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Romance / Re: Magun Or What? by sammycashly: 8:04pm On Apr 27, 2020
if you have

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Health / Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by sammycashly: 11:10pm On Apr 15, 2020
Catchfirez:



That's why is good to read and ask questions. It only in Africa that ignorance kills more than a disease.
I guess you dnt stay in Africa
anyways I just said my own opinion
Health / Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by sammycashly: 11:00pm On Apr 15, 2020
Catchfirez:
, yes sometimes, only avoid raw whenever she is on her period. Been dating almost a year and I'm still negative . Her viral load is undetected so couldn't be infected.
bro you get courage I swear...am not a stigmatizer
but if am in your shoes I dnt think I would have that courage to date her not to have protected sex with her.. not even in this world have an unprotected sex
Health / Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by sammycashly: 10:52pm On Apr 15, 2020
Catchfirez:


I'm not joking.
so you dive raw with her?
Health / Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by sammycashly: 10:31pm On Apr 15, 2020
Catchfirez:
Nice op. HIv is not a death sentence. Currently Dating a Hiv positive Lady. I must tell you, she is an angel and that didn't change our sex life because I'm negative. Her viral load is undetected, she can't infect me as long as she remain undetected. Hiv is not a death sentence, as long they take there drugs and eat healthy. So many people are ignorant about this. They need to be educated. A Hiv positive person is more healthier than the partner you are dating at the moment. Because he or she knows his or her status.
you are joking abi grin
Catchfirez:
Nice op. HIv is not a death sentence. Currently Dating a Hiv positive Lady. I must tell you, she is an angel and that didn't change our sex life because I'm negative. Her viral load is undetected, she can't infect me as long as she remain undetected. Hiv is not a death sentence, as long they take there drugs and eat healthy. So many people are ignorant about this. They need to be educated. A Hiv positive person is more healthier than the partner you are dating at the moment. Because he or she knows his or her status.
you are joking abi
Romance / Re: Covid19 Boredom! Photos I Meet A Toxic Guy On Abuja Tinder. by sammycashly: 8:43pm On Apr 14, 2020
babe you are a fool....I mean a great one...person say hello..the next thing on your reply is did u read my profile?
you no get any sense at all??
is that suppose to be your next reply?
next time learn manners ma

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Romance / Re: My Contribution To The Society by sammycashly: 10:00am On Apr 10, 2020
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Romance / Re: 50,000 Giveaway by sammycashly: 7:58pm On Mar 28, 2020
3031144551...polaris bank....thank you in advance
Romance / Re: Let Me Sub For You. Drop Your Number. by sammycashly: 7:55pm On Mar 28, 2020
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Romance / Re: 2k For The First 100 People by sammycashly: 7:53pm On Mar 28, 2020
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Romance / Re: "I Have Slept With 88.8% Of The Girls I Met Online. Girls Are Just Useless”- Guy by sammycashly: 8:39am On Mar 21, 2020
Deeminaj:
Not all girls are useless,there are decent girls out there and like a law of physics said 'like poles attract' you only attract your kind of person to yourself. So if all the girls you have met are useless then you are more useless them
mumu...which law of physics told you like poles attract...Go back to your physics mam...and stop spilling trash
Romance / Re: Erigga Advise Young Men To Stay Away From Yahoo Boy’s Girlfriend. by sammycashly: 2:47pm On Mar 19, 2020
Lilbest3:
The foolishness here is really impressive.
There is no way a legit boy can date a girl who dated a yahoo boy.
You don chop?
You are using infinix your babe is using iPhone xs max and planning to upgrade to 11 pro Max na BP go kill you Las las
That's what he's actually talking about not this rubbish ritual you people are yapping about
I swear na only you get sense for this tread...I tire o....thats what the guy is actually saying
Romance / Re: Couple Got Married 32ft Underwater In The Caribbean Sea (Photo) by sammycashly: 9:53am On Feb 11, 2020
Those camera men are now in money...theyll see 10 times the money they see on a normal church wedding......God this is the kind of wedding I also want to be shooting... Amen

