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Family › Re: Couple Fall From Ninth Floor Window While Having Sex by Sanchez01(m): 1:13pm On Jul 17, 2019
What would she tell God now?
Family › Re: Wife Vs Husban And In-laws by Sanchez01(m): 1:12pm On Jul 17, 2019
bukatyne:
The bold below answers your question
I did mention that and I knew you'd reference it. Again, kindly point out the part I said money is the only thing either party can bring into marriage.
Family › Re: Wife Vs Husban And In-laws by Sanchez01(m): 1:09pm On Jul 17, 2019
Efewestern:
The whole truth of the matter is, she doesn't want to have anything to do with Nigeria, this is what she has to say;

"... my intention is only for my husband to be the best he can be and for now Nigeria is not a good financial investment rather it’s just an ego investment. "
It's obvious, Oniovò. She has confirmed the same already and has said her husband and herself agreed to not settle in Nigeria. I just don't want to tell her... Something is obviously not right.
Family › Re: Wife Vs Husban And In-laws by Sanchez01(m): 1:03pm On Jul 17, 2019
ebonyggurl:
It's funny how some people here are saying "it's his money". He earns money yes, the wife also earns money. They're married for pete's sake. It should be "our money". What kind of husband makes such a big financial decision without consulting his wife? Nigerian men and their habit of treating women like lesser creatures. Some didn't even read the post well and comprehend everything the op said. The lady said building a house in Nigeria is bad investment for 2 reasons. First they have no intention of ever staying in naija....second, if they rent out the apartment, they will never make good profit from it considering the rate of the pound to naira. So why waste resources? With the way the country is going sef, won't it be wickedness to bring the kids to such an unsafe environment in future?
Someone even said he's providing for the family and she's complaining of cheating. It really hurts when a woman loves a man and gives him her all, only to find out he doesn't even respect her enough to stay faithful
Will you guys shove this double standard and be realistic for once?? It becomes 'our' money when a man has more than enough and cannot spend the way he pleases even when you have no stake in it but your money is ours when the man slips into a dark moment which sees him short of money!

If you'd be judging solely from her perspective, then you have no grounds to talk about Nigerian men when you have not heard his side of the story. The truth is missing here, just as his own truth. Her truth is all we have but then the issue isn't about whether or not he cheated but that he never carried her along.

You fail to acknowledge or ask what financial model they adopted in their marriage but you could judge Nigerian men at the speed of light. This is short sightedness at play.

Why are you taking her word for it that they have no intention of staying in Nigeria? What if the man comes to air his story and claim he once said he'd relocate his family to Nigeria at some point but the wife refused? Would you still talk this way then? What if he has the intention to set up a company in the nearest future and the talks were brushed aside? (Note 'WHAT IF).

I don't play the gender card but some of you are a huge shame to what you claim to represent. If the man was your brother, I am very sure the narrative would change and you wouldn't judge him and Nigerian men in the cruel manner you've done.
Family › Re: Wife Vs Husban And In-laws by Sanchez01(m): 12:53pm On Jul 17, 2019
Lovefury:
None of us have any intention of settling in Nigeria which is why it doesn’t make sense to me. I can’t advise him the wrong thing. It all just seems dishonest to me
I won't be the one to tell you this but your husband is not being entirely sincere with you, particularly since your MIL mentioned that the house is for you and your kids.

You are totally in the dark here...
Family › Re: Wife Vs Husban And In-laws by Sanchez01(m): 12:51pm On Jul 17, 2019
bukatyne:
So the only thing someone brings to the table in a marriage is money?
Could you point to the part in my post I mentioned it has to be the only thing?
Family › Re: Wife Vs Husban And In-laws by Sanchez01(m): 8:45am On Jul 17, 2019
Efewestern:
Now I'm beginning to agree with you, the man didn't even buy the Land for his extended family but for his wife and kids, she has no reason whatsoever to be angry, she even mentioned that the family of the man is quite wealthy.

@Bolded exactly, she only brought the issue of cheating all because of this property ish, if the man hadn't bought any landed property in Nigeria, she wouldn't have painted him in such a manner.

The man is fulfilling his duty, she even said when the man cheats, he doesn't rub it on her face, meaning there is a probability that the man isn't even cheating, the lady might just be an insecure person who after sighting her husband with any pretty lady, jumps into conclusions that he is cheating.

