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I know you didn't finish reading my post especially the last line neither do you understand what sarcasm means

moses425:
seriously na craze u don dey craze so imagine raping ur own daughter na pple like ur self and d man na nid jail so evil begets evil I rbuke u in jesus name chia

r231:
Wait o let me ask ifa

please don't bring Francis tonys mother into this

iya Charlie or iya Charles is Francis Tonys mother my nairaland boyfriend

. Charles is a sibling of Francis Tony so in case you want to use the old woman for rituals let me inform her children

Temysteve:
so brainless of you!! U ar just an e.g

the nl resident child rapeests and lunatics are already revealing themselves

tell me how you feel when you see naked little children that are female

It is her word against his

until we hear what the children have to say whether their mothers accusations are true or false. Till then siddon look

in Nigeria judgement is not by who is right or wrong. If she or her family is able to grease the palm of the judge with a fat brown envelope. That's all able

I dey sidon look

lastpage:
YOU!..... are a GULLIBLE Eediot, for "swallowing" this story!

Since 2003, "enraged: wives have been using this story-line in front of Judges so much that one day, a Judge asked: Are you telling me that Nigerian men are so pheodophilic that all of them do this? But trust "White folks", the instituted a study amongst Nigerian community and found out that the story was "MADE-UP" to garner sympathy from the Judge so that they can throw-out their husband from the home, hold onto the children and use them to ask for money from him, even if they are incapable and not ready to provide "proper care" for the kids. The children are just a tool to get money ....post marriage break-up.

Furthermore, on proper "grilling" some of the women actually CONFESSED that they made-up the story..
This happened in the U.K and most Western countries that have zero tolerance for such behaviour.

ONE QUESTION FOR YOU: WHY is it that it is when the marriage breaks down and she wants a divorce, IS WHEN WE HEAR THIS TYPE OF STORY ... a story that is bound to elicit ANGER against the husband?

If she has been seeing and hearing this, why has she not reported hom to the Police since ...or even confide in elders to "warn him", assuming the Nigerian mentality of "No Police" in family matters?


And did l hear you say men are "afraid" to birth female children?
You must be high on some cheap stuff!
It is actually "mothers" (the wicked ones!) who are always afraid of having female children because history has shown that female children "gravitate" more towards their father.... than towards the mother.
It is a daughter that defends the right of her father in a family feud because she, being a female, can see through the "deception" of the mother far easily than most males can ...and can debunk them mos effectively.

Judges are not that easily swayed like you, they have heard it all.
I am sure the judge will not even factor this "story for the gods" into his decision-making.

By all means get a divorce if your marriage is "completely failed" but dont involve innocent children in your manipulations.



Lastpage!

r231:
unfortunately we dont accept $ na ori iya chalie sure pass.....

$ no get pawa

which one be iya Charlie again

Gboliwe:
They can form blind all they want but the truth remains that women are the awesomest of God's creation

hahaha like they'll admit it

Kimoni:


No "peppersoup" gang (I don't know what this word means but I know I heard it first from you)

pepper soup gang means local , unintelligent and uncivilised group of bullies usually unrefined men who feel stronger when they're in groups

you're on a long thing if you expect them here


reminds me of my day too. I opened the thing.i cared less who was looking at me

that pain will make you loose every sense of inhibition and care. In fact nothing wey I no pull that day

Gboliwe:
Awwwwww!

Every man especially the die hard misogynist should read this.

Kimoni:
He has a trend...He follows females with personal pictures on their profile and has multiple facebook accounts.

That guy behaves like a serial something...

kanwuliajara has made the guy take off

Ok

Idowuogbo:
Op,how was your sex change op?

ijustdey:
so, you can continue from where you stopped


I don't know why the wife didn't report him to the police officers and NGO before she takes it to court


they would have deal with the man and stops his mouth from saying rubbish

Bye bye forever and ever, deuces, adios, koshilo titi lai lai

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Richy4:
As I said earlier, everyone is entitled to their opinion.

I didn't ask you to apologise.

You mentioned earlier how Nigeria was set backward because of useless culture. But you forgot that good manners is equally cultural. Which I believe you got it in abundance.

I believe you must have heard when someone uses a sentence like " that boy/girl is not cultured "

Anyways I don't kid around. The OP said she wanted an advice from people.........

