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Opentokwowledge:
So, you're saying your husband must be richer than you (largely financially) before you can regard him as one?

Yes. Not necessarily largely but just more than me.

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DO YOU GIVE SEX, OR YOU JUST LAY THERE LIKE A DEAD MEAT AND COLLECT SEX? LOL.


"THE ONLY WAY I WOULD AGREE A MAN TO LIVE IN A WOMAN'S HOUSE... "

IT HAS TO BE UPON YOUR AGREEMENT?
NA WAH.
DO YOU OWN THE HOUSES THESE WOMEN LIVE WITH MEN IN?


THIS GIRL IS CONFUSED.

Theyre exceptions that will most likely never ever happen. They’re exceptions to every argument hun. So to conclude a man should never live in a woman’s house

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SO.. YOU'RE SAYING THAT THE PEOPLE WHO SHOULD TAKE CARE OF OTHER PEOPLE ARE MEN, AND THE PEOPLE WHO SHOULD BE TAKEN CARE OF ARE WOMEN?

THIS TRANSLATES TO ONE SIDE BEING SUPERIOR, AND THE OTHER SIDE.. FALLING INTO THE RANKS OF BABIES, WHO CANNOT TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES LET ALONE ANOTHER BEING.

WE WANT EQUALITY HERE.
WE WANT IT TO BE OKAY FOR BOTH GENDERS TO BE ON THE SAME LEVEL IN MANY INSTANCES.
WE WANT IT TO BE NORMAL FOR 24 YEAR OLD MEN TO MARRY AND LIVE WITH 29 YEAR OLD WOMEN JUST LIKE IT IS WHEN 24 YEAR OLD WOMEN MARRY AND LIVE WITH 29 YEAR OLD MEN.

YOU THINK WHATEVER YOU AGREE WITH IS FINAL, WHO TOLD YOU YOU'RE MAKING SENSE?
YOU'LL HATE WOMEN FOR GIVING MEN "FREE" THINGS BECAUSE YOU CANNOT DO THAT, BUT THERE ARE LOTS OF WOMEN WHO LIKE TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR MANY THINGS AND NOT BLAME MEN FOR THEIR OWN PREDICAMENTS AND INCOMPETENCE.
THERE ARE WOMEN WHO LIKE TO SPEND THEIR MONEY ON MEN, BUY THEM GIFTS AND DON'T BRAG ABOUT IT ON FACEBOOK. SOME MEN LIKE THAT, OTHERS DON'T.

THAT'S HOW THAT GHANA LADY TOLD THE WHOLE WORLD THROUGH CNN TODAY THAT IT'S OKAY TO SLEEP AROUND TO GET YOUR BILLS PAID, INSTEAD OF ACTUALLY DOING WORK.

WE KEEP PREACHING ABOUT WOMEN'S WORTH AND EQUALITY, AND IN A SECOND, A WOMAN LIKE YOU AND THAT GHANA LADY COMES AROUND TO BLOW ALL THE SUCCESS OF OUR STRUGGLES FOR CENTURIES AWAY.


IF MY GIRL EVER GETS A HOUSE BEFORE ME THROUGH HER HARD WORK AND DRIVE, MADAME, I AM GOING TO LIVE IN IT FOR AS LONG AS I WANT.. IF SHE GETS A LAMBO I WILL DRIVE IT WHENEVER SHE LETS ME... UNTIL WHENEVER YOU SEND MISSILES, OR CHARMS, OR THE WORST YOU CAN.

didn’t read it, I don’t care. Men and women are not the same,forget it. Nothing like equality ever. Later.

The only way I would agree a man to live in a woman’s house...He takes on 80% of the financial problems. If not get out of the house. If you want to compensate by doing nearly all the cooking and cleaning that’s also okay. But I will cook clean give you sex and you will live in my house for free practically? Looool, you must be joking mate.

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WHICH SORCERER TOLD YOU THIS?



WE ALL KNOW THE HATE YOU FEEL FOR MEN, AND HOW YOU ENVY SUCCESSFUL WOMEN WON'T LET YOU LIVE THAT LONG.



SAFIAA,
WHEREVER YOU SEE MEN LIVING IN WOMEN'S HOUSES GO THERE AND KINDLY ASK THEM TO LEAVE.
IF THEY REFUSE, DO NOT HESITATE TO "EVACUATE" THEM BY FORCE.



THANKS.