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Business / Re: How can I stop being broke in 2020? by sammycashly: 8:55am On Jan 06, 2020
rentAcock:
No offense bro, when I read the part about not having a laptop I thought I could gift you a laptop I have sitting around. But then I decided to check out your previous posts just to make sure you aren't trying to use style to get free stuff online and I noticed you spend most of your time on Nairaland romance and dating sections.
If you are really trying to broaden your skills and increase your online revenue, I swear you will be on fiverr, upwork and several other freelance threads right here on nairaland. If you are really determined, you can find people willing to teach you for free, some are even willing to raise money for a basic laptop to get you started but instead you spend more time on romance threads where the OP is asking for girlfriend.
My advice to you is to browse freelance threads on nairaland, join facebook and whatsapp groups with like minds, take cheap classes on udemy and Lynda. I kid you not, I know several guys earning over N5,000,000 a year just on freelancing sites. You may start out making just 80k a month, but it gets better, it sure beats being dead broke.
That he spends more time on romance section really got me hard....lolz....were leleyi ooo

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Foreign Affairs / Re: Iran Hoists The Red Flag Which Is A Traditional Symbol For War by sammycashly: 8:14am On Jan 05, 2020
[b][/b][i][/i][color=#000099][/color] If IRAN is really planning to go to war with America... I shake my head for them....the IRAN you see today, you shall see them no more
Romance / Re: Man Told His Girlfriend He Was Broke Jokingly, She Sends Him N100K by sammycashly: 10:30pm On Jan 04, 2020
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Romance / Re: A Girl I Met On Facebook Chats With Other Guy by sammycashly: 10:24pm On Jan 04, 2020
MaxVee:
I Am Losing My Mind, Could This Be Love Or Foolishness?

Okay, I'd be quick and brief as well.

So about 6 months ago, I met my girl on facebook, And after months wooing her to date me, she finally agreed and we started dating..

Like everything was perfect and indeed I fell deeply in love with her even before I met her.

So along the line in our relationship she told she had a best friend who is a guy and they have know each other for like 4years..and that they talk very well (calls and chat) and that they tell each other they love themselves, but if I wasn't cool with it,I could break up she would understand.

As a guy I knew I had fallen for her and I embraced her telling me about the guy after a strong assurance from her that they were not into any sort of relationship with each other.

So my girl called me like let's say a month after we started dating that there was this her friend who she hadn't met and that wanted and she was going to see him, and I was like fine, she should just be fine.

P.S:- I hadn't met with my girl even till the point she went to meet the guy...I was in the west and she was in one of the states in the East..more like a long distance relationship.

Fast forward to days after they met I became uncomfortable with the relationship between my girl and the said new guy she met..I talked to her severally about it and she was at some point swearing not having anything to do with the new guy she just met.

Fast forward to the festive season I came back and I met my girl for the first time..indeed she was everything I imagined and we flowed amazingly well.

Long story cut short in the midst of one of our long conversations I discovered she have at some point had sex severally with her said best friend...so I was like since it was before we met I forgave her and we moved on..

yesterday I asked her if she has anything with the new guy and she swore again not having anything with him that the guy has been asking her out and she refused dating him.

She said plenty of things that convinced me into believing that nothing was going between them.

P.S:- before yesterday I told her to tell the new guy she has a boyfriend and she promised to..(from the actions of my girl I could tell she loves me.) She later told me that day that she told him and she had blocked him and stuff..and trust me I did believe her.

So this morning while she was sleeping I reaching out to her phone and went straight to her WhatsApp.. opened the chat with the guy and what I saw broke me..

She was reconciling with him over the break up she instigated of which was caused by something totally different not even because she told him she had a guy..what killed my spirit was a message she wrote to the guy saying "she left me for him even though I was far much a better option"..I confronted her and she has been pleading saying she loves me but she likes him and that they haven't had anything except kissing and caressing..that she loves me so much..that she started liking him when she started talking to him more frequently and I was far away. She hadn't know me..so she got fond of him and she likes him.

I love this babe so much, I told her I forgive her..but please I need your opinions..am I blinded by love or am being foolish..

How would you handle the situation. If it was you..
La La.. please help move this to front page
Am breaking every hour.
lipsrsealed
MaxVee:
I Am Losing My Mind, Could This Be Love Or Foolishness?

Okay, I'd be quick and brief as well.

So about 6 months ago, I met my girl on facebook, And after months wooing her to date me, she finally agreed and we started dating..

Like everything was perfect and indeed I fell deeply in love with her even before I met her.

