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So who is the Husband, and who is the wife? 🤔🥱

Silly confused people! 🙄

Amumaigwe:
See the way your mouth is running like a tap gushing out nonsense. Wait until you get married or if you are already married, wait until your wife finishes giving birth and all your children grown. You will understand what the female gender really is. You will then feel like apologizing to your father who must have died of heartache. Then you then will reap exactly what you sow.

I don't think you have to be insultive to make your point. Silly people everywhere!

Don't marry if you know you don't have the capacity to love and care for another human being. If you as a man treat your wife like trash in the presence of your children, and vice-versa for the woman, your children will grow up to resent you.

Yes, whatever you sow, you reap. So the onus is on you to mind the kind of seeds you sow because you will surely reap it in abundance!

aidameoryou:
Your suggestions are genuinely needed 🙏

Hi my people good day, I have been having a thorough thought all in my mind and have been boiling inside of me on what next step to take.

Over the years, I have seen my mum really been hostile to my dad and it's getting out of hand for me to bear.
I am the first son of some siblings and in my mid 20s.
I live apart from my parents in another state and one of my junior sibling who went home for a little break from school was complaining bitterly about how my mum attitude towards my dad is getting out of hand.

My father has to be the most responsible, respectable, reasonable man I ever know, he doesn't drink, doesn't smoke, doesn't womanizer. He has been the sole breadwinner in the family from when we were small up till this time.
His work isn't moving very well as it used to back then and as such he cannot cater very well like he's used to and even though at that, he's been trying his best....
My mum just doesn't appreciate him enough and I've seen this a million times.

[color=#000000]My next line of action is to call my mum and give her a serious scolding because she hasn't been warned sternly about this by any of my siblings before.
This is getting out of hand and I cannot bear it anymore, please what do you all suggest I could do in this situation[/color]

The reverse is the case here.
My father, as far as I can remember, never treated my mother right. Always speaks ill of her to us, talks down on her, beats her sometimes. He doesn't listen to anybody, nobody can talk to him. Recently, he beat her sore. She called us and reported him to us.
None of us the children stay at home. I got angry and decided she cannot continue staying in that toxic house. I planned with my siblings and we moved her out of her husband's (our father) house. Talking to my father for the purpose of calling him to order is a sheer waste of valuable time.

My mother is in a much better place now, happy and very much at peace. My father can live all the alone he likes or wants to for all I care, until he realizes his misdeeds and tenders a genuine apology (if he ever does). You don't treat another human being you didn't create anyhow, just because you are the husband (or wife, as the case may be).

Let your father separate from your mother for a while, moreso for his own sanity and peace of mind. No one ever does well in a toxic environment. I bet you your mother will come to her right senses and behave herself. You don't know the value of what you have until you don't have it.

I hate nonsense!

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar
Isoright

Happy Sunday yo!
Been long we saw you 😁.
I believe you're doing great!

Damnnn niggar! 😅

Great stuff! 👍

fidelmarshal199:

This is a heart warming red carpet. kudos to the doctor and his mother

Red carpet ke? Abi carpet of many colors. 😃😁

Wordsfrombimpe:
Me I don’t oh

I hate bra and pant

As am speaking with you sef no pant

If I get married sef no pant oh

Easy penetration Biko and also explore my self

And it need breeze inside this yeye heat

Who even came up with this piece of clothing they call bra sef?! 🙄
Tube, bra, tight, pant, etc.
This our gender geh plenty stress Biko!

By the way, you people that wear 'g-string', abi what is it called, how do you do it? 🤔

marlow1962:
Yes, that's very vital.
Hate it when a fine gal smells bad down there.

You see gal wear pant, tyt and jeans together, wtf

You see a lady wear pants, tight, tight jeans... altogether! Even as a lady, that shit amazes me. Like, how can?! I can never can't!
I even hate that thing they call "tight".

2buffagain:
It is possible to share the WhatsApp group link with people as opposed to individual adding their number.

Click the three-dot dot option at the top. Scroll down to the 'Invite via link' and tap on it. Here you will see the Group invite link. Just click on 'Copy Link'.

Great idea! 💯

IyaebeTheGreat:
Who marry me go enjoy me peacefully, look deep and you’ll know I’m a peaceful person. Those troubles I’m talking about are not all those serious fights ooo. Anyways you are a heartless man and I won’t marry a heartless man

Habamana madam!!

I thought you are a grandmother, with children and grandchildren 🤔😒

Ah, na wa oo! 🙄🥱

CharlyG1:
In the early hours of today the Lord showed me a troubling vision.

I saw Nigerians together Happy and Free, all in a building. All of a sudden, some people like soldiers bust into the place and started to capture everybody. I tried to make a run for it. Went to the balcony and tried to jump down from the very tall building. But before I could, I was captured. The people who captured me were dressed in a certain orange colour uniform.
As I was taken away, I saw that even behind the building was already covered by these people so even if I had jumped down they would still have captured me. They were so many of them.


