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Romance › Re: God is good by samguru(m): 7:38pm On Nov 03, 2020

I guess your beauty and money have successfully helped you to build unnecessary ego.

If you are ready to settle down, adjust your expectations and you will meet someone soon.

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Investment › Re: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by samguru(m): 1:19pm On Nov 02, 2020

debeey87:
Maybe our dividend will be sweeter next yr but Alhaji likes 1.10 every yr

Alhaji is very generous he may give us 1.70 next year

Investment › Re: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by samguru(m): 12:55pm On Nov 02, 2020

Excellent report from dangote sugar
EPS of 1.23 in Q3 only and year to date date 2.19.

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Family › Re: How To File For A Divorce In Nigeria by samguru(m): 10:23am On Oct 25, 2020

litigator:
Send a WhatsApp message. I am a litigation lawyer.

Please send your phone number to
samguru78@gmail.com

Family › Re: How To File For A Divorce In Nigeria by samguru(m): 8:13am On Oct 25, 2020

Plead:
Ask @Queenfav, @litigator and @lawyer.

Please can you help me with the contact of a good divorce lawyer

Family › Re: How To File For A Divorce In Nigeria by samguru(m): 11:52pm On Oct 24, 2020

Can anyone help me with a contact of good divorce lawyer.

samguru78@gmail.com

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Politics › Re: PDP Sponsoring EndSARS Protests - APC by samguru(m): 10:09am On Oct 22, 2020

PDP is also responsible for Buhari silence, they have been gagging Buhari from addressing the nation.

Politics › Re: 70 CSOs Reject Lauretta Onochie’s Appointment As INEC Commissioner by samguru(m): 9:34pm On Oct 13, 2020

I will not be surprised if Bubu nominate Oshiomole for INEC chairman.

Everyday our leaders keep sinking this country to new low.

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Politics › Re: APC Blames PDP For Creating SARS, Hails Buhari by samguru(m): 8:40am On Oct 12, 2020

PDP created EFCC

APC undermine EFCC

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Investment › Re: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by samguru(m): 1:06pm On Oct 09, 2020

Bull has gone out to join End SARS protest.
Bull will not be back until something is done

Family › Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by samguru(m): 6:29am On Sep 29, 2020

From your narration, you are still single and love this guy.
Life is full of uncertainties and people progress in error thinking they are on the right path.

If you are still single,take him back and both of you should start a new life.

If you are married, allow him to be seeing his child and support him in your little way to get his life back on track.

Don't forget you have an unbroken bond with this guy, and if he is not happy,it will affect your child as no child will like seeing his dad miserable.

Investment › Re: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by samguru(m): 12:39pm On Sep 28, 2020

Why is Tony Elumelu buying more of UBA and not Transcorp?

Investment › Re: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by samguru(m): 12:28pm On Sep 24, 2020

AIICO Insurance has been marked down for bonus issue

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Politics › Re: Federal Government Approves 13% Derivation For Revenue Generated From Mining by samguru(m): 12:47pm On Sep 13, 2020

13%derivation will not solve the problems of the states.
Resource control is the way forward

Politics › Re: Edo Election: Ganduje Lands In Benin City For APC, Ize-Iyamu Campaign (Photos) by samguru(m): 6:56pm On Sep 12, 2020

Can Obaseki play the VAR of Gandudollar as done for Oshio baba?

Politics › Re: Nigeria’s Debt Hits N31trn – DMO by samguru(m): 7:13pm On Sep 09, 2020*

Hmmmmmm

Just 31trillion naira.
When Bubu is still going to 100trillion naira

Bubu you have my support to sell this country outrightly.

Welldone Bubu, more power to your elbow

Sai baba

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Education › Re: HND Holders Threaten Industrial Action, Lament Discrimination by samguru(m): 5:15pm On Aug 28, 2020

Noted
DSS,Police and Army do we still have bullets in our armoury?

Thank you for informing us in advance

Family › Re: What Other Things Can He Do To Reconnect With His Son? by samguru(op): 7:06am On Aug 12, 2020

GboyegaD:
Can he talk to his wife's family about this issue otherwise, he should seek the help of the court.

His wife family are not United,most of the family members are not saying anything Good about the lady,only the mother of the lady is on her side and her father is late.

Health › Re: Russia Approves COVID-19 Vaccine. Putin's Daughter Vaccinated by samguru(m): 11:23am On Aug 11, 2020

Is it possible to Swap Putin for Buhari?

Please i need answer

Family › Re: What Other Things Can He Do To Reconnect With His Son? by samguru(op): 9:54pm On Aug 08, 2020

Another revelation,

He told me the lady has another son for another man before she married her.
He said she told her about the child and claimed the father of her first son maltreated her and that is the reason she walked away from that marriage.Her first son with her grandmother too.

Now the lady has two sons for two different men.

When I heard that now, I was like this is a serious matter ooo

Family › Re: What Other Things Can He Do To Reconnect With His Son? by samguru(op): 8:08pm On Aug 08, 2020

Thank you all for your contributions,I just reached out to the lady via phone,she insulted me and my generations unborn.

After the whole bruhaha, she said ,if my friend wants to see the boy,he should send #1million to her account and she will make arrangement on where to meet.

I thought she was joking,I told my friend to send her #100k at least to persuade her and all the expenses she has incurred in raising that boy, immediately she sent the #100k back to my friend and said if the #1m is less by a kobo,he should just forget he has a son somewhere.
What kind of woman is this?

Health › Re: Ladies, How Many Sanitary Pads Do You Use Per Cycle? by samguru(m): 11:21am On Aug 08, 2020

Shellsploit:
See as guys full this thread
Sey una sef don dey use sanitary pad

Make una just calm down abit.

