₦airaland Forum

Vinnie2000:
I need someone to give me a good answer!
And the Moderators that always push her rape post to FP with Alacrity needs to think twice! A foreigner visiting Nairaland may start thinking Nigerian men are all Rapists! Saphiere is indirectly calling Nigeria a RAPISTS PRODUCING COUNTRY! Weldone, ma! To the Mods, don't delete dis post! Lets make a change for good!

AntiMen:
I'm married with two beautiful children..
I love my husband no doubt....
But I noticed that I'm beginning to like my reverend, I don't know how to explain this...
He is married with children too but we are kinda fond of each other...
How do I stop this unusual feeling , I can't stop going to church cos my husband would be mad at me.

Qatar2022:
No man will ever come your way as a husband no matter how you try

Obinnasmart:
You really need rehabilitation ,mental rehabilitation..you have plenty of time ,just to demoralize all men ,u go around digging unconfirmed news from rubbish media outlets ,so damn low of u ...i only pray God heal u someday cos its obvious u re broken and toxic also

Craftmonkey19:
Oh my dear Sapphiere, who has bewitched you?

Benny6944:
We can never see you in a good article except crime, which is rape and sex. Tufiakwa. still your contribution is ZERO.

LokoH:
Which story do you expect from Saphiere ?

An unmarried woman who is above 50 ?

Iya ndagbe

Ikillbrokehoes:
It's orange not yellow.

[ color=orange] put your text here [/color ]

That's all.

Ikillbrokehoes:
This?

decatalyst:
It is finished!

Ikillbrokehoes:
Some men and rape, stop generalizing.

later you will be wondering why you haven't found a man that will put a ring on your finger, I just hope you are not a misandrist in the real world.

MadamVanessa:





You're fun of saying this. I know it's hurtful when things like this happen, as such, our emotions drives us to say things that sound so stupid on ears.


Darling, deep down you , you know that not all men are paedophile, pervert, animal or whatever demeaning names you may call them.


You're always one sided with your judgement. I have never seen you condemned any evil done by women, it's only men you talk much about, and I hardly see my fellow girls here condemned any evil done by women, but under this thread you'll see men condemning this action of their fellow man, that makes them so different from us and that's the reason I like them regardless of their endless insult on women.

My account have been called catfish account severally because I am not the type that when my gender does wrong I tried to.justifies it, but when a male gender does wrong I carry it on my head like galla. I said it the way it is . It was on this ground that I discovered that nairaland has been structured in such a way that if a girl go against a fellow girl action and condemn such action, nairalanders both male and female will see such account as a fake account owned by a man.

DKM123:
I wonder why the men are angry that Saphiere is bringing a FEW REAL LIFE STORIES OF RAPE to the front page.

WHY EXACTLY IS IT BITING NAIRALAND MEN?

Don't bring stories of Nigerian men killing people everyday? Don't Cultist update bring stories of Nigerian men killing thier fellow cultist everyday? So why are Nigerian men fighting so hard to gag Saphiere from bringing A FEW stories (compared to the NUMEROUS ones happening EVERYDAY) of evil Nigerian men raping thier daughters and other people's little daughters to front page? Is it guilty conscience killing you people or what?
You people can't stop her from calling out rapist. Infact the insults will motivate her the more and I like that about her.

DEATH TO ALL RAPIST AND RAPE APOLOGIST!

Tufiakwa!

MadamVanessa:


You're fun of saying this. I know it's hurtful when things like this happen, as such, our emotions drives us to say things that sound so stupid on ears.


Darling, deep down you , you know that not all men are paedophile, pervert, animal or whatever demeaning names you may call them.


You're always one sided with your judgement. I have never seen you condemned any evil done by women, it's only men you talk much about, and I hardly see my fellow girls here condemned any evil done by women, but under this thread you'll see men condemning this action of their fellow man, that makes them so different from us and that's the reason I like them regardless of their endless insult on women.

My account have been called catfish account severally because I am not the type that when my gender does wrong I tried to.justifies it, but when a male gender does wrong I carry it on my head like galla. I said it the way it is . It was on this ground that I discovered that nairaland has been structured in such a way that if a girl go against a fellow girl action and condemn such action, nairalanders both male and female will see such account as a fake account owned by a man.

A 16-year-old girl (name withheld) has narrated to an Ikeja Domestic Violence and Sexual Offences Court in Lagos, how her 43-year-old biological father (name withheld) repeatedly defiled.

According to a report, a teenager, who was led in evidence by Lagos State counsel, Ms Bukola Okeowo, said that the alleged defilement started after her mother relocated to South Africa in 2014.

According to the teenager, her father had been having sex with her since she was 14 years.

The survivor said that her father told her that the “Holy Spirit” instructed him to have sexual intercourse with her.

“I was 14 years old when the incident happened. It started with him touching my body.

“When I noticed this, I moved away my body from him. I told my twin brother about it the following morning, but he did not believe me.

“The next day, he had sex with me. I could not shout nor do anything because my father threatened me,” the survivor told the court.

She testified that her father continued to defile her even after they relocated to Badore, Ajah, Lagos State.

“At this point, it became an issue because he had sex with me almost every time on a beach.”

“There was a night he woke me up and told me that Holy Spirit told him to have sex with me and when he realised I was not ready to submit myself, he forcefully had sex with me.

“There was also a time my father had issues with his girlfriend. He woke me up and took me to the kitchen to have sex with him.

