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Why the blame game on the Lady......is the OP innocent?...like he was not seeing other babes in the past while they were dating or what... because she went haywire ..he is quick to blow trumpet because he want to be seen as a saint.......as far she ain't your wife or you are not her husband.... nobody is entangled....both is free to see others...afterall we are everybody boyfriend and girlfriend till we get married....for the sex aspect....both of you are adults n able to make decisions for yourself....you just love and miss her act of sex does not mean you love her but she ain't wife-able Enough for you despite having other qualities because you still clingy to the past...she gives you better than the rest you have tested...lust do camouflage as love sometimes.........
Well...you have traveled for about 6 years....alot of change have happened within these years....even if you talk alot or shared secret....some secret still won't be said out...she knew you coming to Nigeria to look for a wife and you think she haven't picture herself in your dream even as a single mother....and all you think is How to pipe her when you come back ...Sex Sex Sex full your brain......Dude she knows you more than anybody since you spill secret and she knows how to attack... she can give a better pic of her that will will be forced to see her wife-able even as a single mother....after all single men get married to single Ladies so her case shouldn't be a cast away......have you even thought if she will ever love anyone you will introduce to her as a wife to be..you never think reach dis side.............Am even surprised nobody is tackling you on the Fact you openly pronounce adultery even before getting married.......can't you just get married and Zip up.........you are just a sex-maniac that cling to past.....there alot of beauty in being faithful to your partner Dude.

Fahvvy:
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@oldienavie you see the emotional blackmail card that @Foodqueen talked about earlier ba @bolded ...

Madam favvy fyi...
The OP didn't make her lose anything, SHE DECIDED TO THROW AWAY WHAT SHE HAD...

And she did that by cheating on the OP whilst they were dating and by cheating with the OP whilst she was in another relationship ...

What y'all ladies don't understand is that sleeping around and/or cheating in the long run will hurt you ...

The guy you cheated on won't want to have anything to do with you and the guy you cheated with, will reconsider his decision to building something long lasting with you (just as it is with the OP) ...

So play all these emotional card BS, it won't change anything!!! ...

And if you're still wondering @italics, then it's either you didn't take time to read and comprehend the write up of the OP or you don't see anything wrong with cheating and sleeping around ...

Either ways, it tells a lot about your kind of person ...

@OP...
I won't suggest you marry her (unless God Himself tells you to)...

Cause if she can cheat on (and with) you in the past, what makes you think she can't do it again now? What's the assurance?

And besides that, are you aware of the baggage(s) that single mothers go around with? Has she dealt with them? Or can you handle them without complaining?

Thus...
If you know you don't intend to marry her, then don't even bother sleeping with her, cause if you do, she will DEFINITELY play the emotional card, just as the fellow I'm quoting is doing right now ...

Go somewhere and find yourself a wife...
But if you intend to marry her (which I don't advice), then go ahead and make things official ...

What makes you think your friend is not aware of her man's act...these days women tend to know the fetish/criminal evil their lover do..hence they tend to protect all evidence so it won't cast.

I know of a lady during my nysc year in Imo state who lure a 17years old girl claiming to be a lesbian...invited her to her house for the act ...only to be killed and body parts mutilated for ritual purpose by her husband.....when trying to dump the body..the vigilante caught her......


Be careful how you trend ...it's a delicate mata...and someone who sleep with a corpse can do anything to keep it hidden.....Yes ...Talk and be damn...don't talk and be damn....we are all running our race on earth...minding your own business save us from alot of issues......If u had sent ya pic n left...you won't have gotten yaself into dis....but cos u poke nose into people privacy alot....these d Price..deal with it....You cause it

Sheistoopretty:
Nigerian Men are Us*less........ All of them

That Why you are still Single ... Hookup Girl at Menopause

The problem of an Igbo man is an Igbo man......only if they learn from the North...how they support their candidate whether good or bad.

