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nymphomaniac:
Bruhm, Uka, haier thermocool, looka, mooka, polystar, century, syinix...


Abeg which of these TV's will u recommend to be bought? 32" LED. All these new products dey fear me

I was gifted a brand new Bruhm (32 inches) sometime last year upon resignation from my workplace. The TV is very good.

Victim: 1. a person who is tricked or duped. 2. a person who has come to feel helpless and passive in the face of misfortune or ill-treatment.

According to her narrative, she knew:

1. The dude had a live-in girlfriend but never bothered. Safe to say she never asked questions or just wanted to squeeze her head in.
2. The guy was irresponsible from the get-go. He cheated on three occasions but you saw nothing wrong with it and didn't see through the madness that he is irresponsible. He hops from one club to another and you never thought to reevaluate your relationship with this kind of human.

He was living with a lady before we started talking. The lady moved out. He jumps from club to club and ladies to ladies. Caught him more than 3 times.

3. He vehemently denies the pregnancy which isn't much of a shock going by his character description in your post but you never cared because he is responsible and must accept.
4. It is not about the money plus he lives in a room and parlour somewhere in Ikorodu. He isn't rich, according to you.
5. He embarrassed your family by telling them he won't accept your pregnancy and indirectly accuse you of sleeping around.
6. He blocked you on all social media platforms known to the both of you in order to make the message more stronger.

IF THIS ISN'T ABOUT THE MONEY THEN WHAT IS IT ABOUT, THAT HE MARRIES YOU BECAUSE YOU ARE DESPERATE?? You saw the signs but never concerned yourself with the truth and chose to get an irresponsible man to commit to you by forcing a pregnancy on him.

With a these signs and warnings you thought to make a baby with a cheat, an irresponsible dolt who though at 40 still hop from one club to another and to cap it all up, he is struggling. I don't understand the kind of life you think you'd live with this kind of person but it is clear as day that he isn't thinking the family way.

This is not me being sanctimonious and all what not... This is me saying the OP is a victim of her own undoing. The deed has been done. Look ahead and think of how you'd raise your baby alone. You're on a long thing if you think a 40 year old man who still hop from one club to another claiming 'Bobo no go die unless t'o bá d'arugbo' would assist in raising a child he never wanted.

liberalchick:
Yes the dude owes her nothing, but he owes a child that has half of his DNA (if proven).

Permit me again to be insensitive. Don't birth kids when you have no means of taking care of them. Before the baby fully formed, the irresponsible man who put the mother in the family way clearly made it known that he isn't interested in fathering a child. Would you still blame him?

Let's call a spade a spade and remain blunt while at it. She thought to keep the baby against the idea of the dude responsible for it and should have a plan since he wants no part of it.

I pray the child doesn't experience hardship but this could have been avoided. It is well though.

Ishilove:
If indeed he is truly responsible after conducting a DNA test, he should be made to pay for the upkeep. They are two irresponsible adults who should be made to face the consequences of their irresponsibility. Whether it is a one-night stand or not, she didn't get herself pregnant so the one who knocked her up should face the sweet, musical sound of baby cries.

He is lucky we are not in the 20th century. The male members of her family would have beaten him silly and forced him to marry her.

I hate to be judgemental here but the dude owes her nothing. It's not like they were married to begin with. Granted, they are two adults who should be responsible but she should have known what to expect going by her narrative and description of the unfortunate dude.

He avoided her during the pregnancy and told her mum that he can't marry her and we are claiming he should be made to pay? What if he, God forbid, dies today? Would she call put her ghost or spirit to come look after one baby?

They irresponsibly had sex without protection and she failed to take care of herself after it happened. In my opinion, when a woman is determined to keep a pregnancy or a child the partner doesn't want, she must have had plans that doesn't involve the other person. In this case, she doesn't. This looks like a failed planned to me.

Like I earlier mentioned, this is obviously her own side of the story. The guy, for all we know, might have given her money for an emergency pill and she thought to do otherwise.

Forcing pregnancy on people is an invitation to misery. Should the guys agree today, she just might end up cursing the day she met him.

Ishilove:
See wetin fvck matter dey cause. All this embarrassment would have been prevented with N100 Gold Circle condom.

I hate to say it but it seems the lady planned it. She wanted the dude to commit to her even when it was obvious he never wanted the pregnancy. 'Simple' issues like this could have been avoided but no, it had to go the way of pregnancy.

safarigirl:
Afternoon, average?

