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RomanceRe: When A Relationship Wasn't Defined: Hilarious Conversation by Sagamite(m): 6:30pm On Dec 28, 2015
francizy:
You'll never make sense in your life because your lack reasoning.. Goat faced punk!
You are a cretinous fuuktard!

Explain to me what link existed between what is being discussed and the moronic analogy you brought from your arsse.

When one calls fuuktards like you products of a failed education system, you willl think it is an insult, not knowing it is a perfect description of your existence.
RomanceRe: When A Relationship Wasn't Defined: Hilarious Conversation by Sagamite(m): 6:27pm On Dec 28, 2015
HARDDON:
Nopes he ain't!

Taking advantage of a naive gurl isn't kul. Ain't manly n I'm very sure she is a minor from d way she relates.
Bliv me, that gurl wud grow n do guys some ish....
You are a cretinous fuuktard!

So, real man, she is "naive"?
RomanceRe: When A Relationship Wasn't Defined: Hilarious Conversation by Sagamite(m): 4:52pm On Dec 28, 2015
mcdon1986:
i am sure that WHO EVER the guy is that was on the conversation, he must be following this tread so get the whip, Ya have perhaps enjoyed your self to the best of your knowledge. but the question is; now what next? perhaps look for the next loose girls.. yes it's only loose lady that can have things to do with people of your mentality who thinks relationships is all about sex. and as for many in this game, the question for you is when will you grow up from being a toddler in the hands of your fleshy desire... are you not burden with the fact that your life has been manipulated For long by forces beyond your compression, its a pity that many know the danger of living life of sinful desire, sex inclusive, yet are not concerned with the need to put things in order. alot have been victim of what the Bible called the "ABOMINATION OF THE EARTH " sex inclusive... my scolding is to let you know, ladies and gentlemen relationships built with sex as a determinate factor for satisfaction and love, is a relationship trapped in deceit, void of sacrifice and such a relationship will face a possible crack down, well no thanks to many constitution that provided a passive solution via divorce there by, further subjugating the life of many to avoid the tenets of righteous living in abstinence from sex before marriage...the world has gone bad and many have been drunken with the wine of her fornication (the devil)... you don't believe me because it's a mystery at work in the life of many........wellll the long and short of My sermons is that it's possible to live a life devoid of fornication.....yes you too can win the battle over sex I won so can you. no more excuses........ Jesus is still the old rugged way.... .
Shut the fck up!

There are men and women who don't mind occassional casual sex.

That is not necessarily negative or makes them "loose".

Cretins like you that can not enjoy your lives are just miserable and sad beings. Usually miserable and sad beings following some teaching by some medieval illiterate that your gullibly follow.
RomanceRe: When A Relationship Wasn't Defined: Hilarious Conversation by Sagamite(m): 4:46pm On Dec 28, 2015
Officialkenshin:
What the op did is bad. But come to think of it, some girls deserve this, CU's na all this kind guys them they like, when better guy go come around ask them out they will reject it. Not that the guy is ugly or anything but they want the one who will play with their heart.
You are spot on.

With what just happened, I can guarantee you they just signed a contract for many more years of booty call while cretins like francizy is begging someone like her for a date.
RomanceRe: When A Relationship Wasn't Defined: Hilarious Conversation by Sagamite(m): 4:44pm On Dec 28, 2015
francizy:

You're an îmbecilic goat. So if a woman emotionally blackmails you like this (which i dont see anything in it) and you have her nude pictures, you'll leak it to the whole world right?


It's foolishly senseless guys like you that open up incedents like this about girls and make them more aware of how childish and brainless some of you are. These are things your ilks should learn to keep private instead of spilling it out in order to look like a hero untop woman pûssy. A big achievement to you right? Maybe thats the reason why you publicize your sexual escapades. Ode buruku!
You are a dumb cretinous fuuktard!

How did you logically link the cretinous junk you just wrote to what is being discussed, cretin?