These Nigeria and clown impossible-possible-Stories sef...na who Ac de blow for abroad wey snow de fall de listen dis kind news...abeg make I enjoy my O42 grennies while I de prepared for dis babe dis night ..after all na weekend n that what lazy youth as our presido call us ..de do......no be u go tell me how to Kuje prison break enta dis babe dis night...na who get money de listen dis kind news...me I cannot not kill myself o...Peter obi na we go vote....una like una escape d criminals into d street cos of election...yeye people..who una one fool

Ogoni people again

Make he try waka reach Akwa Ibom and Edo state....I wan check something �

KallmemrB0:
My question is how does our youths benefit from his winning

I just tire .....see screaming everywhere like say 1dollar is now 1naira.....is so bad how erotic soft porn show keep taking the mindset of the youth away from important things ....now 3months in the house on how to cook,gossip,slepp with people wife,walk nude and at the end of the day you walk out with 90m.... making the youth lazy...messing up good morals n hardwork.......now that the show is finish......you will now see wailing about bad govt

See that one hair for chest like superman S emblem

So the so call dorathy get big Tummy like 9month pregnancy....wow

Hahahahaha nothing Westlife no go see for Empty Street

The only thing that pain me about is death is that the barber did not finish shaving his hair....so he will look good/Clean and fresh in hell hahahaha

Gbagi de comot people teeth o...come closer now if gbagi no go comot ya teeth

And she even wore waist beads hahahahahaha

And she even wore waist beads hahahahaha

Brain way no want get sense.....Dem go put am for ground....it worthless...strong man way die for lazy man backyard...Shun Cultism you will say No...no see how strong man end up wasteful sperm

pretydiva:
Our naija artists be making us proud. Way to go guys

hahahahahahaha u just talk my mind

Old age never catch up with dis cargo....she still de tink say she de young....what so special about kneeling down.....African ladies always making mountain outta mole Hill...abi na so her papa take marry her mother...no b Dem carry elders with drink go marry d mother...bullshit

;Dhahahahhhahhahahaha broda u give nairaland brutality...so true if it not bob Risky showing his ass,then it will be davido n chioma feeding ifeanyi or tonto dike having social media fight...as u talk all n.a. hustling...snake man d cameraman I hail o

priceaction:
It's like you never know this site? It belongs to one of the super mods called snake man. Forget that format. All their posts are always nonsense including others they own and it will soon make front page. With his over 200 topics on this particular website just look at it ,over 98% of them has made fp with many useless topics. All the format is for Google AdSense not because of the meaningful posts. Just forget that site bro. It's called hustling

M.i and Vector female version.....snakes n judith

Upload her pic let see if it true....so we can stay very far away from her ...anyway...you d one who wears d shoe and know where it pinches u d most.....but don't be decieved....if you can't change an inborn lifestyle or habit now that you courting her.....it gonna take a miracle to change her when married,u just gonna live with it for d rest of ya life n overlook it.....so make d right chioce now u still hot time man....remember you give to what you love n not what you hate.

Instead of this stupid wasted sperm of a boy to be bleeping all dis babes one by one esp dat mega chubby babe,he is doing school father, He even look gay....y get involve in a ladies fight n quarrel let alone beating an unharm lady with belt..woman wrapper/G-string...All these Toddlers in university with no orientation..So lucky no b Auchi poly or Uniben...Ya family for de prepare tribute for u

Wetin Big here....I guess he never come my hood come see mama Ibukun way de sell rice and beans backside...her own na warehouse

You think he is one of your sugar daddies that you give a knock on their head and say their head is not there because you giving them kopoooo
Does he look like Pastor Wilson?
Or can you tell your Dad your head his not there?
Now you claim you Mistakenly said it because you trying to see justice when you wrong
Africans still got ethic....only if she knows the trauma the elderly man passing through before she insulted him....All dis small girls ....no respect.....Anuuu

Tacha evicted: people donated and pledged millions

Market burns: pray for onitsha

In fact the whole Nigeria �� is stupid �

Fine boy way for b superstar for pornhub and xvideo just waste away for boxing .. ..rip fine boy

Even in poverty I won't buy itel.....if dem like dem carry 100megapixel front n back

EsotericMonk:
Guy don't bring that one here abeg. Penalty shits over Wo till tomorrow.
Ok tell me, can you grove ur babe in the club when Wo is playing?
Penalty is a party get-up song man. Even the dancing Senator has it on auto-play.

Now I know why aramide won in that category.....cos of people like u