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Investment › Re: Mmm : A Trick To Get Your Money Back Without Providing Fresh Help. by Sapiosexuality(m): 9:06am On Apr 04, 2017
iheanyi40:
same here, m even tired of trying cry
Maybe it was all about traffic for the op.
Investment › Re: Mmm : A Trick To Get Your Money Back Without Providing Fresh Help. by Sapiosexuality(m): 3:23am On Apr 04, 2017
Silvjo:
You can follow the guild line the picture... But is just little at a time.




Source : http://chukwudinweze..com.ng/2017/03/mmm-how-you-can-get-your-money-back.html
It showed the amount. I pressed all and next page for final confirmation. But when I pressed next on the final page it says "unknown error" and went back to homepage. what do I do?
Politics › Re: Rossikk What Is So SHOCKING About That!? Is Planet Earth Not An Animal Farm? by Sapiosexuality(m): 8:29pm On Apr 03, 2017
WORDWORLD:
There is ABSOLUTELY no where i have written that i support what the Indians have done. What i am telling is simple. OPRA WINFERY (not sure if my spelling is correct) Is worshipped by alot of whites today in America and the PROBABLITY of her been attacked all because she is BLACK is so minimal than a BLACK WOMAN who is a PROSTITUTE.

Its about UPGRADING yourself to a level where you become WITHOUT COLOR but CONTENT.

Ponder!!! And stop projecting my post as if am in support of INJUSTICE. There is always the law of CAUSE and EFFECT at work. ALWAYS!!! DONT BE MYOPIC.
Is it really about our inadequacies or that of Indians? You have strong points but I'm just wondering why Europe and America don't lynch us despite our reputation.
Politics › Re: Legislooters - Article By Charly Boy by Sapiosexuality(m): 10:10am On Apr 02, 2017
We shouldn't make this the single story. This idea of demonizing the Legislators and leaving the Presidency is dangerous. The entire political class from the Presidency to the last man is incompetent.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Jobs/vacancies Section Chatroom by Sapiosexuality(m): 6:41pm On Mar 31, 2017
Hello FAM! How real are these guys around Lagos who share papers on different Job Roles? Anyone ever tried? Thanks.
Politics › Re: Stop Celebrating Corruption – Oshiomhole Tells Nigerians by Sapiosexuality(m): 1:40pm On Mar 28, 2017
See who is talking too.
Politics › Re: The Dino Saga And Its Many Implications For Our Political And Educational System by Sapiosexuality(m): 10:27am On Mar 28, 2017
maestro2000:
There is something really wrong with the Nigerian system, and these crops of politicians will never allow the healing stage to manifest.
The foundation is faulty. Every nation tries to have a positive identity. Where's Ours? Our founding fathers messed up big time.
Politics › Re: ABU Graduates Defend Dino Melaye, Say Their Names Not On Convocation List Too by Sapiosexuality(m): 10:16am On Mar 28, 2017
Billyonaire:
Sowore is supposed to be busy looking for how to raise 5 billion Naira for Dino, I am sure Amaechi and Tinubu can be of help.
Lol. It is not going to happen. They'd make up.
Politics › Re: The Dino Saga And Its Many Implications For Our Political And Educational System by Sapiosexuality(m): 8:19am On Mar 28, 2017
This is Nigeria... This is our definition of normal...

If you've been observant you'd notice a cycle in play. A cycle too strong.

It started from Dasuki, the way voices were raised, the way the papers reported and the memes we made from it one would think he'd be behind bars within two months.

Then we had Metuh, arrested, ate his statements(according to EFCC), spoke of a medical checkup(at this point, you'd think he's guilty and would be nailed fast) but the same thing happened.

The judges and the burglars and the noise. How Nigerians rejoiced, how the papers carried it, how long it trended, and today the case seems like it wasn't even supposed to be one.

This here is another manifestation of that cycle. Nothing will happen to Dino. His court case with Sowore will also disappear. Forget the 5Bilion. It will disappear and they'd become friends again.

