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DonroxyII:
Thanks Debbie, I use to respect that Safiaa girl, I never know she fall into the majority category of girls that believe they are doing a guy a favour by dating him .....

What do u have to offer other than pvssy , hmmm @Safiaa ..... If u continue with this mentality, u better stay up with your broke ass niggas because ur assertions only work around them , if u try ur argument with an intelligent made dude, gutter is your home !!!

What do you value the most other than sex in a relationship ? Nobody has answered that question, I’ve asked at least 4 guys. Putting aside emotions and companionship. Something physical.

lenghtinny:
Are you not the same person condemning prechbills relationship because his fiance is 5 years older meanwhile yours is 14 years older.
So much for double standards ( The age gap thingy is right for girls but wrong for guys)

What makes you think that she's ready for commitment due to the fact that it's the man that wants to settle down because of his age, and not because she's very old for marriage

life is always about double standards, men and women are not the same. Deal with it. Women marry older, men marry younger. My main concern is not even the age gap between them,, but the pitiful dynamic of their relationship. Read through that thread properly.

That’s why I said if she’s ready she should get married. If not then she should wait for a few years before she settles down. Jeez. Dyslexia maybe?

aynerodcirus:
i am really disappointed in you..., so, coz his fiance bought him a samsung s9 means, he is d houseboy, while she's his sugarmummy?..., come on bae, pls grow up.

https://www.nairaland.com/4445976/mom-doesnt-want-me-marry

Read it thoroughly, then come back to me.

prechbills1:
this fool said I'm gonna be a house boy and marrying a sugar mummy because my fiance is 5years older than me yet she's encouraging another lady who's 21 to get married to a man who's 40year old.. she herself is dating a guy who's 14years older than her..

you're very stupid I swear

if this is how you think and behave in reality then you're useless

you think every lady out there is poor like you, sorry my fiance isn't a broke asshole like you.

I bet you can't even afford a car for yourself

you're just childish and useless

like I said earlier, even Jesus can't deliver you.

you said you're living in the UK, when you've never boarded a plane before.. your fake life is just stipidty shít

broke clown..

not because she’s 5 years older than you that’s not the main issue. but because she’s your financial master and you run to her feet when she calls your name. Little boy please get out of my mentions I have better things to do this Sunday morning.

prechbills1:
same lady who said I'm gonna be a house boy and getting married to a sugar mummy because my fiance is 5years older than me yet your bf or whatever is 14years older than you

you always sound stupid

men and women are not the same. Get that into your thick skull, ode. You are marrying a woman who has more than you, financially, she’s older than you and she controls you. She has you wrapped around her finger and you’re brainwashed by the lifestyle she provides for you. Honey, your own case is a different story entirely. You need Jesus, Jehovah jireh to touch your life

prechbills1:
sometimes I wonder if you got your brain from Mars

it's wrong for a lady to give a man money but it's right for a man to give a lady his money.

since you can't give money, it's only sex you can give

my fiance bought the present Samsung S9 I'm using for me, so she's a fool?

even Jesus can't heal you from this your fake & poor life shít..
I'm done with you, it'll take serious deliverance program which even Tb Joshua can't handle before you'll be delivered... bye

That’s because she’s your sugar mummy and you’re the houseboy. She’s the man and you’re the woman in the relationship. You’re not a peace with yourself that’s why you’re so quick to call everybody broke and shame women who don’t behave like your fiancé. You are enjoying the benefits of the relationship but you secretly don’t want to marry her. You know you will turn into the certified slave in that house, that’s why you had to open a thread so you could feel a little bit better about yourself. But it backfired. Now you’re taking out your internal frustration on this forum by calling every woman you come across as broke. Darling, if you want to be a sugar boy nobody is disturbing you. You’re the same guy that said you can’t date a woman who still lives with her parents, yet you carried your big self to live in another woman’s house? You’re not even ashamed of yourself, yet you have the audacity to call people names. Your mother is crying over your life, because she can see how much of a useless boy you are. She carried you for 9 months, only for you to grow up and become another woman’s personal housekeeper and a proud one at that. Honey, this is the last time I will quote you, live your life and stop bothering me. I’m not the cause of your very misfortunate situation. Lerra x

Jamie90:


That is pure fuckkery.

What did a man of 40 see in a girl of 21 years old.

Except, of course, if he looks 30 and you look 25.


I personally think the age gap is too much.


If he looks like a 40yr old and you dare get married to him, people will see it as a sign of desperation.