So along the line in our relationship she told she had a best friend who is a guy and they have know each other for like 4years..and that they talk very well (calls and chat) and that they tell each other they love themselves, but if I wasn't cool with it,I could break up she would understand.

As a guy I knew I had fallen for her and I embraced her telling me about the guy after a strong assurance from her that they were not into any sort of relationship with each other.

So my girl called me like let's say a month after we started dating that there was this her friend who she hadn't met and that wanted and she was going to see him, and I was like fine, she should just be fine.

P.S:- I hadn't met with my girl even till the point she went to meet the guy...I was in the west and she was in one of the states in the East..more like a long distance relationship.

Fast forward to days after they met I became uncomfortable with the relationship between my girl and the said new guy she met..I talked to her severally about it and she was at some point swearing not having anything to do with the new guy she just met.

Fast forward to the festive season I came back and I met my girl for the first time..indeed she was everything I imagined and we flowed amazingly well.

Long story cut short in the midst of one of our long conversations I discovered she have at some point had sex severally with her said best friend...so I was like since it was before we met I forgave her and we moved on..

yesterday I asked her if she has anything with the new guy and she swore again not having anything with him that the guy has been asking her out and she refused dating him.

She said plenty of things that convinced me into believing that nothing was going between them.

P.S:- before yesterday I told her to tell the new guy she has a boyfriend and she promised to..(from the actions of my girl I could tell she loves me.) She later told me that day that she told him and she had blocked him and stuff..and trust me I did believe her.

So this morning while she was sleeping I reaching out to her phone and went straight to her WhatsApp.. opened the chat with the guy and what I saw broke me..

She was reconciling with him over the break up she instigated of which was caused by something totally different not even because she told him she had a guy..what killed my spirit was a message she wrote to the guy saying "she left me for him even though I was far much a better option"..I confronted her and she has been pleading saying she loves me but she likes him and that they haven't had anything except kissing and caressing..that she loves me so much..that she started liking him when she started talking to him more frequently and I was far away. She hadn't know me..so she got fond of him and she likes him.

I love this babe so much, I told her I forgive her..but please I need your opinions..am I blinded by love or am being foolish..

How would you handle the situation. If it was you..
La La.. please help move this to front page
Am breaking every hour.
Bro you already know you are foolish nah...so why come here to ask maybe you are been foolish....bro go back to 2019 and make a new year resolution....you don't have sense
Romance / Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by sammycashly: 5:55am On Oct 30, 2019
aminusodiq:

my parents warned me not to marry frm ogun state (egba people) dey gave me numerous instances where d wife turned d son against his parents!!! dey said ogun people kill dia husbands!!! other places are Ijebu, kogi ND some parts in kwara state!!! I'm Yoruba, but I'm sure my dad will prefer I Mary Igbo or hausa Dan to marry within dis tribes!
exactly what he told me also....he said you can marry Igbo or Hausa its allowed but Ogun state never....so wen I meet I babe that's from there...I japa straight...but if am sexually attracted to her a go wait small chop cokkies like 5 times before I carry my body
Romance / Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by sammycashly: 9:25pm On Oct 29, 2019
Kapilta:
which state are you from yourself? Ondo state?
NAH....OSUN

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Romance / Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by sammycashly: 7:34pm On Oct 29, 2019
[quote author=Kapilta post=83569898]I have heard people times without number saying their parent(either father, mother or both) forbids them from marrying from some particular region, tribes, ethnicity and all.

It can be devastating sometimes buh their(parent) reasons are best known to them.

So where did your parent warned you not to marry from, and what's the threat? Like did they threaten to curse or reject you as theirs if you dare go near where they warned you not to?

Did they give you any reasonable reason or non at all?
And which of them(like is it the father, the mother or both).

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Romance / Re: My Fiancee's Mum Doesn't Want Us To Marry Because Of My Tribe by sammycashly: 7:55am On Sep 28, 2019
SLAP44:
grin

Same thing happened in our compound, my elder bro brought back this girl to marry in Mbaise Imo state, my auntie was happy, but when she spoke to the girl and she was like, "Auntie doo, I no dey hear Ib,,,,, she couldn't complete the sentence and my auntie took the coke I brought for her and broke on the poor girl's head. See wahala that day grin

The poor Edo girl ran and my aunt chased her with a cane, flogging her all the way to the bus stop, my elder bro was helpless as it was my auntie who trained him in university.