Then another issue will come up next month. People will rejoice, Jail the culprit in the court of Public Opinion but then the cycle will not be tampered with. This is our new normal.
Politics › Re: Nairalanders And Mods, Its Time We End This Nonsense by Sapiosexuality(m): 8:13am On Mar 28, 2017
modsfucker:
What do we call a leadership regime that doesn't allow people to express their mind again?

Freedom of expression is clearly guaranteed in our constitution as one of the fundamental human rights. So why would someone seeks to deny people that right?
You see, you and I know what to do to minimize the hate and promote expression. I also believe the owners of the forum know too. But they know better.
Politics › Re: Nairalanders And Mods, Its Time We End This Nonsense by Sapiosexuality(m): 8:10am On Mar 28, 2017
savagefinder:
this guy hasn't heard of the snowden issue that's why he is praising Facebook.. I've learnt to remove all my personal info from there..
Exactly. Even if you delete your account or personal info they still have it. The thing is not to join at all or to use it wisely.
Politics › Re: Nairalanders And Mods, Its Time We End This Nonsense by Sapiosexuality(m): 7:56am On Mar 28, 2017
modsfucker:
But I have never seen the issues highlighted bin discussed on either Facebook or Twitter. We just want to show our dictatorial tendencies in everything we do.

I am black but I cherish Mark Zuckerberg. Facebook is so flexible. It is so democratic. It tries to replicate a real life interaction between people where people can disagree and even insult one another, it guarantees such freedoms unlike some sites that wants one to come and only form serious no disagreements no insults, no nothing. The other day I referred to someone as dollardinhow and the site automatically changed it to President Muhammad Buhari.... . What nonsense.
Facebook is not so Democratic, by the way. It's a Monarchy. Mark doesn't consult us in anything and even sells our information and snitch on our friends.

My point is, the actions of a few slacks shouldn't be the basis for accepting you are inferior to other races.

For Nairaland what you have is a reflection of the country. The people who run the forum are Nigerians.
Politics › Re: Nairalanders And Mods, Its Time We End This Nonsense by Sapiosexuality(m): 7:29am On Mar 28, 2017
modsfucker:
Well, I guess freedom of expression is the beauty of the generation we are in now. Denying people's right to speak their minds is dictatorial.

Nairaland is not the only site in Nigeria remember, if you ban them from here, Facebook and twitter are always ready to accept them.

The difference between the blacks and whites would always manifest in all situations. The two sites I mentioned above do not stop people from expressing their opinions. Is it because they were founded by the whites? Yes of course.

On the contrary, the black owned site ban people just because they express their mind. We only see these tendencies during military regimes.
Stop this black and white nonsense. How many black Forums have you been to to draw such conclusion? Stop this "there's decorum because it's white owned" it is a trace of the brainwash of colonization.
Politics › Re: Nairalanders And Mods, Its Time We End This Nonsense by Sapiosexuality(m): 7:27am On Mar 28, 2017
Don't waste your time. It will only stop if they want it to stop. This is a money making site and not a moral uplifting place.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Updated-New Job Vacancies by Sapiosexuality(m): 7:25am On Mar 28, 2017
Chommieblaq:
Please what does workforce interview look like?
For their own sake, it is usually not as hard as what you get when the real companies are recruiting. You simply need a good understanding of the role you're applying for.

In some cases, their could be a test(Gmat. You can download it online) done to get a smaller number, before they conduct an interview with you followed by the company's.
Politics › Re: Biafrans About To Start War Breaking News Graphic PICS by Sapiosexuality(m): 9:56pm On Mar 25, 2017
This guy deserves a ban.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Jobs/vacancies Section Chatroom by Sapiosexuality(m): 7:02am On Mar 25, 2017
rarekollect:
Please House, does anybody know this address and how real is the company. i got the message below from them this afternoon. I'm suppose to go there tomorrow. thanks

