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MzPecs:
Those things are part of the qualities a man is supposed to possess.

Virginity ain't a criterion for such request!

obviously he knows that, that's why he asked for that in return to let her know what she seeks for is very hard to have all

naughtynaughty:
my dear he broke my hrt o. Bt am nt pained abt it nomore. Forgetin d past mehn

happiness is all that matter but mean while why do ladies ask for too much in a man when it comes to marriage

https://www.nairaland.com/2805896/pic-when-lady-ask-too#41065486

ladyF:
Hmmm is that too much to ask?

Yes is too much to ask so you better place a special order from heaven for that kind of man

MzPecs:
It's not too much to ask nah..

if is not too much to ask then his as well is not to much to ask

Truly impossible is nothing with our ladies this days

for the guys "his mistake by usher"

queenfav:
no bro,realist!She doesn't need angel gabriel to appear to her in a halo to tell her "my child,the Lord says this man does not love you,stop stalking and obsessing over him".Its crystal clear for all to see from his actions;I was just helping her realise that ,and to ensure she does better next time.

The truth is i understand her very well but the problem sometimes is the person attitude towards the opposite sex or people around her.had a friend in uni back then, truth be told that girl have anger issues sometimes my cousin n i always say this, we would love to meet the guy that will settle down with her cus of her anger issues and she refue to see her mistakes or wrong doing and if you try correcting her, she will beef you and then reconcile later on... most of her relationship always come to and end cus she fails to take correction and gets angry easily..she fought with all diff roommates she had from yr 1 to final yr ...so it goes beyond giving advice cus we don't know what personality she have that's chasing away the opposite sex and same goes to guys as well

OP WHAT WILL BE YOUR RESPOND IF YOU FIND OUT, THAT A MAN WHO IS IN HIS 30S WANT TO DATE YOUR 18YR OLD DAUGHTER IN SS2?

queenfav:
Ok babe..I understand how u feel because I have encountered some pretty mean stuff in life.First of all,I want you to reinstall your whatsapp messenger.When you do,block him! Secondly,get this book "why men love b.itches" by sherry argov.It would toughen you up, especially if you read it with willingness to stop being too emotional about new guys you meet..Its not a book that would make u bitter or an actual bit.ch,the title just connotes that men love strong women who though can be loving,yet try to maintain their independence.Also a woman who knows when to cut her loses to move on when she is being treated with disdain.Men smell desperation and insecurity from miles away.Tell yourself you don't have to be in a relationship to be complete as a person.Its hard because daily u find your friends and even celebs posting loved up pics and all.That alone can make any single lady stay with a man for all the wrong reasons just to avoid feeling left out.My experience with men is that they want what they can't have.Just try it..the guys you don't want in your life pursue you relentlessly,amidst insults and serious attitude to ward them off you.While the ones you call,text more and show excess affection are bound to trample on your emotions by treating you like trash.Please find a distraction.Get engrossed in your work or academics.Read good books,learn a skill or craft.Basically,do things to make you happy.The key is learning to enjoy your own company.Otherwise you would have serious issues even when you meet the man of your dreams.Learn to pace yourself when it comes to relationships..baby steps darling.Don't just fall yakata,even if you are so obsessed with a guy(like you obviously are)Hide it!A little pride won't hurt you here.See yourself as the best,someone any man would not forget in a hurry.Don't let this guy make a mess of your emotions,you are above all that crap.Make a firm decision never to call him again and stand by it!In life you have to master the art of ignoring people no matter how much you crave for them;do it to the point that the person would start doubting his very existence.Don't live your life in a way that you are too much of a good girl.You have to be strong at times,to drive the message home,that you would not stand to be mistreated and have your emotions thrown back on your face.Lastly,just relax..nothing is wrong with you.You'll certainly meet a great guy that would know how much of a amazing lady you are,and love every inch of you for it!

feminist

Nedumadrid:
I have bought her some nice stuff bt she rejected dem,she said i hav feelings for her frnd of which i dnt.

would have loved to say something but i don't know who made a report on my comment on this thread and i got band, had to lay a complain before they withdrew it

naughtynaughty:
lol..life is so sweet abeg..those few months wit d yahoo boy was evritin..choiiii *flipsmyweavon

you see yourself the yahoo didn't even break your heart from the way you sounding cus if he did, i trust my naija girls, e no day hard ulna to forget the good things a guy did to the 1 time bad thing he did

AdaNri1:
Attention seeker. I don't know why people find it so easy to propagate hatred.

