |
Hello,
I'm currently registering a company on cac website. I already paid all the fees, downloaded the documents and appended my signatures over 2 weeks now but I cannot be able to upload the documents to the website. Is this normal on the website? Is anyone experiencing the same thing or Nigeria government scam me?
Thanks for sharing |
Business › Cac Online Company Registration: Is Anyone Registering? I Need Your Help by Saao(op): 7:39am On Sep 25, 2018 |
Hello,
I'm currently registering a company on cac website. I already paid all the fees, downloaded the documents and appended my signatures over 2 weeks now but I cannot be able to upload the documents to the website. Is this normal on the website? Is anyone experiencing the same thing or Nigeria government scam me?
Thanks for sharing |
Politics › Re: Osun: Adeleke Speaks On Inconclusive Election by Saao(m): 6:31pm On Sep 24, 2018 |
buhariguy: Apc and Pdp could not believe that The f9 senator could get this number of vote, That means the number of the jobless aggressive lazy idiotic pigs of bia-fra terrorist have increased in osun state, It also means buhari is a true democrat. are you OK? |
Politics › Re: Forget Omisore This Is How Apc Can Win The Rerun by Saao(m): 6:24pm On Sep 24, 2018 |
SonofDevil: .1.get the data of the polling units that rerun will take place
2.print out the registered names and info of each person that is registered under polling units
3.contact all those participant that will vote on the day of the rerun
4. negotiate a good price to outwit your competitor e.g if pdp pay 10k apc should negotiate 25k cos they have the financial war chest.
5. transfer the funds a day to the elections.
6. send your footsoilders at the odd hours of the rerun eve to rally round and locate the electorate that will participate in the process to persuade and prevailed on them to vote apc.
7. strike a better deal if they vote apc .they win be credited with additional 25k if apc is declared the winner.any infrastructural deficit in their area will be take care of as matter of urgency.
8.for back up plan .apc should remove 60 names each across the 7 polling units and replaced them with new names of their footsoidiers with info inputed into inec data. and their names will come out for acrreditations on the day of elections.
60 times 7 =420 votes. 420 -353 (deficit) meaning apc has neutralise the 353 votes and have 67 votes ahead. apc can make it 100 each depending if the first process didnt work out.
9.send their footsoilders to disrupt election10. process in the strongholds of their opposition.
10. omisore, omoworare and adeoti has the opportunity to cash on this and strike a good deal that will give them lifetime enjoyment. either they strike a good deal with federal forces that can guarantee them a lifetime opportunity. or liase with opposition and lose out if apc win. hmm very funny, u forgot pdp is more organized and creative when it comes to rigging. Just wait till on Thursday |
Politics › Re: Nigeria Ranked 3rd Richest Country In Africa, Lagos 4th Richest City by Saao(m): 9:31pm On Sep 18, 2018 |
author1: i hope they also know nigeria has d highest population of ppl that are poor. no they don't know |
Events › Re: Nigerian Millionaires Spraying Money Like It's Going Out Of Fashion. by Saao(m): 12:58pm On Sep 18, 2018 |
Metuh: Where is your proof that this happened in Nigeria? Is it only in Nigeria that people spray money? You need to reset your mentality first and start thinking.
Na so, poor man anthem. Why haven't you become rich with your legitimate hustle
Who will check it for you? Your hands and legs break? Broke Girls self. mtcheew
You know this because you are a millionaire with legitimate money or what? Hungry somebody
Poor man quote
Na that hunger go kill them. Make e con dey share money give them? Are you thinking at all?
You are the poor frustrated somebody here. The reason you are criticizing them is because you lack.