Dumbfck!
RomanceRe: When A Relationship Wasn't Defined: Hilarious Conversation by Sagamite(m): 4:43pm On Dec 28, 2015
DonUjay:
some boys no get conscience sha. How can you be so freaking Blunt. He made the girl feel so worthless! as worthless as the toilet paper I use in wiping my a** Crack
When you grow up and grow sense, you will start learning to consider your own self-interest over the interest of someone who does not have your interest at heart.
RomanceRe: When A Relationship Wasn't Defined: Hilarious Conversation by Sagamite(m): 4:41pm On Dec 28, 2015
joseph1832:
Very funny indeed. I mean the girl is clearly seeing the handwriting on the wall and she still want to nag. The guy has clearly stated it that the one thing she's good for is "f*#king".
Imagine.

She wanted to force herself on him.

She is such a poor, innocent, naive girl that does not know the fcking she is engaged in is a booty call one or a relationship one? undecided

She should tell that BS to "real men" fuuktards.
RomanceRe: When A Relationship Wasn't Defined: Hilarious Conversation by Sagamite(m): 4:36pm On Dec 28, 2015
Banter1:
To the guys, please just stop fvcking people's daughters.
Because?

Ya father no fck ya mother?
RomanceRe: When A Relationship Wasn't Defined: Hilarious Conversation by Sagamite(m): 4:33pm On Dec 28, 2015
dachaste:
Seriously. It just shows how immature d guy is.




A big fool at that.
Shut the fck up!

Were you trying to pat that real man foool on the back for his dumb rants?
RomanceRe: When A Relationship Wasn't Defined: Hilarious Conversation by Sagamite(m): 4:32pm On Dec 28, 2015
pax1:
The guy is not responsible.. I don't make friends with guys like this
You are a cretin!

Are you his employer? What responsibility did you give him that he did not carry out?
RomanceRe: When A Relationship Wasn't Defined: Hilarious Conversation by Sagamite(m): 4:30pm On Dec 28, 2015
francizy:
Some guys are just foolish like that. I said this cuz I've had no strings attached with some girls, I've even had sex on a first date with some and I didn't make a mountain out of it or use it to bash the girls. The guy should have just politely told her that it was just a sexual fling and nothing else, rather than spilling it to her face like that and worst still, exposing it to the whole world. The guy is a foool tho.
Stop chatting moronic crap, "real man".

Your dumb arsse saw nothing wrong with her trying to emotionally blackmail and force him into a relationship, you foool?

It is ediots like you girls manipulate and walk all over.

With what this guy just did, I can guarantee you that she would soon be at his house with her arsse turned high up and her waist bent down inwards so he can enter her very well.
RomanceRe: When A Relationship Wasn't Defined: Hilarious Conversation by Sagamite(m): 4:24pm On Dec 28, 2015
misspicy:
Get this in bro,most girls interpret sex as a commitment
as long as you both had sex,there sure is a relationship,they don't need telling undecided why? because they are emotional beings who attach their emotions to sex unless there have been an initial arrangement eg FWB which she is very much aware of.
But guys like you have random sex and expect things to be normal.
I know someone that would argue with you that that is not true at all.

That women treat, see and want sex just like men do and there is no difference between the sexes. undecided grin grin grin

Arguing with that person that that argument is weak would not get you anywhere.
RomanceRe: When A Relationship Wasn't Defined: Hilarious Conversation by Sagamite(m): 4:21pm On Dec 28, 2015
adegunwa4real:
Lol....that guy is heartless in a cruel way! Smh
Shut the fck up!

How is he heartless and cruel, doormat?
RomanceRe: When A Relationship Wasn't Defined: Hilarious Conversation by Sagamite(m): 4:20pm On Dec 28, 2015
dechandel:
Lemme not even start with the annoying abbreviations!! What do people do with their time to type "know" as "knw" huh
"What" as "wat" huh
"Are" as "r" huh
Nawa o

Now to the funny "friends". Na the girl I blame sha.
That awkward moment when you are in a relationship with someone and the person doesn't even know!;; grin grin angry embarassed cry
When we have so much products of a failed education in Nigeria, don't be surprised with the level of mental laziness that leads to this textspeak.

Irritating fuuktards!
RomanceRe: When A Relationship Wasn't Defined: Hilarious Conversation by Sagamite(m): 4:18pm On Dec 28, 2015
talktonase:
Friends with benefit!
It is not friends with benefit.

The guy clearly insinuated they are not friends.