The poor Edo girl was rejected because one wicked Edo woman who lived in my uncles house in Benin was using witchcraft to suck my auntie business.
Guy your aunty mad gan . grin
SLAP44:
grin

Same thing happened in our compound, my elder bro brought back this girl to marry in Mbaise Imo state, my auntie was happy, but when she spoke to the girl and she was like, "Auntie doo, I no dey hear Ib,,,,, she couldn't complete the sentence and my auntie took the coke I brought for her and broke on the poor girl's head. See wahala that day grin

The poor Edo girl ran and my aunt chased her with a cane, flogging her all the way to the bus stop, my elder bro was helpless as it was my auntie who trained him in university.

The poor Edo girl was rejected because one wicked Edo woman who lived in my uncles house in Benin was using witchcraft to suck my auntie business.
Guy your aunty mad gan .

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Romance / Re: Lady Advises Guys About Eating Pvssy by sammycashly: 4:35pm On Sep 11, 2019
MrBrownJay1:


Maybe if you came out of your shell and try something different for a change, you wouldn't get that easily tired of women. Spice up your bedroom activities bro.be adventurous.
Guy shut the hell up....you still repeating this bullshit again....chop pussy....you are mad I swear....not in this World

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Religion / Re: The Bible Does Not Support Drinking Alcohol, Don't Let Anyone Fool You by sammycashly: 11:47am On Sep 08, 2019
alBHAGDADI:

Hello,

There's this wrong believe among Christians that the Bible supports drinking alcohol but only in moderation. They say we can drink alcohol but we shouldn't get drunk. Well, I will be using Bible verses to show that Christians are not to look at alcohol not to talk of drinking it. Also, this thread will debunk common lies told to support drinking alcohol e.g Jesus turning water to wine.

The word wine is mentioned 231 times in the Bible. But the mistake we make today is that we think the wine mentioned is just alcholic wine. Half the time wine is mentioned in the Bible, it is about fruit juice.

In the Greek and Hebrew languages in which the Bible was written in, the word translated as wine was used to refer to alcohol and also fruit juice. So when those who translated the Bible into English did so, they had to look for an English word which could mean alcoholic beverage and fruit juice. That word is wine. You might wonder why the translators didn't make things easy for us by just writing fruit juice when the verse is talking of fruit juice and write alcoholic beverage when it's about alcohol. The thing is, doing such would mean they are injecting their own idea into the Bible.

Now, in modern times, we have this believe that wine means an alcoholic drinks. That's why we think the word wine in the Bible is always referring to alcohol. Let's me show you that wine in the Bible doesn't always mean alcoholic beverage but fruit juice.



As seen above, wine is found in the cluster i.e wine still in the cluster of grapes. This is purely fruit juice and not alcoholic.

However, grapes usually have a white powdery film around it called yeast. It is that yeast that is made use of to make alcoholic wine. They crush the grapes and in the process the yeast mixed with the fruit juice that was inside grape cluster. Next fermentation takes place then the result if alcoholic wine. Most times, wine makers add more yeast to attain the desired alcohol level. So you see, wine moved from normal fruit juice before it became alcoholic wine after yeast was added.

Now, there are two types of wine as explained above: The alcoholic and fruit juice. There's a certain type of wine the Bible said we shouldn't even look at, not to talk of touching our lips with it. Read the passage below.



The verse above is talking about alcoholic wine. It even describes fermentation process. It says we shouldn't even look at that type of wine. Yet some folks say we can drink it in moderation.



It describes the feeling one gets after drinking alcohol. It's a horrible feeling.



Have you ever had alcohol such that after taking it, women whom you would never touch with a ten foot poll suddenly start looking attractive to you? The above verse describes it as the effect of alcohol. It also describes how you start saying all sorts of junks which you would not normal say.



Remember when you lie down after taking alcohol and the whole bed seems like you are swimming, and also you feel like you are floating and your eyes being dizzy. That's the feeling described.



After the whole horrible night and you wake up to hangover, what's the cure drunkards usual prescribe? They say to cure hangover, start drinking again. That's what the above passage described.

Yet, some people say we can drink alcohol in moderation and that it only becomes a sin when we get drunk. Sorry buddy, the Bible says don't even look at it.

