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CsRockefeller:
If your reason is based solely on trust due to distance then that isn't an issue to me. Asides that we stay in the same city, I'm not someone who has trust issues, I wouldn't ask a lady out if I knew I couldn't trust her.

On that level, she clean.

We stay in different cities, I have started to bother myself less with random suspicion that my mind creates. Sometimes ladies start to act differently when they become undergraduates, I can not totally vouch for her Loyalty.

healthserve:
Stop monitoring her. That's not loving, it's obsessing. Na small remain you fon dey detach her toto if you una no dey togeda.learn to give a little trust

Yes, we stay in two different cities, I have been working on building this trust thing, it hasn't been easy. I will keep working on it. At detaching her "t*t*", that sounds really funny. Thanks.

luminouz:
You need to learn the act of not giving a FUQ!
Otherwise you'll die early.

You sound like you're the B-side in the relationship. A-sides or Alphas dont have time to be monitoring anyone. Their time is best spent on improving themselves to be their best versions.

#luminouznuggets#

Thanks Man, your advice is well noted, you seem very correct.

vicben27:
it's being 3 years of sending pocket money and maintenance fee to my fiancee', soo that l don't hear stories that touches the heart.she Don graduate over the weekend. it's not easy! l have learned how to be responsible over this time. dating a student ain't easy is like being married which comes with a lot of responsibilities

I am happy for you, your girlfriend has graduated, less worries, especially financial issues. Mine still has a full year to stay in school, I contribute financially, but my biggest cause for worry is Loyalty, I can never be too sure of what she is doing in school. Every action of hers spikes suspicion. I am fed up of this "Monitoring Spirit" kind of lifestyle. When she posts a picture with another guy, Even if there is nothing going on between them, I get all worked up. I am that jealous, this is exactly the cause of our quarrel this evening. This whole thing is driving me nuts.

kunkelhanspeter:
I planned to marry at 25 years old now I am 28 years old no reason girl and I am broke.
The new target now is 30
But I don’t mind finding a baby baby next year

Stay without a girlfriend until you are ready bfor marriage, relationship nowadays is something else.

CsRockefeller:
I said 27 and seems the stars are already aligning for me, if it doesn't happen next year, then definitely 2021 when I'm 28.



Quick question guys.

Between a lady within the ages of 24 to 26 not employed and a young girl of 20 in school, which is best suited for a guy of 27 to plan his life with.

Let's assume the factors of character and love is positive.

As a guy, if you fall in love with a student I pity your life, I am in exactly this same university school girl relationship shit. My eye don see something, no jokes.

First things first, If you are tired of this habit, start cutting it down gradually to once in a day, then a few times in a week, by doing this you will start getting some level of control over your desires. At a point I was able to stay off self service for two years while I was in the university cortsey religious reasons, I fell back again and again, I will cry and do alot of things to distract myself yet I kept going back. At a point I accepted defeat and did it everyday. For some time now, I have not done it, not really for religious or health reasons but because I feel I should be able to say no to whatever I am not comfortable with. I can stay several weeks without self servicing, though I get the urge to do it, I don't want to go back again, though it is about two weeks ago the last time I did it, I hope not fall back Into it again. Simply ignore and stay away from the major trigger "PORN". Good luck Brother.

Rubbish.

Okoroawusa:
There is nothing anyone that has been to Dubai will tell you that will be like you entering a plane n landing in Dubai yourself.


When you enter marriage you go see with your eye. Woman wey you wan carry enter room no need to dey pinch her for road. Be patient... yansh go tear young woman reach where e tear old woman. You hear?

Hahaha, this contribution is damn hilarious.

mzeefitz:
When they refuse to pay the traffic wardens nko
Or install traffic lights...
Mtchew
O jebi

Thank you my brother, if he installs functional traffic light or employ traffic wardens, he will not need to take the pains of directing traffic. Mad leaders everywhere.

Your descendants will forever be proud of you. Congratulations Lady.

Does this Academy award degree in Yahoo Science?

I love this guy.

Wonderful gesture.

The author of this piece is a master writer, very correct and apt points, sentence construction is so on point, choice of words were carefully done, I love to read great pieces. Thanks.

Each time I hear Nigeria Police/SARS, the first thing that comes my mind is terror, extortion, human rights abuses, it is very sad how an organization saddled with the responsibility of protecting people, metamorphosis to a terror organization. This is worse than bad.

Ghana! Ghana!! Ghana!!! This people wee not kee somebody.

We have lost it as a nation, parents take their delliquent, mentally challenged and drug addicted children and wards to places like this, because there are no government rehabilitation facilities around them. I weep for Nigeria.

What is the difference between Tonning and Bleaching. Keep deceiving yourself and other gullible Nigerians. Rubbish.

This is a very topical issue, our air quality has become so bad, to the the extent that one struggles to breathe while walking on the road. The government cares very little about this menace.

This madness will stop only when we want it to stop. A nation of mad mad people.

Beautiful piece.

Since Mercy Johnson got married, she became a better woman, she carries herself with much grace and responsibility. This is some of the positives of becoming a wife and a mother. Lovely woman.

When we talk about referendum and Biafra they say no, they will not even support a restructured Nigeria, what the heck is the problem of the north. One nation my foot.

Adegokenath:
Which station go show the match

Emmanuel TV

This is absolutely hilarious.

It is indeed a very worrying development, what beats my imagination is the way some parents who enrolled their wards in that Islamic school defended the teaching methods and denied all alleged sexual exploitations, other members of the community found nothing wrong with the goings on in the center. It is very difficult to free a people who find slavery as normal, it beats my imagination how a parent who barely fed well while single, decides to have 15 children with no viable source of income. This is a cultural problem, our society places a lot of importance on having alot of children, no one cares if these children are given a decent upbringing, nothern Nigeria is a ticking time bomb, especially with the almajiri system currently practiced. I find it really disgusting when Northern elites and billionaires are very ready to fund an Islamic Quranic centre and a mosque but will act dumb and unaware of the almajiri system and abject poverty in their land. TERRIBLE.

Okezie Victor Ikpeazu is the worse in Africa, Yahaya Bello is just a massive mistake as well.

Each time I read about the Lagos light rail project, saying that I feel like crying is an understatement. The reason why politicians in Nigeria act they way they do, is that the people will do absolutely nothing whether they perform or not. Until we start to hold them accountable for their actions, nothing will change. So sad.