I don’t hate men, at all. I love men. I love men who are truly men. What irritates me is incompetent men who are trying to be women. You want a woman to take care of you financially, why not go under a sexual transition to be the gender that you truly want to be? You want her to satisfy you sexually, in the kitchen, in the household, be a slay mama and also give you money on top of that? Over my dead body. Please if a man wants to live in a woman’s house, what is my business with that? But I don’t agree with it and that’s final.

prechbills1:
guy(including greiboy) can you date a lady still living with her parents?

you can’t date a girl living in her parents house but you as a man carried your big self to live in another woman’s house loooool. Whilst she contributes 80% of the finances to the house Lool. This generation of men are completely hopeless, it’s such a shame.

prechbills1:
what God has joined together no amount of wailing can stop it.

I wonder why these broke ladies like taking stuffs that aren't their business very personal.

you think it's right for a man to spend on a lady but you think it's wrong for ladies to spend on men.

only God can touch the heart of the man that's going to marry you.

who’s taking it very personal Lool, I used it as an example love I sincerely don’t care about you. Carry on living your sugarboy lifestyle, live your life and save that money please. Goodluck lool

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I THOUGHT THEY SAID "AGE IS JUST A NUMBER", AND LOVE DOESN'T CARE?

TWO PEOPLE ARE HAPPY WITH EACH OTHER DESPITE THE AGE GAP AND YOU'RE BITTER ABOUT IT.


HE HAS A JOB AND HIS OWN MONEY. SHE'S RICHER AND OWNS AN APARTMENT. HOW IS IT YOUR BUSINESS IF THEY PREFER TO LIVE TOGETHER INSTEAD OF SEPARATELY? DOES IT MAKE SENSE THAT HE GETS A PLACE SO SHE CAN ABANDON HERS AND MOVE IN WITH HIM?

HOW IS IT NOT OKAY FOR MEN TO LIVE IN WOMEN'S HOUSE, BUT PERFECT FOR WOMEN TO LIVE IN MEN'S HOUSE?


GET YOUR HEADS STRAIGHT, FEMINISTS.

Never claimed to be a feminist, so just stop it.

Now, how is it okay for a woman to live in a mans house? Ummm because she’s woman. You men are trying so hard to be women and vice versa, and that’s the reason why relationships never last these days. Going through that thread you can clearly see that the young man is in love with the financial lifestyle that this woman gives to him, not her. In 7 years time when his eyes open, and she’s 36 do you think he’ll still be in his ditsy phase? I think not. It’s not okay for a man to live in a woman’s house, ever! Especially if he’s comfortable about it. I’m sorry.

prechbills1:
this guys want to give me heart attack.

I'll listen to your advice.. I'll ignore all comments

I think I know who you are. But I will just watch you and observe Lool.

prechbills1:
only black people especially broke ones reason this way.

my fiance is beautiful, neither is she desperate or lonely.

I was the one who proposed to her, not she proposing to me.

something you don't understand is; wealthy people mingle with people of their standards.

our families have been doing good for a very long time even before her dad was appointed as commissioner of transportation in 2015,while my dad is an SA to the Governor.

actually your opinions don't matter because my fiance is civilized and doesn't have this backwards mentality.

Of course you proposed, you want the lifestyle lol. Trap her quickly with pregnancy so you can secure the money bag, you hear . If you’re doing so well, how do you have the audacity to move into a woman’s house? To spend her money, and let her take care of you? Are you a woman? Please carry yourself commot, I could never in my life.

I agree. I read somewhere on the front page that a woman is allowing a young boy of 24 to live in her house, spending money on him all in the bid of getting married and she’s 29. She’s become this young mans sugar mummy, it’s honestly quite sad. It doesn’t help that when you’re of age and not married ‘they’ began to think something is seriously wrong with you. We also have a biological clock, so there’s so many things working against us.

All I can say is live your life, be the best version of yourself and put yourself in places to meet people and you Will definitely find someone with quality. They’re 7 billion people in the world, deep it. There has to be at least 1 person out there for you. Be patient ladies, he will come.

prechbills1:
80-20?

is this the gender equality women have been clamouring about?

smh

even UK..

black women though(not all, my fiance doesn't have this mentality)

When have I stated anything about gender equality? This is the problem with you men, you think every woman you encounter is a feminist. I’m clearly not nd never will be. Yes I live in the Uk and so what?