Someone cannot spend his own money in peace again because of madam grin.
I hate to be the last person to run a female down but this lady is one I'd describe as a bad market. She is amazing at listening to others talk about Nigerians and Nigerian men, brings nothing to the table as the man runs the major expenses in the home and wouldn't allow him spend his money the way he pleases. Her MIL EVEN HAD TO TELL HER THAT THE PROPERTY IS FOR HER AND HER KIDS... What more could she have wanted? It isn't a case of using both your monies to finance his real estate investment.

You can spot a stupiid man from a distance just as you can spot a foolish woman from the same. I wouldn't necessarily refer to the OP as a wise woman who is focused on building her home. Perhaps she has no intention of ever settling in Nigeria which is why she is against the real estate investment move of the husband. If this is the case, then she is selfish.
Family › Re: Wife Vs Husban And In-laws by Sanchez01(m): 7:31am On Jul 17, 2019
Efewestern:
Two years is too far, if you do not develop the land within 7 months, just forget about it. grin

Read through the story over and over again, my only issue with the man is him not protecting his wife in the presence of his family and his womanizing spirit.

The lady should relax and have a chill pill, it hasn't got to divorce. investing in real estate isn't a bad idea, the man didn't inform her on time because he thought she won't buy into the plan, so he bought the land with the intention of telling her later.
Lol! She has no idea! grin

'Protecting' his wife? She discussed with her mother-in-law and her MIL in turn told her that the property isn't for her (MIL) but for the woman and her kids. I am not sure the MIL said anything bad to her. I am still trying hard to find the part where his family ran her down.

My only grouse is that he is a cheat as painted by the wife but then, this is only an aspect of the story and we don't know the truth. This is purely her version.

Why I don't align with her thoughts and story is because SHE RESURRECTED HER HUSBAND'S CHEATING EPISODE over his property in Nigeria. It boggles the mind that she has issues with her husband's financial decision. She was hinted about 'the Nigerian way of life' of building in their country and her husband is doing the same. She clearly doesn't subscribe to the idea and believes it is enough to call off whatever they have.

The funniest part of all of these is that it is with the man's money! It's funny if you ask me. grin
Family › Re: Wife Vs Husban And In-laws by Sanchez01(m): 6:26am On Jul 17, 2019
Should we go hard on you in the name of truth or sooth your soul with lies just because we don't want to hurt you? You've 'had it' just because your husband first bought a land in Nigeria and then brushed aside your suggestion and his mom went ahead to get contractors ON HIS MONEY!

Well, typically of Nigerians, securing a landed property is a prime target for most and you failed to realize that the land could be taken from him in two years. Two years is a very long time to leave a land idle and not develop on it. I hate to say it but you were clearly insensitive there. Save you are buying in a super high brow area, a land left that long is as good as gone.

He hasn't done well in carrying you along. Perhaps he saw through you and thought not tell you because he knew you'd ward off the idea from the start or that you wouldn't go with it. I sure believe he wanted reinforcement and not suggestions, which was why he never told you.

It's a good thing you mentioned that he is committed to the family financially and he isn't concerned about your money. On cheating, I'd suggest you sit him down and out forward whatever evidence you have. As far as investing in real estate is concerned, please drink a litre of water and lay back.

You had to 'dig' up his cheating aspect just because 'you've had it' after your suggestion was discarded. Had he listened to you, I'm sure you'd not rush on here to share this. I'd never encourage cheating but given the circumstances with which it is revealed, I'd say I have my reservations. I honestly have no idea if seperation is being sought after on grounds of 'not taking my advice' or cheating.

I think your utmost concern in all of these is your mental and emotional health then seeing that his commitment and taking care of 'THE TWO HUGE BILLS' don't suffer.

May God not let us jam people who'd stand to demonize us when things don't go their way.
Crime › Re: Herdsmen Behead Father And Son In Plateau Attack - Punch by Sanchez01(m): 4:56pm On Jul 16, 2019
Efewestern:
The man thinks when you get into a new country you can just pull out anytime you like, how did these same people he is trying to praise treat the minorities under their care during the regional government?
You will fear fear grin
Crime › Re: Herdsmen Behead Father And Son In Plateau Attack - Punch by Sanchez01(m): 2:49pm On Jul 16, 2019
martowskin1:
Oshare I can see u are enjoying the Nigeria agenda....

Me I go prefer move with the biafrans, then later we find our way ....