It is a pure booty call relationship.
FamilyRe: Nigerian Men And Their Foreign Wives. A Must Read. by Sagamite(m):
tearoses:
Look at this bush man from Shagamu tongue grin grin
You mean you don't know your floribunda roses from your tea roses?
You don't know anything yet
I am sure you will soon be standing in a 3 hour queue outside Pandora
its just a matter of time
When Mrs Shagamus love bug bites you cool
When I want to buy Mrs Shagamus flowers, I would buy her Ewedu or Efo versions.

At least, those are flowers she can use in the Kitchen and we can eat. Not waste of my money.

Some yeye people would even be reading this, laughing at me and saying those are leaves, not flowers.

Na una know. Same noni to me. cheesy
RomanceRe: I Am The Only One Who Thinks Mrcork Is Not Funny? by Sagamite(m): 2:04pm On Dec 27, 2015
EnlightenedSoul:
@ Sagamite I hope I've not offended you. It was not my intention.
No, don't worry, you have not.

Let me let you briefly into my response thought process:

When I saw your reply, I read only the first 3 lines, it was obvious you intended to persist to keep on arguing against my point.

To be frank, there is nothing new I could bring that I felt would change that position since you would even argue that feminist are not antagonistic and anti-men despite me showing you an independent outburst against the antics of feminists by women themselves.

The whole Hitchens stuff is clear as far as I concerned. But I am also aware it is a bit ambiguous because he mixed his personal position on his wife with his view on his position on women generally up. This mixture can create ambiguity leading to people choosing to interpret it as they wish even though with, logical reasoning, it is obvious his position.

The ambiguity and interpretation is just like you have when people read and follow the Bible and Quran. People can interpret as they wish, not logically, because ambiguity exists.

I felt you were entitled to your interpretation and I knew I would not change it, so I thought of just telling you "We will just agree to disagree".

Then I strolled down to see the other point about sapiosexuals.

While reading that, I saw your slight insult.

Obviously, me being Sagamite, my guttural response was to come down with the hammer.

But I just thought, leave it because:

- It would be ridiculous an argument over something that is a bit ambiguous would degenerate into my thunder and lightening responses.

- Secondly, I have spent a lot of times insulting you far worse than that, and most times you do not retaliate. So there really is no need for vengeance.

The only thing I just thought of doing was that, "If she is going to insult me, then I would not even be respectful enough to tell her 'lets agree to disagree'. I will just leave the argument there". So I changed my mind about responding after reading the lower parth

I did that not because I was angry, but because I felt that was the appropriate response to the insult, which really did not bother me.

To be frank I was not offended, I am just quite militant in my approach on NL.
FamilyRe: Nigerian Men And Their Foreign Wives. A Must Read. by Sagamite(m):
EfemenaXY:
Lol @ the bolded.

You do have some hardline stance - but at least you're open and upfront about it. Yep - it's all about choices at the end of the day.
I know myself, I know my stance, I know what makes me happy and I know what is sensible.

I will not be caught dead in the delivery room with any wife. I would stay outside until delivery is complete. What is with all this modern hollywood rubbish that a man must be inside {says sarcastically and mockingly} "to support his wife through the delivery"?

"Fck that, nigga. ........Fck that!"

Call your mother, sister or best friend to be in the delivery room with you.

Another silly expectation is when women expect and want you to remember the day you met or started dating.

"Biatch, I don't even remember the date I was born. How the fck will I remember the date we started dating and how the fck does that matter?"

I NEVER remember it. At best, I would remember the 6 month range it falls within. After about 5 years, that would turn into a 1 year range.

Any woman that needs a man that is like that needs to look at another man, not me.

Mo o wa romantic rara o! (I am not romantic at all!)

Most things people find romantic that men do, I just find silly.
PropertiesRe: £4m Property: Nigeria Vs UK (which One Would You Buy?) by Sagamite(op):
phoenix480:
@Sagamite
This takes me back to a real estate investment club "Inside Track" seminar I attend several years ago in the UK. This was what ignited my interest in real estate - the facts were just too good. Buying discounted Buy-to-let properties with guaranteed tenants, with little to no deposit, and the property doubling in price every 7-8 years. Truth be told, the only reason I didn't invest was because I was a student at the time.

