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ifyalways:
Hahaha.OP is suddenly "busy" and have disappeared from her own thread.

Voice mail. Wrong thread.

Bye bye.

God, Satan and spirits will continually torment people that encourage, engage in human trafficking and sales.

give her time and benefit of doubt na.op is going through an emotional trauma so let's be patient with her. I sense depression in her tone of writing so cool down for her

Timbuktou:
E done tey, no be today. Trust and believe women at your own peril. I am surprised the guy is surprised that his wife did this.

You know when women say they stood by a man when he had nothing and he changed when he became rich, they forget "little" situations like this. This, right here, is those things men consider when they finally hammer and are fvcking around like a prize boar. He'll probably accept her back when his fortunes change, but I can bet she will come here with her story when he fvcks 60 women in one week. He will have come to the realisation that bitches are only loyal to money and comfort.

You will find in ejigbo
ojuelegba and so on customary court

Madam why not go through the right process and adopt a child maybe someday sun will shine on your family. All this baby making factory are always crude and criminal. Apart from that you can get arrested as an accomplice if government agencies discover where you bought the baby. Don't let desperation push you to the very wrong places

This child traffickers have really grown some nerves

I can see women ngos and similar agencies are really doing their job

Op you married omo daddy secondly you're living in one of her daddy's houses and you want them to stay out of your business

do you think marrying another woman will solve your problem or finish you financially. My dear you better respect yourself

Weed strengthens you physically that's why you see musicians performing on stage for hours without getting tired
it gives you a sense of euphoria
if you are a fine artist, song writerror literary writer it gives you ideas and inspiration. Ask bob marley, Sean Paul or wole soyinka
weed gives you energy for all night s' x


Most importantly weed needs to be legalized. Nothing wrong in smoking weed however it needs to be done in moderation. Same with alcohol and spirits. Too much of anything is bad



see the way he's saying he caught his sisters smoking weed like say he caught them stealing or killing a human being. Mshewwww.

If you're still with him and haven't sent his ass to prison then you deserve all the beating in the world. Send me his number so I can send some belts and horse whip to him.


You no get Sense ni abi your mama Don die?

pumpkin19:
I got in a relationship with a Nigerian man he was really nice in a the start bury I've noticed now he's getting verbally aggressive, like the other week he said i will get a good beating when i come back from university. When i asked him why his answer was and i quote "i can see you have been spoiled as a child and i don't like it" he also get aggressive if i say i don't want to have sex apparently i belong to him, im 19 and his 23 he said because of the age gap its his job to beat me, and if i try to break up with him he sends me the picture of the belt to remind me.. This is in the UK where 'domestic' violence is against the law and taken seriously but the man doesn't care he will beat me more if i involve anyone..

Fhemmmy:
That is not a man, but a baby in the hands of a Mom.
Cos if the woman wanna beat you, hold her hands and walk away . . . . .

What a beautiful independence day news from "head of the"

Aude:
I hope when your wife brings to your matrimonial home a child fathered by another man you will be understanding enough to take care of the child. What is good for the goose is good for the gander.

na their type dey kill the woman for daring to bring another man's pregnancy home.

iPopAlomo:
Leave the husband... divorce no be option again... you is a b!tch ass nigga... dude lemme... I'm not gay abeg...

I'm not gay either

Neither am I holding anybody

ok so you can mention divorce? how convenient. Please don't be a home breaker

iPopAlomo:
were you there when they signed an agreement... guy shut up... your brain is on reboot... common sense dictates she cares for her... another woman wouldn't...

I don't have to be there before my common sense tels me tontos step mother knew he was once married with a child before she agreed to marry him and his child which is different from two individuals who married as spinster and bachelor with no child from anybody anywhere and all of a sudden in the middle of marriage they forcefully dump a child on you to take care of without any regards for her feelings like she's an emotionless and unfeeling log of wood

iPopAlomo:
There's no way you can justify this statement... if you were Tonto Dike's step mom... I know what you would have done... quite quoting me... I don't roll with animals in human skin...


even cococandy won't subscribe to this bullpoo you just wrote down without thinking...

yes . The motive of frustrating him is that I have done enough free nanny service its time to leave home and go and look for your mother who is probably somewhere having a good time.

