₦airaland Forum

coogar:
the incidence isn't really the matter, it's the punishment that we are talking about. at least, wife beaters in the west get punished. what happens to wife beaters in nigeria? even when the evidence of wife barred by dino melayie was exposed, you people still went ahead to vote him as a senator.

it's a disgrace!

who voted who?

People voted abi they rigged the elections

FrancisTony:
5pages already. I can smell hypocrisy.

Even those that create threads on how women should be beaten and are on every thread to justify violence.

are you minding them


coogar being their chair man
funlord aka market square jester being their vice chair man and the remaining host of cockroaches and drag Queens fronting as men are the championers

You're just a market square clown

coogar:
the size of your foolishness if measured in wattage would solve all the electricity problems in the developing countries. there's no marital rape in nigeria, stop arguing like a semi-illiterate.



it could be rape!
she cannot say no because she has been told by the church, her parents & the society at large never to say no to her hubby.

deep down, she would rather not have sex during that period but can she even bring herself to open her mouth that she doesn't want sëx?

Are you done? Such a huge weight of pain lifted off your shoulder. Right?

funlord:


No its not "DAME sambarry!" It is actually a caricature of 2 fictional but popular cartoon comic characters called "superman and wonder woman" depicting the style of "written slap" you had received on the post!

If only your childhood had not been characterised by "low rations,squalor, extreme poverty, poor diets, lack of adequate home training, ignorance, child rape, _incest, exposure to crime, prostitution and other social vices, then maybe you may have developed into a fully cultured and knowledgeable lady and then would have had an idea of "who and what" they both are and represent!

But unfortunately you have been left to spawn into a "local, brash, rant obsessed, mentally impaired zelda like creature that refuses to quit acting like a court jester in public!" Kindly swerve onto oncoming traffic, you would be of more benefit to the earth if you end up as "road kill for wild animals to devour!" Speaking of "charity beginning at home", I don't think your present location under the oshodi bye pass bridge qualifies as a home! Your daughter deserves better please!

Toodles!

coogar:
all those married men you consistently sleep with consider you a sex machine. old habits die hard. if they are doing it to their wives, how much more you that they consider a cüm bucket?

you are not seriously enjoying - you are just suffering & smiling.

even a lagos cougar to is talking

In other words women are married to become sex machines. If that's the case I am seriously enjoying

coogar:
lemme go & read it....



that's the point!
if they don't see it as räpe, how would they report it or tell anyone? women have been conditioned to please their husbands by any means necessary. not giving him sëx when he wants constitutes insurbodination.

Coogar you're still ranting nonsense as usual Roftl



funlord is that cartoon picture your own sister you're pushing


anyway I am not surprised charity begin s from home. Hehe

Coogar arguing with you is like pouring water inside basket. You lack wisdom and enlienlightenment if not how can you be vomiting nonsense.



Please since when did husband and wife become people above the law. You need wisdom and in all your getting get understanding

Your sense of humour is still dry try again

funlord:


Its not suprising that its dead madam! Its a side effect of having a "louse sized I.Q ". Mr coogar diagnosed you were suffering from it earlier remember?

You should change your moniker to "arithmetic woman!" Because you only add trouble, subtract pleasure, divide attention, and multiply ignorance!

Smh.

coogar:
she probably sells fat red pepper & onions in nigeria. i am not convinced she's formally educated.

It is your own state of mental development i should doubt. I will read the 1999 constitution of federal Republic of Nigeria. Buy it and grow sense small so that your misinformation will reduce

chapter 4, section 34 subsection 1 says


every individual is entitled to respect for the dignity of his person and accordingly no person (man or woman) shall be subjected to inhuman or degrading treatment







So if you have any brain left in your head you should know that whether marital or un marital rape rape is rape and they constitute inhuman or degrading treatment so to answer the question 5minsmadness asked what would she charge him for. I said plenty. She will charge him for section 34 sub section one. It's there. I'm not the one that wrote the constitution .air head!

funlord:


I've NOTICED it 2! Jesus wept!

very funny that I forgot to laugh


Your sense of humour is dead

If marital rape is illegal why where the women charged to court. I'm done arguing with you since you have nothing sensible to say the rest of your post are like a clanging cymbal or the barking of a dog

coogar:
you are a fool!
stop quoting me if you don't have the required intelligence to read & understand my post. if the laws of your stupid country does not recognise marital rape, why would the readiness or the unreadiness of the woman be an issue?



the women were charged with murder & sexual assault. a woman cannot legally rape a man in nigeria. yet you call yourself a graduate and you are not even aware of your rights as a woman in nigeria. how would you know when 99% of your brain cells have been eroded with owambe fried rice & bokoto.....

