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I don't know how to bake *blush* I have learnt how to make home-made bread but that's about it. . . . .there was not much baking at home when I was growing up so I just never learned how to. . . . . .

Imari:
So you do know how to cook. 

When I say "cook", I mean not being able to turn on the stove, they know your order at the drive thru window, that's not being able to cook.

Anything you can cook to FEED yourself is cooking enough.  Some men are totally handicap in the kitchen.

I do hope you don't mean "microwavable" because that isn't cooking either. 

*****
WAKE UP!!! from that dream roymary got you caught up in.


Maybe "everyone" can cook but can they prepare something that's edible even to them.

Believe me I know plenty men and women alike, who can't do even that.

Teaching each other your favorites is nice even when it's something that is known by both of you but vary slightly based on how one was taught to cook it.


Then sometimes (like I mentioned above) you may have the same recipe for a dish but I may use more pepper and you may not.  some folks actually think that their exact way of making a dish is the only and the right way.

I have a older sister whose like that, she will tell you it's not right if you vary from her recipe in the slightest.

What makes cooking fun for me is being playful about it and trying out different spices and ways to cook the food, it does not always have to come out the same *boring*

Well, my boy is almost four and speaks 3 languages, a fourth one not so great but he understands it, kids don't really get confused with languages, their brains are porous so learning languages is easy for them!

For sure. . . . . .

My afro is so big ladies, my arm even gets tired when combing through my bush. I should get plaits again soon but I am happy. I still have to get myself to condition weekly but I will get there!

Drill, I think the problem is when someone is not even willing to learn, that is the challenge. I was taught how to cook by a very patient man. . . . . .

Ranoscky:
Exactly the same thing that bothers me with 'some' ladies, and I keep wondering and asking myself why some girls do keep a blind eye and walk pass the real men that wil give them comfort and a happy marraige, but keep this time, they keep their eyes wide open like Owl and with the instint of of a desert Eagle when walking and they keep stucking on players, wife beaters, cheaters, rude dudes etc [ how are we to be sure that the complainers are not 'fake' themselves, and pls, how do we recognise 'fake' girls when we see them on the street, thanx] ?

If I were fake I am sure i would not be asking this question.  I could be wrong but I think fake starts with (appearance) hair/terrible-looking weaves, weaves in general and nails (I wonder how women even wash properly with the claws they have these days).  I am not saying don't make yourself look good as a woman but surely one does not have to be "plastic" to do so. . . . . . . . .On none appearance - I once knew a girl whose boyfriend new she smoked but he did not like it so told chick to stop, she "did" but only when she was with him.  She would carry her toothbrush and lotion in the car so she could brush her teeth and freshen up when going home, to me that is just another form of fake,

elettrodad:
Unless you are on your teenage I don't really get your point.
Isn't true you put hearrings, a nice dress, some paint on your face to go out? Are you faking that way?
Are you expecting to date the man of your life without make any efforts to look a little attractive?
Are you not faking when you smile and thank you the person who said "you are so beautyful tonite" when you know you don't sleep since 6am and menstrual issue are devasting your stomach and you feel all but beauty?
What is faking? Being nice is faking? You change into a vampire after a month of wedding?
Do you really think we don't know your b.o.o.b.s. will fall at the age of 40?
Do you think we don't know about fake nails and bullsh.ts like this?
The first approach in a relation is visual, unless you stick with internet appointments which will anyway finish with sending pictures before to meet.
So what it means fake?

Edit. What Ms. Potato is saying has nothing to do with faking. She has problems herself.

Firstly, you are waffling, nothing that was said warrants the tone you used, calm down and learn to read and UNDERSTAND before you reply in a "psychotic haste"        

I mentioned A LOT OF make up, never said women should not use make up and Sis in law was faking being nice before the marriage. . . . . . . . . . .never mind, I think I am having a monologue!

Imari:
I know plenty of American men who haven't got that memo yet.

Can't even boil water with instructions.

Possibly because they grew up having sisters and mothers slaving away in the kitchen for them. As for me, my son will know his way around the kitchen as soon as he is tall and old enough, I want him to be able to take care of his kitchen and not wait for anyone to do it for him. . . . . . . this is important to me!!!

