Coldie:


Same with akwa ibom/cross rivers. It was marginalization of akwa ibom people by cross rivers that turned lots of them into house maids back in the days

DaddyRochie1642:
I always advice My Blood Brothers.

Never Ever take Care Of The Responsibility of a Lady in University because i can assure them that it will ending in WEEPING and SINCERE WAILING and gnashing Of Teeth for them

SLAP44:
Seems like this Gambari guy has more skeletons in his cupboard than Idi Amin

JONNYSPUTE:
....Yes,your emotions never allowed you to see reasons with him and go through the thread to find out his numerous reasons why he believed the daughter is his even after the ex indirectly agreed. Again,you didn't see anything wrong in her actions by deceitfully pinning another man's child to an innocent man. PATERNITY FRAUD.

prettysassygirl:
Be a little more careful when you are with him.Don't confront him yet,just try to find out indirectly his true intention towards you b4 taking any decisions.

Mariangeles:


Rather, gone are the days of strong men who are not afraid to take responsibility for their family.

Braintrain:
Haven’t seen them in well Over 18 years

Braintrain:
She’s late

Biglittlelois:


Privacy when in a relationship? Very funny.

Confusedgirlie:
He is quite a decent person. I don't think he cheats.
But one time, he was sleeping and I went through his phone (he accidentally left it open).
Doesn't look like he's talking actively to any other girl. I don't think so. But in one of his chats with a male friend who asked why he couldn't leave his current relationship (don't know why that friend asked), he said, "she is rich and has a good job".
What do I do?

Confusedgirlie:

The context shows he was. I think he was.
Am seriously considering confronting him, but am doubtful he could spin it.

ademidedavid:

She tends to be the best wife and mum if their is money but changes once its the opposite even her mum noticed her mood during this lockdown period.

24kmagic:
I didn't want to comment initially but the thread kept growing with loads of nonsense comments.

95% of the people that commented from page 1-4 didn't use their brains. Instead, they used their Dicks and their pussies.
I'm like wtf?

OP, if I were you, I will do everything humanly possible to get my daughter back, even if that means ending her marriage. I don't bloody care what happens after but I will go for my daughter. I will be ready to pay her off for damages. I'm not going to let another man take ownership of my seed. Wtf?

Those dick heads and those pussy holes that are telling you to let her be will still be the ones to condemn that lady if the husband finds out on his own that the child is not his.

Just imagine how people are supporting paternity fraud. Wtf?
One of the biggest problems facing us as a country is sentiment and irrationality. People cannot give their opinion from a rational point of view. Religion, ethnicity, emotions, traditions, gender, and sometimes age are what people consider before they air their opinion.

Have said that
The moral of this story: never marry a non virgin. Right now, the husband of that woman thinks he has a lovely wife and baby at home. Not knowing that what he married is about to bring down his world. OP can still fvck her even if he wants to. Hey! Before you marry that girl, confirm her virginity status.

Only marry a non virgin if you were the one that deflowered her.

Jakemedg:
you were saying something about southern kaduna christians

cococandy:
Every single day

Jakemedg:
If only you lived in kaduna you would not be saying these

Oladayo12:
Which calm down, abeg let him continue to rant jare. Lol, no woman can pin you down with pregnancy, i laugh your ass off. na where your smartness end na him another girl start.

faithfull18:
Are you married Just asking.

TonyeBarcanista:

Sir, the problem is not office of Governor, the problem is shutting out a group from holding any position as Deputy Governor, SSG, COS, Speaker, Deputy Speaker, Majority Leader, Chief Whip, Deputy Majority Leader, Deputy Whip, House Clerk and even CJ of the State. Also worse is shutting them out from ministers even when there is two slot.

My brother, I'm not particular about it because Christians are affected, I am because it is the right thing to do.

Tomorrow, a Christian may cite the precedent and do worse to Muslims... God forbid!

BTW we are talking of people predominantly occupying 11 out of 23 LGAs

nextdoor84:


Just keep quiet if you've got nothing meaningful to say. What's the percentage of muslims on the Plateau? They hold no majority in any of the local government areas there: unless in Wase Lga, where they should be like 35%
Dont just compare Kaduna to Plateau abeg!

The only solution and respite would come only when they have a state to call their own.

TonyeBarcanista:

Simple! Raise the awareness so it can be known before it is taken further.

TonyeBarcanista:

I've not lost my land to anyone!

I'm from Okrika, and no part of Okrika, Rivers state and the entire Ijaw nation has been lost to anyone whether overtly or covertly.

Irrespective, I owe it a duty to use my pen to advance humanity cause. I do this not because I am a Christian but because it is the right thing to do. Marginalisation breeds civil unrest

TonyeBarcanista:

So in your warped mind this is what you can come up with? Comradeship is not about self alone but standing for those that need your feet to stand.

crackkhaus:

And who the hell are you to tell me to calm down, are you insane?

I shared a little bit of something that has happened to me and which the idíot of a woman did not succeed at, and you're blabbing.
You must be a tortoise.

I say it again, no woman will be able to successfully pin a pregnancy on me in my lifetime.. If it was tried before and the person didn't succeed, there's no way it will ever happen.

Eat my courage and choke on it.

crackkhaus:

Big one...

I have not seen the woman that will be able to successfully pin a pregnancy on me. Godddamn!! The one who tried to do it before cannot see my face and remain the same.

If she sees me coming, she dey quickly change her route.