I just did a google search now on the same investment club, only to realise they have closed up due to bankruptcy during the 2008 crisis.

All that glitters is not gold...
You too dey see?

That is one of the tools of the groupthink and hype that leads to bubbles.

They too have busted with their 'too good and easy to be true' investment.

As I said, make una no believe all that hype and utter misinformation by layman experts that Naija properties in highbrow areas would rent for thousands of dollars and you will just be rich and drunk on dollars.

There is a complete oversupply for that upper market that the demand cannot match.

By coincidence, exactly what I was telling you guys on this thread 5 days ago, Al Jazeera did a piece on saying exactly the same thing 2 days after I stated so:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pViOW9RfJaw

They even mentioned the same 2% I mentioned.

How can (guessing here) over 50% of the decent housing stock be aimed at only 2% of the population to buy and can only be rented by these 2% and you don't see a bubble?

How many houses can the 2% live in at the same time? How many expatriates are companies bringing in?

Nigerian property market is a baba nla big bubble waiting to happen. A price correction WILL happen.

I actually spent my Xmas with some people who live in Abuja and they were telling me how many posh houses and flats are always empty in Abuja.
RomanceRe: Say Your Christmas Wishes To Someone On Nairaland (2015) by Sagamite(m): 12:59pm On Dec 27, 2015
Portsmouth86:
Thank you for your Christmas wishes.

I would like to also pass on the Christmas wishes to:

@girlfio, @olobeloloko, @ToyinNick, @Winso26, @bashbabe2, @Oluebbie, @Benjamite01, @novicee, @ekpotek, @Oreskid, @blza, @thatula, @jangolo, @noirAlex, FrontPageLawyer, @Mystiqme, @Obodo999, @babyisUS, @Lexusgs430, @bcasol, @newbie715, @Ioannes, @highdreez, @fun1, @iblaw, @kristonium, @Iamoilprince, @mahyowah, @HFK, @Minulight, @jannies, @Sagamite, @stupep, @dubbiskelly, @Minemrys, @eleshin, @MEGGATRON @,justwise, @Viktor1983

Have a wonderful Holiday and a Prosperous New year 2016 kiss shocked grin cheesy wink smiley
Compliments of the season, darling.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Merry Christmas To All Nairalanders And Their Families by Sagamite(m): 12:58pm On Dec 27, 2015
Psalm18:
smiley kissMerry

To every one.

Change agents on nairaland: Berem, Omenka,Passing shot etc

To PDP warriors- phockphockman, Barcanista, Abagworo, Chukwudi etc

To the keyboard warriors- who got no chill for anybody with contrary opinion especially foolish opinion. This group ably represented by Sagamite and co ( you know yourselves)

To mods both partisan and non partisan- take it easy in the new year with the ban and threat of it. Mynd44, Lalasticlala

To the ones who argue between Russian Putin and Obama USA who will win a thermonuclear war.
Chill out bro, this ain't computer game. World war 3 is not good and the world won't be pushed into it. Both countries may posture alot publicly but behind the scenes they are allies. Non zero sum game.

To the mad ones who feel they are bringing God message by spamming the religious board with fake signs and revelations about the end of the world.
Get a job, get laid , make babies. Essentially live your lives. God has not reveleaed to man when the world will end. Your wild dreams and highness from.alcohol is no substitute for God's word that no one knows the end of time.
A recent report concluded that humanity is living through some of its best and peaceful times.
Read a bit of history. The world has always knows strife, warfare, sin of incest, rape, murder has been woven from time immemorial to human history.
All these 'signs' you see today has always been with Man and even worse in the past centuries.
There were no laws and human rights yet the world did not end in the past. There were the Vikings, Goths, holocaust, slavery. All of these have essentially been reduced.
End time is not here. wink

To those who read and don't comment. Much respect. Better to be thought a fool than to open your mouth and confirm it.