It's a lie! You are speaking from both sides of the mouth after exposing your hypocrisy. Kontinu

coogar:
i was only explaining what the law of your country thinks about marital rape. a husband cannot rape his wife in nigeria - no such laws exist in our constitution. i am saying with such situations, women don't even know they are being raped cos such laws do not exist!



if you take time to read & follow discussion from the start, you wouldn't be talking nonsense. if you had followed the discussion from the start you would see i am against marital rape.

Ok so what does whether she is ready or not



is it not the same thing as whether she likes it or not then speaking of women not capable of raping men i think I saw a thread Mr coogar created about 6wives raping their husband to death in Nigeria.then please and please when you are arguing argue with direction I hate blind argument

coogar:
are you suffering from dyslexia?
which sentence in the comment you quoted mentioned me as happily thrusting in & out?



surrendering isn't räpe!
every victim of rape must have surrendered - the key is consent. you are a man - you would always be ready for sex, so says the law. our law has no provision for a woman raping a man as well.

women are wired differently - so you cannot compare. there are 1 million & one reasons a woman may not want sex from her hubby and she shouldn't be forced to if she doesn't want it.

coogar:
are you suffering from dyslexia?
which sentence in the comment you quoted mentioned me as happily thrusting in & out?

I should be asking you that question.


Please define your statement by a married woman is expected to surrender for sex whether or not she's ready. Define what it means.

Moana:
Women are meant to be perfect and men should be accepted with the faults they come with. Im sorry who is the head of the house again?

me

coogar:
you would never know this cos it's not even considered as räpe. husband has the right to demand for sex from his wife & she must surrender her body regardless of her readiness or unreadiness. she doesn't even she's being raped.

eww are you for real






spits in disgust. Tufiaaaaaaaaa





so you will happily be thrusting in and out of a dry and unlubricated vqgyn@




Tufiaaaaaaaaa

This ya nollywood film sweet die


when part 2 go come out ?

Open marriage has solved all this endlessly long grammar

realborn:
I have only met one man in my life who has remained a virgin at 32.

Every married man I have come across will give in to having sexual intercourse with another woman who is seductively attractive, all things being equal, at standard temperature and pressure with the right ambience and environment.

Cheating on the other hand is a case of a man getting emotionally entangled with another woman to the point of intolerance for his wife. He would rather be with the new woman at all times than be with his spouse. At this point, I will say there is a severe problem. A man can only breakaway from such stronghold only after the strange woman's true colors are expressed beyond the veil and if those true attributes are glaring opposites of who she had pretended to be. More so, if he has a wife with sterling virtues, he may be led back home like a prodigal husband, but his sobriety will only last until he meets another deceptive woman who will cajole him out of the house again until the scales fall off especially when he cannot meet the demands (physical or financial) of the strange woman, then re returns home again. The cycle gets repeated until a marriage survives 40 to 50 years of wedlock.

I also consider sleeping with a spouse's family member, colleague, friends, neighbour or anyone within the spouse's radius of knowledge, cheating. This is because, the cheat and the cheating partner will tend to always discretely deceive the unknowing spouse of their amoral affairs. It is a case of direct mockery and has the most devastating effect when the secret is eventually exposed.

The root cause of cheating (not sleeping with random people) lies in the difference between expectations before marriage and expectations afterwards. It lies in change in preference before marriage and change in preference afterwards. Most guys are of the illusion that when a date is set for marriage, they will have their last dig and stay focused. Unfortunately, it is not always so. Guys do get extremely sexually bored in marriage. Natural law of diminishing returns sets in. A man's mind is programmed to flirt. Tuned to conquer, hence the toasting lines all the time. Often times, women are not to be blamed. it is just a man's stupid nature to sleep with other women or cheat (note the difference).

In some cases, a continuous nagging wife or unkind woman or vituperative woman or a narcissistic woman lays the foundation for an unrepentant cheating husband. Walahi, if such a man finds comfort outside, he would cheat with all his body, mind and soul. Except there is a financial gain, he may never care about the wife again.