The Bible doesn't say we should drink alcohol in moderation. It says we should be sober at all times (1 Thessalonians 5:6 Titus 2:3).

Now let's see the common verses people love to twist to try to say we can drink alcohol

The first is found in the passage where Jesus turned water into wine. They fail to realize that it was fruit juice kind of wine, not the alcoholic or fermented one. Let's examine the passage carefully.



According to some people, it was alcoholic wine Jesus turned water into and gave the people at the wedding to drink. However, a closer look shows that not to be the case.

Pay close attention to verse 10 where the Bible says when men have well drunk. Let's see how the New International Version (NIV) renders that verse.



If it was alcoholic wine Jesus turned water into, then it basically means he wanted to destroy the guests at the wedding. After they have had too much to drink, Jesus decided to give them more. That means if there were cars back then, many would have accidentally on their way home. Remember the passage in Proverbs 23 which talks about the horrible effects alcohol. If we say these people were already drunk on alcohol, then Jesus just helped them double those effect in their life by giving them more. This means they would start to behold strange women and say perverse things. Now, tell me, who would want to listen to Jesus preach the next morning after the "alcoholic wine" he gave them to drink made some of the men to sleep with their housemaid to the anger of their wives? Made them to saw perverse things to their boss? Made them to sleep in the gutter? Yet you say Jesus gave people alcohol to drink.

Jesus didn't give anybody alcohol to drink. Doing so would mean he's a liar. Remember what he said in the passage below.



If it was alcoholic wine Jesus turned water into at the wedding in Cana, then he abolished the law and the prophet which spoke against alcoholic wine in Proverbs 23:31. So clearly it wasn't alcoholic wine he turned water into but fruit juice.

Another passage people love to use for an excuse to drink alcohol is seen below.

Mathew 11:18-19
18 For John came neither eating nor drinking, and they say, He hath a devil.
19 The Son of man came eating and drinking, and they say, Behold a man gluttonous, and a winebibber, a friend of publicans and sinners. But wisdom is justified of her children.

The above passage talks about a false accusations against Jesus who pointed out how they also falsely accused John the Baptist. Yet, some people will say because Jesus was accused of being a drunkard then it means he use to drink alcohol. Was John the Baptist possessed with a devil? No, but he was accused of such. I now wonder why you believe Jesus drank alcohol due to some false accusations. Remember, the accusation is that he was a drunkard. So if you use this verse to justify drinking alcohol, then don't get angry when some tells you that Jesus use to fall into gutter after getting drunk; he use to behold strange women and say perverse things. Can you see how wrong they are with their interpretation of the passage?

Another verse they use is seen below.




They pick the verse out context and say God is telling us that we can buy alcohol and drink it. If you read the previous verses, you will see that the context is about tithing. Those items listed alongside strong drink are to be brought to the temple for sacrifice to God. Some are eating, but it excludes the strong drink because nowhere in the above passage does it say drink the strong drink, same way it doesn't say drink the oil. Now, see what the strong drink is used for.



The strong drink or wine is poured out onto the Lord for a drink offering. It is not to be drank at all. But people have twisted the verse in Deutoronomy 14:26 to mean God is saying we can drink alcohol even when he said in Proverbs 23 that we shouldn't even look at it.

Guys, drinking alcohol is a sin and every Christian should abstain from it. Don't let anybody fool you into think moderation is the key. A little sip sends your good sense of judgment out the window. That's when another glass or bottle won't seem like a bad idea. And note, wine has tripple alcohol content that four bottles of beer. So don't think drinking a glass of wine is sophisticated. You are emore alcoholic than the beer drinker.

Bro there is nothing called fruit wine....anything called wine is alcoholic... the wine the Israelite drank in the bible were alcoholic...any wine you drink that that you non alcoholic its Nevers a wine its a fruit juice packaged in a wine bottle....you see in the olden days there is no unalcoholic wine...wine is wine and its toxic.. any wine you drink that's not alcoholic is a fruit juice...so the water Jesus turn to wine is alcoholic OK?...but am not saying drink or don't drink

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Romance / Re: Nairalanders,praise,praise,praise The Lord!!! by sammycashly: 8:20am On Aug 08, 2019
stupidity:
Cheating has a price, your cousin paid his dues for cheating and spending his future savings and investment on a mere Pvssy.


