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[quote author=Efemena_xy]Still wielding the axe as fiercely as ever eh, Saga?

Happy New Year o! [/quote]Fucktards bokun. One is born every second, I need to keep on wielding my intellectual axe.

It is like playing a Sega-Mega drive game where I need to save the world with a magic axe.

I never greet you dis year.

Happy New Year, baby.

FXKing2012: The law would make men respect women more and treat them much better than is the case at present.

And it's wrong to say 'stealing from men to pay women' because it goes both ways; the woman also pays if she earns more than the man. The wealthier party settles the less financially bouyant party for support given....has nothing to do with gender.

So, according to this person, the law should be made based on the assumption that something is wrong with men and nothing is wrong with women.

That is not the only fucktardism in the approach, it also leaves all men vulnerable to being abused under the law irrespective of being good or bad men.

When I call people fucktards, some on NL would say I am insulting someone.

[quote author=fresh_dude]Herein lies your problem, it is IMPOSSIBLE for you to think outside

NO. The law should make either sex respect the other. It's just switching one bias for the other with the present system.[/quote]Don't mind the moronic person!

It is unfortunate the cretin has a right to vote. Fck democracy!

FXKing2012: Do you realise that in the 'underdveloped world', women are constantly abused and mistreated in their homes due to the laws that are heavily biased in favour of men?

And a person like you, in your product of a failed education wisdom, think the solution is to reverse the bias and create a different problem?

Cretin!

FXKing2012: Now I see where your frustration lies, somehow I knew I had to question your stability.

And your instability is in the head?

hardbody: So you are already planning on catching saga mite? Need I say more?

Despite my 6 wives.

And she would come online to claim she NEVER dates married men.

Hypocrisy!

Ola one: From Sagamite: you are a person! Imb.ecil.e!

Wassyzone: Hmmm,a real talk dat appeard to b bitter.....let me tell u dis,ever1 cannot get marid,some girl has bein destin to to get marid to married one and men are not ready to marrid,and u kno each year females got ripes to d stage of marriage when singles are still searchn for ways,instead of u wastn ur tym at home and gettn older,why can u go for some inlov and ready to takecare of u and make happy..we need to take a deep sences on lola's advis,i kno it sounds betterly but a truth and fact TALK.

I tried reading this but I honestly gave up by the second comma.

We need to smack our children hard ffs so they don't write in this way.

Serious mental laziness and failure of the education system.

[quote author=fresh_dude]I'm a little confused as to what you mean by stability. But I'll help/humour you:
1. Mental Stability- On point.
2. Penile Stability- Unwavering.
3. Intellectual Stability- Solid as a rock.
4. Financial Stability- Well, improving.
Hope I could help?[/quote]

Again, Julius Berger has bribed its way to another inflated contract.

Tgirl4real: Polygamy is no sin...

http://mobility.com.ng/mister/of-married-men-and-single-ladies/

After reading like the first 4 paragraphs of this guy's article, I came to one conclusion very, very quickly: The guy is a brilliant writer.

Absolute fantastic structure to his writing style and very good use of English words.

He carries you along with his writing to the point it would hardly matter if the article was long.

A brilliant writer he is. As good as the best in the West, he should be a journalist.

[quote author=fresh_dude]Let it go man, it's not about who's right or wrong, but what's right or wrong. By now, even to you, the truth should be obvious. No use digging yourself deeper. Admit your mistake and move on already. Damn![/quote]He is either one of the two:

1) A product of the Nigerian failed education system where the approach to public education is ("I no go carry last" ) defiance and you exhaust the mentality of "I no go gree. I go hold your cloth. You must kill me today before I gree." to save face when the product's idiocy is exposed.

2) An unfortunate mental patient that our non-existent mental health programme, due to corruption, cannot address. Many of his kind walk the streets of Nigeria without any medication to ease their mental health issues.

Miss Ope: who let the dogs out?

Atheist @ work again...... Must u prove to the world dat U're a low lifed faggort whereas u tink U're one sort of mr know it all..MUMU get a life...

You are a person!

Cretinous mumu! Ashawo church now waiting for God to give her husband after sleeping with all the men in congregation.