Nigeria no be am again
Is Biafra the agenda of the core South? Am I missing something here?
Celebrities › Re: Shoki Shitta Begs Davido To Fund Him Again After Lavishing N1M by Sanchez01(m): 2:43pm On Jul 16, 2019
Idiot! undecided

No grain of shame. Had his father worked or toiled night and day to realize 50k, I sure as hell believe he won't 'share'. Some humans are just useless!
Sports › Re: When Nani Ruined One Of The Greatest Career Goals Ronaldo Scored(throwback) by Sanchez01(m): 1:51pm On Jul 16, 2019
Ultimatezlant:
Shouldn't Rinaldo be happy they got the goal?


Must everything about him be self-centered?
You didn't watch the match then, and you refused to see the highlight now, yet you are quick to post and call Ronaldo selfish?

Your village people be looking at you like...

Celebrities › Re: Kemi Olunloyo In Her New Office (Photos) by Sanchez01(m): 9:51pm On Jul 15, 2019
COZA does wonders!

Beg one day, become a defender the next... Own an office barely a week after.

COZA magic!
Sports › Re: AFCON: AS Roma Congratulates Nigeria, Super Eagles Responds by Sanchez01(m): 11:46am On Jul 15, 2019
escodotman:
Mr man, you hype the Algerian team too much, perhaps the reason you are not a professional footballer. You make them look like a Barcelona team, they are not even the top-ranked team in Africa. You shouldn't forget we beat them in the qualifier for 2018 world cup! Maybe you were among those who thought they would tear Côte d'Ivoire apart. Footballers don't have your kind of mentality, you must believe your opponent would get beaten by you or else you go home and don't show up to play. You exhibit fear. Each game is different.
I should refer to you as a clown that you but I won't. I just love it when I see people drown in their words. It is a very crazy fetish for me. I hope you'll bring a fork along to wrap and eat this like some well-garnished noodles? cool
Sports › Re: AFCON: AS Roma Congratulates Nigeria, Super Eagles Responds by Sanchez01(m): 10:49pm On Jul 14, 2019
phr0nesis:
grin grin
No fear, we get Akpeyi
undecided
Sports › Re: AFCON: AS Roma Congratulates Nigeria, Super Eagles Responds by Sanchez01(m): 10:49pm On Jul 14, 2019
oruma19:
pls don't worry urself, the Algerians have more to fear. Naija will humble them, it will be 2:1 in favor of nigeria
grin
Sports › Re: AFCON: AS Roma Congratulates Nigeria, Super Eagles Responds by Sanchez01(m): 10:48pm On Jul 14, 2019
Harlem2:
The same way you guys hype Cameroon and south Africa players
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Dem Dem analyst
You still think Algeria is hyped?
Sports › Re: Algeria Vs Nigeria: AFCON Semi-Finals (2 - 1) Full Time by Sanchez01(m): 10:29pm On Jul 14, 2019
Where are those clueless boys who claim Feghouli and Mahrez are hyped? undecided
Christianity Etc › Re: How To Find Your Wife By Pastor Sam Adeyemi by Sanchez01(m): 9:37am On Jul 14, 2019
Nistfrank:
with due respect MA, adam no pay tithe b4 him get wife, abi nah solomon wey marry dem plenty pay tithe.
Adam was given his wife on a platter and he ended up blaming God for the woman he was given; 'the woman you gave me...' (Gen 3:12-13). The Bible said God regretted and the order changed. You have to search to find now, only then can you say you have found favour. (Prov 18:22).

Solomon gave 142,000 cattle to God as offering. That is more than any tithe. (2 Chro 7:5).
Christianity Etc › Re: How To Find Your Wife By Pastor Sam Adeyemi by Sanchez01(m): 9:32am On Jul 14, 2019
skultrick:
With all due respect Sir, I disagree with you.

The girls will follow he with the largest pocket filled with cash.

And, that's what am hustling not by going to church to find love.

Moreover, I detest girls that are over religious. This ones will never take my command, they would rather take that of the pastor who to them is the head of my family.

I rather look at real attributes and not how churchous you're. My humble submission.
At the emboldened, you'll always meet your kind of ladies; ladies who have one horrible, warped mentality as yours. Money is crucial in relationships just as it is in marriage but if it forms the basis of your marriage, be sure that it would crash.

That one goes to church does not mean they are religion. Religion is one thing, loving God is another.

