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Unique357:
My wife left me when I lost everything. She took our two children with her and has blocked me everywhere. I couldn't reach her to speak with my children. I have tried reaching her parents to no avail.

But now that things are going well for me, my brother in law lifted me and I am back to business and I have a girlfriend we are getting married next year march by God's grace.

Now my ex is back in the picture making life difficult for my girlfriend. She is blackmailing her and bombarding her with nasty messages to the extend of humiliating her in public, calling her all sorts of names like husband snatcher etc. I am angry with her because she has left me when I needed her the most and this girlfriend stood by me with my poor conditions and now she wants to play victim and putting the blame on my girl.

I want to arrest her and let her rot in jail but on the other side I don't want to do it for the sake of our children who are 10 years and 7 years. I want to deal with her in a calm way because there are children involved . What do you think I should do?

Arrest her
She is sick and deluded
Arrest her before she does d unthinkable

[quote author=Odewaleadesoye post=108937759][/quote]This year was tough
And I had my biggest breakthrough this year
A lot of things I can't mention

FernandezPablo:
If you wan f**k go straight to the point abeg.. you have been stalking me throughout today..is this how wannabe redpillers prove their lack of intelligence on women's account.. asking for nudes to soothe their sexual urge..??

Hmm
Stalking
Noting I no go see

pinkPUSSY:
http://saharareporters.com/2021/12/30/information-minister-lai-mohammed-lists-about-n300billion-world-bank-loan-buhari%E2%80%99s

God please I want to leave this country even if na Zimbabwe

FernandezPablo:
I am already getting popular oo.. everyone is dieing to see me..you go fit stand my presence...I am a queen of the coast I dey destroy wannabe redpillers with my bare hands..
But you know say if we meet we gat to do that stuff..you get? ...

I have a feeling that u are a very ugly girl

I don't know y I have d hunch

Datboredberry:
This year 2021 is about to end... Two more days... A new year... New beginnings...

Most of us have found love... Others have had third hearts broken... A few have taken the decision to be bitter, unfortunate souls...(redpillers)...

In all, we give our thanks to the Almighty lord for protecting each and everyone of us!!! Especially the women... Raise your voices! Say a resounding 'Amen' that would bring down the very walls of Jericho!!!

Thank the Almighty for saving you from the snares of the evil Nigerian men whose hearts are as dark as their skins... The predators in our midst!!! Not all... But it's had to know the good ones, when the majority are rotten...

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Kidnappers!!!

Ritualists!!!

Yahoo boys!!!

Women, you have so much to be thankful for!!!!

Traffickers!!!

Rapists!!!

None saw you this year!!!

The men delibrately spreading Aids!!!

The baby daddies!!! If you were not impregnated by a fuçk boy this year, say Amen!!!

Agbero boys did not see you!!!

Fulani headsmen did not abduct you!!!

Bad boys did not use your skull to boast their success!!! Say to the Lord!!! Thank you baba!!!!

The heartbreakers!!!

The false marriage promisers!!!

The cheats!!!

The adulterer!!!

The zero self-control men lashing everything in a skirt!!!

The men who've delibrately made themselves into hosts for uncountable STDs and STIs!!!

The 'chop' and run!!!

If you were not a victim!!! Praise the good Lord!!!

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I could go on forever... But let me end here...

For a Nigerian woman to make it... To even survive... In this den of lions... Praise the Lord!!!

It is not easy, I can testify!!!

From the bottom of my heart... Bless every Nigerian woman!!! May you grow... May you prosper!!! Live long to see your children and grandchildren and even their children!!! Good health and abundant wealth... Amen!!!

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Dear men.. celebrate your women oo!!!

You don't understand what they have been through... Even leaving your own house, as a woman it is not easy...

Spoil her this new year... She deserves it...

May you be bless with money to scatter on her head!!!!


Amen!!!

We are all blessed...


Lalasiclala

Seun

Thank God I didn't simp for any werey girl this year

Ekejoestar:
Who's in? Especially those in Lagos and Ogun State?

Am thinking of elegushi beach exclusively for NL members, your pass will be your NL username.

What do you think?

na Fernandezpablo I wan see for d get together, make I give am small redpill make she swallow

As far as she is a good woman, no sensible Nigerian man will take her for granted
This one u r saying is nonsense

specialmati:
you again,you just they follow this guys bomber to bomber them go soon impregnate you.now i know you are a femela

She is a sex starved LovePeddler who seeks a redpiller's dick
Just allow her

FernandezPablo:
Nope you meant my butthole..cos I ain't sure I have a gaping hole..

