As a man, I know all too well that many women out there believe some ridiculous shit about us men.
1. All men are foolish for girls: Many ladies through their actions, have this mentality that all men are foolish. Some even go as far as saying it sef. That's why you meet a girl today, you guys are chatting and next thing in the chat is billing straight. Relationships even 'talking stage' don turn to an opportunity to cash out for these girls.
2. Once a man points out a woman fault he is a mysogynistic guy: Ladies should know this, some guys out there don't suffer fools gladly especially from their gender and this is to protect themselves. So you ladies should stop using that stale "you are misogynistic" or "i pity the girl that will marry you" line any time a guy points out their bullshit. It doesn't mean if we see a good girl we would treat her bad.
3. Once you complain about golddigging girls, you must be broke: I blame yahoo boys and stupid politicians (who steal money meant for lots of people to give one yeye girl) for this nonsense. See, when you see some men complain when their fellow man buys one random girl he just met expensive gifts, it's not because of 'brokeness'. Some of us want to be sure she is truly worth it. Because men these days are now spending foolishly for women with nothing to show for it and its not out of them being generous. I mean ask yourself, why this 'generosity' doesn't reach their fellow men or very ugly girls.
4. Thinking every guy out there can be manipulated with sex: Check many marriages today men are denied sex in their marriages and this makes the men do things for their wife that they will not do on a normal day while hiding under "me and my wife are equal" or "I can do anything for my wife"..... Na lie. Don't be deceived o. If you check well, you will see that those foolish men are only sounding that way because of sex. If they refuse to do those things their madam will deny them their right with confidence o and they don't know how to cheat. Some even go as far as paying their wife money to have sex with them. Can you imagine? I read such nonsense here on Nairaland and I couldn't believe it
5. When a guy spends on them he wants to buy their love and they quickly run to Twitter to brag about how they turned such a guy down: Ladies should stop this nonsense, some guys are just generous. The same way they are generous to their parents, to their fellow guys, is the same way they are generous to you. So rest! And stop over rating yourself
6. When a man doesn't ask for sex after doing a favour for them, he is a mumu: Many ladies have this foolish mentality and this is why many guys are brutal these days. Naturally men love to pamper women with nothing to it, but because men don't want to be labeled a mumu they ask for sex
7. Once a man is in a relationship with them and not asking for sex, he is either gay or his d*ck is not working: Ladies should know that their are still guys that believe in "no sex until marriage", so when you are in a relationship with such a guy and he doesn't ask for sex, ladies stop thinking like werey
8. Behind every successful man there is woman: Ladies, yes behind every successful man there is a woman, but these days what the woman (especially if she is Nigerian) does behind the man is to pull him down. So stop using that line ladies just stop Nigeria women stop the misconceptions/assumptions about men, we are not the cause of your frustrations.
BadEnglish: What does it change If I support infidelity or not? Cheating is in human nature both (both gender). I can't stop it, no one can and I don't think it's a crime in any democratic country.
Meanwhile, what I don't support is jungle justice, since she has the evidence, why didn't she get him arrested?
Abuja based beauty queen, Princess Gambo has sparked up reaction as she says she is comfortable being with a married man as a side chic.
In an interview with the popular social media influencer, posted on Tunde Ednut and Instablog, the former Face of Royalty International said married men are quite reasonable and understanding.
When asked if she wants a married man because of his money, she responded in negative, stating that "money will always come but the first thing first, they are quite reasonable and understanding".
When asked about the place of the wife, she said, "The wife I don't know but she can always play her own game but as a side chic, you have your own game to play".
Position of the 22 years old Cross River State born model Am from cross river state Obuduwho is the reigning Most Beautiful Girl In Abuja Ambassador did not go down well with some Instagram users as they condemned her position.
Gracegold15 simply replied, "this one is beyond redemption".
Another user, officialpeaceful_ said, "Yet the older men that have father figure are now treating you like a child by telling you to keep quiet and asking you who you are talking to every minute, so why complain?"
The young lady who is the only child of her parent, though father late but mother alive recently established a SPA in Abuja.
