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mystiqueDZ: NERD!!!Are you cute btw?

No, I am not.

babystathopoulos: From the way you describe yourself(no drink,no smoke, no clubbing etc) you not the type that appeal most ladies(based on the assumption that ladies like bad boyz).
So I can deduct from what you wrote that the most of girls that get laid by you get favour or expecting one from you.

I am a problem solver, freaky and nasty. I understand love systems and I have also mastered the art of pick up. Do I stand a chance with girls?

babystathopoulos: You don't watch TV most of the time that means you not a football guy(chai you go boring sha) and you don't like going out.

Football does not start and end on TV. There is something we call streaming. Besides, Goal.com, Yahoo Sports, Eurosport online, ESPN online are there for a reason

myola777: Mr Man work hard and get ur money you will get there, anybody can stay there, is for human being. forget this poor man mentality

The fact remains that there will always be poor people. There is goverment for a reason. A society that do not recognise the presence of the poor and weak among its citizens is on a bad move.

As long as he does not endanger his life, who cares? A true son has every right to do everything in his father's house, including what this boy did. My wife had better not try anything funny with my son.

I will just plead with my wife to do the needful while I take my son away for some man-to-man talk.

I would like to know what inspires him to do what he did and let's see if there is any way I can help him improve on that.

hazekctravels: Wat dey showed u was dis (1st pics)
And didn't show you dis (2nd pics)

Chai, this guy has killed them.

cococandy: Now we are getting somewhere. Since you know yourself very well and you know your interest will surely dwindle after the first/second time of sex,and since you know responsible ladies don't like to sleep around,can you in good conscience say you didn't realize somewhere deep down you that you were being deceptive by omission?

I mean you already know what's probably on the lady's mind. You guys didn't just meet that day and fall into bed. You must have wooed and made her believe you wanted something serious but deep inside you knew it was just a fling for you.

If you must have that kind of sex,brothels are built for a reason.
If not pls let the girls know before hand. You can never tell few of them might be into it.

Don't take leaving a trail of broken hearts in your wake as a feat or achievement.

First of all, let me say that, it is not my place to say exactly what "responsible" ladies like doing.
Secondly, I didn't trained as a mind reader to know what is on their mind. I am sorry but that is the honest truth.
Thirdly, when I said, "I get laid like crazy", did I come across to you as someone who spend his vital resources in wooing girls?
Babe, you can assume o. LOL

berem: Fear catch me as I see the first picture. I had to scroll down to be sure my eyes were not deceiving me.


HML to the couple.

Your own better sef. I shrank and almost hit the reply button sharp sharp. I no need tell you wetin I for type na. Thank God say something just tell me say make I scrool down.

TV01: Physically you appear fully functional. Mentally you are somewhat stunted, with seemingly arrested development. You are an oddball, with an unbalanced existence.

My counsel; please don't consider marriage and/or children until you "grow-up"

My hope; that you don't share any more of your wierdo "lifestyle" with us, but focus on getting a "life"

My fear; youll probably be a governor or minister some day

My prayer; your heartfelt salvation (or at the very least your retreat to the romance section).

My opinion; you don't have to accept or act on it.

You are free to go.


TV

Thanks for your opinion. Like an a$$, everybody's got one.

cococandy: That's why I said not necessarily.

It depends on how many other guys she's on that kind of arrangement with.
They could be more than one
In which case it's obvious she's whoringg"lol.

But in the rare case that two people get together just for sex but not ready for a relationship,if they are true to only one partner one can excuse it for them being humans and trying to satisfy their human needs without the rigors of a relationship.

At least you and I agree this OP is lying. How many places can he find normal girls who aren't wh0res(sex for money) and don't want a relationship but are willing to let him hit and run. Not one girl or two girls but plenty girls. ALL THE TIME.

Sage2 fear God o.

My name is Sage. Not sage2. I don't know where Seun and his admin. Team got that postfix 2 from.

When you have a security breach, you advice or mandate users to change their credentials. You don't take it upon yourself to change their carefully curated usernames.

Back to topic.

In as much as I won't promise any girl relationship of marriage just to have sex with her, you really don't expect me to look the girl in the face and tell her that I just wanna have sex with her just once and then walk away, do you?

beeevan: OP you brought your matter here, why get upset because you are called out on your character flaws? You told us yourself that you sleep around, weir you expecting a round of applause?

Well...I am not upset in anyway.

cococandy: Lmao. This is about you uncle not me

Well like I said if ALL the ladies knew it was going to end at one or two rounds of sex then good for all of yous but if not,just know that you were being deceptive even though I don't expect you to admit it.
Just repent

That is the problem who you, ladies. You just expect relationship or marriage from a guy simply because you had sex with him. I don't know where you all got that from.

Some of these ladies where in what they called "happy relationships", so you are wrong here. What do you have to say about those who cheat on their partners? Is that also in anticipation of marriage or relationship?

cococandy: You don't do wh0res so I bet all the ladies you slept with knew that it would only be a one time thing.
They knew you had no further interest apart from 2rounds of sex?
There was no deception or promise of love/relationship/marriage on your part?
They were willing to cut it off with you after the first and second rounds of sex which you BTW made clear was what you only wanted in the beginning?
No more no less?
Good for all you then.

Not judging you. na you carry your matter come here ask us for opinion so I gave you the opinion based on the available info you gave.

Abi you were expecting me to clap for you that you drink and smoke?