How much have you worked for? Mr Workaholic. Nonsense
You know this because you have ever engaged in any illegal means before? Shut up ur mouth and goan hustle my friend. see this one? Please try get sense abeg |
Events › Re: Nigerian Millionaires Spraying Money Like It's Going Out Of Fashion. by Saao(m): 12:42pm On Sep 18, 2018 |
Poverty, I can see poverty of the mind in them |
Politics › Re: Protesters Delayed Governor Yahaya Bello From Meeting Buhari In Abuja by Saao(m): 9:40pm On Sep 17, 2018 |
BigbamoAYO: What causes the grid lock? learn to read before commenting |
Celebrities › Re: Davido Lies Down Flat For Ademola Adeleke, Shares Fun Photos Together by Saao(m): 9:00am On Sep 17, 2018 |
RevenGeMission: Funny how they are all smiles
Knowing deep down that man isn't winning
That's much pain I will remind you after the election |
Politics › Re: Sacked DG DSS, Lawal Daura Still In Police Detention Without Trial by Saao(m): 3:55pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
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Politics › Re: President Muhammad Buhari Set Economic Record The First In Nigeria History by Saao(m): 12:55pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
And some dudes are still supporting the old man |
Investment › Re: Has Anyone Successful Register His Company Via CAC Online? by Saao(op): 7:22am On Sep 12, 2018 |
makavele: Have done it one too many times
only took 1 week from reg'n to cert collection good morning. I have done to the final stage. After downloading documents for signature. I tried several times to upload the documents back but it's not working. How did you upload yours then? Thanks alot in advance |
Politics › Re: Fighter Jets, Military Helicopters & Military Planes Flying Over Miatama, Abuja by Saao(m): 2:31pm On Sep 07, 2018 |
Anyway they remove him I'm OK as far as he's remove |
Politics › Re: 200 Days After Leah Sharibu's Abduction, Omokri Leads Protest In London. by Saao(m): 3:19pm On Sep 06, 2018 |
Great, the only human being that cares |
Family › Re: "You Can't Be A Christian And A Feminist" - Nigerian Man On Twitter by Saao(m): 10:08am On Sep 04, 2018 |
sweetilicious: Exactly. Women should be submissive to their husbands. Men should love and Cherish their wives.Its difficult to adhere to this.And that's where the devil penetrates from. Women should be allowed to evolve and partner with the man as a helper.A man cannot bear the burdens of life alone.Women should submit totally to their men(husbands). see a lady from a home. The hell some ladies show us men at home nowadays. Funny enough if u want to have a good and loving home, you gat to submit to the man in ur life. |
Business › Re: My Experience At Isolo, Lagos With Hausa Fruit Seller by Saao(m): 8:00am On Sep 04, 2018 |
leonard002: Guess what, I was in the streets of Lagos, just opposite Isolo General hospital this evening, sitting down with a very friendly Hausa fruit seller. He sells just water melons and pineapples.
I patronised him, then sat on his bench, was looking around and gisting with him. I noticed something very interesting.
In the space of like 20 minutes, this young man made like N1, 200 in sales. It was a very busy street.
I started mental calculations. That was before I took the selfie though. Lolz.
Ok. Let's assume that only N200 out of this guy's N1, 200 is his profit. This means this guy makes like N200 every 20 mins or N10 per minute.
Ok. N10 per minute equals N600 per hour. Multiply that by 10 hours per day, 8am-6pm. This equals N6, 000 per day OF PROFIT!
Multiply that by 30 days per month. These guys work everyday mind you.
That's N180, 000 per month! OF PROFITS!
Ok. Let's say we over-estimated things. Let's take away N100, 000 from this money.
Doing that, this uneducated roadside fruit seller still nets N80, 000 every freaking month!
Correct me if I'm wrong with these calculations!
Should you start selling fruits on a busy road?
I don't know.
But what I know is this. Whatever it is you do for yourself, it will surely pay you more than what some employers out there will pay you.
Believe me! I agree with you. Sometimes back was working with a company, collecting 100k per month not knowing I made much more for the company still was owed for like 2 months then got angry one particular day and resigned my wife was surprised. Today I made already 500k net Every month. Now I earned 200k paying myself. Don't be so comfortable working with people. Dare to be self employ with principle |
Politics › Re: Man Regretted Donating 2000 To Buhari In 2015 & He Immediately Got Refunded by Saao(m): 7:43am On Sep 04, 2018 |
Naychuzzy: And they'll all get refunded. the value of 2000 in 2015 is diff. From 2000 of today. |
Celebrities › Re: Mc Galaxy Announces His Wedding Date (PHOTO) by Saao(m): 5:55am On Sep 04, 2018 |
khingTony: Responsible individual Unlike the rest that have multiple baby mamas, giving birth to kids like rats. Wetin responsible here |
Politics › Re: Reasons To Have Governor Dankwambo In Aso Rock by Saao(m): 6:22pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
Wow see cv. Two PhD's |
Celebrities › Re: James Gardiner: I Struggled To Kiss Tonto Dikeh On Set The First Time I Saw Her by Saao(m): 3:11pm On Sep 03, 2018 |
neolboy: How i wish am an Actor
I would have kissed the hell out of these pretty actresses sorry for you. Infection is real |
Politics › Re: APC Door-To-Door Campaign For Buhari & Osinajo: Pretty Ladies Employed (Photos) by Saao(m): 10:44am On Sep 03, 2018 |
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Celebrities › Re: D'banj, 2face, Ubi Franklin & Swanky Jerry Hang Out In Dubai (Photos) by Saao(m): 10:38am On Sep 03, 2018 |
philtex: Rubbish!!!
