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Valentine's day is juvenile, best enjoyed by high scholers, never got what it is about!

googles:
Oh really ? ah hez ripe for marriage then

I already have the dowry stashed under my mattress. . . come May,I am coming to get my husband

oh yea bbz I'm loving my new apartment

Oh the man is ripe o'right, besides I want a C Class (I am not unreasonable you see )

Glad you are loving the apartment, nothing like having own space. . . . .been on my own since 19 so you can just imagine

I have also been away a lot lately. . . .  .all good girl, you well?

Your man is FINE as ever   growing big every day, he is four in May so get ready to introduce yourself to the  family as the official girl      

How is the new place, loving it I guess!!!

@ OP, I guess the others have said it, "there are no guarantees in love" so don't be afraid to take a risk.  . . .it would still not be guaranteed even if it was your home boy!

Hello Miss googles. . . . haven't seen you around for a bit. . . .

Get ready for insults from some of the mean women on here, good luck!

As for your post, I have nothing to say!

@OP, do you want to know the difference between a relationship where two people just hang out and one that is more serious?  Do you suspect you are being shagged for fun with no plans to make it official in future?  I am confused. . . .  .

Nigerians and God/Bible, too funny. Some even quoting verses from the Bible, some of you guys complicate life way too much, take it easy!

Mr, Cork:
K - Leg!!

so you are still insane Cock!!!

WOW, man cheats on his wife and "it's a man's world", woman does the same to her cheating spouse and she is being called all sorts of names. . . . . .how twisted!

Anyway, OP, you are a grown woman and I am sure you know your situation, you should have plan B should shyt hit the fan. . . . .  .unless your man will forgive you since he has cheated so many times himself. . . . .

Your life, your choices but make sure you can live with the consequences. . . .I guess your man is also prepared to deal with whatever comes his way!

Hey Maddy, I am well girl, you good too?

I will post a pic as soon as I have it downloaded from my phone, didn't use the normal camera to take the pix. I think what I got is canerows but it was done in a funky style, will post as soon as I can.

Yeah, I agree you need something low maintenance if you are in between jobs,

Atreides:
School's not in yet! Don't worry,my legs are padlocked with Globe padlock and i've thrown the keys away! And my mind is always open to endless possibilities!

Good girl, boys will always be there, education first! I am pleased to hear you got your head screwed on right!

Atreides:
Anty SA Goddess goodmornin ma!

Good afternoon youngster, how is school? Remember to close your legs and open your mind!

50+

Happy New Year Ejada

At least you can wash your braids, I had flat plaits that I could not wash and I was getting rather uncomfortable so I managed to keep them in for two weeks only. . . . .

I will get braids in winter (I think) if I am over the trauma I went through the last time when I eventually cut my hair. . . . .

Nerd where are you girl? Madlady?

SA is cool as always. . . . . .you will see a lot more than elephants so come on down

190:
[color=deeppink]Well not having sex is the worst thing that can happen to a man
Its better to manage a woman and get sex than not having sex at all,

Think about it,
You would agree with me on this one,

xx

#Spclst900
Im okay man,
How's abuja, Missed your country's barbecue fish and beer,
How's Lola, [ Hope you're taking gud of her ]

xx [/color]

No Papi, I would rather be single and still get nookie (I know the debate about sex before marriage, doesn't apply to me) than be married to someone that just manages me, married to me for nookie, that wouldn't work at all for me!

So you would rather be unhappily married just so you get nookie than being happily single?  That sounds like prison to me!

It's not too late to cancel the whole thing, I can't imagine the life of misery you are about to go into if you marry the woman.  . . . . . .you won't be happy and neither will she!  Apparently marriage is hard enough even when love is present so what more if it's a loveless one.

**THINK HARD ABOUT THIS ONE**

190:
[color=deeppink]
Okay i would adjust it,

Poster Just manage and marry her even if you dont love her, @least you can still have intimacy

A bad marriage is better than not having sex at all [/color]

I can't believe you said that

How are you ladies and your fros doing? Mine is growing nicely, I have thoughts of putting chemicals in it to soften it a bit at times but I remember why I went natural in the first place, I have been strong.

I plaited in Dec, will post pic once downloaded, pity I had to take the plaits out too soon because I could not wash my hair. . . . .I love the "give it a good wash daily" thing. . . . . . . . .

At least now we know you are jobless, it explains a whole lot then!

So you are in Manchester male-whoring? WHo would have thought!!

t.b.o.y:
Cos its nt ethical

Just sounds so business-like! Anyway, to each their own!

Why are you shocked by what I said? Is it the truth?

What he says and does are two different things, he may say he cares but if he shows he does not care, believe what you see NOT what he says!!!

Howzit Lady L?

Definitely rocking, I see you started the year with a bang

Sagamite:
Hey, babes.

Is it due to paucity of my presence in Romance section or is it due to paucity of your presence on NL that I have not been seeing you?

I was away for a bit and only got back recently, got busy at the office so did not get on NL for a couple of days after my return.

You good?

Hey Mr!

REALITY101:
Lord have mercy.  But is there any possibility that one will be infected having unprotected sex and the other partner will be free from it? I doubt it though.

It happens, it is rare though!  A relative of mine is negative while her husband has full blown AIDS and they have been married for over 17 years!

I am yet to feel the pressure. . . . hope you find your life partner OP!

MBG4Real:
It is not about "shattered men's ego". No matter how stronge and rich a man can be, the wrong woman can keep him miserable for life.


That is where the problem lies. How many of this independent women can be said to be humble. They are very few and far inbetween.

I think it is about the ego for men. . . . . .especially if the woman bring home more bacon than he does!

So what you are saying is that men want meek, weak women to stay happy?  I am not saying women should be challenging men unnecessarily just to show how independent they are but surely a strong man can take and understand a strong, hard working woman.  When women are totally dependent on men, some if not most men don't like this and when women can do things for themselves, then it is a problem again, no winning, SMH!!!