Based on CV review,You've been considered for an interview by12pm on Sat25/3 at 2Sunday Str off Ikorodu Road,Palmgrove B/stop,Lagos dovegreenglobalservices.com
Fortune Careers. Run!
Phones › Re: Phone Engineers On Nairaland Willing To Assist You - Part II by Sapiosexuality(m): 7:19am On Mar 23, 2017
rednuth:
ok goodluck
Problem solved. I didn't DL a factory rest or flash. I unmounted my SD card and tried to download and it worked. Since then it's been fine. I think it's either the memory card is bad or the directory was messed up. Thank you for your concern.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Jobs/vacancies Section Chatroom by Sapiosexuality(m): 5:18pm On Mar 22, 2017
Jokkarm2:
Please house help a brother , I am going to workforce tomorow for interview on call centre agent which I have experience on but I want to know other technical questions they ask that is a general question . Send your advice to jokkarm@gmail.com.
Also add any infor you know that will help me please I need a job badlyyyyyy.
Thanks
Since you have the experience just be confident and say what you know. The crux is "what prepared you for the position".

I don't think anyone here love you so much to send you a mail full of advice.*tongue out*
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Jobs/vacancies Section Chatroom by Sapiosexuality(m): 12:23pm On Mar 22, 2017
walexsho:
I received the same text today
I didn't go. I had other trustworthy options the sane day and had to forfeit it.
Phones › Re: Phone Engineers On Nairaland Willing To Assist You - Part II by Sapiosexuality(m): 12:08pm On Mar 22, 2017
rednuth:
itel 1520? oops itel lags alot ... I dont like their products from day one but their latest release looks cool tho !

so I suggest u do a factory reset or try goto settings, under ur apps, googleplay then uninstall updates then retry ... but best idea u can flash it rather
Okay. Thanks. I'd do a factory reset before making attempt to flash. Thank you.
Phones › Re: Phone Engineers On Nairaland Willing To Assist You - Part II by Sapiosexuality(m): 9:35am On Mar 22, 2017
rednuth:
I guess your phone memory is filled up. goto ur file manager and move some items to your sd card . and try what u wanted to do again..
Thank you but I think that's far from it.

I have an extra 600 megabyte, extra 1gb ram space and a new 16gb memory and directed the downloads to go throw my memory card.

I used anti viruses to scan, removed five malewares but still problem unsolved. Removed SD card and reinserted and put off phone still the same problem.

I was told yesterday by a roadside engineer that the phone needs flashing. Considering the desperation for quick money I refused to take his word for it. I need you guys to intervene before I take the next step.

Thank you.
Phones › Re: Phone Engineers On Nairaland Willing To Assist You - Part II by Sapiosexuality(m): 9:27am On Mar 22, 2017
My phone is Itel 1520
Phones › Re: Phone Engineers On Nairaland Willing To Assist You - Part II by Sapiosexuality(m): 9:21am On Mar 22, 2017
Engineers, I need your help please. I cannot download anything on my phone anymore except from play store. I can't even do a screenshot as it would say "Couldn't capture screenshot. Storage may be in use". Thank you.
Literature › Re: Why Transgender Africans Turned Against Chimamanda Adichie by Sapiosexuality(m): 7:29am On Mar 22, 2017
LordAdam16:
Dude the difference between transgender and transsexual is that a transsexual feels so strongly about their gender identity that they decide to match their sexual organs with their sense of personal and gender identity. So your point on biology cannot be exclusive to transsexuals. It concerns both transgenders and transsexuals. Which is why the next sentences you make are embarrassing fallacies and completely anti-science.

So, I'm not even going to waste time debating with you.

I'm just going to leave this study about transsexuality in identical twins as a way to prove that there is a genetic influence for this identity.

That's to explicitly show the fallacy in this statement of yours:



The genetic influences for gender identity and presence of reproductive organs are not the same. And every major scientific committee agrees on this. Use a simple Google search to search for proof. I will no longer spoon feed you, since you've shown yourself to be a complete waste of time.

I'm sorry I even called your science half-baked. It's not even science. It's fallacious conjectures of your heavily uninformed mind.