Without christ  see jealousy, u u get Christ? |
Romance › Re: Why Are There Too Many Single Ladies These Days? by Saao(m): 8:40am On Sep 03, 2018 |
Paulagada: Because most mature and responsible men are jobless. not really cuz most ladies nowadays are runs girls so not good for marriage. The good ones always found husband |
Politics › Re: Bobrisky Advised To Pick PDP Nomination As He Beats Saraki In Twitter Poll by Saao(m): 2:15pm On Sep 02, 2018 |
Can he pay for the form? |
Family › Re: 10 Reasons Why Married Men Cheat by Saao(m): 11:25am On Aug 30, 2018 |
EntertainingYou: Cheating can be extremely detrimental and damaging to a relationship, as it can break down the trust, honesty, and respect that are at the core of any successful and long-term relationship. And while it's important to recognize the warning signs that your man may be cheating on you, such as he acts out of character, he desperately wants his privacy, and he suddenly cares more about his looks, it's equally important to understand the underlying reasons why men are unfaithful in the first place.
In fact, research has shown that in any relationship, there's up to a one in four chance that cheating may occur. And in light of this unsettling and unfortunate statistic, there's no better time to shed some light on the real reasons why men cheat.
1- He's immature[b][/b]
One of the main reasons why men cheat is simply a matter of immaturity. When a man is immature, this unappealing attribute can impact a relationship in many different ways. For example, men who are immature often put themselves first in most situations, don't take into consideration their partner's feelings, insist on being right even when they're wrong, and are characteristically unreliable and irresponsible. To that end, being immature is also heavily related to acting impulsively, as most men who are immature tend to give in to their basic temptations and desires without a care or concern for the repercussions of their actions and the possible negative effects that their behavior can have on others.
With this in mind, it's not too surprising that a man's low level of maturity is an underlying factor behind being unfaithful, since immature men often lack the sophistication, empathy, and sense of responsibility that would inhibit them from cheating on their partner. After all, in order for a relationship to be healthy, happy, and have long-lasting potential, both partners have to be emotionally mature. This means that both members of the relationship have to have mutual respect for one another, are able to compromise when necessary, are willing to admit when they're wrong, and think in terms of "we" instead of "me."
2- His emotional needs aren't being met
Another primary reason why men cheat pertains to their emotional needs and desires. In fact, it's been shown that nearly 50 percent of men who cheat do so because they feel emotionally unfulfilled, unhappy, and unsatisfied in their relationship. In other words, men cheat in order to feel valued and emotionally supported, both of which they may not sense they receive from their partner. And rather than finding ways to have their emotional needs met in their current relationship, such as by frequently communicating with their partner, openly discussing their feelings and concerns, as well as having realistic and sensible expectations of their significant other, these men often seek out another person (or people) who can provide them with the emotional satisfaction, support, and empathy that they believe they're lacking.
Whether men are looking to feel appreciated and desired or are simply searching for a shoulder to cry on, a lack of emotional fulfillment is powerful enough to drive men to cheat. It should be noted that less than 15 percent of men rated the women they were cheating with as more beautiful and physically appealing than their current partner, which again underscores that men cheat in large part due to a strong emotional connection with someone else.
3- His physical needs aren't being met When looking more closely at the real reasons why men cheat, a lack of sexual fulfillment in his current relationship is also a key underlying factor behind a man's infidelity. Specifically, a study in the International Journal of Sexual Health revealed that one of the major motivators in a man's decision to start an affair was his desire for sexual satisfaction that was lacking or completely absent from his present relationship. With this in mind, it's not too surprising that an additional sign that a man may be cheating is that he stops being physically intimate with his partner since his sexual needs are being met by someone new.
