₦airaland Forum

rokiatu:
LOL Everyone can not be nice.


And to be honest, I really do not think they are mean. They do not find me attractive so what? Beauty is so subjective anyway.


If they had said I was dumb or something, I would have felt bad.


That's just their opinion. But to be honest, it was quite funny yesterday. I laughed my freaking backside off.

Very true, beauty is indeed subjective, . . . . . . .you could be a Mona Lisa to someone else. . . . .glad you laughed it off, you do have a nice taut asz though (I know you know that hence you give us back shots without fail

What is going on over here, why are you guys being mean? Come on, play nice. . . . .

omo_to_dun:

If that is truly you in your profile, honey, you are absolutely doing the right thing by putting on a facial disposition that is not genial because I believe that any one who comes in close contact with you would need a vigil of prayers to deliver them from the trauma that your pristine ugliness would have caused them.

Ekpoma1:
Bro, you mean u fancy that wor wor face? I knw gals love hearing lies bt let try and tel d truth once in a while.

MissT_SA:
I was a teenager, & an elderly woman said 'Whose child is this? She is so beautiful. BUT she's sooo dark!" Go figure.

It's crazy that some people think light complexion translates to pretty when it is usually a case of "nice from far and far from nice"

@OP, I think teens these days are misinformed and experiement way too early without knowing the consequences of their actions. . . . . my mother would have sent me packing if I rocked up with a belly as a teen but the problem these days is these kids have "too many rights" and talk back when being reprimanded, there is no respect for authority whatsoever. . . .sad situation!

I think marriage is over-rated and not a pleasant place for many but there are a few happy couples, those are the ones that inspire me but the rest make me want to just be on my own and deal with me instead of another person's crap.  Marriage is a huge sacrifice for some/many and definitely not for the faint hearted. . . . .  .it needs absolute commitment and won't work if half of the union is not fully in it. . . . . .

From MzDarkie's story, I guess mine would have to be "you don't look/act African" when I am overseas (America to be precise), now this just boils down to ignorance, it's as if Africans are expected to be walking around with a lion/monkey on their backs or wearing sheep skin fresh off it's back . . . . . .

What does an African look/act like!!!  **wondering** (rhetoric)

rokiatu:
LOL

far from it.

Ok cool

"Vanity" thread ladies?

@OP, I could be wrong but I assume you are pretty young with a lot of years ahead of you. . . . .your music is your passion, not your partner's, find a music producer to help with your music and love your girlfriend for who she is instead of expecting her to be a musician just because that is what you are into. Do you even know what she likes and wants to be, would you be ok with her dumping you because you want to be a musician and she wants to be a "nurse/teacher/lawyer. . . ."?

Jay Z "Camel" is not the most handsome man but he falls in this category of ugly hot guys   (minus his voice)  

aminalib:
Thats wat i mean goddess

I actually got "thrilled" reading the heading, thinking of no ugly guy in particular but "I got you"

I agree with OP, ugly guys can be pretty hot at times he must have a hot/nice body and dress well with loads of charisma and swag, this combination can be disarming to say the least

@ OP. . . . .well dude, it's your life. . . . .if you can have sex and impregnate someone, you are old enough to make your own decisions!!

Enigmatikchikala:
I trust u knw wat it means 4 a gurl 2 b pregnant?i'v 2 questns 4 u.1.on wat grounds was d disagreement dat led 2 your breakup wif your ex?2.is your gurlfrnd pregnant cus u'r ready 2 settle dwn wit ha?sori 4 ma inquisitive nature,jst dat u really nid 2 sit n thnk properly,dnt suffer d unborn child(u knw wat i mean?)

Difficult read, vowels and the likes?? Just a thought. . . . .

Laajman:
Rare display of brilliance
Little wonder you've racked up >3k posts, this must be one of the more brilliant ones- I imagine.

Great choice of words

deniyor:
On one end, sometimes we all need to hear other people's views and opinions. Else a lot of people will remain mugus and fools for love without learning the errors of their ways.
On the other end, friends judge and define your relationship based on what you tell them. Even after the couple has moved on the issues at the time, friends are not as forgiving or forgetting.

Very true so choose what you share with your friends and how much detail you want to give out. . . . .

MzDarkSkin:

Tosinville:
Good, his tongue can also satisfy you by eating your punny to make you come.

A firm sausage is needed sometimes so don't think a tongue is a substitute for the real thing. . . . .

Working with a 1 min man can be rather unfulfilling, tends to leave one unsatisfied. . . .  .so I will stay with him if he knows we don't need his stick to make the earth move  might have to reconsider if he can't improvise      

So OP, you just went ahead and inserted your willy in a cake you did not know where it had been, without using any protection? Very smart of you I must say It's 2011 dude, STIs are real. . . . . . .

We all mature at different times so yes, some are ready at 23-25 if not younger while others still want to pursue more self-fulfilling activities before they can settle down and be a wife, mother. . . . .

SA Lady:
well I thought since via Lesotho, you know

I am not so bad girl. . . .besides, my son translates for me

Anyway, back at topic. . . . . .Personally at 23 I had no business being anybody's wife, I had no idea who I was or what I wanted and boy am I glad I was given the time to discover ME, with age comes wisdom . . . .what I see happening is most of those marriages that happened when the partners were in their early 20s have now dissolved or are unhappy because suddenly people realise just how little they "lived" before they rushed into marriage!

^^^ was only pulling your leg, how can I not know

SA Lady:
aahhhh! @MRbrown, you are an emoticon with a light bulb above his head.

Guys do you understand that if you are going to marry anyone at the age of 23 this person has only lived 4 years of her entire life to come.

Let me break it down 23-19=4 (19 represents the teen years) Now tell me what could a 23 year old who has lived for 4 year possibly know about herself, let alone raising a family.

Guys please let us start depending more on our senses for reason. asseblief.

Is that Zulu?