We were put in a very long line and was marched outside of the building. Just as they were marching us out, I said under my breath "This is the APC you people voted for". It seemed like APC had just got into power or had gained partial power. No one expected them to make such bold move. People who voted for APC on the queue had their mouths wide open in utter disbelief.


As we walked closer to where the others were, I saw many people gathered under canopies, it looked like some kind of big event under a dictatorship government.


I saw my friends in the dream who worked directly with APC all smiling and laughing as they marched us towards the main stage. They were exempted from this.


But before this event in this dream, chaos had broken out. I had tried collecting money via pos but I could not because of the chaos. I later regretted not having cash early enough because cash was going to be very important for the time that was coming.



Now, this dream talks about an evil that will come upon Nigerians if APC comes into power or if they gain some kind of partial power.
People will become slaves. Slaves here means, without freedom or rights and great suppression.
And people will be forced to work for the government of APC one way or another. Some kind of force will be exercised on Nigerians, like how it is done with slaves.


The people who were captured and taken out were taken back in, in orange and black uniform. They were taken back into the building (Nigeria system) they were taken from.


There were some things placed on the floor, the people would first bow to that thing like showing some sort of respect or loyalty before picking it up. It was some kind of mandated duty forced on everyone with sworn oath and loyalty. I am not certain if this dream also speaks about Christians being supressed. It could also be a part of it.

But no one was happy and everyone's will was surpressed. Those who voted APC had regrets written all over their faces.


It was disastrous.
This is what the Lord has shown me this very morning.



My advice : We have to pray hard that this evil does not come to pass. This strategy of APC taking people by surprise has to be hindered.
This is not about politics or being partial to one political party. This is about saving Nigeria. The evil coming is terrible if not stopped. And it is coming from APC. There is a very very very very demonic agenda that Nigerians are very unaware of. Even many people that voted for APC are unaware of it.


Let this word be a warning to us. These are not my own words but God's. We must pray to avert this.


God will help us all in Jesus Name, Amen 🙏

This newly elected APC government will never be installed come May 29. God is set to annihilate every schemers in their wicked schemes.
Let's all just watch prayerfully, and see how events unfolds. The salvation of the Lord is at hand. God is absolutely in charge now! 💯

Wow! KanwuliaExtra! 👏👏
You are indeed extra, I must commend!
All these measures are even more effective than spanking or flogging. I think children tend to develop a tough skin sort of, and get used to flogging so it doesn't have any effect anymore after sometime.

I remember growing up, my dad would always flog my elder brother because he was one recalcitrant child, but my brother after all the serious beating o, he will still go right back to doing that very thing he was floggged for.😂

But this your way is really tough and strict Sha o 😁. And I'm learning much though. I think I'd like to adopt some of these measures in due time. I'm very sure your kids will appreciate all that you do now much later when they're older and more mature.

Somebody said, you are a parent to your kids, not "a friend". So you as a parent should do all that you need do for their own good, whether they like it or not. In fact sef, the more they don't like it the better. Las Las it is for their own good ultimately and everybody go dey aweright.

God forbid that I raise a useless child.
Well done ma. 🙂

Start paying the tithe of all your income and watch God rebuke all the devourers for your sake, especially in your finances.

yeyebrity:
See as your hand fresh like tomato Jos.

I had to scroll back up to check the fresh hand 😁. Tomato Jos kwa! 🤣

Hehehehe. ��
These comments are so hilarious!

EbenezerTriumph, kindly let us know the outcome of the meeting.
I hope she did not pour you acid.
Did she give you a mouthwatering cheque?
How did it go?

Lol.

God bless you Snowland, for this benevolent gesture.
I hope you do another giveaway that would not be restricted to the travel section (or any other section, maybe), soon.

Happy New Year.
Happy Sunday.
CHEERS!

Abba114:
shut ur mouth jare because of mere 10k u are busy praying for him like he has done something good. he is arrogant

Whoever you are, wherever you are, whatever your problem is...

I declare peace to your troubled soul, clarity to your disoriented mind, and rest to your unsettled and restless life.

It is well with you!

snowland:
I usually don't respond to this type of comments but I will respond to this.

There's absolutely nothing you do that will satisfy the black man. Nigerians are so insatiable and filled with entitlement mindsets. When things are going in their favor, it's free and fair but when things goes south for them, they start screaming murder.

When the criteria were to have at least 5 posts or at least 1 topic created, a number of people felt disenfranchised, saying they were regulars on Travel section but never made any post or created any topic. Then I decided to add another criterion in order to accommodate more people. What else do you want exactly? I don't get it.

