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What would she tell God now? |
bukatyne:I did mention that and I knew you'd reference it. Again, kindly point out the part I said money is the only thing either party can bring into marriage. |
Efewestern:It's obvious, Oniovò. She has confirmed the same already and has said her husband and herself agreed to not settle in Nigeria. I just don't want to tell her... Something is obviously not right. |
ebonyggurl:Will you guys shove this double standard and be realistic for once?? It becomes 'our' money when a man has more than enough and cannot spend the way he pleases even when you have no stake in it but your money is ours when the man slips into a dark moment which sees him short of money! If you'd be judging solely from her perspective, then you have no grounds to talk about Nigerian men when you have not heard his side of the story. The truth is missing here, just as his own truth. Her truth is all we have but then the issue isn't about whether or not he cheated but that he never carried her along. You fail to acknowledge or ask what financial model they adopted in their marriage but you could judge Nigerian men at the speed of light. This is short sightedness at play. Why are you taking her word for it that they have no intention of staying in Nigeria? What if the man comes to air his story and claim he once said he'd relocate his family to Nigeria at some point but the wife refused? Would you still talk this way then? What if he has the intention to set up a company in the nearest future and the talks were brushed aside? (Note 'WHAT IF). I don't play the gender card but some of you are a huge shame to what you claim to represent. If the man was your brother, I am very sure the narrative would change and you wouldn't judge him and Nigerian men in the cruel manner you've done. |
Lovefury:I won't be the one to tell you this but your husband is not being entirely sincere with you, particularly since your MIL mentioned that the house is for you and your kids. You are totally in the dark here... |
bukatyne:Could you point to the part in my post I mentioned it has to be the only thing? |
Efewestern:I hate to be the last person to run a female down but this lady is one I'd describe as a bad market. She is amazing at listening to others talk about Nigerians and Nigerian men, brings nothing to the table as the man runs the major expenses in the home and wouldn't allow him spend his money the way he pleases. Her MIL EVEN HAD TO TELL HER THAT THE PROPERTY IS FOR HER AND HER KIDS... What more could she have wanted? It isn't a case of using both your monies to finance his real estate investment. You can spot a stupiid man from a distance just as you can spot a foolish woman from the same. I wouldn't necessarily refer to the OP as a wise woman who is focused on building her home. Perhaps she has no intention of ever settling in Nigeria which is why she is against the real estate investment move of the husband. If this is the case, then she is selfish. |
Efewestern:Lol! She has no idea! ![]() 'Protecting' his wife? She discussed with her mother-in-law and her MIL in turn told her that the property isn't for her (MIL) but for the woman and her kids. I am not sure the MIL said anything bad to her. I am still trying hard to find the part where his family ran her down. My only grouse is that he is a cheat as painted by the wife but then, this is only an aspect of the story and we don't know the truth. This is purely her version. Why I don't align with her thoughts and story is because SHE RESURRECTED HER HUSBAND'S CHEATING EPISODE over his property in Nigeria. It boggles the mind that she has issues with her husband's financial decision. She was hinted about 'the Nigerian way of life' of building in their country and her husband is doing the same. She clearly doesn't subscribe to the idea and believes it is enough to call off whatever they have. The funniest part of all of these is that it is with the man's money! It's funny if you ask me. ![]() |
Should we go hard on you in the name of truth or sooth your soul with lies just because we don't want to hurt you? You've 'had it' just because your husband first bought a land in Nigeria and then brushed aside your suggestion and his mom went ahead to get contractors ON HIS MONEY! Well, typically of Nigerians, securing a landed property is a prime target for most and you failed to realize that the land could be taken from him in two years. Two years is a very long time to leave a land idle and not develop on it. I hate to say it but you were clearly insensitive there. Save you are buying in a super high brow area, a land left that long is as good as gone. He hasn't done well in carrying you along. Perhaps he saw through you and thought not tell you because he knew you'd ward off the idea from the start or that you wouldn't go with it. I sure believe he wanted reinforcement and not suggestions, which was why he never told you. It's a good thing you mentioned that he is committed to the family financially and he isn't concerned about your money. On cheating, I'd suggest you sit him down and out forward whatever evidence you have. As far as investing in real estate is concerned, please drink a litre of water and lay back. You had to 'dig' up his cheating aspect just because 'you've had it' after your suggestion was discarded. Had he listened to you, I'm sure you'd not rush on here to share this. I'd never encourage cheating but given the circumstances with which it is revealed, I'd say I have my reservations. I honestly have no idea if seperation is being sought after on grounds of 'not taking my advice' or cheating. I think your utmost concern in all of these is your mental and emotional health then seeing that his commitment and taking care of 'THE TWO HUGE BILLS' don't suffer. May God not let us jam people who'd stand to demonize us when things don't go their way. |
Efewestern:You will fear fear ![]() |
martowskin1:Is Biafra the agenda of the core South? Am I missing something here? |
Idiot! ![]() No grain of shame. Had his father worked or toiled night and day to realize 50k, I sure as hell believe he won't 'share'. Some humans are just useless! |
Ultimatezlant:You didn't watch the match then, and you refused to see the highlight now, yet you are quick to post and call Ronaldo selfish? Your village people be looking at you like...