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No quote me again biko

FernandezPablo:
Yeah I am gonna do it for yourself huh..
You love big waist huh? let's see how I am gonna use that waist in destroying your gullible self.. ..

I rather sand paper my dick than put it inside ur gaping hole

FernandezPablo:
Including your wannabe redpiller leader..
Now get your dirty self out of my mention..

las Las u will still be arching ur waist for a redpiller, so no qualms
Continue deceiving urself

Datboredberry:
Disgusting!!! How could you?

She wanted to force herself on me na, a lady who was 5yrs older than me, I Sha overpowered her and d had a free ticket to cumsville
She told me later that her fetish was being raped

FernandezPablo:
justice for your your brain to be given back to you..

May olumo rock smash ur skull

FernandezPablo:
Good for you boy.. enough of the trolling and cloning of women's account.. everyone can now rest..
The only thing remaining is those set of wannabe redpillers..as far as I am on here injustice.. bashing of women.. tribalism shalt cease to exist..

The insatiable quest for purpose on this forum has caused u to be deluded

Which injustice

kepstone:
Good day guyz.
I am a very sensitive person. So after my heart breaks from different ladies I decided not to try relationship again until God sends me my own woman. My childhood friend introduced me to this lady, she is a spec, big ass, big front and all that. But for me I was not move I Just wanted to know more about her and see if we vibe or connect. We connected on Whatsapp and we started calling and talking and chatting, though she was in another state more like a neighboring state. I went to see her and the attraction was there.
NOW to the main thing I discovered since she came into my life money has been flowing constantly into my life. Anytime I give her money is like I have open the windows of heaven. I sent her 1k airtime last 5 days and someone sent me 15k. Yesterday I sent her money and today 90k has dropped. She is not the demanding type at all, we don't have issues we flow I have told her my plans to wife her, but she still skeptical about it because of her last guy.
My spec is slim Chubby girls but my worst heart break has come from them.
But this girl ass too big I am just concerned about men disturbing her.
I dated one of my ex like dt money kept on flowing too... She too was big ass girl but she got decieved and left we another guy, got pregnant for the guy.

I am just asking could this my current girlfriend be my wife, a blessing to me the one God has ordained for me. I have peace of mind with her, she is not perfect but she ticks my boxes 85%.
Should I go ahead to wife her even though I know she still wanting to be sure of my commitment to her, which I have shown her over 6 months of us dating.
Mature response pls�

Baba she is not opening any doors, and don't be quick to rush into marriage, my experience with big assed girls, has taught me that they are d most promiscious, scrutinize her well
Anyways best wishes and make sure u smash d ass once a while, who knows maybe u will receive something from d windows of heaven

Havesomesense:
Last year my girlfriend told me she almost got raped by her boss, that she managed to escape. I believe her.

I would have done something but she was not able to get any evidence so I let it slide but I haven't forgotten.

Nb: She no longer works there.

Ladies, if you will like to share your story, please share.

Guys please do not rape someone's daughter. Ashawo plenty for street and na just #500.

I remember that year when chidimma been wan rape me
I ended up being d one who raped her,
her and her massive boobs

sinless:
When will we have our airport in Ogun

Upgrade your CV to the most recent formats that meets ATS standards for a token. 2022 is around the corner and you definitely need a better-paying job. Call or chat me on 0809-944-9730

Which one be chinonso buhari

Ayanwukoma:
The thing that upsets me more is when we start narrating our experiences of been dealt with toxic parenting from our fathers some people will be saying, we were products of manipulations of our mom. but that's a lie... they just don't know our pains.

Here are the attributes of my father, don't know if it's redpill or not.

1) My father swear for us at any slightest provocation (he uses word like, YOU GO DIE, YOU GO USE YOUR MOUTH RUB GROUND, WITCH and so much more) imagine as a kid growing up till this day and this man still uses same languages on us his children.

2) HE'S CUNNY IN NATURE TOWARDS US HIS FAMILY.