This isn't the first time I'm giving out and it's not likely going to be the last because the more I give, the more I receive. And if you care to check my previous ones, I always have a theme, I dont give out aimlessly. I work my butts off and God bless my hustle, if 10 simple J.S.S 1 questions are too much of a task for anyone, in a travel section, to try their luck, then I'm sorry to say, such a person should be ready for a rude awakening. Such people should be in the Romance or Joke section.

It's funny how you could even likened me to any politician. You as a citizen, you pay the salaries of people you elect to govern you. You dont pay me. I work for my money and I can decide how, what and where I spend my money on without any form of accountability to anybody.
The politicians that you elect are accountable to you, I am not.

We need to learn to be appreciative of every little thing we receive, either easily or not. The kind of attitude that most Nigerians in Nigeria portray is the main reason why lots of people decided not to help. I have many Nigerians here that are doing way better than I am and that are equally on Nairaland. This same entitlement mentality of MOST people on this forum is what's stopping them from helping.

Well done Snowland. The Lord will surely replenish you much more to giveaway even more.

No matter what you do people will talk. It's your money (which you worked legit for) after all and you have every right to "give it away" (or not) using whatever criteria or rule to choose the beneficiaries. Whoever is not fine or satisfied with how you choose to give out your money should just stay away. Nor be by force!

Human beings can be quite impossible. It is well.

Righteousness2:
UFOs are Everywhere!
I Believe they will be the Rapture cover up '

I Believe they will be used to Explain the Sudden disappearance of millions of people allover the World.

Mr Pastor, you and your nonsense "beliefs"!
There will never be any sudden disappearance of people any day in future. The earlier you study your Bible properly and stop all these your rubbish about rapture this and that, the best for you.

snowland:
Okay guys, here's how it's going to be.

Firstly, It'll be 10k for 27 people.

Secondly, I see lot of first come first serve suggestions on the first 3 pages. I was tempted to go with that idea as it will make my life easier but then I realized that people posted with lots of alternate accounts. Hence the idea of FCFS is not making sense at this time.

There were other suggestions as well but here's how it will play out.


I will create a separate thread and at exactly 10:27PM naija time, I will post a set of questions on the new thread. These will be simple questions and the best 27 answers will be selected.

NOTE: You will only have 10 minutes to answer. At exactly 10:38PM naija time, no more answers will be accepted.
And for the space bookers, I would not say you shouldn't.

I'll post the link to the new thread on the first page of this thread later today.

One IMPORTANT detail that I forgot to add: This is for Travel Section Only. ALL winners MUST have at least 5 posts older than Dec 28, 2022 on any topics in the section.

I'm not sure if I am "most active" in the travel section though, but I visit that section quite often especially with the interesting topics on there in the past couple of days...

I go with the option of 10k to 27 people. Or if possible, 5k to 54 people so you could have as much people benefiting from the giveaway.

I would be so excited though to be one of the beneficiaries.

God bless you, Snowland, very much.

akwesenana:
It's a fish drown, a river Nile of pain

Where the fish strives to live, and die of pain...

The Spiritual problem or whatever, that the most precious blood of Jesus already sorted out.
Foolishness is an evil spirit!

Englishmart, I like your writing style, plus your choice of words.

This current president; he will never complete this tenure!

God's very hand will remove him and God's own choice of a president will take over... Very shortly!

Just watch!

This current president; he will never complete this tenure.

God's very hand will remove him, and God's own choice of a "president" will take over... Very shortly!

Just watch!

Muhammadu Buhari; he will never complete this tenure.

God's very hand will remove him, and God's own choice of a "president" will take over... Very shortly!

Just watch!

Muhammadu Buhari; he will never complete this tenure.

God's very hand will remove him very shortly, and God's own candidate will take over!

Just watch!

Eeeewww!

Yuck! What a very unfortunate incident indeed!

Ahyanmahkahtah! Dirty yamayama people everywhere! Eeeewww!

jubianose:
Good evening house. How's everyone doing? I hope all is well with you all. May the Lord's name be praised. It's been a long time. I Just checked in to Nairaland and this our thread came to my mind .

Just heard from the news CNN right now that the Queen of England just died. I don't know if perhaps, maybe it signifies something spiritually. Let us pray for our Nation Nigeria. I wish and pray Peter Obi wins this coming election next year. Our country needs healing. God, pls heal our land.
God bless you all my friends. Ciao.. with love,,.

We are very much in PEACE now with our GOD and fellow good men. That is all that matters. God bless everyone.

Watch out for the NEXT "leader" of this great Nigeria, on the day Nigeria clocks 62.

If only all these scheming politicians knew God's mind concerning Nigeria, they wouldn't be stressing themselves this much!

The sovereignty of God!

coconutbag:
Evictions everywhere. When are we going to evict the problem in Aso Rock?

On the day Nigeria clocks 62!

Watch out!