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jimmyfrenzy: PERRY2020 u have say the real fact but in additional those beautiful ladies out now they find them self in such spot just because of their character. Some of them what they believe is that, yes, they are beautiful if they leave one man they will get another man and at the end of the day they found them self's in this single spot. And some of them always want to date the big men in the city which those men would have get their own women at home so when they find out they leave that man and jump to another. I wonder how young girl will be dating man of 60 years of age and if the young guy of their age proposed to them they will molest him or sock him in full embarrassment, so I don't pity some of them in such spot

The type of beautiful ladies that end up single are the ones that:

- Get arrogantly stuck in their wish list for a man and decide not to settle for less while their looks is fading
- Have developed a completely stinking personality/reputation and still think they can tie down an eligible man and will not settle for less
- Too stuuupid to know or in denial to admit that the looks is gone or is going, hence did not sell the product before the sell-by date, while new and better products are coming off age

By and large, they face some of the challenges of successful girls when they leave it too late:

https://www.nairaland.com/1204511/what-reasons-high-level-30/9#14566107

100Cents: See this scenario.

A confident guy starts dating her and works on her to cut down on her admirers and the frequent calls to pay more attention to the relationship, and she complains you are monitoring her or trying to box her.

I don experience this with two ladies..

Confidence ko, Agbadofidence ni!

Insecure men calling themselves confident.

That not only sounds insecure, it sounds like an insecure psycho.

DailyNews: You have very good points that I agree with. Take Kim Kardashian as an example, she went round, couldn't find a guy to marry her until Kanye did...its not always easy for a pretty lady to find a husband...until she uses her head and stop waiting for Pope John Paul Michael Jackson Bill Gates

Kim K as pretty and popular as she is, settled for an ugly Kanye....Beyonce used her head and went for ugly Jay Z but some of my very pretty cousins are waiting for Pope John Paul Michael Jackson Bill Gates to come by, that's the problem most pretty ladies have aside character/etc issues

Kim Kardashian did not struggle to find a guy to marry her.

Fine girls will NEVER struggle to find guys to marry them. IT IS ALWAYS EASY! Actually they would be suffocated with offers every year and that is where their problem is: Making a choice from something so easy for them to the point it does not excite them.

That is where the bad boys come in.

They bring the excitement and intrigue. The fine girls can go for these bad boys so they can at least get some excitement and challenge in life to make their life interesting. It is a fundamental requirement of the human psyche to have a challenge for your life to be fulfilling. The fine girls can go for these bad boys with the assurance that if it does not work out there are still many suitors that will happily line up waiting to take them (i.e. Real Men and mugu good boys who don't mind the left overs and love saying sweet things to women, no matter what).

Kanye provides the madness that will keep a hot girl who is in high demand, like Kim K, interested and intrigued. The fact he has a talent and passion that makes him money is also like Viagra to women. It turns them the fck on!

Men's looks are not a primary determinant for women. They are just hygiene factors. Men just need to meet a basic threshold in the looks department, other things like "intelligence, money, power, swag etc" matter more. It is usually 16-22 year old girls that see looks and 6-packs as priority.

Kanye and Jay Z are not ugly. If you want to see ugly, just go to Muritala Muhammed International Airport and watch Nigerian men pass by. Kanye and Jay Z meet a minimum threshold for most women. The fact they are have "intelligence, money, power, swag etc" means many women around the world would be a bit creamy for them. If they are Tyson Beckford, then they would be the whole package, but their current package is already a very high and exclusive package to attract virtually any hot women on this planet we call Earth. The Tyson Beckford look is just a bonus.

rapsodeep: Being 'Not beautiful' is like being Blind. Once you lose your sense of sight, ur other sense organs develops X10. When U R not too fine, U character or attitude may just rise, to complement d disadvantage.
Having beauty and character is either a great gift or by a conscious effort.
Thank you

Well said.

iconise: Yes sagamite stew!

They attended the same school where you were taught that population is the only determinant of a city.

That must be the same school you attended as well. It is the school of producing fcktards.

tit: Are we getting your goat?
Shakau darling, do no behead anybody today oo.
leave that work for the appropriate authority vested with the powers to dish justice to enemies of the people.

Did you go to the same schools as the reetard called collynzo?

Collynzo16: What is there in taking pictures with masked men?
As for Asari, he has never been in hiding even in the peak of militancy, he was moving from Bayelsa govt house to Rivers govt house all the way to Aso rock to meet with Obj. Taking pictures with him has never been a big deal.
How about Davies recent claim that he has been on the phone in the last ''48'' hours with top boko haram commanders? The 48 hours that coincided with boko haram fighting to take over bama? If he can do that, why can't vanguard?

You are a cretinous person!

So because he said so, that is true?