You don't dare have an issue with a neighbor in the presence of my dad which he's aware of, because the next morning he be sitting with that same neighbor and talk ill about you in your presence ( how many times my mom has quarrelled with people because of him...but before we know it, him and them have reconciled. my mom would be the bad person in the town)

3) IS WITCH A GOOD NAME TO CALL YOUR CHILD?

This man has called us witch to the extent the whole area is looking at us as one, he has literally made us look bad in the presence of people. compare us with other people.
he has spoiled us with his bad tongue. full area gossiping telling people their papa self dey call them witch...belike them don confess before.
just because of my father toxic tongue.

4) MY FATHER HOLDS HIS BROTHERS CHILDREN IN HIGHER REGARDS THAN US.

you need to see the way he's happy whenever they come around, especially when they give him money like 5k, 3k ... prayers uphon prayers on them.
as soon as they go he starts the curses on us.. I don't know he just don't want us to succeed or not.

DO I HATE MY FATHER? I hate him with every blood in my veins yes, how can I love someone that abuses us immediately he sees us eating his food, looking at us like we are wrecking him from day one.

Any small thing, COMOTH FOR MY HOUSE (you must hear that word)

honestly speaking I myself am in my mid 20s and with what I experience to this day it's affecting me in my life, you can never see me smile.
am always angry, even when am happy.
when I talk, my words are always hard.. except when I try to be nice sometimes.

I SWEAR ON MY LIFE, I REFUSED TO BE THE MAN MY FATHER IS, EVEN IN MY NEXT LIFE TO COME.

Dude I can relate to ur post, I suffered same if not worse, my mum made growing up a nightmare, now whenever I recall those experiences she flares up and tells me I am unforgiving.
I can relate to u saying u don't even smile because stuff like this can mess with someone's brain, it even had effects on my previous relationships

Just forgive and forget, because in as much as u hate him for what he did he is still ur father and there is no way u can excommunicate him from ur life
Also try and find a way to leave that house, when dealing with parents like that long distance relationship is d best

This is a remake of jujutsu kaisen

Pls how much do I need at least to start trading??

Please I purchased the bang rule e-book but my former phone got spoilt, now I need it badly
Abeg help a bro

Abeg add me back I lost my phone
08053935157
Chu kwy

Enudapan:
Nah eh! No qualms
This is so sophisticated

And this aren't News
Odogwus like us got no time to watch shit
We hustle all day,bang all time and most importantly take some mushin weed 24/7(cos it helps) nd the cycle continues

yen yen yen
low budget slawormi
mushin weed and banging all the time
coming from a nwa boy in alaba int'l market
kikiki
no concentrate

Kosixo20:
I have an issue that's really bothering me. It's bothering me so much that it's what's keeping me awake at this time of the night. I had to create a new account to post this because I want to keep my identity hidden since some Nairalanders already know my other account.

I'm currently in a relationship with a guy I've been friends with for a while. We are both university undergraduates. We've been dating for almost 7 months. I'm still a virgin. The reason I agreed to date my boyfriend is because I enjoy his company and I wanted to preserve our friendship. It's kinda complicated. I'm not ready for sex and he understands.

Few months ago, I met another guy who is also an undergraduate. He's very interesting and very good looking. I'm very sexually attracted to him. He told me he likes me, but hasn't asked me out. Whenever we are together, he is fond of flirting with me, telling me how sexy I look, touching me, and grabbing my ass. The last time we were together he even squeezed my breasts. I told him that he should stop because I'm sensitive to his touch, which is actually the case. I already told him that I can't date him because he doesn't look like the type to stick to one girl for a long time. My statement didn't even faze him and he responded that he doesn't do relationships because he gets bored easily.

He always tells me how he'll like to have sex with me and the things he'll do to me. He doesn't even seem bothered that I have a boyfriend and never brings it up. He has invited me over to his place once and I declined because I don't know if I'll be able to control myself being alone in his apartment and I don't want to cheat on my boyfriend.

The problem is sometimes this guy just ghosts me for days and sometimes he doesn't even reply my texts, then out of nowhere he'll return and act all flirty and touchy. Our friendship is affecting my relationship with my boyfriend. I'm becoming more attracted to this new guy and I'm not comfortable.

I'm thinking of blocking his number and ceasing communication with him. Is this the right step to take? I'm confused and I don't know what to do.

