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mk3jax:
Well I have a similar issue with my wife. She was miss perfect agreeing to everything I want when she was looking for marriage and after marriage, her real self started to manifest. First it was constant complain about my family for no reason, then she graduated to wanting to control my life and determine who I am to give money or not and where I can and cannot go. She complains about everything and never appreciating anything I do. I provide all the financial need of the house 100% yet she want me to take care of her parent and siblings(both married and single ones) like i am their father and every time I refuse to send them money it is quarrel. She also expect me to praise her for almost everything she does like I demand same praise for putting her under a roof, paying all the bills, feeding her and our child and making her as comfortable as possible.
She bitches about everything I do making me feel like i am a child that doesn't have a sense of making my own decision despite being very successful in my career and handling lots of real life responsibilities that she can never imagine doing.
After the birth of our child, she turned to something else which in turn made me to make up my mind that I will never have a second child. She has time to watch all her tv programs to make herself happy but as soon as I pick my remote to play a game despite working from morning to night while she sits at home, she complains and I have over time disregarded her complains and do what I want to do to make myself happy. I have just one life to live and being married to someone doesn't gives them a control over my life and if you don't want to stay married to me again, then get the fu.c.k out of my life and go take care of yourself. I almost divorced her sometime ago but just decided to calm down. I hope we do not separate because of my love for our child but if we have to, then so be it because I will not live a life of a prisoner because of a child.

jahstech:
Like seriously guy, what were you up to? Hitting on her?

Unibenstudent:
u can just say hi back..instead of occupying space with ?

Unibenstudent:
What's up sanguine

Henrypraise:
D question d op asked has not bin answered by most of d ladies, we don't wanna knw how painful ur kini is, wat he asked is how do u expect us to cope wit d tantrums dat cums wit ur period? One minute u want to eat suya, d oda minute is shawama, d oda minute is peppersoup, how do u want us to cope? Wat do u pple want from us dat period of ur period?

4 me I spend d whole evenin wit my friends anytym she is on her period, den wen I get home, I sleep in da couch, first tin in da mornin, m outa d huz 4 d next five days. (Jokin o)

nickvanilla:
It really has nothing to do with d ladies.d fact that u are on a 'social' network does not make you social.I personally hardly chat up with peeps except I wanna talk of something significant.chats like 'how was ur day,how was ur nite,how are you doing' are fast becoming cliches.it's sad that people consider peeps like me snubs

Tamax:
Babe sanguine... Long tym no c

EroticAngelina:
umm, i dont understand a word u just typed, do u mind repeating? mtchewwww.

EroticAngelina:
depends if in going out, and where I'm going, if I'm going to a lonely or very formal place, then like 3 or less guys woo me which I usually turn down

but...if I'm going to somewhere like the club, u knw na I dress differently, and lots of guys check me out. I love the attention, coz imma turn each and every one of them down majestically unless, they are very very rich, then imma get a link something from them bfor dumping their asses*s!

Gboyee4fun:
Repping. Federal university of agriculture Abeokuta (FUNAAB) - Soil science and land management

LifeIsGuhd: Wow!! You went extra miles, am not saying sex in a relationship is bad whether or not he is spending.
All I am against is the phrase; if no sex, then no spending! Finito

Liability: partially it is my fault. You know how one behaves when deeply in love.

tosyne2much: wooooooow !! Is this comin frm a lady ? I need to renew ur BIS for this write-up... Gimme your phone number fast fast

Liability: please dont associate me with that liar!

rkarang: Glory be to the merciful God and to the following affable, amazing, incredible, beautiful and wonderful people on Nairaland: Lomaxx (inspiring quotes), Gleefreak (support & encouragement), DrHesjay (Admission guidance plus encouragement), Lblessing (same as DrHesjay's roles), Sanguine (much more than just a friend) and Emekakelvin (My altruism friend), Odunhana (My learned and highly informed friend)


Last year, my DE admission was close but no cigar; this year my application has pulled through. I've been offered admission into University of Ilorin to study Business Administration (UTME/ PUTME: 267/70%).


Tag #Phemmyjohnson FrancisTony Dlordisgreat & to my amiable Nairaland friends


Many thanks and God bless you all!

It's sure better late than never..... My joy is ineffable