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prechbills1:
what is my real name?

don’t need to tell you, but just know that I know who you are.

prechbills1:
lmao.. this one is obviously dreaming.

you knew me from where?

are you living in Asaba?

abeg, you ain't worth my time

Yes I live wherever you are.

prechbills1:
are you dreaming?

lol I’m not. I know you, so be careful

prechbills1:
hi

I know you

prechbills1:
but gyming doesn't give six packs ,right?

hello

Taiwx:
Wen is dis thread hitting FP

never lol

Holymann:
You said "it's okay if u have(not if you've had) MORE THAN 1 or 2 sexual partners" this is the same thing as MULTIPLE sexual partners....
Having 2 sexual partners is also a case multiple partners.
Being promiscuous is "having several sexual partners within the same period of time" regardless of the time frame.

Okay

DonPiiko:
One of my friends was dating a chic for like four years, there broke up and under 1 month I saw her engagement photos on IG I just took him out and we drank a lot of beer together girls are scum

Everybody is scum lol. Everybody is selfish and looks out for themselves, that’s life. Just play the game too, you’ll never be heartbroken lol.

Smart girl
Time waits for no one, who has time to waste lol.

But Honestly the girl was playing the guy, just move on it’s a life lesson

Smart girl
Time waits for no one, who has time to waste lol.

Holymann:
Dear Safiaa, you said "it's okay if you have more than 1 or 2 sexual partners, it doesn't make you promiscuous"
Abeg what does it mean to be PROMISCUOUS?

sleeping with multi people in a short period of time. 1 or 2 is not multiple luv. And even if you’ve had a promiscuous past, still tell your partner about it.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Not really sis it depends on the area.

Yes really love. It’s not an African mentality, the traditional household began from the western world, so how is it an African mentality. Doesn’t make any sense please, but carry on.

Ladyhippolyta88:
I avoided quoting you because I don't want to be a part of the argument.
Fortunately for me I don't share your view like I told caps you are conservative and I am not.
It is an African and middle east mentality because some parts of the world has moved on.
You seem to hold to the patriarchal societal view which some people do not believe in.The only thing constant in life is change so hold your opinion and let me hold mine.

darling I live in the western world, and the traditional household is very current. Loads of ‘ stay at home mums’ as they call it and providers being men. It’s not an African mentality, just want to make that clear. You’re entitled to your opinion nethertheless.

DonPiiko:
Females have made me the hardliner that I am today, I just speak it as it is in my mind especially to put out my intent and so that most of you note that I have already friend zoned you, it's all good, no love lost, no love found. To each his own and like I said I wasnt going to attempt to change any opinions, just that I was very surprised at Safias standpoint that's why I came in here in the first place

why are you surprised? I’ve always had these thoughts, I always stay stuff like this. One of my popular threads talks about women not dating broke men, so you shouldn’t be surprised. What bothers me is that you keep on bringing a particular situation up, and you know this is not the second or third time. Just stop doing that please.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Check the thread I also commented and some people also gave some nice advice and not everyone insulted you.
I must say some still had the Africa mentality.

It’s not an African mentality love, it’s how it should be. People from all over the world still belive in the traditional household. Centuries ago households all over the world carried this concept so how can you call it an ‘African mentality?’ Everybody is entitled to their opinion, let me just say that.

DrinkLimca:
sorry to burst Your bubble..
ladies with the mentality of man must provide are the ones with poverty mentality..
No offence to you..
But I've dated rick ladies, all my exes are from rich homes and all my female friends offline are rich and are from very rich homes so i know how they reason..

A rich lady and a real classy lady that makes her own money or that comes from wealthy homes, can not be bothered about depending on a guy to provide for her..

I know a guy must have something doing that brings money but a real rich lady takes a guy from level one to a higher level..
If the guy is loyal and they are both in love..

I've seen things mehnn..

I know a rich girl by the way she comments.

alright

prechbills1:
your papa
I won't direct my talks to you, I'd direct them to him because you, your father or anybody in your family ain't my level.

make those mods ban me

who be this poor girl wey no fit afford henessy when go dey play with me

ok

DrinkLimca:
This dating of age mate stuffs are getting stale..

