Just take a look at the response I got from a Nigerian man after I called out a rapist.
VOsimhen144: What if he raped her nko? Abegiiiiii. Did you read where he stated the girl seduced him, the girl is an irresponsible b.itch. Stop being baised here.
So a man should rape a woman because she seduced him?
VOsimhen144: What if he raped her nko? Abegiiiiii. Did you read where he stated the girl seduced him, the girl is an irresponsible b.itch. Stop being baised here.
VOsimhen144: Aunty, still add a word of advice to your gender to stop seducing or sitting on men's laps if they know they are not ready for sex. Na blood dey run through our vains nor be water.
Why would you as a girl visit a guy who has already made it clear that he was bored and lonely, yet you went ahead sitting on his laps, when both of you are even alone in the house.. We're not kids here now. .
These were the responses i got from a Nigerian man after calling out a rapist on my previous thread.
- A woman shouldn't visit a man when he is lonely. - A woman shouldn't sit on a man's laps if she isn't in for sex. - A man should rape a woman if she seduces him.
O my God. So it actually true that men do not have self-control.
thinkmoney: My dear don't visit a guy you wouldn't want to be intimate with in a secluded place and don't get too close to him while in such places. Especially guys you haven't come to know well overtime. These are common knowledge that safeguard one
In summary, men can't control their urge. sigh! May God save us from this evil gender.
A Lagos State Domestic Violence and Sexual Offences Court, Ikeja, on Tuesday, sentenced a man, Collins Okechukwu, to life imprisonment for raping and robbing a 25-year-old student at the University of Lagos, Akoka.
Delivering judgement, Justice Abiola Soladoye, who described Okechukwu as a pathological liar, held that the prosecution proved the charges of rape and robbery against Okechukwu beyond reasonable doubt.
The News Agency of Nigeria reported that the judge sentenced Okechukwu to life imprisonment for rape, and 21 years’ imprisonment for robbery.
She said, “The testimony of the defendant portrayed him as a pathological liar in the sense that he claimed that University of Lagos Guest House was fully booked and the survivor was sex-starved, which made them have sex on the bare floor.
“This is unbelievable and watery.
“The defendant lured the survivor into the admin block, brought out a pistol, raped her and robbed her of her valuables thereafter.
“The claim of the defendant to have met the survivor at the guest house and she agreed to have sex with him was consistently laced with irregularities and found unreliable.
“The defendant is found guilty as charged of the two offences and sentenced to life imprisonment in respect to rape and 21 years’ jail term for robbery.
“The sentences shall run concurrently.
“He should have his name entered in the Sex Offenders Register of the Lagos State Government.”
Sholadoye also cautioned female students in tertiary institutions against giving out their telephone numbers to strangers.
“What manner of a woman is the victim herself? She should desist from giving out her numbers for unnecessary frolicking,” the judge said.
NAN reported that four witnesses testified at the trial and three exhibits were tendered.
According to prosecution counsel, Mr Peter Owolabani, the convict committed the crimes on December 17, 2017, at 9pm behind the Faculty of Arts Building, UNILAG.
He said the convict also robbed the survivor of her phones, money and a gold chain.
Owolabani submitted that the survivor met the convict one year after the incident, invited him to her supposed birthday party and got him arrested.
VOsimhen144: What if he raped her nko? Abegiiiiii. Did you read where he stated the girl seduced him, the girl is an irresponsible b.itch. Stop being baised here.
Yhungsarm: This incident happened last week Thursday. Am a 300L student of Unijos and the girl happens to be my coursemate.
Normally, me and these girl no dey the same level, she can't even talk to me in school but ASUU break happened and i didn't want to go back to Lagos so i stayed back in Jos.
One day i was chatting with her friend who happens to know her and he told me she is still in Jos, so i chatted her up since i was bored and i didn't lie to her, i told her i was bored and i needed someone to talk to for the main time. she accepted quickly and even told me why i didn't chat her up sooner than this. she promised to come to my place and on Thursday she finally came through.
This is the most astonishing part, she knew i had sex with her best friend so she asked me about it and i did not lie about it cus i know she knew and we talked about some nasty stuff related to sex. i was seated on a mini-cushion chair and she sat on my laps literally dropping her boobs in the middle of my face.