In deference to sleeping with other women, it may be almost impossible to stop a man from falling for this natural evil even if he has all things perfect. A man who is exposed to the vagaries, vicissitudes and ills of life and remains steadfast and celibate before marriage with some level of relationship with God can remain same after marriage if he marries a complementing partner, that is a friend.

My final advice is for women to rise up and keep a lively home. Look good and attractive all the time but be careful not to look vain. Do dirty naughty stuffs with your husband as much as you can (dirty does not necessarily mean extremes, it could be sex on the balcony at home or hotel terrace). Be kind to everyone. Be a great mother to the kids. Adore your husband. Talk subtly to him about his amoral affairs and why he should stop.

NB:
My post-final advice, if you put into effect the recommendation above and he remains obdurate, please walk out of such marriage or shut your mind to accept the pain. Unfortunately women are not allowed the luxury to jump around as men are allowed to; this can temporarily equalize the pain but will blow up when the cheating habits of both spouses hit a confluence. Anyways, what is imperative is for everyone to be happy in life. A broken marriage is better than an abusive one!

And the wife beaters storm the thread to exempt themselves and pretend that it's not majority of marriages in Nigeria where the mr husband is the alpha and omega the beginning and end the ed of the house

They will tie their gele and make up heavily in church lifting up holy hands feigning spirit filled woman while the husband feigns shepherd of the home and when they get home their LORD, MASTER AND DELIVERER aka olowo ori aka Mr husband that saved them from spinsterhood will beat them like there's no tomorrow




I have no pity with women who use their vaginas to think. They can be beaten to death for all I care

If you're not satisfied with any of the above then try this. You'll like to spray money on her

Shymm3x:
Hahahahah! WTF?

She looks old enough to be my mum. And with all the gold she has on, you would think she's Slick Rick the ruler in Yoruba trad, without the legendary eye patch.

You can do better than this, Kulyie.


https://divaartist.com/divablog/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/ticket-cake-2011-01-28-slick-rick_0.jpg

Let me just help your ministry since you're a sucker for old women. You can spray anything you like on this one

Shymm3x:
Hahahahaha!!

This one looks like a drag queen, despite bleaching every ounce of melanin out of it. I won't spray copper coins on this one even if she were to run around stark nak3d.

I need the endowed ones, Kulyie.

Shymm3x:
Hahahahaha!!

This one looks like a drag queen, despite bleaching every ounce of melanin out of it. I won't spray copper coins on this one even if she were to run around stark nak3d.

I need the endowed ones, Kulyie.

are they tomatoes to be put on display?

dinachi:
Console yourself.

didn't you take a ban why are you now deceiving your self? Suddenly shy?

Caman Sharap ya mouth before I shut it up for you. How dare you?




You look me finish you con talk say make i wriggle am for you who you be sef. Wait wait wait let me turn around so you'll take a good look at me whether I resemble person wey them go dey spray 1 dollar/ mere 150 naira. You are mad for that



see that wedge alone it costs 7,500 naira and the gele with ipele is 15, 000 naira and you have the effrontery to spray me 150 naira. Koni ragba fun iwo ati Owo e

Shymm3x:
Lol, I don't mess with owanbe parties - but I won't mind those endowed Yoruba women SAMBARRY the Kulyie always post in the family section shaking that batty for me, while I spray $1 notes as they wiggle it.

Don't fool yourself - when the average Yoruba isn't an Americophile/Anglophile, he/she is comfortable jollying around and enjoying whatever meagre possessions he/she is blessed with in docility. That's Yoruba-esque sophistication right there for you.

But hey, Radio Biafra is fun to listen to sometimes, with that thick and emotional Igbotic accent being disseminated into airwaves. I don't envy them at all.

If I no chop better food at my age now shey na when I no get teeth I go dey begin tear fowl laps chop

EfemenaXY:
Ta!

#Smacks her hand#

You know you shouldn't be eating dem tinz. Na only green vegs, fish, and water for you lady. I'm watching...

FrancisTony:
Lol, I was/am active in Education, diaries and Religion section.

People know me and I've met some Nl'ers in school.
I'm not a female, biko...

you be b.k tisha ni?