And this mumu is talking about dogs? Wnners Chapel will expose your ashaworism a day before your wedding, hypocritical slut?

1k001: How is it that you were so quick to resort to name calling. This is aggressive, bullying behaviour.

Lends credence to your claim of a high self esteem as evidenced by this paper

Relation of threatened egotism to violence and aggression: The dark side of high self-esteem.
Baumeister, Roy F.; Smart, Laura; Boden, Joseph M.
Psychological Review, Vol 103(1), Jan 1996, 5-33. doi: 10.1037/0033-295X.103.1.5
Abstract
Conventional wisdom has regarded low self-esteem as an important cause of violence, but the opposite view is theoretically viable. An interdisciplinary review of evidence about aggression, crime, and violence contradicted the view that low self-esteem is an important cause. Instead, violence appears to be most commonly a result of threatened egotism—that is, highly favorable views of self that are disputed by some person or circumstance. Inflated, unstable, or tentative beliefs in the self's superiority may be most prone to encountering threats and hence to causing violence. The mediating process may involve directing anger outward as a way of avoiding a downward revision of the self-concept. (PsycINFO Database Record (c) 2012 APA, all rights reserved)

When people want to criticise others, they better make sure they use their brain to think before opening their gob.

The fooool did not!

He was most likely the one that felt threatened by my declaration that I had sense in disproportionate abundance than virtually all human beings.

I did not feel threatened, I just saw a foooool that was asking for trouble.

[quote author=Missy_B]I have NEVER dated a married man . . .NEVER gone into a relationship with a dude who was already in a r/ship either.

Sagamite, just dey there and be running your mouth. If I catch you, eh! [/quote]I will see you in heaven!

You go hear weeeen!

Ola one: Haaaha. The Bible is old school, innit?
In fact, according to Seun, just repent 5 minutes before you die. Repent and be saved. What a 'logical' reasoning!

I love the bible jor.

It makes life so easy.

Me, I am an ashawo now.

If I am lucky not to die before 65, I will be a pastor on my 65th birthday.

Nothing to lose by then, I for don dey wrinkle, that is the end of my attraction shelf-life and I would probably statistically have a maximum of 10 more years to live (with my current diet, make that 2 more years ), so I go repent and take Jesu kia kia masa masa. Right now, na Ikebe and juicy melons I wan take.

Heaven here I come.

At least nothing is in the bible saying once you have passed judgement day and entered heaven, God can toss you out to hell after that. All the girls for heaven go hear weeen!

Ola one: BTH, too many hypocrite on this thread. Our girls do this regularly.
Let girls on this thread swear (changes nothing, though) they have NEVER dated married men. Abeg joo!
We see this everyday

By far the vast majority of girls over 18 have dated a guy they know is attached (i.e. married or in a relationship).

The forbidden fruit sex is sweeter for girls.

Stories dey for my crew's life!

Hiding and boning them is exciting for their drama-seeking life. It is also esteem boosting and a thrill to know they can snatch that rival's man and he is paying her more attention than his chic.

Logic will tell you that the game is over when you tell a girl you are in a relationship. Real life will tell you most times "Hell No, it just started". And it is easier, faster and more intense. She would do more work than she would have done if you were single as long as you are an eligible guy.

elklehamite: Lola Alao and the likes,go for married men and be happy on earth/in the world and when it is time for you and others alike to leave this world finally,you will end up in SORROWFUL ETERNITY and be sorrowful for adultery.There snake would be making your soul happy where you will be with the lord(SATAN) of sorrow.I advise you and others alike to repent now,for the Bible said "what shall it profit a man to gain the whole world and loss the precious blessed eternity"? Lola and co should think about this.

Rubbish!

And the bible also said if she repents and accept Jesu before she dies, she would be forgiven and go straight to sweet heaven (the precious blessed eternity).

According to your beautiful bible, she can snatch/have affair with any married man, if the wife gets bitter and starts wishing evil or engaging in hate on her, when Lola repents before she dies, she would go to heaven while the unrepented bitter wife would end up in hell when she dies.

Beautiful logic by the bible!