Aguero that has been the EPL top scorer multiple times, average? If Aguero is average, then Messi is also average. You people will drag everybody, but that perennial loser that brings nothing but bad luck to the Argentine squad.

When Di Maria was not expired, what did Messi do with him? Same as Aguero, Mascherano and co, if these guys are expired, so is Messi, because all of them have been playing together for over ten years. They should retire the entire Argentine team including Messing and maybe they will win a trophy. Drogba had to retire before CIV won a trophy, Messi should retire and allow Argentina win a trophy

rapo7000:
I just did a video chat with him and the man was swearing with God that it was a one night stand. Infact he said no one knows her in the compound as she came to his house at 1am and she left early at 5am. i swore with God he never dated her and it was just a night stand that he gave her 5k. anyone can call him to ask he even said he does not have her number and he was able to get a number linked to her. i even tried it but its switched off. 08139042129. He only knows her as lilian nothin more. Again, you said someone impregnated you, and you informed him bout it. U got preggy, had the child you did not post evidence of the child birth to him or inform the said pastor you said you know or even go to the house with the child let everyone know he is the owner or worst still since you have his work details go to his place of work with the child at least he can't deny that. instead being the lyer and defamer you are comes to social media to post details of a man that has done nothing wrong to you. neither was it a business gone wrong. you transacted and deal was resolved but greed wants to make you have more. fool. better hide well cos if you are caught, i will personally make sure you rot in Jail. Oloriburuku.

You're taking this the wrong way. No doubt, there are always three sides to a story involving two people. We know her side of the story and understand his partly based on your narrative. The truth is yet to be established and would never find a foothold if you wear someone's wàhálà on your head like a headwarmer.

I doubt she'd know so much about him if it was a one night stand. Plus, you aren't asking the right questions from the dude.

1. Did he meet her parents and denied the pregnancy?
2. If it was a one night stand, at what point did her families get involved, after the whole pregnancy ish came to light or when they started fighting?
3. She saved his number as 'Treasure' and going by the snapshot of their chat, that is beyond an Olosho appointment gone wrong. Did you ask him if he chatted with her at all, say recently to ascertain his messages are those in the screenshot?

Be careful before you get overwhelmed by another person's issue. When they were whooping behind closed doors, you were never called. So, please, tread lightly.

rapo7000:
I have full story about the affairs. Mama Toppy. Pls pls and stop all these defamation. Again its not right anyone viewing this can call the man. lastly mama toppy you are hiding ur identity and exposing someone else. The guy had a one night stand with you, gave you 5k and exactly after 2 weeks, you came to told him you are pregnant. Its obvious you are an Olosho that wants to reap from where you did not sow. convert ur grievance to luv for your child. God will see you throuogh.

What a revelation!



Czarina
Sinaj
Ishilove

I know you pipu love gists

Devgod:
which one is stars again. Apart from Messi and Aguero who can complete a successful pass in the ARGENTINA team

Jesus! Did you just ask this question, proof read before posting it

For learners, there are the likes of Angel Di Maria, Paredes, Tagliafico, Dybala, Saravia and Otamendi and they all played against Colombia. By the way, I didn't mention the many Argentinians who weren't called for the ongoing tournament. The likes Higuain, Icardi, Lamela and Correa.

Devgod:
This shows you know nothing about football.. which big names do big names win you games? Portugal second eleven has more depth and chemistry than ARG first eleven

Biko, mention Portugal second eleven and explain how they have more depth than Argentina's first eleven!

The Argentinian team is a star studded side with no cohesion. I hope you can tell cohesiveness apart from depth?

Joromi12:
messi should have played for spain

Spain already has the quality. Messi would have hidden perfectly in the team and the world wouldn't see him for the Barca wonder he really is. How he is seen as a demo god in the Barca uniform but not replicating the Barca feats in Argentinian uniform beats my imagination.

History will so be unfair to him.

chino11:
This is a welcome development, the Yorubas should be effectively and perpetually marginalized and schemed out, because they deserve worst things also. What did they achieve for their rotten Yoruba states during wasted years of the baboon called Obasanjorijo Useless and woe tribe. They should step up the complaint, GEJ will as usual and as always mess them up. They forgot that Tinubo sold them out for a pot of 'ewodu', the same way their foolish leaders sold out abioala to the almajiris to be slaughtered.

Eh yah... I wish you can come around again to say that you and yours deserve this.