To those who push the envelope of controversial topics- both fake and real. Eg. Making up stories and using fake blogs... Kontinu

No, don't continue. Stop it. It's not nice undecided


To those Nigerians who celebrate all our achievers regardless of how they do it. Please engage your brains in the new year.
That I asked if Opeyemi Enoch truly solved the Riemann hypothesis does not indicate I hate him. I don't even know the brother but we have had too many people misrepresent their achievements and led the rest of us to be scorned before the international community. Abalaka(his concoction of HIV meds did more harm than good), Emeagwali (he was once a rising star but he failed his Phd and yes Clinton made a mistake), Gabriel Oyibo (a mad man if ever there was one).

So some of us are careful to acclaim the latest genius before the right steps are taken. In science, reputable journals and your peers are those who acclaim you and not the mass media especially reporters who have no resources to do proper vetting and checks.

We have had Nigerians do sterling work and original research that was widely acclaimed and respected but we also have had few soil our name. And I suspect Opeyemi Enoch is among them. I don't care if he is a pastor or your lecturer at UNAD. Science and academia don't work that way.

Anyways in a year time, the Clay Institute will tell us if he truly won one of Maths holy grail.

To those who rush to be first to comment with nothing worthwhile to say cry grow up. No prizes for been first to comment.

Finally I dedicate this second space to Musiwa/ and his various monikers eg pus, puois.
Were it not for the heavy images that run down my data, you would have been my favorite nairalander.

cry hate him or like him, he keeps me cracked up.
The emperor of western Nigeria. Greetings from Nigeria.

My own personal thoughts. The girl wondering if its right to toast a guy out and the numerous guys saying its alright. It's a lie. It's not alright. They will boast to their friends and toy with your emotions. After all, he didn't ask you out. We love a bit of chasing.

The ones who advocate condoms don't prevent HIV. Stop that lies. Don't bring your personal opinion to science. Some people only encounter with true knowledge, comes from nairaland. Condoms work. Early sex education also helps youngster make better decisions.

To those who create fake statements and attribute it to Soyinka, Nwabueze, and other elite Nigerians. Be a man and stand by your own thoughts. Like Fayose does.

Who else?
I'll edit if I remember any.
For now. Am off to slaughter my hen.

I'm getting married in the new year. You all are invited..you have to find a way to my house first cheesy


To scamJones. Stop been an old troll. Organizing fake rewards. Go and get a girlfriend. She will help you heal faster from your issues, whatever they may be.

Merry Xmas you all. kiss
Merry Xmas, mate.
EducationRe: Rough Guide Of The Best & Most Reputable Universities In The UK by Sagamite(op): 12:46pm On Dec 27, 2015
chopperstraw:
Hey Sagamite, where are your numbers from? I looked at the wikipedia pages and the numbers are different (and are off by quite a lot for some of them).
Here, mate:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Category:Alumni_by_university_or_college_in_England
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Category:Alumni_by_university_or_college_in_London
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Category:Alumni_by_university_or_college_in_Scotland
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Category:Alumni_by_university_or_college_in_Wales
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Category:Alumni_by_university_or_college_in_Northern_Ireland


For Oxbridge, remember you will also have to add the alumni list from the individual colleges to the ones entered for the university as a whole:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Category:Alumni_of_the_University_of_Oxford_by_college
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Category:Alumni_of_the_University_of_Cambridge_by_college



The numbers are different because people keep on adding profiles everyday.

Even the numbers I put in, I gathered a few months before I could be bothered to put them up. I could not be bothered to update before I put them up because I knew the numbers would change the next few days but I also knew the changes are unlikely to change the positions.

It is an idea of the positions that mattered to my point, not the exact numbers of alumni.

Looking at current figures (without me adjusting the previous ranks):

Rank. University (Number of alumni entries on Wikipedia)
1. Oxford (11679+)
2. Cambridge (9500+)
3. Edinburgh (2762)
4. KCL (1403)
5. LSE (1318)
6. UCL (1182)

7. Glasgow (947)
8. Durham (820)
9. Birmingham (761)
10. Aberdeen (558)
11. Manchester (567)
12. St Andrews (576)
13. Bristol (491)
14. East Anglia (485)
15. Leeds (443)
16. Imperial (416)
17. Queen's University Belfast (343)
18. Sussex (352)
19. Loughborough (322)
=20. Liverpool (298)
=20. Nottingham (298)


If you were to change the rank based on recent entries, St Andrews would move up to 10th. Aberdeen down to 12th.