So all she has to do is to be tactical and lucky and she would be rewarded with a married man and heaven. The odds are on her side.

[size=16pt]Draft Criminal Charges Detail How Gov. Peter Odili Plundered Rivers State's $500million To Set Up Arik Air And Buy Up Media At AIT, Thisday, Newswatch And ChannelsTV[/size]

SaharaReporters has obtained detailed draft charges that never made it to the courts regarding the brazen looting of Rivers State treasury by the state’s former governor, Peter Odili. The documents show how Mr. Odili used a combination of government officials and personal companies disguised as fronts to fleece Rivers State to the tune of N100 billion between 2004 and 2007.

Saharareporters’ analysis of the draft charges, which were prepared by well-known Nigerian lawyer Festus Keyamo on behalf of Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC) under the chairmanship of Mrs. Farida Waziri, reveal that, between December 2004 and September 2006, Emmanuel Nkatah, a personal staff of the governor operating at the Rivers State liaison office in Abuja, alone withdrew over N4 billion naira from Zenith Bank account No. 6010916567 which belonged to Rivers State Government House.

The 220-count draft indictment targeted Mr. Odili and 24 others regarding allegations of theft, conspiracy to commit theft, money laundering and fraud.

The draft charges listed other accused persons and beneficiaries of Mr. Odili’s extensive looting. The list includes founder of Arik Airline, Johnson Arumemi-Ikhide, former Minister of Aviation, Babalola Borisade, two former People's Democratic Party chairmen, Ahmadu Alli and Barnabas Gemade. Also listed as co-accused are Pauline K. Tallen, Mrs. Olufemi Agagu, Ike Nwachukwu, a retired general, and Ukandi Damanchi, a professor.

The businesses named in the charge sheet include Courage Communications Ltd, Attn Ltd, Ragolis Water Ltd, M/S Wetland Health Services Ltd, Transky Ltd, Foby Eng. Ltd, First Medical/Sterile Company Ltd, Habila Resources Ltd, Rockson Engineering Co. Ltd, Ojemai Farms Ltd, Ojemai Investments Ltd, and Godsonic Oil Company Ltd, an oil company owned by Peter Odili which also has business interests in the Nigeria/Sao Tome Joint Development Zone (JDZ) Block 4.

The documents reveal, for instance, that between January 2004 and December 2006, Mr. Johnson Arumemi-Ikhide, the alter ego of Rockson Eng. Ltd, received over N60 billion from the accounts of the Rivers State government. Also between September 2005 and the year 2006, Mr. Borishade was the beneficiary of an illegal diversion of over N4 billion in the guise that it would be used to rehabilitate Port Harcourt International Airport. On March 3rd and March 10th 2006, then Governor Odili withdrew the sum of $2 million U.S. dollars for personal use but in the guise that the money would be used to sponsor senior government officials on a trip abroad. As his tenure as governor drew to a close, Mr. Odili intensified the questionable withdrawals. On March 16, 2007, he withdrew another $2 million for the same purpose of sponsoring senior government officials on a foreign trip. On April 20th 2007, he withdrew another $2 million for the same purpose. On May 23, 2007, days before he left office, he withdrew another $1 million.

Of particular interest in the indictments is Mr. Odili’s corrupt entanglement with several major media organs. The charge sheet listed some media companies that received huge sums of money from Mr. Odili’s loot. SaharaReporters learnt that the dole-outs to the media were designed to buy their silence.

The biggest chunk of the payoffs went to Nduka Obaigbena's Leaders and Company Ltd, the publishers of ThisDay newspapers, Raymond Dokpesi's Daar Communications PLC, owners of African Independent Television (AIT) and Raypower FM, John Momoh's Channels Television Ltd, and Newswatch Communications Ltd, publishers of Newswatch magazine whose chief executive is Ray Ekpu.

In particular, the charge sheet stated that between 2004 and 2007, Gov. Odili channeled almost N2 billion to Daar Communication, over N300 million to Leaders and Company, N50 million to Channels Television Ltd and over N100 million to Newswatch Communications Ltd. all received part of the loot from Mr. Odili's slush fund.