And ur boyfriend will be one place thinking he is d only one.
I'm very sure u don't even allow him to hug u sef, but u allowed another guy to be pressing u anyhow
Funny enough same shit happened to me, and i won't lie reading ur post really brought back some very painful memories. Sha all is well
I don't care abt u at all but that innocent guy who even respected ur decision out of love, i pray he sees through ur deceitful eyes and calls it quits and also that ur lover sleeps with u and dumps u
then you lose both guys, the one who loves and respects u and also d one who u lusted after
and also u will lose ur virginity and ur sanity
i pray this comes to pass
In Jesus name
Amen seven times
Rubbish!!!

nnamx4u:
I created this account today for this. I am not new to nairaland but because I dont want people who know me that is in nairaland to know it is me.

There is this girl I have dated for 3 years. All these year I have loved and took care of her the much I can because I am still a struggling guy and I will always assist her in anything she is doing to the best that I can.

When we started she was a jambite looking forward to getting admission in one of the universities in nigeria but she wasn't lucky enough to get it at that time. she later got medical lab in a nursing school in another city.

I assisted her the much I could in her first year. She called most of the time. and I gradually fell in love with her. I wanted to have s3x with her but she claimed she was a virgin and want to keep it till marriage so I left her alone.

I have always wanted to be intimate with her because I loved her so much and wanted to be her first. I have tried all the best I can but she kept refusing and I did not want to force her.

So she came last week sunday and I tried to touch her she resisted so I asked her whether she was still a virgin and she said it is a long story. I told her I am not going anywhere she should start talking. she said she was raped. I asked her how? she said someone she taught was her cousin not knowing the guy asked and found out she is not her cousin , she was helping him out in the process the guy raped her.

I was so heart broken. My heart has been telling me she is lying.

She is saying that she just want to us to just be friends now. she does not want to have intimacy with me if I dont want it like that I should leave her alone.

I am just wondering why would she do that to me. I have been so good to her which she confirms all the time.

It is just too painful to watch somebody you care about take you for granted because you are too good. My mind is just messed up right now.

Sadly for u
that girl wasn't in anyway raped
she gave d guy freely
and lied using rape
thats y she wants u as her friend nw and is even ready to lose u sef
the guy is d latest nw in d picture
sorry sha, these girls are evil

Jalaw:
This guy wants to be noted. Flooding every thread with this shit. Everybody cannot be NwamaiKpe. Be yourself.

he is also mimicking slawormi all these wannabes sef

Jalaw:
This guy wants to be noted. Flooding every thread with this shit. Everybody cannot be NwamaiKpe. Be yourself.

he is also mimicking slawormi all these wannabes sef

Failure44:
Which I saw this earlier.
Just sent her a dm.

Manny
sorry for d loads of blunders i made im the first post
i was rushing
Ok u sent her a message
no p
just look for a way and end d chat
if u value ur mental health stay clear from her
u are a medical student and trust me ur grades will drop should u have anything to do with that girl
its just an infatuation my man, u wont die
Avoid those saying u should.chase or persist
they wont be there when u are suffering
because even if u later date her u will be too attached that she might call u clingy or say u are putting jer in bondage lol
what is happening to u once happened to me not too long ago
just be wise fam

Failure44:
If you read what I wrote then you know I'm nothing like a simp.
When she turned me down, I didn't ask her out again and she came back begging for my forgiveness.

It's just that I have fallen so hard for this girl.

baba see
that girl doesn't love u at all, i repeat she doesn't have an iota of feelings for u
she relates well with her ex but can't date u amd she still says she loves u?
bro she is just keeping u by d side, and when she is done doing whatever she realises her ex can't take her back again, she will come to u
same shit happened to me before with a girl, let me just tell u
that girl still loves her ex
u are just an admirer and she is just receiving validation from u
moving on will be hard, i av been there
to make d moving on easier go to another girl
or should i say girls
it will be hard but keeping ur distance will help u a lot
remember don't accept her again even if she is d one who asks u out
because a girl who loves u and sees u as a worthy guy wont turn u down for shit
u r just a nice guy who she feeds on
Adios

Amatarasha:
DONT WAR PLS
DO YOU KNOW WE OWN THIS WORLD, B4 LIVED ONLY WOMEN BILLIONS OF YEARS BACK UNTIL MALE GOD'S CAME ALONG TO CREATE MEN,
Do am preach against RELIGION on ur own side cos Jehovah is Satan

This one is just talking in d rubbish
las las u will still get choked while receiving 6+inches gbola