Queen's University Belfast will interchange with Sussex at 17th and 18th.

And Nottingham will join the Top 20 by being joint 20th position with Liverpool.

Basically, not drastic changes from what I put up.

As I said in the post you quoted: "...[new entries] is more likely to have an impact [i.e. positional changes] outside the Top 20."
PropertiesRe: £4m Property: Nigeria Vs UK (which One Would You Buy?) by Sagamite(op): 9:32pm On Dec 23, 2015
phoenix480:
@Sagamite
Some of the facts you have stated cannot be argued with. Nevertheless, some of those theories (e.g. Demand and Supply) does not work in parts of Nigeria. And this Real estate bubble people have been mentioning for years, I am yet to see any. There have been prediction of prices crashing in places like Banana Island as early as 5 years ago, yet guess what happened...The land reclamation in places like Osborne Ikoyi is baffling despite the relatively high vacancy rate on the Island. I know of someone who spent over N150million reclaiming land in Osborne Forshore but recently rejected an offer of over N500million.
From my personal experience, since I took the plunge in investing in Nigeria's real estate, the returns have been impressive (albeit the unorderly business terrain).I have invested in a UK property several years ago so I can make a decent comparison on both sides.
Anyway at the end of the day, depending on each person's objectives: different strokes for different folks...
I remember a time when people in the West (especially the US) thought properties were the best investment and the only way the investment would go was "UP". So they saw it "a no-brainer investment". Many made a killing until it came crashing.

Some few spotted this groupthink and the risk.

A movie has just been made about it.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GWMemC0AArs
PropertiesRe: £4m Property: Nigeria Vs UK (which One Would You Buy?) by Sagamite(op): 8:23am On Dec 23, 2015
oyb:
My God

And every other day you hear these mofos on the radio
Share the videos on Facebook.

Share the videos on Twitter.

Share the videos on Instagram.

Share it and spread the word.

I can't stand the moronic quacks like Richard Nyong that want to get rich overnight with minimum effort and incompetent work.

Typical Nigerian.

http://www.societynowng.com/Wealthy-Real-Estate-Player-Richard-Nyong-Contracts-Round-The-Clock-Protection-From-Clients-Angst

Now look at the junk written by one hungry cretin called "AZUH AMATUS" about this fraud:

Unknown to many, the billionaire property mogul behind Lekki Gardens, one of the most talked about names in the real estate sector, Richard Nyong is just 34 years old.

Nyong, who likes doing things the old way is a graduate of Economics from the University of Port Harcourt.

Surprisingly, despite the huge success he has recorded, Nyong has no formal education in the money spinning sector, where he plays big and dictates the pace.

Nyong, who sits on the board of several blue chip companies, is also a proud product of Pastor Sam Adeyemi’s Daystar Leadership Academy.

With over a decade experience in the real estate sector, Nyong’s multibillion dollar Lekki Gardens Estate Limited, also consults, develops and manages prime property for a wide range of clientele.

Aside the popular Lekki Gardens, Nyong is also the brain behind Ikoyi Gardens, Mainland Gardens, Port Harcourt Gardens and Richards Court estates.

Nyong, who believes so much in corporate social responsibility, stated that his business is a major employer of labour and has provided employment to thousands of people directly and indirectly.

Nyong’s dream is to provide affordable and quality housing to Nigerians, because according to him, real estate is the biggest expense facing any family’s income.

No wonder Lekki Gardens is going places and repositioning the real estate sector in Nigeria.
http://www.daylight.ng/meet-richard-nyong-the-34-year-old-nigerian-behind-lekki-gardens/

Hungry cretins like Azuh Amatus would write whatever you want for food in their belly.

While this crook is getting people unlawfully arrested:

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2014/10/businessman-sues-ig-others-unlawful-detention/

He is likely a front for some crooks:

http://www.topcelebritiesng.com/richard-nyong-denies-ex-gov-godswill-akpabio/
PropertiesRe: £4m Property: Nigeria Vs UK (which One Would You Buy?) by Sagamite(op): 2:37am On Dec 23, 2015
EfemenaXY:
Hang on, this doesn't make much sense to me. Why would obtaining the Deed of Assignment cost more than the property itself? That means nothing less than N600K was spent - excluding the additional costs they've been forced to shell out for.