Ms. Potato:
SA Goddess. I understand what u mean. My brother is having problems now on his 3 month old marriage and is really thinking second thoughts.

he dated her for 5 years and they were fighting all the time but still they were together. Now that they are married, they fight even more and he told me that she has changed after marriage and that she is a nagger, a control freak and someone whom is controlling his life cause she continuously checks his HP, his computer and so on.

I ask him didnt u know all this about her when you were dating her? He said he seriously have no idea.

And the latest news we found out is she force herself to vommit after every mal in order not to get fat@!

Sounds like your sis in law needs help . . . . .

As for changing after marriage, she was probably chilling, being passive until he said "I do" then the rainbow colours started to appear. . . . . .

I can cook up a storm but I love me a man that can cook as well, it's 2011!!!

We are yet to hear from guys, particularly those that like fake girls/women. . . . .

Goldieluks:
Men are mostly attracted to fake women,fake love,fake nails,fake b oobs,fake eye lash,fake everything.But when the come across the real deal,they tend to bypass it and go for the fake one instead.

Perhaps the guys feel that they are stuck with fake women seeing that there are so many of them around.  Some men might even wonder what is wrong "with you" if you don't wear fake nails and hair with tons of make up, FAKE seems to be the new REAL. . . . . . ,

Thanks Nerdy girl  

Perhaps the guys will shed some light on this one since the babes mould themselves according to the man's spec or what they think the man wants. . . . .

Why does it seem like guys don't appreciate a woman being real/herself in a relationship?  I have noticed fake girls get "the men" because they adapt to what the man wants but realness is not appreciated anymore (my opinion).  The only problem with being fake is that the woman has to keep up the facade and possible be unhappy for a long time while the man carries on being himself. .  . . . . . . .that is why later on in marriage/long term relationship, men complain that the babe has changed, not who they fell inlove with. . . . . . . .

Am I the only one that holds this view?

What I can't wrap my head around is the fact that people go for booty implants. . . . . .thank God for Saatjie Baartman       there has been a lot of dilution along the way but we thank her nonetheless!      

Sagamite:
This is an experiment, the restriction and specific selection of women is on purpose and I can not participate.

So you are the facilitator then we should at least know the purpose of the experiment. . . . surely!

Give more options Mr Mite

Which one do you go with Saga? You haven't made your choice. . . . .

Mine don't on a serious note, people especially women have taken this plastic look too far, look at that cheap weave she is wearing!

I gotta run, have a fabulous weekend and be good, just like me!

I am good nana, are you well?

Happy it's Friday. Where are you hiding?

Hey Lady how are you buddy?

Those are plastic so don't worry about them. . . . . . .

SO, for the record, OP does not have a small penis, lasts longer than 5 mins and his woman is not frigid

Mrs.Chima:
OP,

Did you get the whipped cream and cherries?

He said he wasn't the one with a problem, says he posted link. . . . . .but he writes in first person (he almost yanked my head off on another thread)  

tyson55:
@ SA Goddes and Omen100 - If you people wear glasses, you change them, if not, you should get some. I posted the source of the story at the bottom of the story itself. So, common sense will tell you that it was not me who is involve in both postings, that's why i posted the link. You could as well have noticed, that i even commented suggesting a solution to the concern party in both postings. Don't reply to thread in psychotic haste, take your time to read and understand, before posting. No offence intended.

Don't get your knickers in a twist dude, what are you talking about "psychotic haste", how was I supposed to know you are not the one with a small penis when you wrote as though you were the one with a problem, in first person? Learn to write better next time. . . . . . . . . .

eku_bear:
What is wrong with her body now?
Lol, really? Skinny booty = sag more? Didn't know that tbh. But you can sort of fix that just by hitting the squat rack. . . hard. That is the thing about body type B. Very easy to improve it by making her hit the gym with you.
You won't hear that from me. If more girls looked as "slutty" as her, the world would by far be a better place

I have seen a couple of saggy butts of type B's body (they were white ladies BTW), I suppose genetics have a lot to do with it. . . . .

Southern African women have A's body type, slutty? Hhhmmmmmmm, there are a lot of skinny sluts so that argument does not hold

SOmething does not add up here. . . . OP, aren't you the one with a small willie, the one with a frigid wife and a non-existant sex life? How are you going to make another man's wife happy enough to come back for more when yours does not "sound" like she is happy with your performance?