Collynzo16: Obasanjo said he refused to fight boko haram so that they wouldn't ''disturb'' his government. If he had done what he was supposed to do then, his son wouldn't be fighting boko haram now.

You are a cretinous person!

How do you know if he had fought Boko Haram then, they would not be fighting now, person?

Collynzo16: Bloody illiterate, what is the meaning of ''educations''? How many times have I told you on this forum that no such word exists?
Bloody gay illiterate.

You are a cretinous person!

A dumb, moronic product of a failed education system like you is calling someone an illiterate?

Are you saying you have not come to a realisation of how daft your are?

Run before I slaughter you now!

tit: if the knife enter, then i will know YOU are innocent.
if it does not, then i will know you are boko haram.

As I said, you are a cretinous person!

Collynzo16: We have seen how successful your own ''educations'' system is.
Illiterate sagaymite.

And here is another person as dumb as you are!

tit: come closer and i will tell you if you are one.

You are a cretinous person!

You can't tell us how you know they are "enemy combatant boko haram (sic)"?

tit: they are slitting the throats of enemy combatant boko haram.
go and die!

You are a cretinous person!

A moronic product of a failed education system.

person, tell us how you know the people being killed are "enemy combatant boko haram (sic)"?

tit: Ba magana!
Come with your hammer. That is how your boko haram started carrying knife to kill innocent Nigerians.
I am here. No running.
If i take the hammer and start giving you a taste of your own medicine,
do not cry for fcktards to come and help you.

Kai!

These kinds of fcktards need to be exterminated in Nigeria.

Maybe the Nigerian army can slit the throat of this one for me.

TDcute1: ...
Waohhh...watz diz##horse shit,wuz tawkin tew u@douche.if u qat an NL qel, itz a pity she has 2 stick up 2 ur sorry ass. Ur jus 1 hell of a loser.**smuck

Kai!

See a fucktadious product of our failed education system who cannot write in English and is unemployable calling someone else a loser?

tit: NA should behead all the boko haram in Bama and Michika!
Boko haram started the beheading, NA will decide when it will stop.
Do you think the colleagues of the airforce officer are happy?
You boko haram have never seen anything yet.

Ajanlekoko, can you see the person your country dey produce?

When una go get this fcktards, give me a hammer, bring them to me and let me smash their worthless skulls?

litetias: I for one am not attracted by beauty in the politically correct sense. When I see a girl the first thing I see is her aura cos I have the ability to perceive a person's soul. I admire outward beauty but I'm not drawn to it. When I get married it would be cos I'm attracted to that girl's inner beauty and not the cosmetic one that fades. Maybe more men are realizing there's more to a woman than looks and so are marrying less for good looks.

I am attracted to their outward beauty but I know when and how to tell them to "fck off" when their inward ugliness rears its head.

daryoor: i hear people say gilrls are smart every time, thats true .but we really shouldn't ignore that guys are verrry smart, after a brief discussion a guy, he knows practically how you are configuered. some fine girls realy have absolutly noting but looks.

some girls get so many suitors that they dont value attention, they dont even know what they want or what they should want. some will try finding a replica of their ex boyfriend till jesus comes.

other problems:
some girls are hot and single cause the spend all day every day indoor. i guess their toster will appear inside her room from nowhere, or jump out of her t.v

some hot girls keep to themselves keeping an unfriendly face, making it seem they dont want to be bothered.

Well said!

Kinkybraids: Well I think that they could be single for the following reasons:

1. They know that they are beautiful and dont want to settle for any guy that approaches them so they would rather remain single. The so called 'ugly' girls may not get many suitors and realize that offers may be few and far in between so they accept more easily when being pursued as they play less games. A beautiful woman feels you need to earn her beauty.

2. Maybe they have more important things to pursue right now rather than a relationship. Maybe she sees that beauty fades so she also needs to build her wealth

3. She could be trying to avoid the 'chop and clean mouth' kinda guys because she has been hurt by them before.

4. I have realized that beauty attracts a man but it doesn't keep him so some beautiful ladies are not very nice people. They dont have that selfless personality that's required for a long term relationship.

5. Some beautiful women dont end a relationship and start the next just like that. Its not a job vacancy that needs to be filled. Some women like to take breaks in between relationships just to breath and find themselves.

Well said!

AjanleKoko: Nigeria sha. Goverment by platitudes and excuses.
And the people never seem to learn, or aspire towards a more civilized society, or responsible and transparent governance. All you hear from everyone is 'Boko Haram should not get me oh, ejoo ooh'

Plenty people in the so-called 'heroic army' should be tried for war crimes.

Majority of our people are extremely dumb.

They are part of our main problem.

I see this that is why I am relentless on NL in making them aware of what they are.