And for 100K, abeg I think they got a good deal. I'm not very conversant with Lagos environs, but isn't Lekki a high brow area? And if it is, then the landlords must have spent well over 100k per unit. The iron rods alone used must have cost a bob or two.

Electricity: the lady in that video claims they spend nearly N50K (monthly?). So in two months they've paid the equivalent of the unit itself...
You are getting this all wrong.

There is no house in Nigeria you can buy for N100K (£400).

The houses cost around N26m to N35m. Roughly £100,000.

To get the Deed of Assignment, they paid another N500K. Roughly £2,000.

Electricity cost is about N50K per month. Roughly £200.

I am using the old exchange rate of £1 = N250 because the video clip is old.
FamilyRe: Nigerian Men And Their Foreign Wives. A Must Read. by Sagamite(m): 2:31am On Dec 23, 2015
armyofone:
@Sagamite

Ummmm well alright. But hope you won't expect her to wear lingerie or something sexy to bed.
When it comes to being in bed, my needs are very simple: I prefer my women nakeed and me deep inside them.

All these sexy these and that does nothing for me.

Be nakeed and have a good body and it will stand up like a 'Heil Hitler' salute.

armyofone:
With all you wrote, your marriage to AA or white lady won't last long. You will end up paying the alimony you so loathe grin.
Trust me, no woman can get such from me. I am too smart, ruthless and knowledgeable to be facing such even if I married.

She would spend the rest of her life in court trying to get Alimony. cool
FamilyRe: Nigerian Men And Their Foreign Wives. A Must Read. by Sagamite(m):
EfemenaXY:
Nice, insightful piece @op.

It would be equally interesting to read about the Nigerian woman married to a non-Nigerian man.

Do you have a similar analysis to share on here?

Sagamite: what's your perspective on this? Do you think there's something the Caucasian women do & get right that their Nigerian counterparts are missing / not doing?
I don't think it has anything to do with Caucasian women getting anything right.

I think it just has to do with the Nigerian men knowing that that is not the expectations/traditions of the non-Nigerian women and adapting to these and not having typical expectations themselves that they would have with a Nigerian woman.

That said, considering the antecedent of Nigerian women and the experiences of these guys with them, I suspect many Nigerian men would think a Nigerian woman would abuse the privilege of reception of similar behaviours given to non-Nigerian women. We already see how they feel they need to drag a man on the floor for wooing them, abuse of power you will hardly ever see with white women.

Personally, despite being a strong advocate of encouraging Nigerian men to date non-Nigerian women, I can confidently say I NEVER, EVER, EVER, EVER treat non-Nigerian women I date differently from Nigerian women I date.

I treat them all the same as I am not one of those people that do senseless culture, traditions or whatever.

I do things like I personally feel and which I find sensible. I understand what I want and like and don't need the approval of society (who are mainly fcktards) to validate what I want.

Whether you are white or black, I will never be caught dead having a schedule or roster of sharing housework.

Not in this life or the next!

I prefer a woman to do it but it is not by force, if you don't want to, then leave it. I wouldn't disturb you.

I do my housework ad hoc-ly, when I am in the mood. My house is never that of a neat freak and I am happy with it.

I let any woman I date have her own rights to do whatever she wants to do. I only play an advisory role, if she does not want to listen, that is her business. It is her life.

I am not romantic! I will never be romantic. That is not my calling in this life or the next. You will never see me buying roses or putting up red candles.

Any girl, black or white, that does not like it is free to find a man that is romantic.

Also, I would never marry a girl, black or white, who family (including extended) does not matter to. She must see family, as far as second cousins, as important.
PropertiesRe: £4m Property: Nigeria Vs UK (which One Would You Buy?) by Sagamite(op): 11:35pm On Dec 22, 2015
EfemenaXY:
^^ No, not 100k. 500k more like. One of the guys in that video said he paid 1/2 a million Naira for his property there. lipsrsealed embarassed

The problem with our people at the receiving end of injustice is that they're reluctant to speak out even when oppressed. Probably because they either don't know their rights or the justice system is broken. I mean how can one pay so much money to purchase a piece of property, and the deal made at the point of sale was for the buyer to receive the deeds in 4 weeks time - yet 6 to 9 months later, no sign of it and the buyer questions whether or not to take the matter to the EFCC? What's the hesitation for? Or them wondering if the "delay" is due to some credit agreement the landlord(s) entered into with a third party? How / why should that be of any concern to them?