ABI how will someone have sex, get pregnant, birth the child and is not ready to take care of the child. If you know that you still want to chop life unhindered then you use preventive measures not to get pregnant abi ewoni aye monkey dey work baboon dey chop. Shiorrr

iPopAlomo:
The same wife I married... Or another woman... unresolved beef and she's still living with me... guy get sense nah...

my dear ipop alomo.please pop CIMMON SENSE NA.it is free of charge. GOD gave us free. He didn't collect a dime from us

that a woman is obviously saying she's not going to accept custody of the child and you beat her up to the level you don turn am to dense person do you think there's no LIKELIHOOD THAT SHE WILL NOT TRANSFER HER BEEF WITH YOU ON THE CHILD

there are wicked step mothers and there are sweet step mothers but any wicked step mother you see is wicked because she is transferring the beef she has against either the mother of the child or the father

as for trying to get cococandys attention I only have a soft spot for her brain and ways of reasoning nothing more. I know she doesn't have sexual attraction for me the same way I don't have for her

Mr man in getting wisdom get understanding

tontos father was previously married to tontos mother before she died and then he remarried. Tonto was never a love child. She was not a product of a sexcapade or an unplanned quickie that resulted in pregnancy. She was born by 2parents in a home unfortunately the mother died and he remarried someone who was ready to accept and love his daughter BASED ON AGREEMENT.tonto wasn't dumped on her unexpectedly after several years of marriage

THAT IS THE DIFFERENCE

DO YOU UNDERSTAND ABI DOES YOUR BRAIN HAVE HOLES THAT IT IS UNABLE TO RETAIN INFORMATION NI?

iPopAlomo:
funny this came out from you... the same step mothers you bashed in previous post... if she wanted to act a b!tch... won't she...?! if she took your bleeped up suggestion... maltreated tonto till the point she ran away from home... who would stop her... some women reason better than you...

and it's obvious all this sentiment is to get the attention of cococandy... Fucking woman wrapper... she's married... allegedly though...

I am done arguing with an air head. Happy independence day

iPopAlomo:
see who I'm arguing with... when you get married... 30 years in... come back and edit this post... if nairaland still exist... nah your type God dey throw ashawo give...

You love her... you married her... you found out she's my regular LovePeddler... let's see what you resulted too...

fucking idiot... living behind the fantasy of a quote... do not quote me ever again...

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iPopAlomo:
if you end up in hell... I know why...

as the gate man of hell fire kindly give me a list of those in hell fire

nonsense. Apart from even love child matter. Let's remove that out of the equation. Can you give your child to someone who you know has unresolved beef with you and hates you and the mother of the child and you can sleep peacefully knowing your child is in safe hands in your absence?

No you too reason am . talk more of an angry woman who feels cheated

iPopAlomo:
Some step mothers... not all... which indirectly mean you agree some women would actually care for the child... step mothers like Tonto Dike's... is she not a human being...?! isn't she a woman...?!

then you decide to show your woman wrapper side... I pray you end up with a woman like cococandy... you're bleeped...

if you are referring to the cococandy I know she's a very pleasant lady and deserves the best of the best men who knows what having regards for women means

so to the matter tonto was never a love child. Her biological mother died and the father remarried. What's the big deal about that. So it was a different scenario entirely. The father informed the woman of his situation and she was cool with it.tonto wasn't forced on her step mother


the difference is clear.

Next

H

Mix coke and palm oil. It will do the work

next

If the biological mother cannot take care of the child is it another woman that will take care of the child. Anyway I don't blame the mistress. In her mind she has seen the man doesn't respect his wife so she can dump his child on him and the wife will be doing free nanny services while she shake body, repackage herself and look for another man that his 3rd leg is doing the work of his brain, get pregnant for that one and dump the child somewhere again and continues like that on and on

lastpage:
Most women on this thread are making "convenient excuses" for the woman, due to gender solidarity.
If they want to be fair, they should make the same excuses for the man ...

...like the mother is a drug addict and has disappeared, leaving the baby helpless
..like the man is rich enough to care for four children so one extra makes no difference
...like if the woman can take care of her own 'four biological' child, why then cant she take care of her husbands single child?
...Like that child could be her fifth child afterall, she is still planning to have one more!
... like the man had discussed it with her and people have pleaded with her yet she was still headstrong!
.. like what other options are open to the man when everyone has pleaded with this witch of a woman yet she wont budge?

You see, l am sure some of you women are boiling right now and feel like using frying pan to scatter my head!
That is exactly how all those "convenient excuses" you'all are making for the woman, sounds like.

Agreed, the man misbehaved by philandering
Agreed, the woman who bore the child should also bear responsibility
Agreed, its never good to beat your wife

... but can we because of all the above reason, condemn an innocent two year old child who has no single responsibility in all the above, to homelessness, at that age.... when the child still has a father who has a house, other children and a family?

Let us conduct a TRUE TEST of INTENTIONS HERE. ... and let us be honest about it because we are just chatting here.

QUESTION:
1.) Let us imagine the child can speak and fight for itself and make choices; Would that child agree to be thrown out by the man's wife?