In addition, Mr. Odili was notorious for doling out cash to numerous prominent editors, columnists and reporters. Thanks to his policy of bribing the media, he received little or no negative publicity during his eight-year rule. “Governor Odili presided over Rivers State at a time when a lot of revenue was rolling in here,” said a Port Harcourt-based politician. “Yet, the state capital, Port Harcourt, was in very bad condition and the state had no good roads or other infrastructure. Where did all the money go? Why did members of the press not ask questions?”

Sometimes, Mr. Odili splashed cash on party officials as well as other notable figures. Among those who received N20 million each were Mr. Ahmadu Ali, Mrs. Olufemi Agagu, Mr. Barnabas Gemade, and retired General Ike Nwachukwu.

The documents indicate that the scale at which public funds were converted to private use was staggering. There was clear evidence of money laundering and blatant stealing of Rivers State funds for the personal use of the governor and his cronies.

Mr. Odili’s legal trouble started on October 31, 2006 when a petition came into the office of the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC). The commission launched investigations into various allegations of corruption and financial crimes leveled against Mr. Odili and other officials of the Rivers State Government. On December 12, 2006, the EFCC issued an interim investigative report and prepared a draft of 223 charges against the governor.

In a counter-move, the then Attorney-General of the state, and later Nigeria's Foreign Affairs minister, Odein Ajumogobia, on February 23, 2007 sued the EFCC, the then Speaker of the Rivers State House of Assembly, Rotimi Amaechi, and other defendants in a Federal High Court in Port Harcourt. In the suit, Mr. Ajumogobia asked Justice Ibrahim Nyaure Buba of the federal High Court in port Harcourt to bar the EFCC from investigating, prosecuting or ever harassing Mr. Odili and officials of his administration. In the suit (number FHC/PH/CS/78/2007), the then Attorney-General claimed that the EFCC had no powers to investigate the state government and that such a move went contrary to provisions of Nigeria’s Constitution which gave such power to the State House of Assembly. The suit asked the court to bar the EFCC from sharing whatever information it had gathered with the media or coercing the State House of Assembly to commence impeachment proceedings on the governor.

On March 20, 2007, Justice Buba granted the Rivers State government all that the state’s Attorney-General prayed for in what is now called a perpetual injunction. Upon leaving office, Mr. Peter Odili again went to court and asked that he should be made a beneficiary of the perpetual injunction granting him permanent immunity from prosecution. Again, Justice Buba’s court agreed. The judge imposed “a perpetual injunction restraining the EFCC from arresting, detaining and arraigning Odili on the basis of his tenure as governor based on the purported investigation.”

In 2007, the Nuhu Ribadu led EFCC claimed they immediately file an appeal but the court of appeal never assigned the case as Mary Odili was a judge with enormous powers at the Court during the period.

Again in 2008, the EFCC filed an appeal against Justice Buba’s ruling. In the brief, the EFCC argued that the commission had the right under the statute that created it to investigate economic crimes allegedly committed by the state government and Mr. Odili. It also argued that the Buba Court was wrong in proceeding with an “Original Summons when it was obvious that the parties were in serious contentions on the facts.” The appeal described Justice Buba’s action as “at best incompetent,” insisting that the court “lacked jurisdiction” to hear the case. It concluded that “the judge was wrong to have issued the declaratory orders and injunctions against the Appellant (EFCC) which amount to prohibiting [the EFCC] from carrying out its statutory functions and setting aside its report when in fact the report was not even placed before him.”

Five years after, the EFCC’s appeal is still at the Appeal Court of Nigeria in the Port Harcourt judicial division waiting for the lower court’s verdict to be vacated.

Meanwhile, Mr. Odili also went to the same court and on January 27, 2011 won a ruling that he should be joined as an interested party in the substantial case.

However, no date has been set for the hearing. Sources close to Saharareporters said that the administrations of former President Umaru Yar’Adua and incumbent President Goodluck Jonathan have had no interest in seeing Mr. Odili tried. “Both President Yar’Adua and now President Jonathan subtly encouraged the no-action status quo,” a legal source in Abuja told SaharaReporters.