As a guy i thought that was the signal, so i carried her straight to the bed and i wanted to gain access and she denied it so i just stood up and left. After a short while she came back again now saying if she handles me and all those stuff, i tried again and she denied i was angry and i wanted to tell her to start gping but i calmed down. she started seducing me badly and i was confused so this time i dropped and dragged her jean with her, we started dragging but she was just saying am trying to rape her and it is unfair, if it is what i do to girls all d time.
i was fingering her at the time but i did not penetrate and i felt it was tense and if i penetrated then what she is saying is true so i stopped and controlled my urge.
She zipped up and started crying, I was like but i didn't do anything and she was like i did everything i want to do with her and it is fault bcus she came to my house.
After a shortwhile, she stopped crying and asked me if it was sex i want or friends with benefit...i was very confused at that point like wetin bring all does one enter so i didn't reply then she said she knows am a rapist and i just want to sex and all dat shit.
i kept my cool after some time she started saying am not normal at all and she jst can't believe what happened, she also said she will tell me something when we she is out of my house.
So i paid her Tp and she went home, i did not chat her up at all. fastforward to Saturday i saw her message saying her forcefully had my ways wit her and jst ignored her so she will deal with me and i will pay for it.
i won't lie to you am very scared, i don't even know what she wants, i started asking her what she wants from me exactly but she is not replying at all. I seriously don't know what to do am very confuse, I don't even understand why i fell for this plot of hers. What do you think i shud do
Note: I did not have sex with her at all and i never wanted it, she was jst all over me and doing all those stuff. Sex isn't my problem on a normal day bcus am a handsome guy and i get it most time.
Mister you raped her. Speak the truth and the truth shall set you free.
greatiyk4u: While there is nothing wrong in buying and owning a car, cars are meant to serve so purpose not just to impress the society......
If you look around major Mechanic workshops you will see many parked vehicles of different varieties with so left for so long due to inability to afford the maintenance costs......no winder, the scrap dealers are cashing out from there
See how a whole Range Rover is humiliated in my neighbourhood'.
Co.mon Range Rover the egoat cannot maintain. If it was rape they would be experts at it.
Thandiubani: Nigerian superstar musician, Davido on Friday made history as the first Nigerian to feature in the official FIFA World Cup soundtrack.
In a video he posted on his social media page, the star was also seen hanging out with Hollywood superstar, Idris Elba who was one of the two hosts of the event that took place in Qatar.
Nigeria's Jay-Jay Okocha also took part in the draw.
Apart from featuring in the soundtrack, Davido also performed live alongside two other international musicians who were also featured in the soundtrack.
At the backstage, Davido had a chat with Elba showing that the two may have been having a good relationship before meeting in Qatar. Nigeria missed out after failing to qualify for the World Cup, but the musician made many people proud with his inclusion in FIFA's soundtrack.
nextstep: One of the best ways to stop rape is to have people gainfully employed. Idle minds and all that... besides we have more than enough threads on negative news, so it's quite refreshing to read something lightweight and positive.
Staff is not a singular verb. You don't say "a staff", unless you mean the stick; you'd say "a member of staff", or even "one of the staff". Similarly, "an admin staff" is out of place because it tries to make staff singular.
The teacher who raped a 15 year old girl, was he not employed?
Afro3: Showbiz Entrepreneur 'Youngest Old Man' Joins House of Representatives Race, Promises Effective Representation
A popular comedian and Entertainment Practitioner Roland Igbadumhe, better known as Youngest Old Man has joined in the race to represent the good people of Etsako Federal Constituency at the House of Representatives on the platform of All Progressives Congress APC.
Youngest Old Man, a popular face in the entertainment industry was a senior special adviser on Entertainment to them Edo State Governor, Adams Oshiomhole, a position he capitalised on to attract development projects to his Ward 9, comprising Imiegba, Itsukwi and Imiakebu communities.
He is anchoring his campaign on accessibility, fair representation, health care & education, women and youth empowerment, care and welfare for the aged.
Though this is not the first time he is making attempts to represent his people, he insists he is more determined now.
In 2019, he was the candidate of the Social Democratic Party, SDP, but lost his bid to represent the Etsako East constituency following the declaration of Kingsley Ugabi of the All Progressives Congress, APC winner of the election.
Born to the late James Ebui Igbadume, a school principal and an alumnus of the University of Ibadan, Roland started off as a comedian at the Ambrose Alli University, Ekpoma, Edo State, providing top-notch entertainment on campus and neighbouring communities.
In no distant time, his talent and impeccable delivery shot him to national limelight as he joined such notable names in the game to bring sheer excitement to Nigerians across major cities of the world.
