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lereinter:
That's the difficult part

Topmaike007:
na big men dey take star oo,me na small stout and hero be the way oo

Topmaike007:
which brand you like self?

Topmaike007:
God bless you jare

MJBOLT:

phazotron:
They love lies.

It's the ones that will love bomb them with big grammar and sweet words theyll follow

The sincere ones that are speaking simple straightforward English (that is easy for them to understand) they'll say he's boring

Next thing na lamentation for instagram "all men are scum"

I never used to understand when people say girls like lies.

I now understand why.

Just keep feeding them with lies. Thank me later.

abragr8:
I saw a post where single Lady asked some Married women "If a wife gives her Husband good food, good sex, respect and peace of mind, will the man still cheat on her?".
Most of the married women said "That is even when he will cheat more because it is in their blood".

These women were talking from bad experiences. So their opinions are not objective. Bad standpoint will only produce bad viewpoint.

For instance as a small boy in my village, someone travelled to Abuja for the first time and stayed in somewhere after Maraba. His uncle's wife mistreated him. So when he returned to my village, he told me how Abuja is very bad and even worse than our village. Abuja people dont feed well and they eat late he said. His opinion of Abuja was faulty. He spoilt the city to me. I was a small boy then.
When it was time for me to go to Abuja, I stayed with a millionaire friend of my Dad in Maitama. His wife was so caring and nice. I discovered that my friend didnt even go to Abuja. He went to Nasarawa state and thought it was Abuja.

� Same thing happens in marriage. A lady married a chronic womanizer and drunkard. She knew his character but she chose him due to the fact that he was rich or pretended to be rich while the good guys around her were 'poor'. After wedding she gave her husband every kind of food and every sex style in the dictionary. Yet the man kept cheating on her. What she went into was not actually a Marriage but a Mirage.
How can that woman be able to advise a single girl about behaviour of men?
Life would appear unbalanced when your standpoint is not balanced.

22brains:
There's this girl am dating, she's beautiful and has everything a man wants in a woman.

But The problem is "she had a child outside wedlock" and hardly go about without carrying The baby(5yrs old). This makes me feel embarrassed among my peers, knowing am not the legitimate father.

She always gets upset whenever I try to know about the father of her child. All she has told me of him is they broke up.

She also pressures me to marry her that she is tired staying with her mom.

She's 20yrs while am 26. Should I succumb or Jakpa? Please help a brother with some advice.

Canadianelenu:
Recently, the increase in armed robberies and banditry has become a disturbing trend in Nigeria. It is even more horrendous when the men of the underworld not only steal when they attack but will also rape any unfortunate female caught in the invasion.

My wife and I were watching a real life crime documentary one evening and in the documentary, a lady was shot and killed after resisting rape advances from 6 men who invaded her residence.

Fortunately, the criminals were later caught using forensic evidence and paraded by law enforcement. These men were tough looking strongly built men who no doubts would have torn the lady apart if they had succeeded in raping her.

However, the shocker was when my wife of 4 years said, and I quote “she just died for nothing and has caused her family a lot of grief...if it were me, I would just let them have their way and live to see another day”.

Although this sounded very right, it also sounded very wrong at the same time and has since been messing with my head as I cannot get the picture out of my mind. We could both see that they were 6 hefty men and yet she felt she should have................

Ladies, am I over reacting and men, what do you think? How can something feel so right and so wrong simultaneously?

FalseProphet1:
I can see that this results are fake.

TeemahBeddings:
Okkkk.

If you want someone who will do all your chores for you. Hire a maid. You are your partner helper. Simply because you are the man doesn't mean you should turn your wife into a slave. During our forefather's time, the sole responsibility of the woman is to hold the home front and help on the farm once in a while, the man brings the food and money to the table. But now, you want a maid and someone who brings money to the house.

Shameless bunch of men

Serene123:
Confuse

Haven't seen tangible evidence against her and the guy despite hacking her phone and reading all her chats for months.

Just the call that put me off. And the call have continued for months

I am torn between believing her or just calling it off.

Serene123:
Please I will need your constructive opinion on this. Been battling with this thoughts for some time now.

I engaged my girl last year. Reason why I did engage her was because I saw her intent to be with me. I have seen her gave out her cash to help get somethings for our new apartment. She has even used her cash to buy some properties she wants in the house when we get married.
She has stood and defended me to her family on why she is getting married to me. She has really earned my trust and never regretted engaging her. She is one girl that every man will like to have as wife

In the course of our relationship months back, I noticed there is this guy that call her. I questioned and she said is just a friend. I have told her I am not comfortable with the call. Yes I have listened to the calls and it doesn't sound serious
On 25th Dec I place a call across to her phone and she wasn't picking. She later told me reason why she didn't pick.
While we were together I noticed she didn't pick cos she went out with the same guy I have been complaining about. I got to know via a pic.
She has insisted nothing serious is going on.
I was so angry and I needed to take her phone and check up something. We struggled with the phone and she injured her nails.. She is saying I am a woman beater and I have anger issue.
She started keeping to herself and phone and was bold to tell me that this action of mine has succeeded in killing the feelings she has for me.

She has asked for time to get her mental health back and for close to two weeks now we haven't been flowing well..

I have tried to talk to her so we fix this shit but she said she needs time.

I have decided to give her the time she needs while I focus on something else. Yes, I miss her

I won't lie, is emotional for me and someone is currently trying to fill her vacuum by being all nice. I am getting closer to her, but my heart still yearn for my fiance.

I don't know if I am doing the right thing by being close to another lady. I don't know if I should belivee her that she has lost feelings for me and move on.
I need your advise.

Sorry for the lengthy thread