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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by milinda(f): 10:08pm On Oct 29, 2019
ken6488:
Calabar or Igbo

Though I can date not marry
#note I am from Delta

Reason Is because of distance..

cheesy and The excessive bride price

What distance??
Are you based in delta?
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Angelacruz: 10:24pm On Oct 29, 2019
This one weak me...all in d name of love??
ayomikuolatunji:
cryilaje tribe because their women are like dogs but dating one already... I don't know how to break it... we even took two different oats..one is blood and the other only know to me. Don't know what the future will be like. Our boths parents already told us we can't marry..but we turn deaf ears. She said when she is 25 years she will get pregnant for me so that nothing will separate us
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Angelacruz: 10:26pm On Oct 29, 2019
Omg...one chance
ayomikuolatunji:


Yorubas also hate each other when it comes to marriage. I am a Yoruba from osun but live in Lagos, ilaje area in ajegunle to be precise,ilaje hates other Yorubas. They hardly see themselves as Yoruba. And other Yorubas hate them too. You hear an average ilaje man or woman saying Those Yoruba too like fight ..are they not Yorubas? They bear Yoruba names,wear Yoruba dress in fact they are Yoruba. But illiterate among them is annoying and wicked. My mum said she will disown me if I ever say I want to marry from ilaje,but I am in love with one already and I love her die. She even survived sniper taken when her mum tries separating us. God saved me she didn't die if not I for dey prison. Tribalism is high among Yorubas but they don't show it

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Angelacruz: 10:31pm On Oct 29, 2019
False, it depend on some villages
Skmoda360:

Even Akwa Ibom, there bride price is overly much ehn......
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Angelacruz: 10:35pm On Oct 29, 2019
Very strange
YorubaNinja:


Yes. She actually told me of a story. She was on her way back home from the U.S and the bus she boarded from Lagos back to her final destination in the SE region stopped at a junction for passengers to relax and refresh. She's actually based in Benin but, decided to stay with her aunt in one of the SE states. She said what she saw sent shock waves over her sexy body grin. In one of the restaurants, she saw people comfortably eating human body parts. angry She thought she was dreaming until she actually heard people make special orders for them. She got to her aunt's place and narrated her horrific ordeal. Her aunt laughed and told her it's very normal in that part of Igbo-land. She never went back to the SE again on her subsequent 9ja visits. undecided

See the below videolink. I once saw this on Nairaland sometime last year. angry

https://newsrescue.one/cannibalism-nigerians-speaking-igbo-cook-human-parts-video/

Perhaps, I've heard several of my Igbo friends that grew up in the SE not wanting to go back to there to settle due to this cannibalism thing. A good friend of mine that grew up in Owerri had to build a house there from parental pressure but never let his parents live there except for family gatherings. undecided
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Skmoda360(m): 10:49pm On Oct 29, 2019
Angelacruz:
False, it depend on some villages
Mmmmmm!!! Make I no argue until when I wan go pay ......so motigbo i.e I have heard you. undecided
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Skmoda360(m): 10:52pm On Oct 29, 2019
Bola146:


Yes very strict.
I'm from Ondo and I'm not strict but not home based sha and I'm dating an AI woman tongue.....I'm based in Necromongronesia, Saturn grin cheesy cheesy
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by drmikeadams(m): 10:59pm On Oct 29, 2019
grin grin I can marry from any tribe,but I don't see myself wearing suit and tie for one demon to tie down my destiny in d name of marriage

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by midnighter(f): 11:05pm On Oct 29, 2019
drmikeadams:
grin grin I can marry from any tribe,but I don't see myself wearing suit and tie for one demon to tie down my destiny in d name of marriage

Lol forget it! One of us must tie you so stop fighting it and resign yourself to your fate cheesy

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by drmikeadams(m): 11:08pm On Oct 29, 2019
midnighter:


Lol forget it! One of us must tie you so stop fighting it and resign yourself to your fate cheesy
; grin grin angry grin grin grin grin angry angry angry

grin grin grin grin angry grin grin angry grin
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Bejusttoall: 11:33pm On Oct 29, 2019
Bola146:
Ogun, Ilesha, Ondo and Ekiti.. my father said they are very strict in nature
The ujeshas are lovely people o. Try them out.

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Joystark(f): 11:37pm On Oct 29, 2019
Sirvingeo:
I am from Imo state and my mum is from Anambra . she always warned me never to marry Imo ladies because of their promiscuous lifestyle . I later discovered it was the uncouth truth.
Because you have been with all the women from Imo state.

I wonder what that says about your own lifestyle? undecided

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Joystark(f): 11:38pm On Oct 29, 2019
Religion and Ethnicity will continue to be Nigeria's greatest setback...
Shior!

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by ken6488(m): 11:48pm On Oct 29, 2019
milinda:


What distance??
Are you based in delta?

Yeah
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by rtdCivilservant: 12:00am On Oct 30, 2019
Sirvingeo:
I am from Imo state and my mum is from Anambra . she always warned me never to marry Imo ladies because of their promiscuous lifestyle . I later discovered it was the uncouth truth.
And u will some day have daughters who definitely would be promiscuous because they shall surely be imolites. I doubt if u are from imo, I know many idiots like u trying to rubbish other people. Get sense for once even if ur mother had none.