It is up to her to take it or not to take it

As for you I don't know why I was replying you.......
I am done having this conversation. When you have learned some manners then we can talk. Have a good day

ApexTitan:
Yup people can dress inappropriately but I'm yet to see any group of straight men that insist to the point of political rallies that it is OK for guys to like dress semi-nakéd gigolos. Slut walking is just another melodramatic arm of the feminist movement like Free The N!pple movement and The Free Bleeders; people operating under a misguided notion of equality.

your opinion

Yesterday lunch bet I no finish everything sha o.the remaining is inside freezer

this is what is called balanced diet. Meat-protein.vegetables vitamins and semo carbohydrates

Gbam.EOD!


THREAD CLOSED FOREVER AND EVER. AMEN!

FrancisTony:
The thing is that ladies MIGHT feel the same urge to rape just as guys but won't because;

1) It takes lots of strength to overpower a guy.

2) If a lady who willingly accepted to fvck a guy, is labelled all sorts of vile names, only God knows what the one that raped a guy would be called.

Click the link, read the reply & don't quote the poster o. LOL!
https://www.nairaland.com/1114515/christian-chatbox-sticky/576#38142517

Someone will say there's nothing physically attractive in a guy save for face.
E.g in India, there are many rape cases and we know an average Indian girl isn't endowed physically yet they cover all their bodies but will still be raped.
There's a mentally deranged girl in my estate - she's not extremely mad though and doesn't dress provocatively but has been raped virtually by everyone.

Have you asked why Amber Rose, Kim Kardashian, Beyonce hasn't complained of being raped with all their assets they flaunt?
Has Cossy, Afrocandy, Maheeda complained?
What of Omotola, Genevieve, Tonto Dike & all female celebrities that bare their cleavages?
Rap1st choose their victims and act on a carefully thought out procedure.
No right thinking person would have sex with someone who's crying for help.

Lastly, if you check rape cases, you will find out that bad girls who dress provocatively don't get raped except ones that LIE to cover the shame.

Smh

raping is ok na.shebi its the fault of the mother the kids were raped.she didn't satisfy her husband so he had to get it from his little children

so says a lot of nl resident sickos

cococandy:
Really?
Lol.
I have like eight pages of followers. dont even know who's who.

But sha I'm still giving him benefit of doubt.

check the thread again . The place where kamwuliajara said he's following a million girls and one guy.i saw your name in the list of followers kamwuliajara posted.its there. I was like

this babe doesn't even know a fraudster is following her

Only her knows where the shoe pinched her so who am I to judge

however it's better she openly shown her disdain towards the man's corpse which she didn't have the nerves to do if he was alive than crying pretentious crocodile tears and in the back of her mind she'll be like I can't wait for this burial to be over so I can get home and celebrate like some Widows do only for them to get home and she's someone else and then you wonder is this really her

moreover she's better than the lady that went to urinate on top of her boyfriend abi babydaddys graveside and posted the picture online

I even saw the photo on nl to

I just went to read the thread but you sef you wicked

see as you trail and bully am till he ran

I suspect the guy is an Internet fraudster and he just took pictures with the girl who the mother is oblivious of his intent to snap picture with the girl and make up a story.

KanwuliaJara:
https://www.nairaland.com/2611033/thread-close/3#38202756

Na this thread dey fear me o!!!!

An ID on NL which I suspect has a FAKE DP too, opened a thread to pose with an INNOCENT MINOR HE CLAIMED TO BE HIS CHILD!
We asked him for further proof and he decided to "close" the thread.

Which wan consine me?

Too many threads like these in this family section!

This thread is dedicated to FAKE TORIES!!!!
Moderators! Na so una wan build NL?
Based on 419 tories wey full front page?

Please, if you must tell lies, cheat, steal or KILL . . . . Don't get CAUGHT!!!!

@cococandy that guy is even following you

otijo pa

grammarian

Go and read brighter grammar before I can dignify you with a response

oloshi

emmydeep:
You must be a mannerless Yoruba street urching.

Honestly, you are very sick and NEEDS to be rushed to Yaba-left.

If you don't have something good to tell the lady, common shut up.

LewsTherin:
I don't think her (his?) grouse is with you or your post. I share her (his?) anger that something as simple as the welfare of a child is being complicated by some worthless tradition that will make absolutely no one in this case any better.

gbam. Take 5 joor

you have said it all

I am not sorry for what I posted and I repeat with all boldness that it is a useless culture.