TDcute1: @ poster...she can be beautiful aiit. Buh wat if she aint real? U cnt xpect real guyz 2 ask out fake qelz...most naija qelz re fake all tru. NL qelz especially ...

What kind of moronic textspeak is this?

And this guy would be proud of posting with this level of retardation?

xynerise: Fat lie!!! No cute guy is lonely unless he is gay

Well said!

lilprinze: I think why most beautiful girls are single is because most beautiful girls are highly admired by lots of guys and once you are in a relationship with a girl you won't like her to be admired by oder guys and they are highly competitive the more the admirers the less guys want to go into a serious relationship with them.

If you are an insecure guy, this would be a problem.

sirjohnson: Guys, I found this short article on Why You Should Get An UnntractiveGirlfriend/Wife Here They give better sex, love you more etc. You may want to disagree with me but after reading it, you will thank me.

Good luck to you!

I am in full support for your type to sign a contract that allows you only to such girlfriends/wives.

lomaxx: Men have upgraded. Beauty with no brains is a liability. No beauty with good brains is an asset. The good thing with beauty is it can be worked upon. The bad thing about brains is- once you don't have it, you don't have it.

Speak for yourself.

If that is your upgrade, na wah for your mentality.

Some ugly women should thank God for giving them men like you.

I would rather be single than experience your Okrika-type upgrade. Na Harrods-only upgrade I dey do.

jhimmiefolush: "Men they say are attractedby what they see (beauty)and women by what hear"
Beauty in this sense, is the point of attraction and the begining of the connection but men as logical beings see beyond beauty before they decide to spend the rest of their life with a woman. They look for good attitude, character, flexibility, family orientations etc.
Most beautiful women don't have these inward cahracteristics men look out for except an attitude to keep up with their strength which is. Their beauty but the not so beautiful ones have a a blend of all these charaters in marriageble proportions.

My opinion sha

Well said, nigga!

perry2020: What is your definition of beautiful?
1.if guys like you keep doin their thing and clean mouth the way you just stated won't it be better for them to stay single than be deceived by guys of your specie.
2.did it occur to you that probably they don't want a relationship. Eg when guys keep chopping and Going they rather not date at all.
3.i don't even know how to describe your friends but don't you think u should do your own research very well rather than judge fine girls that your peeps might even be lying about.
4.have you carried out a research backing your say that uglier girls get married more these days than beautiful ladies?
As I asked earlier what is ur definition of beautiful?? Is it maheda/omotola jola ekehinde,miley Cyrus/nikki minaj,lola omotayo/empress njama
If even the ugliest of girls can be in a relationship why won't the fine ones be aldoe beauty ain't in the face but in the heart,i would rather go for a beautiful heart with brains but some ladies have the 3 in one,trust me.have a nice day

A fine girl would not struggle in finding a man to chop and stay.

Actually, there will be a battalion of them who would stay except she has a stinking personality.

Beauty of a woman is in her face and body, not her heart.

Your heart would never give me a boner!

This argument fails.

butanep: One major feature that attract me to ladies is their beauty, then other features follow... This is the same for most guys... I know very well that most guys go after beautiful ladies and will want to get them at all cost... Once ladies are walking, the most beautiful is always hunted for by guyz...
The beautiful ladies are the ones that can dash out from any relationship and before a day or two, one guys have pick interest in them... And a fresh relationship have started... They are the ones that have chain of boyfriends and suitors...
With all these advantages... Most beautiful Ladies are still single... The ones that are not too beautiful are getting married and the beautiful ones are buying "ashwebe".
The beautiful ladies are everywhere, in the street, offices, churches, social gathering... When you see then, you think they are in a relationship but when you become closer to then, you find out they are Single...
I meet a very beautiful lady in my. Working place of recent... We became close friends... I was just playing a gentleman game thinking she was hocked up... Until a very good day she asked me... If am not going to asked her out... My head big ooo... She revealed to me, that she is single...I just do my thing and clean my mouth because I wasn't ready for commitment...
My friends have also told me that some beautiful ladies you see on the street, churches or working place don't even have a boyfriend when you get closer to them... They just form they have a man, but when you get closer to then, they are single...
Why are the beautiful ladies single... And the ones not too beautiful are getting married... "Abi beauty nor they sell again"

I have already partly covered why they are single in some previous posts:

www.nairaland.com/1568999/why-nice-ladies-get-dumped#20465001

www.nairaland.com/1568999/why-nice-ladies-get-dumped#20470602

To summarise:

- They tend to have battalions of toasters or people attracted to them.

- They know their value in the market and have a gauge of how long that value has left so they can afford to do as they like.

Women getting abundant attraction is like a man who gets sex way too easily. What is the rush for such a person in coupling up?