The moment you start “chasing” that fine girl. Be ready to spend, waste your time and energy. Las las sef you fit waste all and still the fvck will not be given.


The only way to recover all his money back is to use the girls pant for money rituals.




oloshi....ritualist

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Family / Re: My Wife Changed 2 Weeks After Wedding!! by sammycashly: 7:32am On Aug 04, 2019
Anonymus010:
I Need The Advice Of Experienced Married Men

NB: This is not my real account, I created this account for the purpose of this issue.

Please, I need the advice of married people (especially married men). I will make the story as simple as possible and I promise not to compromise the truth to favour me in this issue.

Brief Introduction: I am a man in my late 20's. Got married last year and currently have a 3month baby.

Brief history of my relationship prior to marriage: I dated my wife for 4years before we finally tied the knot last year. I met her in the university, we were classmate in school.

Before I started dating my wife, I was dating a girl in the same class but we both agreed to separate after 1year because we were age mate and she was keen on getting married immediately after graduation which I knew I will not be ready for marriage by then (Note: No sex in the relationship, She was a virgin and because I couldn't assure her of marriage, I didn't sex her).

After the break up with my ex, I became close to my wife and we started dating. She was self sufficient as she had a source of income while in school, she supports me, gives me money, cooks and buy me food etc. She was the best woman any man can think of. I fell in love along the line and decided this is the right lady to marry.

Note: There were several backlashes from other classmates insinuating she snatched me from my ex but we scaled through all that. We dated for 2more years in school and we graduated. We dated for another 2more years post school till last year.

Brief history immediately before marriage: Everything was fine till my wife's birthday last year. I did tripple shifts at work(48hrs work non-stop) and came back a night before her birthday and slept off. I woke up 2:30am to wish her happy birthday. She got angry and told me I didnt put her in mind and that I was not the first person to wish her happy birthday (She later told me her ex wished her first at exactly 12am). I apologised to her and told her the reason I missed the time. I had just 10k, gave her 5k to do a birthday photoshoot, used about 3k to buy her goodies as salary has not been paid.

Fast forward to after 1week of the birthday, she came up with serious issue, saying she wanted a break but not total break-up for some months to put herself together. She lamented she was not getting anything from the relationship, I don't usually take her out, I didnt celebrate her birthday well for her, I didnt buy cake, I didnt buy gift etc. I apologised and pleaded with her to be patient as we had big projects before us (wedding, masters degree and family apartment) which she knew I was saving for. We settled it and had sex. After 7days, I saw a call log on her phone where she had a conversation with her ex for almost an hour between 11pm and 12am. After 1month, she missed her menses and was pregnant. I asked her if she ever saw her ex, she cried and swore that she didn't (Note: I trusted her because she is modest and she is not the sex type). So, I agreed, accepted the preg, quickly arranged an impromptu wedding, I quickly sourced for money, spent over N2million on the wedding......

THE PROBLEM:

2weeks after the weeding, my wife started abusing my family especially my mum, telling me she hated how my family behaved during the wedding. I pleaded with her not to allow this to affect our home. The insults and abuse became perpetual. My wife works from home and will give me several reasons why she cannot cook after giving her money for food stuffs once I collect salary. Its just 2 of us living in a mini flat & I wash my clothes myself, but she will give me thousands of reasons how the non-existent house shores prevent her from cooking.

After 9months, she gave birth, I asked her who she wanted to come do omugo with the baby between her mum and my mum. She opted for my mum (claimed her mum will be giving her problem). Not up to 1week that my mum came over, she has started complaining about everything she does. Despite the fact that this woman will wake up 5am, wash everybody's clothes, bath the baby but she doesnt cook. My wife started complaining about her being obligated to cook every morning because of my mum's presence(Note: she doesnt cook in the morning, if I am going to work by 8am, I will either warm a left over previous night's food or source for food outside). When the complain was becoming overwhelming to the point of her almost insulting my mum in my presence, I told her I will tell my mum to go back to her house( my mum lives in a mini flat too with my dad, so they are very comfortable). She said I shouldn't. After 1 month, my mum left. The abuse, insults and complain continued. She will nag about how my mum did when she was with us, abuse and insults my family. I will appeal to her and defend my family. My wife became complete opposite of who she was when we were dating.