Besides, if he does wrong, how can you correct someone whom by standards, you should be calling BROS

Who cares about what people think? Those people that will condemn her now are the same people that will laugh at her when she’s 32 and still single. Most men look younger than their age and if she mentally prepared for commitment then so be it. She’s 21, she’s not a child she’s legal in all parts of the world. Let her be please. Not to waste her young life chasing chewing gum boys that will use her and discard her, she’s found a man who is willing to take her very serious. They both seem to be in love, what is the problem here?

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Don’t listen to these men above please.

If you are ready to settle down now, although I think you should wait some years then go ahead and get married. Most guys your age are not ready for any commitment, it’s rare to come by. There’s nothing wrong with dating an older man, my current is 37 and I’m 23. Good luck!

donstan18:
Had it been you earlier said and personalized your point like this, the heat of argument would have being less.

This is exactly what I’ve been saying since the beginning, but it’s what you want to understand that you’ll understand.

prechbills1:
if he values money, how'd you be providing the money for him?

No real man who would want to take money from a woman or value money in a relationship with a woman, unless he’s looking for a sugar mummy or someone to use. Men are providers, there’s so much pride when he can spoil his girl.

prechbills1:
what will you give in return

he's gonna support you with money, so what are you gonna support him with

whatever he values in a relationship is what I’ll be there for.

PierreDeFermath:
its not your fault. poverty has eaten deep into your brain that you can't think straight again. you can't eat unless a man buys you food,you can't cloth yourself unless a man gives you money for it,you can't spend money unless its given to you by a man. I know girls like you,Pele. but don't get it twisted,your gender doesn't mean girls like you are not making it big,there are several female self made multimillionaires. do they have 2 heads. you should be ashamed you have the mentality of a common prostitute and a prostitute isn't different from a rag to we men,more like a dirty stinking toilet.

I buy ny own food, put clothes on myself, pay my own rent at my house in school and also pay rent in my mothers house. You guys just just dont understand anything. You read one line and skip the others. Its not my fault that you cant comprehend, i’m sorry. I will never depend on a man for everything, but if you want to be in my life and possibly be my husband, you have to support me financially and show that youre willing to provide. Its that simple. I have to see that youre willing to take care of me.

UDUJ:
Dude you're dumb. 0.1% means you're saying every guy is rich. That's saying 99.9% of Nairaland guys can afford the iphone 8, which is a perfect departure from the point you're trying to pass.

Basic mathematics. Dumb ass

lool that was funny. I’ll give you props.

IamAirforce1:
You say cool things today and fight me tomorrow

But it's Ok

Are you having a boy or girl?

alex81:
U got ur girlfriend pregnant not ur wife oo



Pls keep ur advice to yrself, we don't plan to impregnate our gf.


Where's dat picture sef....

but you’re having sex with those gfs? Hypocrisy.

All these hypocrites,but you guys are having unprotected sex right? Because his gf decided to keep her baby when most girls would’ve taken the easy route by aborting, you’re judging them. Most of them would even run away after hearing their gf is pregnant no?Airforce I support you for taking responsibility for your actions and being there to help your gf. Goodluck.

IamAirforce1:
My worst enemy just congratulated me

Smh

I’m not your enemy at all. I actually really like you as a person. I think you’re cool although I don’t agree with everything you do . Congrats

Aww goodluck airforce. Fatherhood will definitely change you. Cant wait to see the baby

olaboy1:
No manipulation at all. I don’t see myself Bleep&n a 35yr old woman. The highest I have gone in the last 3 yrs is around 28yrs. Maybe if I were poor and desperate I would settle with one of those single bank execs. African men in their 50’s who frequent in the gym and eat healthy can still pull a 25yr old Naija girl, biologically we can’t say the same thing for the women....babe don’t fight nature, stay humble and ride the tides with that cool average Joe across your street with the determination to succeed. I started from the bottom myself and I have turned down a request of ordinary 5k Naira from a girl and I’ve equally blessed a deserving one with 1m.

Change your orientation because this is a new millennium.

Yes and thats the exact reason why a woman should get the best man whilst she can whilst shes young and in her twenties. Not settling for the average joe down the street when she can do much better. If a woman can upgrade herself she should want better. The average young lady in her prime, the sky is her limit in the dating world, all men love young women. Just pick the best, thats all im saying. Not just for now, but for the future.

I have a headache now. It’s been fun arguing with you people. I need a break. Bye for now, ciao x

princfred:
Am not saying it to make an exciting point but to make you know where that orientation of yours have led many. And if repeating it several times achieves that, fine. You wont say nobody told you then.