And so? Is there any law in Nigeria that prohibits that?
caruzo: What a unique way to propose to one's heart and lover ❤ ♥ � �. She was told by her friend that she fainted and she rushed to the hotel that her friend was and didn't code that when one faints, he or she is is supposed to be rushed to the hospital. On getting there she was led to a different room that was not prepared with the WILL YOU MARRY ME PAPARAZI.She was surprised first of all..
To cut the long story short, she was led to the arranged room to meet one of the special and lovely question to be asked pasted on the wall and dramatised with a gentleman on one of his knees on the ground ❤ � and with a ring � ❤ in the air..the rest was history as one of her fingers collected something Monadikous and Thisavroused. (Unique Treasure).
I'm tired of Nigeria. Price of things are extremely cost. Education is on hold. Nothing is working in this country. I don't mind being a second wife to someone who would send me outside this country. It's frustrating.
The police in Delta State’s Isiokolo Division, Ethiope-East Local Government Area, detained Mercy Oba for allegedly assaulting her forty-five-year-old blind step-sister, Odiri Oba, and her twelve-year-old daughter.
The culprit has been apprehended thanks to the efforts of Warri-based human rights activist Kelvin Ejumudo and his colleagues.
According to the activist’s Facebook page, the suspect allegedly shoved a wood into the private part of the blind woman’s twelve-year-old daughter and inflicted bodily damage on her and the blind mother after harsh beatings.
He further stated that the suspect pushed the victims out of their homes, throwing their belongings out while threatening to kill them and gloating that nothing would happen.
Comrade Ejumudo said the matter will be charged to Court on Monday.
Ejumudo, who tendered a Police medical report said, “Nobody has the monopoly of violence and to inflict bodily injuries on another individual.”
He urged the Delta State Commissioner of Police, CP Ari Muhammed Ali to ensure that justice is served in the matter to serve as a deterrent to others.
Blind Odiri Oba is an indigene of Emaje Village, Kokori Community in Ethiope-East Local Government Area and is a step-sister to the suspect, Mercy Oba.
It was not clear at the time of this report, why the suspect who is currently in Police custody attacked her blind sister and her daughter.
HandsomeHITLER: Saphiere take it easy... I know you're asking this question as a trap, so if anyone especially a man tries to explain it, you'll tag him a rapist. But I can explain it with facts and without prejudice. There's a psychological explanation which deals with ill mental health (both male and female) There's a biological explanation which deals with the animal instincts as per testosterone in males and estrogen in females... So, hormonal balance and moral rectitude fight each other whenever biology kicks in. I'll explain further if I notice that you're interested in this position
Commercial motorcyclist bags life imprisonment for defiling underage hawker
An Ikeja Domestic Violence and Sexual Offences Court on Wednesday sentenced a 22-year-old commercial motorcyclist, Wale Isaiah, to life imprisonment for defiling a 10-year-old hawker.
The News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) reports that Justice Abiola Soladoye described Isaiah in her judgment as a “sexual lunatic” noting that the prosecution proved the charge of defilement against the convict beyond reasonable doubt.
“This defendant, Wale Isaiah, is a sexual lunatic who took undue advantage of the poor victim who was hawking wares for her mother.
“He pretended to be a prospective customer but rather tied her up, blocked her mouth and defiled her mercilessly. Luck, however, ran out on him when he was apprehended by persons who saw him fleeing after assaulting the victim.
“The defendant dragged and assaulted the victim when her mother sent her on an errand. He dragged her to an uncompleted building giving her blows and tied her hands with her wrapper and sexually assaulted her.
“The defendant is found guilty as charged and thereby sentenced to life imprisonment which is the statutory sentence.
“He should have his name entered in the Sex Offenders Register of the Lagos State Government,” she said.
The judge in her judgment cautioned parents and guardians against sending their school age children to hawk wares in the street because it leaves them vulnerable to sex predators and abusers.
NAN reports that during the trial, three witnesses- the survivor, her father and a medical doctor from the Badagry General Hospital testified for the prosecution while the convict and his father testified for the defence.
According to the Lagos State prosecuting team members comprising Mr Olusola Shoneye, Mrs Olufunke Adegoke and Mr Peter Owolabani, the defendant committed the offense at about 7.25pm on Sept. 7, 2021 in Magbon area of Badagry, Lagos.
The team said that the survivor was defiled by the defendant, while she was on her way to supply sugar and salt on her mother’s orders.