Guys full here, because we indirectly bear the cost and our side chicks and wives must shalaye why the cost of menstruating every month is that high

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Family › Re: What Other Things Can He Do To Reconnect With His Son? by samguru(op): 6:04pm On Aug 05, 2020

fykes:
Brother... I get u but I implore u bcoz we don't know tomorrow, that man has very slim chances of winning that Fight. Marital issues are best approached diplomatically. One thing counts against him, he left d union!! Marital laws the world all over are designed to give women legal backing in case of conflict. In this issue, d wife has 70% chances of keeping the child.. Do u know what she needs to do to keep d boy? Prove that he goes to school, show that she still wears her ring, still maintains their last known address, still has any of his personal effects in the house.
Automatically d court turns against the man and he will pay child support till he begins to wonder if it is worth getting a flimsy visiting right while the woman can fvck anybody while he is in the same house and even better with his money.
And please don't assume that the estranged wife will collaborate everything the op said here.. She won't and u haven't heard from her.
Women are masters of emotional blackmail...he either appeals to his in-laws to prevail on her or he play her game and ignore her while stealthily keeping an eye on the boy. One day a chance will present itself... D boy maybe endangered or hurt physically and if he's smart enough, he can turn the tables on her

One thing counts against him, he left d union!!
I was one of those that advised him to leave because my friend is just too soft,she keeps destroying his phones,valuable things and most times she will lock my friend indoor attempting to harm him with knife,broken bottles and other dangerous weapons.
I told him one day this lady will mistakenly kill you,so it is better you stay away from her.
The most annoying thing to me was, each time he reports report her to her mother, her mother always tell my friend that she can not harm him that she is only doing shakara.

Family › Re: Finally, I Have Decided To Leave Him by samguru(m): 4:38pm On Aug 05, 2020

Tunagee:
wow! I love this. Best so far. No be everything be divorce! divorce! or seperation. Nonsense

the context of my response on the referred issue is completely different from what we are discussing here.

Thank you

Family › Re: What Other Things Can He Do To Reconnect With His Son? by samguru(op): 4:33pm On Aug 05, 2020

fykes:
I see lots of folks who do not know any lawyer or human right activist and have also refused to even use google.
People who do not care about what the law says talking about going to court.
Isn't it funny??
Op... Visit any magistrate court and enquire about divorce proceedings and it's legal framework.
Then come back here and tell us ur findings and ur decisions

The marriage was consummated at Ikoyi Registry (Federal government) and i think magistrate court lacks jurisdiction over the case.

Family › Re: What Other Things Can He Do To Reconnect With His Son? by samguru(op): 2:06pm On Aug 05, 2020

SmartyPants:
Hmmm. You don't seem like you have a lot yourself.

At the very least, the Court will award visitation rights.

What I found disturbing about the child custody is that, the lady abandoned the boy with her mother and relocate to another area.

Family › Re: What Other Things Can He Do To Reconnect With His Son? by samguru(op): 11:30am On Aug 05, 2020

JONNYSPUTE:
...I don't really know cause I'm not a lawyer but even if he can't file for a proper divorce now,he can go to human rights and file for child visitation.

Thank you, do you know any human right activist i can contact?

Family › Re: What Other Things Can He Do To Reconnect With His Son? by samguru(op): 11:24am On Aug 05, 2020

JONNYSPUTE:
....Pls forget about the guy and his foolish advice.

You are right about him going to court.

That's how so many weak men lose their children because they are scared of court proceedings.

No matter what,going to court is still the best option unless he has been maltreating the wife.

Even at that,the court will still grant him some visitation right.

How much does it cost to file a proper divorce?

Family › Re: What Other Things Can He Do To Reconnect With His Son? by samguru(op): 11:21am On Aug 05, 2020

JONNYSPUTE:
....Pls forget about the guy and his foolish advice.

You are right about him going to court.

uncivil remarks/comments are not necessary my brother.

I only offered that advice, so that peace can reign and protect the child from being hurt by the lady.

Family › Re: What Other Things Can He Do To Reconnect With His Son? by samguru(op): 10:02am On Aug 05, 2020

fykes:
How long have they been separated?
How far apart do they live?
Both of them are living in lagos
Did he physically assault her before she left?
The lady physically assault my friend and he got to a point he had to scamper for safety and that point he left her
How old is the boy?
The boy is 4 years
Does he want only the boy or he really wants his marriage back?
He only wants the boy

If u can truthfully answer.. I can truthfully tell him steps to take.

Family › Re: What Other Things Can He Do To Reconnect With His Son? by samguru(op): 9:59am On Aug 05, 2020

88Craze:
If he ignores the boy, the boy will be manipulated by the wife, the boy will grow up hating his father.

This lady is very violent, he threatened to kill that boy when my friend visited the boy at her mother's house.At that point I told him to stop checking on the child.

I spoke with the lady about allowing my friend to see the boy, she told me according to their tradition once divorce has occurred the father loose the child to the her family.

Family › What Other Things Can He Do To Reconnect With His Son? by samguru(op): 9:38am On Aug 05, 2020

Good day Nairalanders,

My friend is separated from his wife since 2016 due to intolerable behaviours of his wife. My friend on a several occasions has asked his wife(I still considered them married since they are not legally separated) to open account for his son and also furnish him with details of his son's school so that he can start paying his child school fees.
The adamant wife refused to do so and even took the boy far away from him.Everyday my friend is pained that his wife has not allowed him to access the child and discharge his fatherly responsibilities.

I have advised him to start a new life and that the boy will come back to look for him in the future, but my friend is yet to heed to my advice.

what other things can he do to reconnect with his son?

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