Smh.
1/2 a million Naira?

That is like £2K.

I doubt anyone would buy a flat in Lekki for N500m. If these peoples paid that amount for those flats/semi detached houses, then I would agitate they are all lined up and shot like it was done in Srebrenica.

For that, I would gladly say "fck their human rights"!

The 1/2 a million Naira was payment to obtain his CofO/Deed of Assignment. Basically documents to prove he owns the place.

The payment for the house is different.

Imagine these people would also be paying "Service Charges" that would exceed £500 per year to live in this junk and open sewers o.
PropertiesRe: £4m Property: Nigeria Vs UK (which One Would You Buy?) by Sagamite(op): 10:12pm On Dec 22, 2015
EfemenaXY:
Oh! Oh!! Oh!!!

Just watched the first video - utterly disgusting how the workers were half submerged in the drains, combing throug it without gloves or protective clothing.

I found the ending bit of the first video hard to follow with all that shouting and yelling. Who did the angry man in the white gown represent? The peeved tenants? Or the incompetent landlord(s)?
He represented the fraud called Richard Nyong who owns (or is the front for) Lekki Gardens Estate.

That is the quality of property one gets in Nigeria for £100K. undecided

Over-priced junk!

Those people you are seeing have lost their money/investment.
FamilyRe: The Travails Of Marrying Late by Sagamite(m): 10:10pm On Dec 22, 2015
a2space:
I am a 37 year old bachelor and I must confess that never in my wildest dreams did I ever imagine that someday I would be desperate to get married. When I was in my twenties, I used to hear of desperation amongst ladies to get married but I never clearly understood the feeling. I felt it was a "lady thing" until I got to the age of 34yrs. One day I was in my bedroom suddenly I felt the rush of emotions come upon me so strongly that all of a sudden started making me feel desperate for marriage. By the following year the desperate feeling became like torture and the loneliness was so depressing. I could no longer stand it when I attended weddings to see other young couples getting married. I could no longer stand it when I hear people discussing marriage around me.

I became like an object of fun in the office when they would call me "the oldest bachelor". I'm telling you, the feeling is not funny at all. Even when people innocently ask "Hey, why are you not yet married?" or "what are u waiting for?" It's a question that I just can't take emotionally. Though I'm doing my best to tie the knot soon but I must confess that it is a feeling that I don't even wish my enemies to have.

If me as a guy could be feeling like this, I can just imagine what single ladies of marriageable age are passing through emotionally.
For those of you reading my post, it is my prayer that you all get married at the right time and age so that you don't have to pass through the same emotional trauma of loneliness and desperation to get married.
See a mental health specialist.

You are having mental health issues stemming from feminine-like insecurities and vulnerabilities.

It has nothing to do with marrying late. Marrying late is a thing of joy and a beautiful privilege for a man.
PropertiesRe: £4m Property: Nigeria Vs UK (which One Would You Buy?) by Sagamite(op): 6:20pm On Dec 22, 2015
This is what some Nigerians went to pay £100K+ for, to an incompetent, crooked quack called Richard Nyong.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HeKMGGkYYDk


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8ku3h_QCl9Y
PoliticsRe: Faces Of The Officers That Allegedly Mismanaged, Diverted And Looted $2.1b by Sagamite(m): 6:12pm On Dec 22, 2015
khiaa:
Lol @ your policy
My policy is if they are black.......I know I am black but I hate all black people. grin

If they are white......Why are we having this trial wasting tax payers money, he's/she's guilty...hang um high. grin
Moderators I'm only kidding.

I'm studying business/child development.
I hope they are teaching you my policy on child development, otherwise you are just wasting your time.

If you want to develop a child well, it is easy: Bitchh-slap the liitle murrafckers when you need to correct them. tongue grin grin grin grin

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