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COZA does wonders! Beg one day, become a defender the next... Own an office barely a week after. COZA magic! |
escodotman:I should refer to you as a clown that you but I won't. I just love it when I see people drown in their words. It is a very crazy fetish for me. I hope you'll bring a fork along to wrap and eat this like some well-garnished noodles? ![]() |
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Harlem2:You still think Algeria is hyped? |
Where are those clueless boys who claim Feghouli and Mahrez are hyped? ![]() |
Nistfrank:Adam was given his wife on a platter and he ended up blaming God for the woman he was given; 'the woman you gave me...' (Gen 3:12-13). The Bible said God regretted and the order changed. You have to search to find now, only then can you say you have found favour. (Prov 18:22). Solomon gave 142,000 cattle to God as offering. That is more than any tithe. (2 Chro 7:5). |
skultrick:At the emboldened, you'll always meet your kind of ladies; ladies who have one horrible, warped mentality as yours. Money is crucial in relationships just as it is in marriage but if it forms the basis of your marriage, be sure that it would crash. That one goes to church does not mean they are religion. Religion is one thing, loving God is another. The essence of Pastor Sam's piece is POSITIONING. If you are on the look out for a partner, rather than isolate yourself in the name of religion, join a strategic unit that could easily position you, serve God as you would and someone will find you out. It is an age long principle cum strategy in finding/getting a partner. |
They couldn't even write it out correctly! So much for being students. ![]() |
Chukalemon:We have a good team to be fair. The problem is that our players waste too many chances compared to converted ones. To beat Algeria, every chance must count. |
Lilkini: ![]() |
3verblazing:Nah... It was a friendly prior AFCON |
Tonymegabush1:We'd get into trouble if we play at their pace. We need to slow down the game and play our trumpeting, Kanu-styled, Palm wine football. The Algerians are fast players and dancing to their tune would make us tire out quickly. |
Auladimeji2:The first was over our jersey and I think Nike allowed them copy the design. |
Marjoribanks:Who is this clown? Could you please mention Super Eagles first team? Anyways, before you disgrace your village people, below is the lineup against Madagascar. Now tell, that looks very much like a TEAM B to you, abi? All these 'up Chelsea' boys sef ![]()
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OakPearl:Look again... That wasn't in the AFCON. The 1-1 they played against Burundi was a friendly. SO FAR, THEY HAVE ONLY CONCEDED JUST ONE GOAL! |
Harlem2: Harlem2:It isn't hard to figure, is it? We were almost killed by Madagascar, the same team that was beaten mercilessly yesterday by Tunisia. Anyways, the goal Ivory Coast scored is the only one Algeria has conceded in the tourney.
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phr0nesis:LMAO! ![]() |
OakPearl:The keeper has not really been tested. Before the South Africans scored. He was way outside of the post that I wondered what was happening. I was even screaming at my TV like he'd listen to me. ![]() The Algerian team has the best, attack-minded team in the tournament. Their backline is incredible, with only a goal conceded so far. If our defenders can bleed out and shield our GK, we just might have a chance against them. |
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