The real issue at hand: We would be migrating to the US soon. Lately, I can't control my wife, anytime I don't buy her idea or wish, she will rain insults on me. Just 3days ago, she told me I don't have sense repeatedly just because she said we should go and greet her mum's pastor which I told her not now but we can go later. If I tell her to do something, she will do otherwise and give me thousand of reasons she can't do it. 2months ago, I reported all her attitudes to her mum, her mum talked to her but no change, she is getting worse. Last week, I did 24hours at work, I got home, my wife didn't cook. I got into the kitchen, made custard and placed the soup on the gas cooker. We were both in the living room. She perceived the soup was getting burnt and insulted me, telling me it was because I was not the one that dropped money for the soup, thats why I wanted to burn it (She cooked the soup with her money because my salary was delayed). She insults me at will, gives me no respect and treat me as trash.(Note: I had never cheated on her and she doesn't doubt my fidelity. Likewise, I had never suspected her of such too).

I am currently scared because I know US is women's world because I have included her and the kid as my dependents in my green card petition. I am scared for my life and career because she could go worse in the US and destroy all I have laboured for.

Please kindly advise me on what I can do to change her.

Sorry for the long write up and any grammatical errors.
Mr man...while courting this woman...she has this character but you didn't observe....fews months to your wedding you were busy saving your ass up for the wedding...you still gave her money for photo shoot and some groceries for her birthday...but that woman still came out and nag your ass up and even went as far to ask for a break just because of birthday issues....Can you see you have not married your wife...she talks to you anyhow.(can you see you have not married your wife)..she abuses your mum, I can't take that at all wen she is not mad..my wife grumble to my mum lasan na wahala..not to talk of abuse my mum(can you see you have not married your wife)...and most importantly ion think you are the father of the baby....When we keep shouting marry who loves you will say no you will marry who you love...that's the result....
Now on my own candid advice... if you move to the US with this woman there is high probability that you will losse everything including your sim card...Hope you remembered the story of Emannuel eboue...you had better use your head now...shalom

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Celebrities / Re: Nigeria’s Tallest Man, Agoro Afeez Debunks Marriage Rumours by sammycashly: 9:35am On Aug 03, 2019
GeoAfrikana:
As tall as you are, you no geh wife? Mtcheew.


I got married at 23. I don't understand why people just hype marriage. True, it's sensitive but this hype is just too much.

The money most people spend to maintain one yeye girlfriend is enough to live a happy life with your wife. The happiness and tranquility that marriage adds to your life is immeasurable.

Some people say they haven't found "the right person". You can't find the right person because you don't even have a definition of who is right for you. What's my own sef? Even at 40 some people are yet to have clearly defined goals and objectives for their life.

I don't need more than 1 week discussion and investigation with a woman to see if she fits my plan in life or not. I look for just four things; physical, IQ, religious inclination and plans for her future.

For physical, I don't have much requirement but I know I have a distaste for skinny women. Skinny I said not slim.

For IQ, the way she answers and asks question will tell you how brilliant she is (not). The main reason why I look at IQ is for my children.

For religion, i have one ultimate question. Don't ask me, I won't give you expo.

For objectives in life. I don't want a woman that wishes to do office job or government job. The promiscuity and temptations in those places is just too much. I want a woman that has entrepreneural skills and wishes to start something for herself even if it's little.
And why are you telling us all this....GUy you still need to find your bearing

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Romance / Re: She Use To Be A Lesbian, She Claim To Have Changed by sammycashly: 10:57am On Aug 01, 2019
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TheGiftedOne:
Take her by her words and watch out for signs suggesting she may still be indulging in homosexuality.

Meanwhile this kind relationship strong ooo. I mean while dating her you just can't tell who's coming too close, male or female. Anyone is a suspect .
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TheGiftedOne:
Take her by her words and watch out for signs suggesting she may still be indulging in homosexuality.

Meanwhile this kind relationship strong ooo. I mean while dating her you just can't tell who's coming too close, male or female. Anyone is a suspect .
were....you don kill me with laughter
Health / Re: World Hepatitis Day: Are Hepatitis B And C Curable? An Overview- Dr Seyitan by sammycashly: 5:16pm On Jul 28, 2019
Codalee:
A friend of mine had hepatitis b and was cured . Now he has gone back to smoking weed , is it dangerous to his health ?
laughing in Swahili......He's dead alive

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