Along these lines, men reported that sexual curiosity was a major incentive to cheat, as it's not only a search for physical gratification that impelled them to be unfaithful, but also a strong desire for new sexual experiences that are more alluring and appealing. It's also interesting to note that men are more likely to cheat because of unmet sexual needs than women.
4- He's insecure
Another key reason behind why men cheat is centered around a man's personal insecurities. When a man is insecure, he may feel unworthy of being with his partner, he may constantly worry about his partner's continued interest level, and he may continually need reassurance, support, and approval from his partner in a wide range of circumstances. Typically, insecure men are typically very needy, and they incessantly seek out validation in order to prove to their partners, and more importantly themselves, that they're good enough. With this in mind, research has found that men who are insecure in their relationships are more likely to cheat, as noted in a study in the Journal of Family Psychology.
In other words, because of a man's insecurities, lack of confidence, and underlying fears that he's not good enough, he ends up looking for reassurance and affirmations of self-worth from others, both in and out of his relationship. In fact, an insecure man may be so worried about the state of his relationship that his fear of losing his partner can actually induce him to cheat, which in essence becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. In a word, his lack of confidence ends up destroying the very foundation of the relationship he's worried about losing.
5- He's an egomaniac
On the flip side, while insecure men are likely to cheat, so too are men with an overblown sense of importance and self-worth. Specifically, egomaniacs believe that the entire world revolves around them, and not only do they think that they're incredibly attractive, smart, successful, and talented, but they'll be the first ones to tell you that. And when looking at egomaniacs in terms of infidelity, it's interesting to note that their inordinately inflated sense of self in conjunction with their desire to be the focus of attention makes them likely candidates to cheat on their partner.
In one study, research in the Archives of Sexual Behavior found that married men who are sexual narcissists, meaning that they only care about their own physical needs and lack any real concern or interest in their partner's wants and desires, are more likely to have affairs. In other words, narcissistic and self-aggrandizing men who believe their needs should always take precedence over the needs of others are more likely to seek satisfaction, praise, and attention outside of their relationship.
6- His father was a cheater
When looking at the real reasons why men cheat, there's also evidence that cheating can run in the family. Specifically, cheating can actually be a learned behavior that boys pick up during childhood. In fact, it's been shown that men are more likely to cheat if their fathers were cheaters, as noted in the Archives of Sexual Behavior. This is due to the fact that during childhood, men look to their fathers as examples and role models of what behaviors are acceptable and what behaviors aren't. And when they see their father cheat, this type of behavior is ingrained into their own minds and becomes normalized as a way to deal with certain circumstances and relationship issues.
To that end, the example set by their fathers is how young boys learn to deal with many different situations, and they'll likely mimic their father's behavior in the future because it's all they know. It's also interesting to note that women in this study were not more likely to cheat if their fathers were cheaters, which highlights just how important a father's role is in terms of shaping the future actions of his son.
7- His friends are cheaters
When it comes to learned behaviors, men are also likely to cheat if their friends are cheaters. Meaning, if you're wondering if your man may be cheating on you, it's important to take a closer look at his group of friends in terms of their past infidelities. After all, research has found that over 75 percent of men who cheat have a close friend who also cheated. And for these men, cheating becomes one more shared experience that they can bond over, as they have a mutual understanding and similar view on cheating, which enables them to openly discuss it without judgment.
But the powerful role that friendship can play regarding a man's propensity to cheat doesn't stop there, as his friends can also highly influence his future behavior and rational decision-making. Along these lines, a study in the Journal of Consumer Research revealed a person's friends can heavily impact his or her decision to give in to temptation, as friends are more likely to band together when they decide to act impulsively and irrationally. In other words, there's power in numbers, and if your man surrounds himself with friends who make poor decisions, such as being unfaithful, he's more likely to make similar poor decisions due to their influence.
8- He's being cheated on An additional reason why men cheat is simply due to the fact that their partner is cheating on them. And under this kind of distressing circumstance, many men look outside of their relationship as a way to seek revenge and get back at their partner for committing this offense against them. In addition, these men also start affairs in order to regain a sense of power and control after being the victim of infidelity. It's also been shown that men who are being cheated on engage in their own indiscretions as a way to distract themselves from the pain, betrayal, shame, and/or anger that they may feel because of their cheating partner. And starting an affair can help them refocus their energy and divert their attention away from their partner's hurtful actions.