There was no deception or any promise whatsoever. If that is what it takes to get you laid then you are in big trouble. I know of some guys who will even take drinks to your father.

cococandy: Yes there's something wrong with you

You need to learn to respect your body and stop dipping it into every hole that's open.
You no dey shame?

you also need to learn to respect women and stop seeing and using them as sex objects.
At least if you must, let the women know at first that you're all about the sex instead of lying your way into their hearts and running away once you get sex. That's evil and low.

And you have the guts to say you don't do wh0res.
What are wh0res for if not for straight no-strings-attached sex?
You woo a clean young girl and lie like most of you do only to dump her when you get sex.

You're asking if there's something wrong with you.that fact that you don't already know that there's something wrong with you is a problem on its own

I never said I lied to anybody. And who told you I don't respect women? Women have been and are still the most nicest people to me. But there is something about some of them that see me as a guy they have to lay. Those that respect the no-sex relationship I prefer to have with them will disagree with you. I have always been and I will always be good to women.

I try my best to help them whenever I can and I have been doing this since when I started helping them with maths lessons from my junior years in secondary through University.

I however observed that some of them have been programmed to think that Men don't render free service. I could see some of them willing to compensate you with sex even if that is the last thing on your mind.

You don't really know me but you feel its your place to me tell that I treated women like sex objects. I have quite a number of girls who detest me today because I refused have sex with them. One even told me that I will die. Please don't be quick to judge.

I have always maintained that Lagos state will go far in terms of human and infrastructural development if its resources are not diverted to play politics in other states and the center. Anambra, Ondo and Ekiti came with heavy finacial loses and the returns from Edo and Ogun are not just good enought to recoup the investment. Osun and Oyo seems to be paying well but the money end in the pocket of the emperor, leaving Lagos state with no gains whatsoever.
My advice to Lagos state government is to focus on Lagos and Lagosians.

donroxy: Since you fuc:K girls @ Opportunity , I promise you , you won't get insane very soon !!

Now this feels like cofta. So relieving.

I also observe that those outside my circle of friends think I am quite and shy while those within think I talk and argue too much.

Thanks, guys. I really appreciate your comments.

Hi, NLanders.

I want you to have a sneak preview into some aspects of my lifestyle and tell me if, in your opinion, it is normal. Because some of my friends think that I have a situation at hand.

I have never smoke anything nor taste alcohol in my life. I don't do no whores but yet I get laid like crazy and I mostly hit once, rarely twice and on a few occasions thrice and I am done with the babe. She could be as beautiful and pristine as they come, it won't change anything.

I love watching CNN, Discovery and NatGeo wild whenever i decide to watch TV.

I am yet to watch the movies or series, Titanic(I bought the one everybody in my house watched), Harry Potter, Water World, Gladiators, Game of Thrones, Troy, Anything from Nollywoods, Anything from Mexico, Cleopatra, okay, okay, I thinks it would be easier to just list the few ones I have actually Watched.

Here they are(The ones I have watched).

The Godfather, Scent of a woman, Devil's advocate, Finding Forester, Entrapment, Poetic Justice, Save the last dance, and well... that it.

I don't do no clubbing. I stay on my lane and stick to my house. I don't seek fun, I just have it when i happened to be where it is happening.

My TV is off 99% of the time but my Computers are on 90% of the time and I am connected to the internet all year round. I would rather pay for internet connection than waste my hard earned money on DSTV subscription.

I left the UNI so many years ago but everyday, I study like I have a test to write the next day.

I use to be obsessed with learning every new tech that comes but of recent, I have focused most of my resources on data science with emphasis on Hadoop.

I will tell you more when I have the luxury of time and space.

Feel free to comment but have it at the back of your mind that whatever you write here is entirely your opinion and therefore, belongs to you and only you and I am not under any obligation whatsoever to accept it.

Thanks and I wish you luck.

Amusaopeyemi: I grew up without a father, i'm an only child and I graduated at the age of 20, i'll be serving next month. I'm proud of who i've grown up to be.
My mom was an iron lady tho, she takes no nonsense. Died last year.

May her soul rest in peace, my dear. so unfortunate she did not live to see your lovely and promising kids. But we still give thanks to God for everything.

My babe has been misbehaving lately. I'm building an automated logging system to log all her excuses. I'm leveraging a java opensource logging framework called log4j. It promises to be a robust enterprise marital logging system(EMLS). Cloud based subscription service will also be available for the masses.

ENIMONEY: where you for see bleep na? I love creative people.

Okay, I am creative. Holla@yaboy.cum

DoroMega: Bad guy.

Bros, boys gats ask questions na. Make person for fit learn the thing too. Anything wey go quarantee steady flow of pu$$¥, man gats do.

ENIMONEY: Wow! Beautiful! Why can I paint na? I love artists

As in you wanna #Bleep them or something?

No, he is not.

Why are the girls not going crazy over this mugshot? Frolander would be like, #TheseWhoresAintLoyal

I have been wondering about this. What is so special about this .io TLD that it cost much more than other TLDs?

adaobi123: She needs to work on her thighs and bum

I rushed in here with Adaobi on my mind. I didn't even bothered to read the topic well. Next time, it should be you.

VICTORCIZA: imagine gurnam have the heart of making fun of banana sellers who died in the Abuja shopping mall blast

Let no man push you.

Walphem: My wife is an extreme lover of Watermelons and she "initiated" me into it also and I must tell you, so good plus the fact that it encourages the production of NO- Nitric Oxide, I will recommend it for guys alot

At least you remember her for that.

missberrypop5: if that's the case, is anything wrong with being "just friends" with a girl you love?

How do you mean "being just friends with the girl you love"? If the I girl I love don't fucck me, who will? I should be fuccking her, biitch.