They further said that the survivor recognised the convict after she saw him at the Baale’s (community leader) house when he was brought there after being apprehended by youths in the community.
The offense contravenes Section 137 of the Criminal Laws of Lagos State, 2015.
Neddstark: Obiano must have a lousy feminist for a wife like most female Nairalanders like Saphiere. Even Obiano sat down and watched his wife take a good slap without making a finch. In the depths of his heart, he is grateful to Bianca for doing what he couldn't do for many decades.
FERNANDEZISBACK: Did they really kill this lion in self defense or they killed it for fun? Can they prove that they killed this Lion in self defense..why do Africans always glorify and smile at the death of an animal? They should be investigated..you don't just shoot and kill a Lion in an horrible manner then claim self defense..
Let's see pictures of the attacked hunters..let's see everything..this is not nice..
Modified:if you don't understand my point don't quote me to display your Petty attitude.. disgusting and primitive people who feel it's ok to brutally kill a lion for fun..
LesbianBoy: Women Are The Reason Why There Is High Rate Of Corruption In Nigeria (Opinion)
So everywhere you look these days in the news, all we see is.....
"50 yahoo boys caught in edo"
"Politician stole so so so billions"
"Man caught will hard drugs indonesia"
"Young boy seen calling and asking his oyinbo client for money"
"Yahoo boy arrested by FBI"
etc.
These headlines are familiar right? Now have you ever sat down and wondered why do all these happen? Why so much desperation to make money by men? Who or what do these men spend the money on most when they succeed? (This is for those that committed these crimes and were successful). Well, believe it or not, argue all you want, i am here to tell you that......
WOMEN ARE THE CAUSE
Think about it!
You see, women have always loved money but don't get it twisted, they want the money to come from men. In Nigeria today, it has gotten to a ridiculous level and UNFORTUNATELY most men would do anything and i mean anything to make money so as to have women! (Nigerian Men don't spend money on their fellow men so no one should bring that up. A thread yesterday about this made the front page).
A lady called Rene came on twitter yesterday and talked about how she receives 7million naira regularly from a friend with no strings attached and some people were doubting her. Some were of the opinion that its not possible for a man to give a woman that much money even if there was string attached. Sorry to say but those people who doubted her are either naïve or feigning ignorance!
The response was almost the same when a guy created a thread here on nairaland that made the frontpage and said he was shocked when a rich guy gave a lady he doesn't know N400,000 just like that just because she is beautiful?
Also, think about it. Why is it that.....
Its only in Nigeria that you will see a young girl with no job, but she is living in her own house in lekki and driving posh cars?
Its only in Nigeria that you will see a young girl that has no job but she travels to different countries wears bikini, hold up bottle of expensive wines and post pictures on instagram?
Its only in Nigeria that you will see an actress that just started acting but she will build houses and drive posh car yet men that has been acting since cannot boast of such?
Its only in Nigeria that you will see BBN girls with no endorsement or just one endorsement but she is flying private jets, eating in fancy restaurant etc but her male counterpart cannot boast of same even though he works hard and you can see the endorsement and work he is doing?
Its only in Nigeria that you will see a lady that has never had a white collar job, has no skill, but she has a "business page" on instagram?
Now, who do you think is behind these women material things? MEN! Not just men but CORRUPT AND FRAUDULENT MEN! Yes! Believe it or not.....
A MAN WHO DOES LEGIT WORK AND WORKS SO HARD TO GET MONEY will not spend recklessly on women! He won't even have such money sef and even if he does, he would have saved it for years and it would 'shake' his account if he dares spends it
For example, will a young man who has a LEGIT JOB and earns say 150,000 naira monthly give a lady like Rene 7 million naira regularly just like that? Or 400,000 to a random lady who is perfectly ok, not stranded nothing at all?
No, think about! So you see, it is criminals that fund these women lifestyle! And many men are tempted to commit crime so they too can spend foolishly on women.
Anyway, until women reduce their love for money, the rate of corruption (which are mostly done by men) in Nigeria will keep increasing!
Meanwhile just take a look at some of the stories of men spending recklessly on women below....
Celebrities › Re: Man Hails Davido As He Spots Him Cruising In His Lamborghini Inside Traffic by saphiere(f): 5:55pm On Mar 24, 2022
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