2.) If you were that child, what would be YOUR OWN decision/position? That the wife is right to throw you out of your fathers house ... or that she should take a chill afterall, nobody knows tomorrow?

If you give yourself a honest answer, God will be your Judge in future.


Lastpage!

I feel the woman didn't make a wise decision. She should have kept quiet and allowed the man do whatever he wants. Take care of the child. When he grows up to an age of knowing his left from his right. Let's say like 9 or ten frustrate him to the extent that he will run away from home. At least if he runs away nobody will say it is your fault. You go dey siddon look

lastpage:
WHAT KIND OF FOOLISH STATEMENT IS THIS?
When you throw a child out of his father's house ... you have rejected him.

If she does not want to have anything to do with the child, fine. No bathing, No feeding, not even a good morning smile,...FINE.

But you cant ask a father, who knows 100% that a child is his, to throw the child away.
That will be very inhuman on the part of the father!
He would just be adding a worse crime, to his list of crimes

What would such father tell that child in future, if the child survives?

Child: Dad, why did you throw me on the streets when l needed you most?
Father: My wife told me to do so ... because l was too pussy-whipped?

The last man that took such silly decision (Abraham) is making everyone of us pay for his folly, till today.
You wonder why those nut-job Muslims hate Christians? Its that shyte-head called Abraham who could not act like a real man, when occasion demands.

No sacrifice is too great to do, for my own child. That is my own policy in life and ANYONE who does not like it, can take a walk!
I will NEVER walk-out on my own child. ....Never, not even at the point of death



Lastpage!

This is exactly the reason why some step mothers treat their step children with so much contempt much less when the child is so young and a love child and when the father is around she starts pretending to care for the child


this your gra gra method is going to affect the child because it is the child that is at the middle and the receiving end of the wahala

some women will transfer the unresolved resentment the father did to her on the child and the child will grow up to be a nuisance except for the intervention of God

how can you give a child to someone who is not happy with you much less the mother and expect the person to bring up the child in love. You will just successfully expose the child to so many dehumanising treatment and in your presence she will pretend and the child self esteem will be so dead that she will be afraid to report. Shiooorrr

you need to ask yourself why God put your dick facing down and your brain inside your head facing up.it means that you are meant to think with your brain not your dick

iPopAlomo:
I'm a man... I married my wife... she didn't marry me... I can be with a lot of women... but can she be with a lot of men...?!

if she was a single mother... yes I can be with her... and take care of the child like it's my own...

So what exactly are you fighting for woman...?! cos I'm not hiding anything...

the child belongs to me... if she wouldn't take care of the child... there's the door...

apparently... I'm using my head even as I can't locate the brain as somethings are solve using just common sense... divorce if you can't take care of a love child... q.e.d

Another bush meat on the loose

harbeedaymee:
She deserved it. Why did she reject the love child? What has the innocent child done to warrant such a harsh reaction?

MODIFIED: (After the continuous bashing) I didn't read through the story as I considered it lengthy but drew my conclusions from the title. I'm not condoning the action of the man. The woman was betrayed but two wrongs don't make a right. It's a man' world in Africa. What has she gained with her rash decision? Injury and a broken marriage

babythug:
You sure say na you born the geh? Because she suppose take something resemble her REAL mama oh

na television, food and fashion she take resembo me . Once she see Barney and friends or Tom and Jerry. Otipari

Idowuogbo:
Lwkmd! I swear your name suppose change to Madam jayelola. O jaye ju mehn...i hope you no dey carry wura go all dis owambe? No turn the pikin to party animal o...

she no like owanmbe o.she gets cranky anytime I carry her na so so cry cry shout shout dey pull my hair say she wan go home so I no dey carry her plus the smell of cigarette triggers frequent cough so I just leave her at home with her nanny

RoyalRoy:
[color=#000033]Lollz.

Yes...as the mood directs!!

My Reverend Father no go mind;!![/color]

wey zeus na

bring am con make we use am do independence Parry. We go just cut im tail do small chops

just the tail alone nothing more

r231:
Anybarry seen sambarry?

I am here o.happy pre independence day o

tomorrow is independence which is a public holiday in case you don't know

so therefore we're preparing for owanmbe that's why you haven't seen me around. We need to get green and White lace


anything the mara

That's what happens when parents are always aggressive and cranky around their kids. Any small thing gbas gbos.they have successfully killed his self esteem and that is why he's always bullying his younger ones and can't face his father

Royal roy this is seriously serious o.ahann

so you wear earing for ear con do bear bear like terrorist own.hope no be say you don join them bokos and by the way where is that ya tall bingo?

he no follow you enter car

I'm reporting you to your Reverend fada