Read and understand--https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-science-willpower/201208/is-your-mind-separate-your-body. I'm not even sure you can read and understand, because I shared a Vox article on the subject and it you learned nothing from it.

And so I refuse to discuss further when you don't even understand the rudiments of gender identity and sexual orientation.

-Lord
Okay. The fact that I have a penis does not make me a man. I get it.
Literature › Re: Why Transgender Africans Turned Against Chimamanda Adichie by Sapiosexuality(m): 7:32pm On Mar 21, 2017
DarkRebel101:
I demur to that last sentence. Adichie's submissions were in fact communicated in the most acutely straightforward manner. That it was non-politically correct and void of the euphemistic and beguiling interlardings that are a commonplace in speeches/statements made by public figures doesn't qualify to adjudge her sentiments as "poorly articulated".

It's hardly any surprising, seeing as we live in a world wherein painfully bitter but unvarnished truths constitute a rare commodity, or as Oscar Wilde had deftly put it, "... the truth is rarely pure and never simple".

The only reason why Adichie seemed to have whipped up some dusts of controversy in the coliseum is because she voiced the stark truth to a crop of people long used to honey-coated truths and half-truths.



The women of Musuo, Sahrawi, and Cambodia represent isolated cases, not the general norm. While it would be foolish to claim they are not women simply because they do not experience the indignities of unequality that are peculiar to the vast majority of the female demographic, it would also be a great disservice to common sense to conclude that the experience of such a teeny-weeny minority correctly denotes the universal status quo of women.

But then again, how is that or any of your other absurd and incongruous analogies cognate with the issue up for debate?
Precise case of reductio ad absurdum!
...


Adichie did not seek to foster division with her statement, she merely expounded on the living, breathing nuances existing betwixt the cis women comity and the trans women community.

Experience maketh a man. How then can we all in good conscience overtly acclaim that despite the disparity of life experiences of a cis woman and trans woman, that they are entirely one and the same?

Even the experiences of trans women who before their transition were heavily discriminated against for being androgynous cannot be compared to those faced by cis women - not because the experiences of trans women pale in comparison to those of cis women, but because they are independently of them and essentially unique. The uniquity of both trans and cis women is what Adichie is stressing about.

If trans women were entirely the same as cis women then don't you think they would just be called women rather than TRANS women?

P.S.: That you do not believe some men are more equal than others only further proves how much of a wool-gatherer you are. That would explain why you would resort to coating the face of reality with idealistic layers, like in your deliberate failure to agree trans women and cis women are in fact different in some minor ways.

By the way, a man called Jeremy Bentham once described such life-sized logical misfiring to be an ''anarchic fallacy".
This was my position before I derailed. I agree with this. We cannot honestly say they are the same. Their experiences are different. But this doesn't mean their difference, as transgender women, is not marked by struggles and unfair treatment. Adichie's fault was ditching Political Correctness.
Literature › Re: Why Transgender Africans Turned Against Chimamanda Adichie by Sapiosexuality(m):
LordAdam16:
You are a man of HALF-BAKED science. I mean no disrespect.

This is the definition of transgender



Transgenders are who they say they are, not what we call them. We've already called them transgenders (that's our label on them), they get the right to call themselves trans men or trans women. We don't get to tell them our label is the only label they should live by. If the sense of personal identity and gender is female, then the person calls herself a transgender girl/woman. If the sense of personal identity and gender is male, then the person calls himself a transgender boy/man.

The biology is not the issue here, it is the sense of personal identity and gender. What you're saying doesn't make sense because it'd mean perfectly okay men who have the sense of personal identity and gender of male but have very scarce bodily hair typical of males (for example no or scant beards) shouldn't be call males, because very scarce bodily hair is a female biological feature.

It's like when you go to your doctor and tell him your stomach is aching you. But he says no, that it's your brain paining you because MRI scan showed increased activity in the brain area responsible for pain. People would tell you what their personal and gender identity is when they are sure of it.

