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SweetCunt97:
It's obvious d lady lied and rushed to marry a simp that first proposed to her. She's a very stupid being but the kid shouldn't suffer.

I don't support that saying that the child is innocent so he should be taking care of...

Leave the mother to surfer her decision, and don't border yourself about what happens to the child.

Let the woman be the one to expose herself to her husband and let this guy not border himself until she bring the child to him.

If she don't, let it be like that... The child will look for his real father.

For the now, the poster should not border himself, whatsoever about the child or what happens to him now or in the future.

If the child is for him... He will come looking for him... Not the other way round.

CalliDora1:
Ok. But enough with the confusion already, before parents starts spending their childrens' school fees thinking resumption is not certain this term.

Happy resumptions in advance to my fellow Teachers.

#proudtobeateacher#
#proudtobeanimparterofknowledge#

God bless us even more this year.

charles009:
Good people of nairaland,
Everything you are about to read is not fiction but certain reality.

At the heat of this DNA wahala, a married Ex called me on 6th of Jan to notify me that her son is mine and not her husbands. I remember vividly a certain Saturday in 2015, when we argued intensely over the paternity of the child during her pregnancy. She insisted it was her boyfriends, make una fear women. She swore she was single. Our calculations showed she was ovulating while we had some encounters. She proceeded to block me on all social media platforms and 2 months later, her friend informed me of her wedding.


The issue here is that I am married with two kids and expecting another, she told me her husband lost his job early 2018 and it has been a very rough patch for her family. she says she wants a divorce.

I asked for the boys pictures and it put instant tears to my eyes. Showed a few friends and the resemblance is striking so they said. The most painful of all, he looks not properly looked after.

I am doing fairly OK now, I wouldn't wanna to see my blood suffer, if you were in my shoes how would you handle this. My wife would not want to hear of another child...

Mature advise please...

Forget that boy, he is not your child.

Fear women, they only want what favours them. Am telling you this... If you where not doing well, this your ex will never remember you or come back to u.

Don't pity her or whatsoever, cut her off your life like she did when she left you for her husband.

Forget everything about her and child.
Move on with your wife and your 3 children.
And pls always treat your wife and your children right.

God bless you.

Agbani Derigo









Ugliest miss world.

So na 23 corona kill yesterday?









Hmmmm

endsarrrs:
If the govt tries another lockdown, We gonna #endsars 5.0v2. . .bad governance

Them know already na

PTF don dey get sense now oh.









is good

Esosaqueen:
God I pray I see a man to marry oo. This divorce too much Divorce everywhere

Search no more, I yam here!

Tinubu should not contest...








I repeat, Oga Jagaban... no contest, just dey in charge.

Fvck












Bleep

Yustash001:
thanks for your contribution bro..

But are there no better ways to go by it without lieing?

This is exactly what happened to me....my previous work place pays me far below what I expect from this new organisation.Revealing the real amount to them might lead to them underpaying me, and at the same time I don't want to lie about it..

That's why I just decided to play strong head, the worst is for me not be employed

It however turned out well because the gestures I received from them after the interview showed they are interested in me...

The country is built on lies bro... Take it or leave, the trend most continue for someone to survive.

You just have to be smart.

At last...







This move has save education from being a scam.

You them








They wants to start fighting themselves.

You them








They wants to start fighting themselves.

Yustash001:
Good evening Nairalanders,

I went for an interview yesterday and among questions that was ask in the written interview is "How much was your salary in the previous school where you worked?".
I wrote " it's confidential " because I thought it isn't formal to be asking such question in an interview.

So, during the oral interview, they asked while I didn't write the amount, I told them I don't want to disclose it and I don't think it's formal. I decided not to argue it further when the principal said it's formal, even though I didn't disclose the amount in the end.

So, my people, have you ever experienced such?
And is it formal to ask applicants of the exact amount they receive as salary in the organisation where they formerly work?


Please help push it to the front page...

It happened to me after working for 4yrs in one private school in my area, they were paying me 20k, then they increase it to 23k and increase my status to HOD in 2017. I left them in 2019 when they couldn't increase it to 30k, the new minimum wage.

When I got to the other school, they asked me how much was my salary, I was very angry, because I felt that my previous school were paying me way less... I couldn't answer them and my stomach started paining me immediately they ask me that question.

I just bend down and shock my head. the interviewer told me to go and come back in two days when am ready.

I knew they needed me because I passed their written interview with the highest score. So when I went back after two days.