He even managed to find a way to blame the Jews who are Iran's archenemy. Hatred is a poison!

like seriously weytin concern agbero with over load...can't he go straight to the point without mentioning jew or the christians in his statement..

that's the only part i fault in his statement but am okay with the rest.learnt something new today though from this

Am still trying to comprehend what OPis saying.....do you sleep with them after which they leave or do they ask for it and you don't give in to them and they come up with an excuse to leave you?...either way the right one will come and maybe you should set your priorities right and try asking a guy if his in a relationship from the onset not when you have started developing feelings because it will be hard to let go, just like the state you'r in now.

naughtynaughty:
lol, sum1 said am jxt unlucky

naa won't buy that. you were unlucky to have a faithful n humble bf for a lucky yahoo guy

SexyCeline:
Tnx.. Anytime

you welcome

some peeps on nairaland write better stories than wale adenuga

feran15:
how was that racist... she said she wanted only people from her tribe... just telling her why they are not messaging her

same reason we don't message the yoruba ladies as well

SexyCeline:
lol..am a model. That was work.

love your modeling skill will join you soon for a lil tutorial

naughtynaughty:
I so blive dis fu*king thing calld Karma.

So I left my vry humble nd faithful bf of 2yrs cos I met a rich dude who is a yahoo boy..ofcourse I enjoyd mylife 2d fullest 2ruout our 5months fling. I brokeup wit him few weeks ago cos unknw 2me he was a chronic womaniser, he had plenty oda gf's nd and I wasn't happy wen I found out so I brokeup wit him. Deep down in me, I knw its d b!tch calld Karma

you got served but glad you learnt your lessons

PussySandie:
Jisox . Ojah

your back

didn't violate any rule and yet i got banned like seriously ...is either the mods don't understand the rules they laid down or english is now ambiguous for the human brain to comprehend they can come and ban me here as well..iranu

Nedumadrid:
Hello Pals,i need an advice on what to do to save ma relationship with ma GF because i Love her so dearly..Both of us and her best pal went to a nite club last week friday,i dnt really knw wat happened to me.To be brief she likes to dance alot of which i dnt,shez was dancing wif some guyz and i was watching her and also sipping some Liquor,few mins later i dnt knw wat get into me and she caught me kissing her best pal,i was shocked and felt remorseful,she yelled at me and said its over btw us.....After that day she hasn't been picking ma calls or replying ma messages.Am so confused,i dnt knw wat to do to get her back.

Op u still need some tutorials, next time you blame it on the alcohol and keep pretending you thought she was the one you kissed

do the needful and get her gifts and apology msgs

that's what we call ATM this days Attacking Trespass Machine

adasexie:
hmmm

anyway, i rest my case here...learn to be proud of who you are and don't let any1 bring yourself esteem down.bye

where can you find truly faithful wife materials?

Ans= Warehouse

adasexie:
so?

why claim to be some1 your not?

ZillionBucks:
Dear Nairalanders, I am in a dilemma now and I need matured and constructive advice. I met a lady about 5 years ago in the UK and we dated for sometime. I was not ready to settle down, but she was. After sometime, she told me she was leaving me as I was not ready to get married, and she went back to the guy she was dating while in the university in Nigeria. About 5 months after she got married, she visited the UK and we may at a house party and got talking, got drunk and we ended up in bed together. The next morning, she felt very bad and begged me to leave her alone and let her concentrate on her marriage and left the UK about 2 days after that. About 9 to 10 months later, someone told me she gave birth to a baby boy, I didn't have her number anymore, as she changed it and didn't inform me. I sent her congratulatory messages on Facebook to which she replied casually. I just came about the baby's pictures recently and he looks exactly like me when I was a baby. I saved some pictures and showed it to some people and they said he looks so much like me. I think he is my biological son. I really want to meet him and I am not sure she will agree if I tell her. I am really sorry about this situation and I don't intend to destroy her home. The boy has a very good life, as the lady and her husband are well off financially. Should I just let sleeping dogs lie? Kindly advise.

You knew she was married and still went ahead to sleep with her and the lady self could not hold herself .

Lord pls don't let such ladies come my way when am ready to walk the aisle and deliver me from any married lady that will come my way Ameh.

most of them are here to look for trouble

trouble makers and end time naira ;Dland ladies

MrCork:
..bro the ediiot girl is fake...shes about to be banned!!

the MODS should do something about verifying people with fake membership

adasexie:
lol.....smh

it sounds funny but maybe you should take a look at this

https://www.google.com.ng/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=http://www.sosnation.com/2015/02/27/paliechi-okoronkwo-is-sos-face-of-the-week-february-27-2015/&ved=0ahUKEwiAxde3gNfJAhWGORoKHcvtDQEQFggcMAA&usg=AFQjCNF0wZj1bZJW-tJLpsSCDKqSxvMoeQ&sig2=lAwwv-35nGngidPcmNm1Aw

adasexie:
85% are....
they stalk you..quote you just to annoy you(bloody attention seekers)I can't be bullied,I refuse to take anything that happens on a ghost forum personally..so am just going to let it slide..my mum raised a well behaved young woman,And I won't lose my manners or temper for anyone..I have enough drama already.....so I'm just going to pretend I didn't see the comments n go back to my original reason for opening this profile "interact n have fun"...have a great day y'all.

Opening the profile is cool but using someone else pic as ur dp that's bad...how will you feel if you find out some1 is using ur pic on a social media and you know nothing about it? if you don't want to use yours, you can simply use a funny dp or something else or a group pix, that way ur identity is still hidden..hope you understand and don't see it the wrong way