Relationship and love has nothing to do with age..
All my ex are older than i am but still they can tell that the moments we had together will be cherished forever..
I blame the Africa black mentality for putting unnecessary attention on age when it comes to relationship..

Barcelona defender pique is dating shakira which is 15 years older than him and they now have two sons together and have been dating since 2010...

so age is just a number....

there is nothing wrong in dating a lady older than you..

Fine. Just be the one to provide, simple. Is that too much to ask?

prechbills1:
this babe wan make me talk weytn I no suppose talk

this girl are you mad?
your entire family get money?
who be your papa?
who be that your boyfriend?
don't fvck with me girl.
we ain't mates in any level
no be today we start dey drink belaire
you've been spewing shits, can you even afford a car?

Lool talk what you want to talk. Nonsense.
Empty vessel, go and sit down in your madams house and stop typing trash in my mentions. Silly houseboy. Trash.

walepackage:
happy to know that you aint 'feminist'dear.But,the truth is that if you are really in love with your partner you will be able to share your properties/things with him/her.Love shoud be rooted base on selflessnes,compationate and understanding irrespective of your standard,in as much as he/she is striving to elavate his/her status not a lazy,clueless or unambitious partner.It's a two way sided thing.Only if you love and you see beyond what you can gain now.Tanx

love should be based on understanding? Will you still love me if I can’t cook properly? Will you still love me if I can’t clean or do house chores? Will you still love me If don’t like sex? Will you still love me if I’m barren? Will you still love me if I’m extremely unattractive to you. Love between man and woman is always based on conditions, that is the reality. Even if you still “love” me, you’ll still look elsewhere to fill the void. That’s the truth, Sorry.

Chikita66:
She buy this, she buy that, mention one thing you did for her, you should be ashamed to call yourself a man.

Don’t mind him, it’s absolutely shameful. No atom of shame in him. God forbid my son should ever turn out like this, from childhood would raise him to be a man. Not these silly feminine men that want to live under a woman’s roof. Never

prechbills1:
fvckoff abeg

I don't deal with fake people
go make money and match high standards.

I've seen all type of people on nairaland, smh

Darling I’ve made money and I’m still making it. Fortunately I’m with someone who matches my spec. Unfortunately for you though, you do not even match halfway to your current fiancé, that’s why you’re comfortably living as the houseboy in that house. Why not take your advice, find your match and date your age mate. Nuisance.

DonPiiko:
I believe a lot in potentials so I would likely date someone who doesn't have money at the moment but I always distance myself from people with an entitlement mentality. I don't take Safiaa opinion seriously coz she has given me money on my birthday so I doubt her 20% will pull through. It's her type that will preach feminism but be a very submissive and loyal housewife

Giving money to someone on their birthday is completely different to providing for someone financially. How much did I give you on your birthday, 5k? Is that really a lot of money, I don’t think so luv. You’re like my bro, not my boyfriend. I don’t understand why you keep on bringing that up as I did that out of my kindness. I’ve never once preached feminism ever, so please piko dey your lane.

prechbills1:
A man should never live in a woman's house, but a woman should live in her husband's house?

The man that's going to marry you will surely regret the day he was born, I swear

Safiaa or whatever shít you call yourself
feminism has come to stay in this world, it ain't going away.

my wife to be foot the bills of 100% of our flights isn't she a lady like you? or do you think your lazy pussy is different from her pussy?

she bought Samsung Galaxy S9 for me 296k
can you even afford an ordinary iPhone 4 for your man?

I also foot the bills whenever we go on dates.

I've realized that talking facts with people like you is a complete waste of time.

wake up to reality, it'll dawn on you.

loool. Shameful. Please go and marry this your fiancé and stop troubling me. If that’s the lifestyle you want for yourself, wonderful. After all it’s not my problem, but your mum is not in support of your relationship for a reason. She’s wiser than you and she knows better. Listen to her before it’s too late. You’re going to regret everything, trust me.