Okay

bammy777:
would ff u. yur twitter handle?

dont have one lol.

princfred:
Many Nigeria girls have this Safiaa orientation until.....no man gree marry them or they become single mother then loyalty will replace the ego and self centeredness. I have seen.

Boring. We’ve heard this too many times e, try something else

donstan18:
These social media broke pretentious ladies are loyal and humble in reality, most of them can't even stand before a man without being shy and uncomfortable.

They are humble in reality because they know sex is cheap for a man to get.

Sex is the cheapest overrated thing in Nigeria, with 500 you can't get it, with packaging you can get it, prostitutes are loitering every corner.

A cook isn't a problem to a man, you can eat outside, you can hire a cook, you can cook for yourself.

Truth be told, if marriage are to be abolished, many woman will suffer and perish to death because of hardship, and they know that.

That's why they are so loyal in reality, but social media has given them a medium opportunity to pretend and form working class, even Highpriestess that cannot wash her pant is a working class on Nland, it's alright, they should continue .

cooking is not a problem, but that’s why most of you can’t cook very well. Mothers teach their sons to sit in the parlour whilst the daughters do all the cooking and domestic chores in the house. It’s terrible. Cooking or anything in the kitchen emasculates you as men, you believe only a woman should learn how to cook. That’s why all these mama puts restaurants are filled up with men. Imagine a man on NL telling me I belong in the kitchen, you men can hardly cook and will refuse to learn. That’s the truth So If marriage were to be abolished, men would probably suffer more. They’re more single mothers doing wonderfully than single fathers.

bammy777:
well ,i never called you one. was just been realistic with what it is. trust me, I know ladies that hustle so well that I crave them. the most important thing is we are getting paid. ladies, guys. those who aiin hustling are nt doing it at their own peril. Broke goes for broke and vice, at the end we all pay. so do u

okay then.

donstan18:
These social media broke pretentious ladies are loyal and humble in reality, most of them can't even stand before a man without being shy and uncomfortable.

They are humble in reality because they know sex is cheap for a man to get.

Sex is the cheapest overrated thing in Nigeria, with 500 you can't get it, with packaging you can get it, prostitutes are loitering every corner.

A cook isn't a problem to a man, you can eat outside, you can hire a cook, you can cook for yourself.

Truth be told, if marriage are to be abolished, many woman will suffer and perish to death because of hardship, and they know that.

That's why they are so loyal in reality, but social media has given them a medium opportunity to pretend and form working class, even Highpriestess that cannot wash her pant is a working class on Nland, it's alright, they should continue .

Sex is cheap but not on every woman. That’s why you value sex with certain women. That’s why some men will pay 100k to have sex with certain women. Some men will travel the seven seas all for pussy. Some men fight their fellow men all for pussy. Some men abandon their families financially all for what ? Pussy. So pussy may be cheap and overrated but it’s ruling the world. Women sell their virginity’s for millions and men pay for it. Face the reality hun

Yhelay:
There are loads of benefits aside sex that I want to get from a lady I date.
You asking the second question makes me come to the conclusion that "You MUST spend on me" isn't a general thing amidst ladies but it's connected to upbringing, exposure, and esteem on such lady

Oya please list those things oga. Things that Are physical please.

bammy777:
oh, here we are again. Now you're saying we are created to be active in labour, next u will say what a man can do, u can do better, u will fight for gender equality and still want financial backup from men, Now you're saying we are calming we can't provide simply because we say Dating shouldn't exist based on the monetary capabilities of men. lyk I said I will always spend on my girl and side chicks just Don't make it priority or me been compelled to do it, note while am playing video games you are gossiping, and we both smoke pot so don't be narrow about that

Here we go again with gender equality. Every man I come across automatically assumes I’m a feminist and that’s the only argument they can use against me. Yet they “hate” feminists.

Anyways please each to their own.

It’s always the same line.

You will be 35 and single reaching menopause
You’re standards are too high you are delusional
You will be used and dumped
No man will ever marry you


It’s all manipulation tools to settle for less. They want you to aim low so they can have more options. If more women had “higher” standards, these men would forcefully be better and do something with their lives. Women are getting married every weekend, stay woke! Level up and be the best so you can attract the best. That’s all.

makydebbie:
Lool, I've friends that are crazy as I'm. We demand it. If you don't want, you can lay while I'll just ride till we both cum. It's me receiving the sex because this time, I wanna cum for me. It's mutual dear.

lol. Well each to their own sha.