If not how can the man impregnate the woman and now be giving her conditions on how he will use to take care of his child that fell from the sky not the one that came out of his loins

and to top it all you now said the child's gender will determine where he will stay. Smh

The only thing that I agree in your post is that everyone has culture but the useless one like the one you posted here needs to be abolished

then besides how come the stooped culture didn't compell the man to remain married the way it compells women to remain married even in unpleasant situations. Abi that one too no be culture

you only use culture when it suits your unregenerated mind

And for your information if you are waiting for me to feel sorry or bad for what I posted you will wait till the sky turns green and pink

nonsense.

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Richy4:
My dear you are trying to make sense but ended up not making any. What do you mean by what has culture got to do with it?

Every man or woman boy or girl got one cultural heritage or another. Even the whites.
Some are bad some are good, some not so bad and some not so good.

So I don't know if you are lashing your anger for what I said which I believe everyone is entitled to their opinion or you are shaking your head for the culture.

You got to be a bit specific here. And learn to disagree on someone 's opinion with manners.

cococandy:
Leave me joor.

Teasing me with food that you won't give me

otibinu

oya sorry na

then what

cococandy:
Na lie.

cococandy:
I want you to package the peppersoup and send it to me.
Na picture I wan chop?

this is salah break. The people that will send it have gone for public holiday as declared by the fg

KanwuliaJara:
Good!
They are learning to SAY NO TO ABORTION!

the ones dumping children on heaps of rubbish or inside gutter or garage nko?

How about this cococandy?

cococandy:
Kulyie don't tempt me
Chai

ok what do you want for a post well typed

Op don't mind those saying go with the flow you will soon crash land if you go with the flow without your senses. Just take your time and weigh things deeply

These are the kinds of idiotic cultures and useless traditions that pull Nigeria backwards. Smh

what does culture have to do with this. If a culture cannot help the practitioners then it is a useless culture

Richy4:
My advice will depend on where you came from.

If you are an igbo woman, and had a boy, the child will surely return to his father's house and kinsmen. Assuming it was a female child you got, I would have said it is OK if she was in your mom's place..

No matter how much you train him, when he is of age, some annoying uncle or aunt will still remind him to go back to his father's house.

I just honestly hope the case is different where you came from

gbam.you have wrapped everything up that I have been trying to say since morning. In fact you deserve this pepper soup and assorted for breakfast this cold morning

cococandy:
@bold in your post, as it should be.

Why exactly should it be otherwise?
Right without responsibilities indeed.

Does anyone molest you guys for being indecent? I haven't seen you cry foul for the rights without responsibilities you're enjoying.

See you quoted a writer who's saying male sexuality is being oppressed. If you didn't mean that in Relation to rape and victim blaming, why quote him/her in this instance. It's like you're not aware of the subliminal message that carries. Your bad if you're misunderstood.
Next time quote him only when it is appropriate even if untrue. But at least let it have a relationship with the topic that won't make your post sound like something else.

@colored, I share no such sentiments. I've met good men. Many.
And I defend good men when coincidentally people who share your POV insinuate that men are beings with lack of self control who could be potential rapists if the lady around them isn't behaving properly. You Didn't see it that way huh?
Because you wanted to distract attention from the serious issue of rape to the propaganda of men are being demonized. As is usual in these parts.

Never mind that the article had MEN and WOMEN equally outraged by the "don't dress indecently if you don't want to raped" comments.

The thing is when people say such things, they don't understand what they are teaching.
"Don't bring out the beast in him"
"Don't push him to molest you"
"Don't provoke him to beat you to death"
Etc. they don't teach the so called responsibility that you're harping about. What they teach is that the perpetrator is not responsible for their actions of crime against the other person.


As for what is proper dressing or not, who makes the rules? You, me? With cultures varying around the world is there a common standard agreed upon by EVERY single person as to what proper dressing is? Don't bother to answer that. Rhetorical.

But there is a standard for what is harmful to the next person as humans feel pain the same way. So yes anti-rape laws and sentiments (especially sentiments) can be enforced or at least taught because any victim anywhere in the world feels the pain the same way. (That's an example)

But 'proper' dressing can't be enforced because we don't all agree on what's proper and what's not. So the earlier People started respecting other people's choices of dressing, the faster we can move on to the main issues. Which is the criminal high handedness of someone who thinks they can take another by force because they felt enticed.

I've a question for you though.

why do you think rape is stil very high in countries like India and Nigeria where conservativism is still the order of the day?

What are your thoughts on that?