Transgender people are transgender people as a group. But this group is split into trans men, trans women, or people with gender identity disorder (aren't sure of their personal identity and gender, it can be scary). Trans men are men. Trans women are women. Trans people without a gender identity yet, well, we don't a label for them yet.

It's like this heterosexuals are heterosexuals as a group. But this group is split into bigot heterosexuals (who think they're elitist people with the only normal sexulaity), tolerant heterosexuals (who do not subscribe to the school of thought of bigot heterosexuals), or skeptic heterosexuals (those sitting on the fence or really do not mind). Bigot heterosexuals are bigots (like racial bigots, gender bigots and what have you), tolerant heterosexuals are tolerant humans, skeptic heterosexuals are skeptics (like agnostics...).

This is why I said I don't bother about the nuances. Because gender identity and sexual orientation is a very wide spectrum. And it's far easier to say all humans should be accorded X rights than, men should be accorded XY rights while women should be accorded XX rights. When you start doing that, then brute men would start asking for XYY rights while calm men should receive XXY rights. You see where this is going?

Current science is still playing catch-up. And the boundaries we set today could evaporate in 5 years time.

Like every movement, feminism has its stratas. Adichie just showed where her loyalties lie, and she's not the first person.

I'll encourage you to read this Vox article. I should warn you that it is lengthy. But considering that you have an open mind to learn more, it makes points that'd pique your attention.

PS: Male and female is not the only gender out there. Learn about the Third Gender officially recognized by the governments in India, Pakistan, and Bangladesh, called the Hijras. For starters, check the beautiful photos by Jan in the Daily Mail--http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4286052/The-gender-Hijras-forced-work-sex-trade.html.

PPS: Apologies if any part of my reply reads like an insult. That's certainly not my intention.

-Lord
When you say I am a HALF BAKED science person I was really expecting a real scientific rebuttal and not some discussion on culture. Let's even assume my understanding of identity and culture are erroneous does that in any way make my science half baked? Or is it that you couldn't hold back your disappointment and had to throw an irrational rebuttal with mixed colours?

My point is solely on transgender people that transitioned–better still, transsexual people. They can never be of that sense they transitioned to. Your doctor analogy misses the point because gender is biology and not psychology. A boy who thinks he's a woman even though he has every attribute of a boy is only deceiving himself. The half beard man too is an insufficient analogy because that's not the forte of masculinity.

Though some men and women often display some level of resemblance and characters opposite to both, the tostesterone and oestrogen and the organs are still strong determinant factors. For these transitioned people, a simple psychological reevaluation of self doesn't change the biological evidences. Kaitlyn Jenner is not a woman. He is simply a transexual. That's what matters to me. The nature of being is not a psychological thing.

Please, whatever submission you make back them up with their corresponding rebuttals. If you say a man is poorly baked in a field, explain it using his errors in that field. I cannot be said to be half baked in Maths but corrected using social science. You can also keep the extra details and I apologize too if this appears rude.
Politics › Re: List Of Top Nigerians Remanded In Kuje Prison by Sapiosexuality(m): 3:46pm On Mar 21, 2017
farouk0403:
For your mind Abba moro and Andrew yakubu are southerners right?

what will i gain by claiming and defending bunch of thieves to be from my region.
They are Christians. We'd gain nothing but we should endeavour to speak the truth always. You said the list had more Muslims than Christians and I listed ten Christians and equal numbers regionally but you pretend not to see that to further your misinformation.
Literature › Re: Why Transgender Africans Turned Against Chimamanda Adichie by Sapiosexuality(m): 3:39pm On Mar 21, 2017
LordAdam16:
No need to act defensive.

It's all a matter of semantics. Red ball is a ball. Blue ball is a ball. Red ball is not a blue ball. Saying red ball is not a ball, is just going to raise hell.

That's what Adichie did. Transgender women are women. Cisgender women are women. Transgender women are not cisgender women. Implying that transgender women are not women is wrong.

You cannot make a category (women) exclusive for one sub-category (cisgender women). That is the origin of bigotry.