However, for many men, this approach is typically not the best course of action when dealing with a cheating partner because it can actually make them feel worse about themselves and the situation in general. After all, men who start an affair in reaction to their partner's affair often end up undercutting their self-esteem even more by engaging in behaviors that go against their personal values, ethics, and morals.
9- He's worried about his sexual performance While it may seem counter-intuitive, men who have anxiety about their sexual abilities are actually more likely to cheat on their partner. In fact, researchers from Indiana University's Center for Sexual Health Promotion, The Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender, and Reproduction, as well as the University of Guelph in Ontario found that men who had sexual performance issues had a greater likelihood of being unfaithful.
One explanation for this seemingly conflicting result is that men are less inhibited when they're with someone who isn't their partner, and they tend to feel less nervous, worried, and concerned about their performance with this new person. Along these lines, another explanation is that cheating provides men with the opportunity to be with someone who isn't aware of their past sexual performance issues, and being with this new person can actually help to lower the pressure to perform and please this new person. It's also thought that men with sexual performance problems cheat in order to help themselves overcome these sexual issues in an environment that's free of the judgment, ridicule, and/or embarrassment they may feel when they're with their partner.
10- He wants to exert his power
An additional reason why men cheat has to do with their desire to exert more power, control, and domination in different aspects of their lives. Research has shown that men are more likely to cheat if they're in positions of power, as discussed in Psychological Science. And in many instances, power and status in the social realm and/or the workplace gives men a self-esteem boost and sense of entitlement that motivates them to cheat on their partner, as cheating provides them with an additional outlet to exert their power and dominance over others.
With this in mind, one can't help but think of the numerous celebrities, famous athletes, and politicians who've been involved in cheating scandals over the years and have been unfaithful to their partners. It's also been shown that the link between power and infidelity is related to the abundance of cheating opportunities that can be available to a man of power in conjunction with his elevated sense of self-importance and self-worth. As Henry Kissinger famously said, "Power is the great aphrodisiac."
Bonus - He enjoys the thrill When examining the real reasons why men cheat, it's important to consider how the very act of cheating makes him feel. There's a concept known as the "cheater's high," which is the sense of thrill and excitement that one experiences when getting away with something unethical and illicit. In fact, a study in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology found that engaging in immoral behavior without getting caught can make someone feel good, both mentally and physically. And these feelings of exhilaration and elation can be powerful enough to motivate a man to engage in unethical and risky behavior, such as cheating on his partner.
There may even be a genetic component associated with the desire to cheat and engage in this type of risky behavior. A study in the journal PLoS One revealed that people who have a certain form of a dopamine receptor gene known as DRD4 are more likely to cheat, have one-night stands, and engage in other types of high-risk sexual behavior. Not surprisingly, the DRD4 gene has also been linked to other pleasure and thrill-seeking behaviors, such as drinking alcohol and excessive gambling. And while the presence of this gene doesn't provide an excuse for this behavior, it does provide a possible explanation.
Source- http://www.jobsandcareer.com.ng/10-reasons-why-married-men-cheat/ when you have a nagging wife, u have no option than to cheat. When your wife is dirty, or she's not amenable or she want to form her own government, bro will cheat on her. |
Crime › Re: Man Brutalises His Wife, Tears Up Her Certificates After Quarrel. Photos by Saao(m): 4:06pm On Aug 29, 2018 |
Sarkin: All my life; I'm perplexed as to how men beat up their wives in such barbaric manners. I never believe in violence from domestic issues to many other issues. Like, how can a man marry a woman whom he loves and batter her in barbaric ways? How can a man even raise a hand towards a woman? Sigh... just marry a Nigeria girl first. The man broken her mouth, that means her mouth is the problem |
Crime › Re: Ogun Guard Kills Generator Repairer Over An Argument by Saao(m): 2:45pm On Aug 28, 2018 |
Blakjewelry: can you imagine? he should be arrest and sentence to death by firing squad OK Judge |
Politics › Re: Third Mainland Bridge Repair Finished, Reopen On Sunday by Saao(m): 4:50pm On Aug 26, 2018 |
Repair or assessment? Apc is looking for 2019 election funds. |
Christianity Etc › Re: I Hear The Voice Of The Trumpet About To Sound by Saao(m): 12:11pm On Aug 26, 2018 |
sKeetz: What strain of weed do you smoke bro?
I want some of that shît.  can you see your level of knowledge? Weed. |