Black women this, black women that. But you forgot to mention that you’re a black man who has no atom of shame to carry your big self into another woman’s house to play houseboy. Can you really call yourself a man though? Your fiancé has to be one of the three. Desperate, unattractive or severely lonely. Sorry, because no woman with standards would settle for someone like yourself, just saying.

jaxxy:
Ok maybe not UK bt in the US in certain. Men move in with ladies it's not a big deal really. Bills shud be shared not one person doing it all c'mon. Respect for a person shudnt just come because they are capable of paying ur bills pls cos it means anytime dat person can't the respect goes out the window. Lol

well maybe I’m different because living with someone is a big deal. I couldn’t live with a man I’m not married to sorry. And once we move in together, we can share the bills. As long as it’s 80-20. It’s not something everybody can understand but as long as my current partner understands, I’m Gucci.

prechbills1:
you live in the UK and you have such mindset.

well I wouldn't expect less from you.
you mean if you move into a man's house, he shouldn't respect you?

all black ladies seem to have fixed mentality

I'm not an alpha male, you work to demand respect. because you're pampering your man doesn't mean you should say this nonsense,
it's better if you don't live in his house then, since he can't live in your house.

And why should he take up most of the financial bills? isn't that supposed to shared equally?

how am I even sure you're living in the Uk.. kindly screenshot this thread,

ok

You women are trying too hard to be men, it can never work. Just stop it.

Chikita66:
Feminism is a foreign culture, it is not our culture, Linda ikeji have never called herself a feminist before, so stop tagging her.

One quick question, how many of you feminist are independent? you guys still depend on your man for virtually everything.


That a lady is non feminist doesn't mean she is not independent or she can't be independent, one can still be independent and also not be a feminist, one can also know her worth and her value without being a feminist. I am non feminist and I don't need to be a feminist before I value myself, know my worth and know I should be independent irrespective of the fact that my hubby/my man is working. You asking a man for a gift doesn't mean you can't afford it or you are not a real woman.


Like I keep saying, each gender need each other for the smooth running of things.

100% agree.

Being independent is a basic characteristic of adulthood. I don’t understand why it has to be under this stance called feminism. I have my own money, yes as I should. But does that mean I won’t allow my man to take absolute care of me, and treat me as I deserve. I expect you to pay for dates, pay the bills and other expenses does that mean I don’t have any form of independence? Please ah beg let me hear word.

jaxxy:
There's nothing wrong with that dear. Its only strange in this part of the world. In the Us and uk men move in with their ladies all the time or they move in together bt the lady most times owns or gets the house. Im more bothered about the maturity deficit and whos controlling who? The guy has said a single thing he's doing. The gal is doing it ALL. Thats strange to me. Im not comfortable with that yet

No. I live in the uk, born and raised and if any man moves into my house with pride I would NEVER respect him. I wouldn’t even date a man who would think of doing that, so that’s different entirely. We could move in together, with you taking up most of the financial bills or I move in to your house. One or the other, and that’s after marriage. Thanks

Absolutely disgusting

If anything I pity the lady who is settling for less. I just don’t understand why. How can a man move into your house and you’re happy to accept that. Smh for these ladies. Over my dead body.

This one is a leech. Silly young dude.

[quote author=DonPiiko post=66627138][/quote]Lool.

Hey love.

Gangster1ms:
The pressure on that particular day is out of this world

No matter what, consider the embarrassment of other please. Even if it’s a text message, it’s much better than not showing up and ghosting.

eyeview:
I have a few friends who regret till date why they didnt walk away at the altar than the hell they are passing thru in the hands of the women they married.
Its still better to abscond on wedding day than a lifetime of hell with a bad wife or husband

Why not just tell the girl you no wan marry again beforehand. Like I don’t gerrit.

lol is this anything new though? I’m loyal to myself only, sorry.

zamanient:
Na money de speak

yes oh

ibkayee:
Hey dear, longest time, hope you’re well

hey love I’m doing great Hope you’re okay too

The kinda man i need in my life

I really dont want to be mean, but this girl is not pretty at all. Sorry

TheUpsetGirl1:
see this hungry fake girl..

I'm going to disgrace you anywhere I see your posts in this site.. mumu

loool okay little girl. Bye

TheUpsetGirl1:
she lied about which thing that is very serious?
having the guts to quote me in thrash is what amazes me

what's serious about Virginity?
if he wanted to marry her because of Virginity, he should've told her that when they started their relationship.

nonsense, as if the bastard is a virgin himself

you're the one who needs to grow up, because this time you won't only deactivate your account, you'll quit nairaland finally.

mumu

Shut up jare. Young foolish thing. No sense at all, just littering this forum with nonsense. Go and sleep or go and read a book please. Dumb girl