It is not in doubt that if elected the next representative of Etsako Federal Constituency, true to his slogan, Roland to Reset, Rebuild and Rebrand, it will be dawn of a new era for the people.
These ones are just going there for their own pocket. Unless a woman contest I will not vote.
Beress: Request for the redesignation of my appointment to an administrative staff
Request for the redesignation of my appointment as an administrative staff
Request for the redesignation of my appointment to administrative staff
Request for the redesignation of my appointment as administrative staff
Pls which is the best to use among all these. It's meant to be the title of an official letter I want to write. I want to change from clerical staff to administrative staff.
I will appreciate your response
MODIFIED
Having listened to some grammarians here, I now have two options:
Request for Redesignation to Administrative Staff
OR
Request for Redesignation as Administrative Staff
Pls which is the most appropriate
The country is on fire. rape case increases every day and see what you are bringing up for debate.
Can't we debate on causes of rape and how to stop it?
Anyways the first one is correct. Put the article an in your statement unless you are the only admin staff
supernova96: Why do you reason this way? i have followed your post for a while now and it is really disappointing because you have a father and maybe a brother or two,do you insult them on a daily basis? please work on your mindset and utterances,it will do you good. learn to stop generalizing. any man who rapes should get the worst punishment possible as it is really evil.
Tell men to stop rape then you will never see or hear me insult them.
There is something about these gender that God needs to reveal to us. I mean how on earth would an emotional being enjoy forced peneration? God please shield every female out there.
A female corps member has narrated how the manager of the hotel where she is serving in Osogbo, Osun state, sexually molested and almost raped her.
According to a report, the 29-year-old hotel manager was said to have sexually molested the Corps member in one of the rooms in the hotel located around G.R.A in the state capital on Friday 25th March, 2022 around 8:40pm.
Narrating how the incident happened, the victim, (name withheld), said the manager approached her requesting a bottle of beer before asking her to follow him to his room.
She added that after collecting the bottle of beer, the manager started discussing life after service year with her, asking about her plans.
“I followed him upstairs to his room where he continued the discussion. A few minutes later he started touching me and I resisted pulling his hands off my body, but suddenly, he pulled me closer and turned my face on the bed and put his hands in my trouser and inserted it in my private part.
“He then pulled my trouser from behind, turned my face up, and wanted to penetrate into my private part, I was resisting him. He was too heavy for me, I even bite him, yet, he carried on. He poured his semen on my body and pant. When he discovered that I can’t breathe very well, he stood and I ran out of the room.
“The following day, two of my female corps members discovered I wasn’t not playing or relating with them very well, they inquired what happened. I couldn’t tell them at first, but when I couldn’t hold the tears anymore, I told them what happened to me and they encouraged me to report the matter to the police and I did.
“I took the police from Dugbe Divisional Headquarters to the hotel, but on sighting the police team, the manager ran away through the back exit”, she narrated.
The State Police spokesperson, SP Yemisi Opalola, who confirmed the arrest of the suspect said the case has been transferred to the State Criminal Investigation Department at the command headquarters.
“The hotel is the corps member’s place of primary assignment and the matter is presently under investigation by the police command”, she said.
The State NYSC Coordinator, Winifred Sopeka, is yet to comment on the incident as she claimed to be having a parade drill at the orientation camp.
rickpat: please I won't want to be mentioned or associated with comments driven by GENERALIZATION, TOXICITY AND BITTERNESS (GTB)...thanks for your time
rickpat: na wa...do people think of the consequences of their actions before carrying it out?...I wonder
Men reason with their penisss that's why.
ultraviolet27: . Burning Someone Because He was accused of Rape? It is Like your Fell on Ur Head in ur infancy What will they now do to your Poliethiefcians?It may have even be Consensual Because Which 15 Year Old in this Era after that Bamise Ayanwole's Story wouldn't Scream and even attack a Driver who is taking Her Past Her Bus Stop?
Someone was taking you Past ur School Route Yet you Couldn't Raise an alarm even When They gt to d Hotel Gate I Guessed She was drugged that is why She Couldn't Pick Race? You always look for Rape Story to Post every time Yet u wouldn't Be found if it is a Woman Who Vomited a Crime. Later On You will still Comment on a Romance Relationship Thread Searching for a Husband Hypocrite!!!
If you are truly a female, may the fate of this innocent girl be your portion IJN Amen.,