Eiregirl:

That's not just white men.

That I know, responce was in reference to what OP said about marrying black men because they marry many wives. . . .  .I was saying white men may not marry many women but they will still get mistresses, that applies to men of all races and ethnicities! I am sure you get that. . .

SMH@ OP. . . . . .Go get your white boy if you wish, they don't marry many wives but some if not most will still get mistresses. . . . . . what then!!!

WOW. . . . . the thought alone of hiring an 8 year old child as a domestic worker is mind-blowing, that child should be in school to secure a better life for herself instead of being abused by grown-ups who should be protecting her, whether it is your child or not       

Besides pregnancy, I love everything about being a woman. . . . . don't get me wrong, having a life grow inside a woman's body is a great and fulfilling thing but what the body goes throw is something else.  I just don't know if I would do it again, other than that, being a woman is great. . . . .

BABE!:

@ Uncle Saga: Touche.

@ Theists acting like bigots on this thread: Pls stop it. Jesus (or whoever) wouldn't be proud.

It's ATHEISTS and not what you typed. . . . . . .no need for insults . . . . .

Mrs.Chima:

Oh my!  

. . . . and what got your eyes popping?  

stillwater:

The mind doesn't boggle anything, lol. Atheists too try to 'shove' their beliefs down people's throat. It's just human nature for the opposition to think someone is shoving his beliefs because it doesn't sit down well with him. No need to exonerate one over the other.

I suppose everybody is trying to argue their point. . . . . .

Most of the very same people that claim to be closest to God (religious Nigerians) do so much shyt that they actually pray before they engage in their illegal activities, they are not afraid to pray for a 419 deal to go right yet they will want to shove their religious beliefs down others' throats, the mind boggles indeed!

Goldieluks:

pinkrex link=topic=749074.msg9055378#msg9055378 date=1314884818:

Still wondering about the part of this globe you come from

But really, are you from South Africa?

I am from Africa  

You must be referring to the atheist,here,but you keep mentioning
the Christians,as if you have something against Christianity.
go and see how the Muslims defend their religion as it is,Your post sounded
judgemental,biased and one-sided.

I mentioned Christianity but actually it is staunch believers of any religion who think they are superiour to others. . . .no I have nothing against Christians or any other religion for that matter. . . . . . .my comments are not based on judgement but observation!

pinkrex:

I just wanted to know sweetie,

If you are from the west then I can understand why you think the way you are thinking. 'Bunch of brainwashed i.diots' that dont even have a clue as to why they were created

No worries, I am good. . . . .  .fortunately I am not one of the brainwashed "e-diots" I just don't like people imposing their ideas and beliefs on others. . . .

pinkrex:

Where do you even come from?

You don't type like you even believe in your keyboard

LOL, does it even matter where I come from? I said what I wanted to say just like you did, what's the big deal?

These so-called Christians are always so judgemental and think their beliefs are superior to everyone else'. . . . . .most are so narrow-minded and will wield the Bible whenever a discussion gets too heavy for them, surely the Bible is not the only book of reference.  There is freedom of association in this world and if one chooses religion, great for them but let others BE!

lagcity:

^^^^^^

for goodness sake, i said "blow.job" not "mouthaction" which kain yeye be dis?. jeeezz!

Yes I would, I find staunch believers too much to handle sometimes, they think theirs is the only way. . . . .and everybody else is going to hell!

LOL, all this because a woman drives herself! SMH. . . . . . . a car is not a luxury anymore. . . . .

jennykadry:

Lol @ blank.

The more reason why you should see your Dr about it. Like I said the higher the estrogen dose in your pill the more vulnerable you are to weight gain.

I don't do contraceptives and pls make una no ask me what I do.

Withdrawal? hahahah, had to ask Jenny

@ topic, for some women, it is easy to lose weight after giving birth while for others it is difficult, very difficult even with regular exercise, I guess genes have a lot to do with it. . . . . . .

@ OP,

It means he never wanted anything serious even when you were dating him, you were his booty call and he was your man. . . . . he is randy for you!

dayokanu:

Are they fighting over Mr Cork?

His Cork should be long enuff for you two

definitely not worth a broken nail and a messed up weave

I will file this under "Joke of the day"

LOL, assuming this isn't a terribly bad joke. . .as in, this is a real fight over an obviously sweet pipe, what is going to happen when you decide to make up?  Will you bring it to the forum?  Anyway, let me continue reading. . . . . .

PS: Don't bother responding to me. . . . . .  . .

Silly joke, mcxwwwwwm #SMH# are we that gullible?

Teen NL would work best here. . . . . . . . . . . . .really!!!

Tswana:

Just because he mentioned south african you had to came up with aids

Don't mind them Tswana, some act like AIDS is our problem alone until they start dying from "witchcraft"

Goodness, the bile you spew. . . . . . . .guess the same Christian values/upbringing taught you to be a narrow-minded, judgemental thorn who thinks his way is the only way, right!!! Good for you. . . . . .now go live your perfect life!!!

Miss B, I was not using emotional appeal as you stated but simply asked the questions to get people thinking out of the box, putting themselves in someone else's shoes, "would you want to be single for life if you lost your husband/wife?" I was not talking about my situation as that decision was made with a clear mind and I would not have it any other way, I am enriched and a better person because of my son. Sure single-parenthood has it's challenges but nothing that I can't handle, it's been 4 years and we are still standing.

We cannot all travel the same path, how dull life would be!!! My chosen path is fulfilling and I am grateful my Creator has entrusted me to shape a young man's life, I would do it a thousand times over .

Back at topic, I dated a single dad even before I had a child of my own and would do it again, it's not about him being a single dad but us being compatible and sharing our lives with all that we come with! But I get the different views expressed by those saying they wouldn't date a single parent, it is their choice and it is ok. . . . . . . . . .

Everybody has an opinion and Shy-One simply expressed her's as did everybody else. . . . . . . . . . .defensive?  I doubt. .

As said earlier, different strokes for different folks. . . . . . .

Very well articulated Shy-One. . . . . . . . .couldn't have said it better myself!

To those that wouldn't date single parents, does it mean you would want to be single and alone for life if your current husband/wife were to pass away? Would you be ok with the opposite sex/gender not looking in your direction because you already have children from a previous marriage/relationship?

Remember life happens and there are some factors that we do not have control over!!! Not everyone is a single parent because they were whoring around and the partner ditched them for something "better". . . . . .anyway, to each their own. . . . . . .

Careless and irresponsible man, evidently you are man enough to take off your pants and get busy, deal with the consequences. . . . . .

Outstrip:

Wow. LOL. This woman should have been born a man. She is really struggling with this woman thing

Yet it is so effortless being a woman, she makes it seem like the worst punishment EVER, I looooove being a woman, strong yet so tender!!!