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by B3njozy(m): 12:44am On Oct 30, 2019
Lamanii22:



Yoruba... And the Yoruba guys I've met didn't treat me nice...
don't worry, I will treat you nice

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Bishopbones007(m): 12:45am On Oct 30, 2019
Lamanii22:
Igbo tribe... I don't know why my mom wouldn't let me marry from there... but I believe love conquers... I see nothing in marrying from other tribe(s)...
where are you from

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by horpigee1(m): 12:58am On Oct 30, 2019
ayomikuolatunji:


Yorubas also hate each other when it comes to marriage. I am a Yoruba from osun but live in Lagos, ilaje area in ajegunle to be precise,ilaje hates other Yorubas. They hardly see themselves as Yoruba. And other Yorubas hate them too. You hear an average ilaje man or woman saying Those Yoruba too like fight ..are they not Yorubas? They bear Yoruba names,wear Yoruba dress in fact they are Yoruba. But illiterate among them is annoying and wicked. My mum said she will disown me if I ever say I want to marry from ilaje,but I am in love with one already and I love her die. She even survived sniper taken when her mum tries separating us. God saved me she didn't die if not I for dey prison. Tribalism is high among Yorubas but they don't show it
where is osun
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Nobody: 1:57am On Oct 30, 2019
Kapilta:
i think this have to do with ethnicity rather than state.

I agree with you. Igbo women motto na "For Better We Stay, For Worse We Disappear"

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by TFLAME(m): 3:40am On Oct 30, 2019
Bola146:
Ogun, Ilesha, Ondo and Ekiti.. my father said they are very strict in nature

Yeah ilesa , we are lovely people o . But most of us stubborn . We get small agidi . So we nor Dey tolerate shit . Na follow come something . Las las you will like us . We sabi enjoy life . Come and eat pounded yam abeg

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by sammycashly: 5:55am On Oct 30, 2019
aminusodiq:

my parents warned me not to marry frm ogun state (egba people) dey gave me numerous instances where d wife turned d son against his parents!!! dey said ogun people kill dia husbands!!! other places are Ijebu, kogi ND some parts in kwara state!!! I'm Yoruba, but I'm sure my dad will prefer I Mary Igbo or hausa Dan to marry within dis tribes!
exactly what he told me also....he said you can marry Igbo or Hausa its allowed but Ogun state never....so wen I meet I babe that's from there...I japa straight...but if am sexually attracted to her a go wait small chop cokkies like 5 times before I carry my body
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Angelacruz: 6:23am On Oct 30, 2019
Okk
Skmoda360:

Mmmmmm!!! Make I no argue until when I wan go pay ......so motigbo i.e I have heard you. undecided
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by investordj: 6:49am On Oct 30, 2019
This is plain rubbish
YorubaNinja:


Yes. She actually told me of a story. She was on her way back home from the U.S and the bus she boarded from Lagos back to her final destination in the SE region stopped at a junction for passengers to relax and refresh. She's actually based in Benin but, decided to stay with her aunt in one of the SE states. She said what she saw sent shock waves over her sexy body grin. In one of the restaurants, she saw people comfortably eating human body parts. angry She thought she was dreaming until she actually heard people make special orders for them. She got to her aunt's place and narrated her horrific ordeal. Her aunt laughed and told her it's very normal in that part of Igbo-land. She never went back to the SE again on her subsequent 9ja visits. undecided

See the below videolink. I once saw this on Nairaland sometime last year. angry

https://newsrescue.one/cannibalism-nigerians-speaking-igbo-cook-human-parts-video/

Perhaps, I've heard several of my Igbo friends that grew up in the SE not wanting to go back to there to settle due to this cannibalism thing. A good friend of mine that grew up in Owerri had to build a house there from parental pressure but never let his parents live there except for family gatherings. undecided

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by investordj: 6:54am On Oct 30, 2019
True talk...
Joystark:
Religion and Ethnicity will continue to be Nigeria's greatest setback...
Shior!

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by nlPoster: 7:01am On Oct 30, 2019
In parts of Ondo state ancient times, intending couples facing opposition from the girlfriend's family (often on the basis of tribe) usually just vanished for a few weeks or months, they'd go away in a canoe and when they came back, the father would give his blessing to their union and allow them to marry.

This was not a typical Yoruba marriage culture.

Although in other parts of Yorubaland during this era, many men relied on slavery to get wives.

Thank God for Christ and the new creation.
Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by KingGrist: 7:07am On Oct 30, 2019
You guys should remember not to judge a particular group of people because of what someone told you or what you heard. Get to
Know about people and other tribes. Not all of them exhibit bad characters.
I'm an Igbo boy, and my mum will allow me marry anyone from any tribe as long as it makes me happy´┐Ż.

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Re: Where Did Your Parent Warned You Not To Marry From And Why? by Igetmyown247: 7:20am On Oct 30, 2019
ken6488:
Calabar or Igbo

Though I can date not marry
#note I am from Delta

Reason Is because of distance..

cheesy and The excessive bride price

Which calabar? Akwa Ibom or Cross River ?

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