Nigerians and lack of innovation. Work towards banning users' IP address, he wouldn't listen. Nairaland is overrun by over 4 million registered alternates and the rest could be attributed to genuine users over the years. Growth is innovation. I wonder why Seun has refused to allow the forum grow!

If you are afraid of innovation, perhaps you should hire a dedicated moderator that would ban spammers all over the forum.

Femeto:
We get your point. But it's Bobrisky here. She has made mouth that she can't use Okada again.

'She'? Are you referring to Bobrisky as a she? Like seriously?

Ronaldo (Blue) and Messi (Red) chilling. Dude is only a Barcelona wonder. Otu of the highest order

folash, I am ready. Sent you a message on WhatsApp. Happy Sunday.

Bede2u:
do u want me to show u threads yorubas were gloating that buhari is marginalising igbos?

Now let me ask u...is gej igbo? No.
Are u sure all those who commented on that post are igbos only? No.

Now u see

You threw the first stone and insulted the hell out of them for complaining of marginalization. They strategized and bundled Jonathan out and they returned the favour. So how did they start it first?

Jonathan added Azikiwe to his name and that was enough for you losers to shove aside your home training, if at all you had any.

Most who did are Igbos. If the Yorubas return the favour today, sit back and enjoy the remarks or play better politics to put your region at an advantage, until then, you guys have no business pointing fingers.

OlawaleBammie:
The board could not interfere because Mourinho's contract type gave him total power over the team. He foresaw the club interfering and only accepted the job on the condition that the board wouldn't interfere. He benched Pepe in the same manner he introduced Diego Lopez in 2013 and nt Navas in place of Casillas

Thank you! Missed that.

engrchykae:
THE BLACK MAN'S problem is not as disastrous as that posed by the caucasians.
you dont want to imagine what will happen when this nuclear bombs are used.
they are holding this world ransom while making research about if life will be supported in outer space.
maybe they will run to the new planet and come back when radioactive fallouts have stopped.
we blacks violate nature but the whites have destryed the world through insatiable greed in mining the earth into vaccum and extracting mineral deposits and polluting the ecosystem eg oil spillage that kills both fauna and flora.
the whites will destroy fauna and flora in ogoni and go to the serengeti to preserve wildlife.
get my point,the hypocrisy and double standard of the white race

Let's stick to the discourse and not digress. Today's is about respect for wild life and the black man's mindset towards it. The day nuclear power discussions surface, I'm sure we'd both agree that the white man is a hypocrite. Until then, let's restrict the discussion to Wild Life.

Photoshopped cars. We've been seeing pictures of them for nearly a decade but none has ever been spotted publicly and sightings of such have never been reported.

Car manufacturers do this often when it is obvious the prototype is barely out.

Bluffly:
Whites have thought irrationally, and there stil tnk irrationally despite their advancements

Towards Wild Life? Hell no!

HarryDuce:
Did you know, that most of the mammals that roam the African continent were once present in Europe and Asia? I guess the black man is responsible for their extinction?

False!

While the same might have been present in Asia or Europe, a different specie is what would likely be found in Africa. As per extinction, those who got wiped off in Asia and Europe were not mostly man made, compared to Africa's. Habitat loss is one primary reason for Wild Life extinction in Europe, America and Asia.

Wild Life are disrespected in Africa, rare or not. And our very understanding of them is for food instead of preservation.

engrchykae:
its not an exclusive of any race.
the trend with humans is discover,abuse and destroy.
as am talking with you nations are toying with human existence in the name of nuclear bombs.
we claim to be higher animals but i think we the cancer,the bane of the world.
ants share but humans want it all alone.
GOD REGRETTED CREATING MAN

Don't get me wrong ooo. The Black man's aspect I mentioned is in respect to the gross disrespect of nature and certain creatures. The 'cancer' part very well cover humans and their destructive tendencies.

BabaIbo:
Point of correction...

It's not intelligent than man, it only has closer intelligent level to man when compared with other animals, man is the most intelligent of all creatures

It is believed that humans only use 10% of the brain while dolphins use 20-23% of the cerebral capacity.

At the emboldened, on what basis did you get at the conclusion, simply by judging with cognitive abilities or other factors?

I'm sure it is well detailed by a neuroscientist.

https://www.quora.com/What-is-the-second-most-intelligent-species-on-Earth

Only if some of you know Kubo. y nada mas!



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EnhP-eDenT0

DarkJeddi:
Casillas was treated like shit and am not talking about being relegated to the bench,

He was a club Legend and if you're sending an all time Great off you don't bundle him off like a piece of crap..