DonPiiko:
Yeah but from your analogy, you want to dump the whole responsibility on the male dude, for you that's fine but to me I see it as a huge deficiency, both parties have to bring something to the table, I can't date someone with an entitlement mindset and no potentials. But you may see it differently I don't intend to change your opinion dear. Peace

So by taking up the financial responsibility you’re doing everything? I don’t really understand.

DonPiiko:
You keep emphasizing on finances, I was really curious to how you worked out the 80 versus 20 percent module, what happens to 80Percent of the ladies income in a partnership, what's your suggestions on that?

Partnership involves two people who work together right?

DonPiiko:
80% versus 20% presents a huge trade imbalance or don't you think so?

So financially is the only way we’re in a partnership? I don’t understand.

walepackage:
you have really dealt with her,hence she runs out of ideas.Feminism this,feminism that.Now you see their own real definition of it.What a crude way to depict it.I gues she's still young and naive,i bet she's into serious dating or relationship.Hence let her keep basking in her euphoria of unrealistic imagination that's culminating in her head.Kudos to you man.

never claimed to be a feminist, ever. Darling I’m old enough to know what I deserve. No high standard woman will house nd provide comfortably for any man. I’m sorry.

DonPiiko:
Shouldn't marriage be partnership??

absolutely

CAPSLOCKED:

LOL..
LADY H-I-P DID YOU SEE THIS?

COMING FROM THE "ALMIGHTY" SAFIAA OF NAIRALAND.

WHILE WE'RE TRYING TO MINIMIZE OR ERADICATE COMPLETELY THE "BEGI BEGI" DISEASE IN OUR YOUNG GIRLS (AND BOYS AS WELL), THIS ONE IS TRYING TO RECRUIT MORE PEOPLE THROUGH HER POSTS ON A WORLD KNOWN PUBLIC FORUM.


EQUALITY IS A MUST MY DEAR. MAYBE 60-40.
THE DIFFERENCE BEING THE BIOLOGICAL THINGS WE CANNOT CHANGE.

HAVE A GOOD NIGHT, AND DREAM ABOUT HOW TO SPEND YOUR LESS THAN 7 YEARS. HATE AND ENVY ARE VERY DEADLY DISEASES.

Begi begi you say? What I find to be begi begi is a grown man like yourself arguing about women taking financial care of men. Wanting a woman who can give you money, roof over your head and you’re comfortable with that. Are you really a man, I’m sincerely concerned. Equality is not a must and will never be. Women will hardly be prosecuted for sexual harassment. Women will hardly be taken serious for rape allegations. Men will never be shamed for sleeping around. The list goes on and on, but it all concludes to the fact that men and women are not equal and will never be.

CAPSLOCKED:

SOME OPINIONS ARE TOXIC, AND SHOULD ONLY BE RECITED IN ONES HEAD REPEATEDLY FOR AS LONG AS POSSIBLE, INSTEAD OF BEING SHARED PUBLICLY.

KATE MOSS, NICOLE RICHIE, AND OTHERS ARE RICHER THAN THEIR HUSBANDS.
JULIA ROBERTS IS LIKE 5X RICHER THAN HER MAN, BOUGHT HIM ONE OF HIS CARS AND GETS HIS CLOTHES BUT YOU'LL NEVER HEAR THIS MADE WOMAN TALK TRASH LIKE THIS.

THE INDEPENDENT WOMEN KNOW THEMSELVES.
THE ONES HOPING & TRYING TO BE INDEPENDENT KNOW THEMSELVES.

THE ONES LIKE SAFIAA WHO WANTS TO BE ON THE RECEIVING END FOR LIFE KNOW THEMSELVES, AND WE KNOW THEM AS WELL.

The must always use the few minority’s as the core example. Wake up please, how many successful relationship have the women taking up 80% of the finances in the house? In your every day to day life. Stop being delusional and fighting for something that will never be. I have my own money hun, but will never take on the financial responsibility to take care of a man. Never.

Opentokwowledge:
Please, do well to let the fellow unfortunate enough to think of marrying you know this before he ties the knot with you firsthand!

Lool I’ve had these discussions with my partner before, fortunately they’re still men out there who know their role as men. You’re not going to convince me to settle for less, sorry.