They repeated the same question and I have to lie... Yes, e get why. And I learnt a great lesson from that interview.

There is nothing confidential about your salary when it comes to an interview. Well, they eventually offered me the job but I didn't like the salary, though it was 35k, Tax inclusive.

After the pandemic, I left the school to another... You know why? The salary!

I just said let me just try the school may be their salary will be better, but during their interview they asked me how much was my salary in my previous school... I just added 5k to the 35k... i.e 40k

You know what? they took me and they even added 2k to it, because we were arguing between the 40k and 45k.

Now, that is common sense.

Next time when your interviewer ask you your previous pay... What you need to do is size them up, and add appropriate amount to your previous salary, because that will be their reference point... As in, is like you going to buy something from the market and you already know the price. But the seller just wants to add something to it so that he/she can make profit off you.

You can see, that even though they cannot afford to pay me 40k... at least, they would have paid between 37k to that 40k and I would have still taken their offer which is way better than my previous work place.

Anyways next time, do not be ashame of your pay. Add an appropriate amount, and tell them to make their offer a little higher.

#CommonSense.

Make una dey their,




When Burkina Faso go trash them 6 zero their eyes go clear...
Very poor team, na 1point them take qualify.

move on babe,






He know say una don reach to settle down but he is not capable.

move on babe,






He know say una don reach to settle down but he is not capable.

Islie:
https://www.thecable.ng/extra-shekau-critically-ill-want-prayers-from-nigerians-says-borno-pastor

Make he die na... why praying for him

diamondedu:
Hmmmm.. good day please how best do I handle this situation?

My ex, although we did not officially seperate, is getting married by the end of the month but she doesn't love her husband to be. She finds his touch irritating, they hardly talk about everything that married people do, she's not just comfortable with the husband to be.

Now me and her were very good friends before we become lovers she's really a good girl, very supportive, infact every man's dream lady but I'm not yet ready to settle down. Family issues still full my head..

PLS married people how best do I avoid her before it becomes problem for her and the innocent man?

Apply Okafor's Law with caution.

Shag her anytime, anywhere and the way you like it. If she born if the husband like make he do DNA test that is not ur p...

Shag her... I repeat shag her.

amazing101x:
I'm in my early 30s, I'm a christian, i'm single , never married and never had kid. I would have loved to marry in my early or late 20s but after several years of chasing true love when my heart was still tender, i've come to realize that love is selfish. Ladies i loved back then don't usually love me and now that i'm financially stable, every ladies seems to love me but i no longer have a tender heart, please don't get me wrong, i'm not wicked, i'm a nice person and i respect women alot but i no longer believe in true love or soul mate.

Now that i've come of age to pick a life partner and get married. To think of spending the rest of my life with one woman is very confusing. But recently i've been thinking of marrying more than one woman , maybe atleast 2. I've talked to some ladies about it, some of them showed remorse and some gladly accepted it. I'm considering marrying educated ladies who won't think of harming each other with charm but would see each other as friends so we can build a family together. Each time i think of marrying more than one wife, i feel more convinced about marriage than thinking of marrying just one.

Please i need your advise.

Pls don't use because of heart break to put yourself into future trouble.

You might think you have money now, so no problem... My brother, marrying more than one woman will finish your money, because what you did for one, you will do for all.

After they have given birth, you will have to take care of each of their children.

Pls it's better you marry just one. If it beauty u want? go for the one you think is d best. If it is education, do the same... Anyone you want, pls just make sure that one is d best for u and stick by her.

The truth is...










Who cares

is alrt






Trump most be learning the hard way now.
Learn from GEJ he say no because he is from a 3rd world country.


Now him eyes don clear.

Bola146:
How could a reasonable and responsible human being be snapping nude pictures and be sending it

You dey ask me?

Who











Them be

Mr Righteousness








What do you have to say?

loopman:
Just like any candidate you support! That is the tenet and essence of democracy, not making it a demand that people must vote for your own tribe person

Sure




That is true.

Who tell Wike








Say na PDP we go vote for?

Nice!










It is pertinent to know that "it is not only the rich people that give but people with good heart"

Good bless the giver.

PDP should just rest.









The APC that I know will account for nothing. Even if they do... It will end in lies.

Nairalandwizerd:
Better.



Somewhere and somehow, why is this man laughing while carrying pastors son?

The pastor Nuhu the woman.

finebois:
Federal government should please lock us down. #SecondLockdown

Idiot







Will you shut up