Below are pictures of Xavi at his last match for Barca, what did they do for Casillas, NOTHING..

And the ONLY reason Ronaldo decided to leave Madrid was because of the attitude of the President towards him,

He specifically mentioned he felt under appreciated and being seen as expendable by Perez..

Why do you love telling obvious lies? Ronaldo, at 31, wanted a lengthy contract with a reviewed jumbo pay. It was strictly business and it was treated as such. He is older now and isn't clinic as a winger like he used to, yet he wanted a four-year deal. It is a risk no sane business minded person would take.

Below are pictures from Casillas' farewell. Note that it was at a time when the dressing room was greatly divided and Mourinho wanted him out.

https://i2-prod.mirror.co.uk/incoming/article6059674.ece/ALTERNATES/s1227b/Iker-Casillas-says-farewell.jpg

https://cdn-s3.si.com/s3fs-public/styles/marquee_large_2x/public/2015/07/15/iker-casillas-real-madrid-leaves.jpg?itok=A6UBjxkY

https://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2015/07/13/13/2A7E8E9600000578-0-image-a-5_1436789483653.jpg


Aberloa's

https://as01.epimg.net/en/imagenes/2016/05/08/football/1462734052_394200_1462735122_sumario_normal.jpg

https://as01.epimg.net/futbol/imagenes/2016/05/08/primera/1462727164_478996_1462729381_noticia_normal.jpg


Players who leave clubs while having issues are greatly ignored and treated as non-existent when they leave. Like Ronaldo, Neymar oushed for a transfer away from Barcelona and he was also not celebrated. Pray tell, do you mind uploading farewell pictures of Samuel Eto'o and Yaya Toure?

It was happening a second time! So she thought to keep mum the first time and ended up coming out when it was obvious it would continue after the second? What was she looking at?

This is a very disturbing story.

DarkJeddi:
Doesn't change the fact that Real Madrid as a club lacks class, their Fans are a Disrespectful and Entitled bunch..

And the Club as a whole can be Classless and Petty,the way they discarded Casillas like a rag after more than 15 years of meritous service was a SHAME,not to talk of the way Ronaldo was pushed away..

Compare that to how Barca sent off Xavi like the Hero that he was..

How to sport a clueless football fan 101.

I'm sure you didn't type and re-read the emboldened with a straight face. If Madrid lacks class, then it is Barce that disgraced the likes of Eto'o and Yaya Toure out that is 'classful', shey?

Yes, the fans feel entitled because they contribute a fair share of the club's revenue/earnings (tickets and jerseys and gift items, alongside Madridsta Gold Cards which used to cost about €100). I felt entitled at some point when I spent the same on the official card for club members. Plus, any good club understands that you must please the fans no matter what.

For the record, Mourinho was the one who showed Casillas the door. Ramos and some senior players fell out with Mou because of this and the fans kicked against it. The board could not interfere because Mourinho's contract type gave him total power over the team. He foresaw the club interfering and only accepted the job on the condition that the board wouldn't interfere. He benched Pepe in the same manner he introduced Navas in place of Casillas and brought on Varane to spite Pepe.

Players have come and gone before Cristiano. Ronaldo placed money over loyalty and the club dealt with him from a business angle and not a member of the team. Raul was celebrated when he sought transfer away from the club. Zidane, Figo, Roberto Carlos, Ronaldo, Guti, and even Beckham who didn't stay long at the Bernabeu was celebrated in style. CR7 was a business that could no longer be sustained.

If you are going to wail over Madrid just because you are one petty Barce fan boy lurking in the shadows, perhaps we should talk about Eto'o's unceremonious exit as well as that of Toure.

Ironic... Eating what is obviously intelligent than you. Humans are fast proving to be the cancer of the world as depicted by some post-apocalyptic movies.

Whoever cursed the black man to think irrationally in this manner didn't do well at all.

anochuko01:
more like IDP camp, their fans only get empty promises. mind you, i be arsenal fan too lol

TSRC:
Arrpgant pricks.
Why not go and buy the world?

They would overspend on galaticos everywhere and then call themselves the "best team".

God bless liverpool, ajax and other organic teams.

Liverpool is an inorganic team. I doubt your youth system functions at all. As far as football is concerned, Madrid has produced more players from their youth system far more than Liverpool can ever dream of producing.

Marshalees10:
You forgot to add Messi's

How? Messi was never unveiled as he broke into the squad from the youth system.