So as I said, she has a point that transgender women have different experiences from cis women, but she articulated it wrongly that for this reason trans women are not women and that only cis women are women. Everyone makes silly mistakes once in a while.

She could have said. Trans women are women. But trans women have unique experiences from cis women.

Now you can understand why everyone is making a big deal out of this because she is in America, the hotbed of diversity. She is an ally to the LGBTQ+ community. She is a literary icon (that is she understands the impact of words and the need to select words carefully). Yet she made such an obvious, unnecessary error. Anyone but Adichie should have made that error. Anyone but her.

I'm a full-on heterosexual, yet I have seething rage that she couldn't even apologize and she's still bandying about her heavily flawed argument days and weeks after first citing it. It is very arrogant. And I'll understand why trans women may want to boycott the Feminism movement because she's a part of it.

Yea, and as I said, the nuances really do not bother me. But sometimes it pays to set the record straight.

-Lord
One could argue from the position of biology that Transgender people are simply transgender people. You can't have the anatomy of a transgender and be rightly referred to as a woman. You can't have such anatomy and still be referred to as a man either. That could be seen as extreme positions. Let me come down.

In her words:

"It’s about the way the world treats us, and I think if you’ve lived in the world as a man with the privileges that the world accords to men and then sort of change gender, it’s difficult for me to accept that then we can equate your experience with the experience of a woman who has lived from the beginning as a woman and who has not been accorded those privileges that men are…I don’t think it’s a good thing to talk about women’s issues being exactly the same as the issues of trans women because I don’t think that’s true"

I agree with this to am extent. Maybe we'd had seen nothing wrong if she had said: "Transgender women are transgender women and cis women are cis women".

To me, she, and the majority of persons who've said something on the matter so far, are been economical with the truth. I am a man of science. Transgender people, born transgender before transition to women, still have features of the male and female. We can't in all honesty call them either of the sexes. Even after transition, we can still see evidence of masculinity. What makes us males and females are our sexes. Transgender people to me are transgender people. Correct me on this.
Literature › Re: Why Transgender Africans Turned Against Chimamanda Adichie by Sapiosexuality(m): 1:02pm On Mar 21, 2017
Eddygourdo:
will the LGBT community segregate a heterosexual who realized he is gay this morning because he doesn't have the same life experiences from a gay of 20years? Are they not both gays currently subjected to the same percieved injustice she is trying to fight ? Why should it be consdered by how long one has been queer being a measure of his understanding of challenges. So my answer to you is "yes". Current circumstances should match their current definitions as women even though previously male. Because the challenges being faced are not past or weighted issues , but current and existing issues and biases.
How can people with different sexes for more than 20 years have the same experience? I don't just understand this. This is what I'm interested in and not the psychology of homosexuals.
Literature › Re: Why Transgender Africans Turned Against Chimamanda Adichie by Sapiosexuality(m): 8:25am On Mar 21, 2017
Eddygourdo:
what do you define as customs, even what you seek today the so called female liberalization in the next 200years will be regarded as customs and still subject to change. Thus why degrade one for another. The current state of women asides in strictly muslim communities means that women get more equal oppportunities than men but since that is not the subject here. I still will point out that that rationalization which you giving for the non inclusion of transgender is similar to the bias a heterosexual has towards all these new sexual definitions . When we try to trace the history to determine cause and effect, all we see is pure facts as to why nobody is born gay but was a sudden realization at some point thanks to environmental influences in upbringing. All I am saying is that, simply because adichie is a literature goddes doesn't make her any smarter than a house mouse to become an authority in general life matters.

I don't yet understand why the mere concept of someone accepting or promoting the aalternate life style is paired with enlightenment. I am just pointing out that fact that her bias can be considered segregative by being non inclusive of all women (transgendered women). She is speaking of the current and I believe these women also face the smae challenges all current women are facing. Why calculate discrimination and rights abuses by the length of time which one suffered it. Is that logical ?
What exactly is your point? Is it that transgender women had similar experience as women(her point)? Simple Yes or No.

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