In fact, while Mr. Odili’s charges had been prepared and awaiting filing at the Federal High court, President Jonathan nominated his wife, Mary Odili, to the Supreme Court in May 2011. Several sources told SaharaReporters that Mrs. Odili played a key role in the plot to scuttle the wide-ranging indictment against her husband.

After governing the oil-rich Rivers State from 1999 to 2007, Mr. Odili ran for president in 2007. But he was forced to withdraw when some interests within his party confronted him with the numerous allegations of embezzlement of government funds during his governorship.

In his autobiography, Conscience and History, published last year, Mr. Odili acknowledged that he negotiated the charges against him with then President Olusegun Obasanjo. Mr. Odili offered to drop his presidential bid in exchange for a sort of soft landing that initially included being offered the Vice-Presidential slot. That slot was later given to Mr. Goodluck Jonathan.

Former Governor Odili is one of the nine governors whose corruption cases are in perpetual limbo in the courts. Others are James Ibori of Delta State, currently serving jail time in London for corruption, Chimaroke Nnamani of Enugu State, Joshua Dariye of Plateau State, Orji Uzor Kalu of Abia state, Lucky Igbinedion of Edo State, Saminu Turaki of Jigawa State, Boni Haruna of Adamawa State, and Jolly Nyame of Taraba State.

In spite of the swirl of corruption around Mr. Odili, he had no difficulty persuading Lincoln University, one of America’s most prestigious historically Black colleges, to accept donations from him, a fact noted by Human Rights Watch. By the end of 2006, Mr. Odili had become one of the school’s largest donors, with at least $1.64 million in donations. During that year, the university bestowed a controversial honorary degree on Mr. Odili. Lincoln held a luncheon in his honor, and named a building after him, actions that drew outrage from Nigerian groups as well as Human Rights Watch.

Political sources in Abuja told SaharaReporters that several factors have helped Mr. Odili evade prosecution so far. One factor is his wife, whose position as a justice of the Supreme Court makes her an insider who is able to ensure that her husband will not face a no-nonsense judge. Another factor is that Mr. Odili was very close to former President Obasanjo, and was an early and enthusiastic supporter of Mr. Obasanjo’s failed plan to change the Nigerian constitution in order to continue as president. Besides, since the end of his tenure as governor, Mr. Odili has moved to Abuja where he maintains a quiet profile, making as little political noise as possible. After years of feuding with his successor, Governor Rotimi Amaechi, Mr. Odili and the Rivers State governor had a kind of reconciliation in 2011, just as Mrs. Odili was elevated to Nigeria’s apex court. In a country where political considerations are often paramount, Mr. Odili has ensured that he is not perceived as a political threat to President Jonathan and other powerful political interests while his businesses which are proceeds of corruption booms.

Mr. Keyamo’s detailed charge sheet was prepared for former EFCC chairman Farida Waziri. The file was inherited by current EFCC chairman Ibrahim Lamorde who has failed to prosecute Mr. Odili despite the fact that, as several legal authorities told SaharaReporters, the so-called injunction obtained by the former Rivers State governor does not really stand in the way of the anti-corruption agency.

Fucktards should continue praying for their leaders.

orgasticdance: Nothing defines insecurity quite like what you've written here sir...
You can't have a high self esteem and also be someone who derives a sense of worth from your perceived superiority to those around you.
Not in my book

You are a person!

What makes your "book" intelligent or sensible?

What proof do you have to back up this psychological assessment you pulled from your arsse?

Chynx: Spot on!...Seconded!

Going by the current state of relationships among young men and lades, coupled with the fact that the ratio of men to women has women more in number; it is glaringly sad to know that if every man decides to wed just ONE lady, then so many ladies will remain unmarried. I am sure this is not what you want for your daughters and sisters. God Himself would want every woman to be happily married...if she chooses to.

To me, Polygamy is not a crime...so long as the ladies are MARRIED by the men.

Wrong!

There are more women than men (1) overall, (2) at birth and (3) at marriageable age.

The point is that eligible women are more than eligible men in societies.

That said, absolutely nothing wrong with polygamy.