The essence of Pastor Sam's piece is POSITIONING. If you are on the look out for a partner, rather than isolate yourself in the name of religion, join a strategic unit that could easily position you, serve God as you would and someone will find you out. It is an age long principle cum strategy in finding/getting a partner.
Politics › Re: Give Us RUGA : Students Of Usman Dan Fodio University Sokoto(UDUS) Stage Protest by Sanchez01(m): 1:33pm On Jul 13, 2019
They couldn't even write it out correctly! So much for being students. undecided
Sports › Re: AFCON: AS Roma Congratulates Nigeria, Super Eagles Responds by Sanchez01(m): 12:19am On Jul 13, 2019
Chukalemon:
bros look oh.i no dey fear any team for africa.bros make them come one after the other na so we go dey nak them okpako one by one
We have a good team to be fair. The problem is that our players waste too many chances compared to converted ones. To beat Algeria, every chance must count.
Sports › Re: AFCON: AS Roma Congratulates Nigeria, Super Eagles Responds by Sanchez01(m): 12:17am On Jul 13, 2019
Lilkini:
feghouli and ounas is out of the game with injury...even with them,we are "The giant of Africa" .we can beat anyone....
my legs dey shake as i dey type this thing�
grin grin grin
Sports › Re: AFCON: AS Roma Congratulates Nigeria, Super Eagles Responds by Sanchez01(m): 12:17am On Jul 13, 2019
3verblazing:
Algeria vs burundi? Is this thesame AFCON 2019?..
Nah... It was a friendly prior AFCON
Sports › Re: AFCON: AS Roma Congratulates Nigeria, Super Eagles Responds by Sanchez01(m): 5:05pm On Jul 12, 2019
Tonymegabush1:
Nice observation, but this kinda team to tamed them you need to employ wingers with speed, musa is good with pace but in end it all amount to wasted energy with no clear cut pass to who ever that is making the run for [we can still use him though] chukwueze control the other side well i just hope he still deliver on that day...


#Goeagles
We'd get into trouble if we play at their pace. We need to slow down the game and play our trumpeting, Kanu-styled, Palm wine football. The Algerians are fast players and dancing to their tune would make us tire out quickly.
Sports › Re: AFCON: AS Roma Congratulates Nigeria, Super Eagles Responds by Sanchez01(m): 5:03pm On Jul 12, 2019
Auladimeji2:
This club has been congratulating Nigeria since last world cup,Something is fishy.Maybe they're looking for sponsor
The first was over our jersey and I think Nike allowed them copy the design.
Sports › Re: AFCON: AS Roma Congratulates Nigeria, Super Eagles Responds by Sanchez01(m): 5:02pm On Jul 12, 2019
Marjoribanks:
Mr man use your brain, we didn't play our first team against Madagascar.
You know this in your hearts of heart yet you lieing to yourself to proof a point.
#Whyoga.
Who is this clown? Could you please mention Super Eagles first team?

Anyways, before you disgrace your village people, below is the lineup against Madagascar. Now tell, that looks very much like a TEAM B to you, abi?

All these 'up Chelsea' boys sef grin

Sports › Re: AFCON: AS Roma Congratulates Nigeria, Super Eagles Responds by Sanchez01(m): 12:32pm On Jul 12, 2019
OakPearl:
Your result sheet shows they conceded a goal against Burundi in their opening game.
But I get your point how tight they are at the back.
Look again... That wasn't in the AFCON. The 1-1 they played against Burundi was a friendly. SO FAR, THEY HAVE ONLY CONCEDED JUST ONE GOAL!
Sports › Re: AFCON: AS Roma Congratulates Nigeria, Super Eagles Responds by Sanchez01(m): 12:08pm On Jul 12, 2019
Harlem2:
The same way you guys hype Cameroon and south Africa players
Dem Dem analyst
Harlem2:
And ivory coast scored a clean goal with all the attack minded
Dragging Algeria to extra time and penalty
It isn't hard to figure, is it? We were almost killed by Madagascar, the same team that was beaten mercilessly yesterday by Tunisia. Anyways, the goal Ivory Coast scored is the only one Algeria has conceded in the tourney.

Sports › Re: AFCON: AS Roma Congratulates Nigeria, Super Eagles Responds by Sanchez01(m): 10:51am On Jul 12, 2019
phr0nesis:
He should help us famz Mahrez
LMAO! grin
Sports › Re: AFCON: AS Roma Congratulates Nigeria, Super Eagles Responds by Sanchez01(m): 10:51am On Jul 12, 2019
OakPearl:
My brother my major wahala na our keeper.
Too jittery and lacks confidence.
The keeper has not really been tested. Before the South Africans scored. He was way outside of the post that I wondered what was happening. I was even screaming at my TV like he'd listen to me. grin

The Algerian team has the best, attack-minded team in the tournament. Their backline is incredible, with only a goal conceded so far.

If our defenders can bleed out and shield our GK, we just might have a chance against them.

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