“I did not make any sound because he threatened to kill me – the reason I could not tell my mother.”

She testified that her father later took her and her twin brother to his girlfriend’s residence in the Chevron area of Lekki, Lagos State, to live with her, adding that he still had sex with her (survivor) there.

She said that her father asked her to pack out of his girlfriend’s house one midnight but she objected and neighbours waded in.

“I saw him at my back at midnight telling me to pack my things and leave the house that day.

“As I was packing, I was scared he might have sex with me again; so, I locked the door from inside,” she testified

The minor told the court that after interventions from the landlord and another old man, she opened the door.

“He took my bag and dragged me out. It was from there I started shouting for help.

“Some youths in the neighbourhood came out and confronted him, asking him where he wanted to take me to at that time of the night.

“He told them that I would not stay in that house again.

“It was at that time I told the other old man that my father had been having sex with me.”

The survivor said the old man called the estate chairman the following morning.

“The man asked if I wanted to pursue the case and I told him, ‘Yes.’

She said that she also told her father’s girlfriend about the alleged defilement in April 2021 and she connected with her mother on Facebook and informed her about the alleged crime.

She said that her father and mother communicated with each other once in a while and mostly ended up in a fight.

“The case was later reported at Langbasa Police Station in Ajah. After that, it was transferred to the state command.

I later went to the Gender Section of the state police command and they took me to Mirabel Medical Centre where tests were carried out on me.

“I also went to the Domestic and Sexual Violence Response Agency (DSVRA) for counselling,” she said.

While responding to questions from defence counsel, Mr Buhari Momoodu, the teenager testified that she was once defiled before her father had canal knowledge of her.

She also said that she did not have any quarrel with her father.

“But he said we were not peaceful; that was the reason he took us to his girlfriend’s place.

“I saw my father as a role model before, because people respect him. He always prays; sometimes, he wakes us up at midnight to pray.

Another witness, Dr Oyedeji Alagbe, a forensic examiner at the Mirabel Centre, told the court that he carried out medical examinations on the survivor on June 28, 2021.

He said that his findings showed no fresh injuries on the vagina but showed that the survivor had repeated forceful vaginal penetration.

Justice Ramon Oshodi adjourned the case until June 6 for the continuation of the trial.

vince96w2:
rape is forceful intercourse with someone against their will..What is causing you confusion is the word penetration..if you check rape defination you will see intercourse not penetration..

Now male physiology and female are different..a woman can be aroused and hide it a man can be aroused and you see erection..Penis doesn't coordinate with brain most times..if u see fine girl e go rise same as some girls get aroused on seeing fine gentle man and some go as far as doing stuff to snatch such a man..

If a woman or group uses a gun or blackmail to make a man have sex against his will it's rape..The key words are force( black mail or weapon) and against his will ( he will not accept if not the circumstances) so yes women rape men

Finally, a minor can not give consent..if an older lady seduces someone 17 below and has sex,by law a minor can not give consent so it's also rape..from the definition in dictionary.com it says sexual intercourse or penetration of any opening.

GreyLaw:
You don't need to take me seriously. But I struck a nerve. You display your stupidity here by asking foolish questions just to garner likes. Yes, front page isn't paid for but it strokes your ego.

You know the answer to your question but you love the attention. Move on, Jack!

Stephenmoka4:
Yes and it's easier for them to do it. Definition below:

posty56:
from the woman dragging to this,this man name is in the mud, avoid Nigeria actress if you want a blissful home

Aaronbee7:
Sorry to say, but I don't think you're intelligent talk less of your questions . Your topic depicts more of curiosity but the write-up is being too defensive of your ignorance hence I don't think you're here to learn but to argue unnecessarily because he has obviously given you the answer you seek by giving you a proper definition of rape that doesn't include the word that leaves you dumbfounded. Read through the links he posted and let us know what happened there. And next time, put your topic right so we know we're here for debate and not knowledge. Argue to learn don't argue to win!

Candidlady:



Why on Earth was his face covered
Damn idetest this gender!!


They are all the same be it em redpiller or em so called simps!! Same boat different cabins

Kobojunkie:
You didn't bother reading the article you listed, did you?

In it, the writer explains to you why current UK legislation on rape has it wrong, and why that needs to change..

Aonkuuse:
Very heartless man

A twenty-seven-year-old man, Ojo Adeagbo, has been arrested by the police for allegedly raping a thirteen-year-old girl in the Olodo area of Ibadan, Oyo state capital.

According to Radio Nigeria Ibadan, the State Police Public Relations Officer, Adewale Osifeso, said the suspect was a friend of the older brother of the rape victim and had been staying with the victim’s family for over two years.
Narrating her ordeal, the teenager, said Ojo had invited her to get something for him but on rising to the call, he allegedly gagged her mouth and pounced on her. She said, Ojo since the first encounter, eventually turned her into a sex slave and had been sexually assaulting her for the past seven months.
The teenager also revealed that the man was in the habit of wiping her private part with a new handkerchief any time she had carnal knowledge of her.

On why she did not report the case early, the teenager said Ojo had allegedly warned her not to tell her parents else he would kill all her family members.

The medical examination carried out on the teenager at the Oyo State Hospital, Yemetu, Ibadan confirmed that the hymen had been broken.

It was also gathered that the suspect had also attempted to have sexual intercourse with the eleven-year-old sister of the victim after watching a pornographic film with her.