Miss Ope: Inferiority complex,,, low self esteem too

I can't have that.

I have superiority complex and insanely high self esteem because I believe the most important thing in life, Sense, I have it in disproportionate abundance than virtually all human beings.

So whatever the other person has more than me is an inferior asset.

I can only have minor anxiety if the other person has demonstrate great intellect in life and is in a position that states it e.g. Executive of a big firm.

Note: I said minor and demonstrate.

I must have seen evidence of the person demonstrating it and it must be something my high self esteem tells me I am not as capable of, otherwise his position would not mean shyt to me.

It would be minor because I normally just excuse the demonstration of such to experience which I too would have by their age. So nothing special about them and they normally don't impress me.

vanstanzy: Are u learning? Being a married man is when the temptation from these single ladies is most. Its like they wait for

u to get married, and then *BAM!*. Yes, am a married man and i have single ladies on my trail,

but God Willing, i won't fall into their temptation.

I have always suggested to guys who want to increase the score rate to buy a wedding ring and then go out to a club to dance but SHOULD NOT chase girls. Then they should see how the would be bombarded with eye contact, approach and flirting by girls if they (the guys) are in reasonable shape.

The more they behave like "You are attractive but I want to be faithful", the more the girls will be determined you are going inbetween this ish tonight.

Even as a single guy, girls have more interest in you if you say you are in a relationship, than if you say you are single and available.

https://www.nairaland.com/911904/991.html/2#10577897

It beats logic, but as I have said severally on NL, attracting women is not a logical process.

[quote author=Ms_favey]gosh i disagree with, men are bound to cheat! Nomata what their wives do. So spare me that shit can't bliv some peole support this careless advice frm one local yoruba mama[/quote]And women don't cheat?

lynpetra: Men are promiscuous in nature.If you happen to see one that is faithful,then you are dammmmnnn lucky.IMO,what she said is totally wrong,but let's not forget that this days,married women are now behaving like men dem full my Estate for Abuja. Some young married ladies still fuuuck their ex.RUBBBBISHH

Thak you.

[quote author=Missy_B]False!
You people need to stop making excuses for the irresponsible beings out there. Men are no more ''naturally'' promiscuous than women are. . . They enjoy sex no better than women do . . . They do not have sexual urges more frequently than women do. Forget whatever theory may have been presented to you. Promiscuity is not gender-specific, it's rather an individual problem. Thank you![/quote]Men think of fuku faka at about twice the amount of times women think of it.

[quote author=Yoruba_Omoge]True sha.

Women are attracted to what they cannot have and mostly what another woman has.

If they see another man properly taking care of another woman, na him dem go follow.

Naturally, women want an "already-made" man, and almost all "already made" are married.

I'm just saying.[/quote]GBAM!

Take a girl or group of girls to a club and all the girls would target you.

Real life.

I agree with her o.

FXKing2012: So long they contributed same percentage of income then they contributed 50/50.

Spousal support doesnt mean the guy gives everything he's got to the woman, he's only gonna give a part of his wealth to support the person who helped him achieve emotional and psychological support when his career could have suffered when he was emotionally and psychologically down.

And let's not forget it goes both ways: women also pay spousal support or alimony if she earns more than the man.

This guy is a pure person, mehn!

What proof does this cretin have that her emotional and psychological support did not make his career suffer?

The person assumes the cretinous "emotional and psychological support" he rants about is positive? How come it is not negative?

A pure person!

50/50 is contributing 95/5. Pure person!

She dey do me antenna!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kfcKzQg9IxU

dayokanu: Sagamite lets organize Prayer network and vigils for Patience oo

When I have a train jam my brain in London and them damage it completely, then I will join the prayers.

Pukkah: I'm not shedding any tear for them,, especially those who parrot the nonsense that it was God that imposed the regime on them.

You don't agree it was God?

You don't know that Jonathan's first name is Goodluck. He became a governor through goodluck and then became president through another goodluck, hence when voted for he would bring goodluck to Nigeria?

You think that goodluck has nothing to do with God?

That is the REAL-LIFE logic of some of Nigeria's voters including so-called graduates.