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sickstars:
me sef aint caring

owuya naso..anyway just b good, cus there r lots of good peeps in here it all depends on how u relate with them

sickstars:
m gifted at doin dat

then get urself ready for the backlash that comes with it cus nairaland guys aren't smiling

sickstars:
Tank u

Im actually soft tho

Just tough wen m been fustrated

lol u welcome but no one frustrated you ;Dyou just wanted to pick up quarrel

sickstars:
M sorry i shdnt av said nytin

good to know there s some good in u

mzvyne:
I don't believe I need anybody's 'consent' but God's. Mom and Dad shud better pray I don't fall in love with one they term an 'OSU'... Cos neither hell nor highwaters will deter me.

instead of you to pray for such not to happen your praying for it to happen. no1 will stop you from marrying the person mind you but they surely won't be present on your day including your extended family cus as ur clan is concern, you marrying an outcast makes u one already..for your information try chip in the story to your parents and hear the responds they will give back, before you come here showing of your prowess

sickstars:
I'm sorry

M nt a negative feminist

i kno many ladies suffering badly cos of d way they lived their youthful lives

Well m nt stopping ny lady actually i only voiced out

M nt a gender hate i read online nd see offline how men treat ladies so i m only stating d obvious

Av ur fun party

funny part is that i stay in lag but won't b attending the party though i don't know what the future holds...

but discouraging others not to go is wa i did not appreciate, if it were to be that you had a very good reason maybe the OP will take measures to prevent it but you didn't bring anything of such reasons at all..you only said they will sleep with the ladies and upload the pics which to me is silly( No offense)...

jidxin:
lmao pls dont say wat u dont know.



U only needs d parents consent if she is less dan 21 so it means u dont need anybodys consent wen u re abv21

what are you saying so if your above 21 u won't seek your parents consent when you plan on getting married or do you think marriage only ends between the two couples?

PICTURE THIS: when you go against your family disapproval and on the wedding day non of your family or relatives or clan appear at the occasion and disassociates with you after the marriage then you will know why you need their consent.

Dbaroness:
Pls what is this OP thing i always see here? Wat does it mean?

Original Poster

sickstars:
If wat u guys do is called GROW UP

i never want to GROW UP now nd regret more than i shd wen i actually GROW UP

if u guys meant well u wudnt b too fast to attack me dun worry whose me to stop d ladies d freelancers will cum na

no1 s attacking just want to clarify you on some ish which you have...truth is your just being a negative feminist n gender hate..

igwe44:
Let her listen to her parents,if the guy decided to leave her along the line she would have no one to turn to,i will advice let her convince her parents so that they should see reasons with the guy and go on with the marriage

is hard to convince the parents as regards issues like this cus it goes beyond the family and it extends to the relatives and kinsmen.

if she goes ahead with the marriage, she will be cast out and won't be allowed to associate with the family.that's the problem here.

so is more or less like having two AS genotype couple getting married...they can go ahead getting married but the stigma will still be there and will continue

sickstars:
Never m i victim m just not lettin d females i care bou here fall for u guys trap cant bliv fellow females here will lure females to d party wen dey kno wats goin to happen i wud keep playing dumb

like seriously are you educated at all...ah ah u talk like a kid i swear...can any1 at this your age force you into something you don't want to?

was going to happen in a public place that's going to be crowded or you think the beach will be filled with jet nairalanders..

won't be surprise if your that kind of person who can't take decisions on their own and are easily influence by peer pressure. GROW UP

Crocz:
Imagine...someone in this age and with the level of civilisation, still discriminating "outcasts" even thou they eat the same food, wear the same type of cloth, practice same religion, same culture, speak same language and have lived and rejoiced together for decades.


Well, their culture is their culture...but a very evil one!

was evil about it

kateskitty:
Just passing through

why don't you drop by and knock

HopeAtHand:
Igbo people problems plenty.

if you don't know what to type simple ask your sick brain not to force you into typing poo olofo iranu

sickstars:
Rubbish first of all the real matured ones are off nl trying to build a future

Wat is to b matured bou wats happening or is it not on dis same fuckin nl we seeing guys upload girls unclad pix wtf are trying to say again?

i was going to take u serious until i saw your moniker then i chose not to but all the same if you have been a victim of one cus is pretty obvious your a victim of such. whose fault was it? just grow up and as regards ur previous comment on u planning to laugh at people who attend the beach party, just forget it cus you won't be given that pleasure

BaebieHot:
Abi?

yes na...in her mind she will be like, this over sabi people just use their reggae spoil my blues by declaring me missing, mean while i was receiving the best knacking of my life.

BaebieHot:
Why is she acting like this is a joke?

Just look at how she is saying "I'm found", "I am back".
My friend will u explain to us where u were

See me that was almost crying for u sef. Mtcheew

so it did not cross your mind she went to see her bf in another state for prayer and fasting, that's why she switched off her phone

sickstars:
Wats my own wit u
I'm communicating with smart girls sure ur useless girls will attend den start crying wen their naked pix hits d net

why are u guys angry attackin

Oh m exposing ur plans

suck it in abeg

be matured for once even if is just once ....this statement you just made how does it sound in ur ears

misspicy2:
fun? boda akurise o,fun komo lagbara....we le omo meji we fo pe we catch fun, oti gbagbe pe obirin Nai a ra jowu ara han? ehin hot catch

kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa kwakwakwakwakwakwa

this babe and her yourba ascent every time are you sure is not the reason the anti spam boot you out

For a preamble and for the benefit of those visitors without the necessary background knowledge of the subject here discussed, OSU, like the “Dalits” of India is a caste system in the Igbo speaking areas of South Eastern Nigeria, Africa. OSU are people tainted by their birth into a caste system that deems them impure and less human. According to legend, OSU came into being as a result of human sacrifice to the gods wherein a person usually a slave or a war-spoil, instead of being physically killed as a sacrifice to the gods is spared the butcher’s knife and instead dedicated symbolically to the deity as its’ property. The implication therefore is that such a person breathes and exists for the deity and none other; and assumes the stature of a lesser human who has been sacrificed as an offal to the gods. Regrettably these human-sacrifices married and procreated thus transferring unto their descendants the stigma of their “burnt-offering” status; which also make them properties of the gods that their forebears were sacrificed to. The downside is that these “people” because of their very lowly and sometimes “non-existent” status in the society are forced to reconcile their fate to the worthless and basest of a given Igbo society; wherein they found themselves and nobody seriously speaking, wants any association with them be it marriage, neighborhood, business and/or other associations that brings people together. One who is a free born cannot marry the lowly caste OSU and vice-versa. An OSU cannot also aspire to be a high chief or ruler/king in the society wherein they are born. This practice is prevalent within the Igbo society and its denial sometimes is for public relations purposes only. Several legislation have been targeted at this practice which so many have come to regard as inhuman practice aka man’s inhumanity to man; but is the OSU really man or human in the eye of the Igbo society wherein the practice thrives to date?
This blogger remembers quite vividly too, a traditional ruler (king) who wanted to outlaw the OSU practice. He summoned his Igwe - in- council (cabinet) for a parley wherein he intimated them of his intentions. According to the story, this Chief informed his council that he plans to outlaw the practice of OSU in his domain. After he finished speaking, one of the elders in the council raised his hand for recognition to speak or contribute to the deliberation. He was granted the floor to speak and all he did was ask the Chief if he would, as a show of goodwill allow his daughter to be married away to an OSU. The Chief was livid with anger and demanded to know where from the speaker got his audacity to speak on the subject as it appertains to his princess. And this was the last bus stop for the proposed legislation in the Igwe-n-councilThe irony for victims of OSU practice is that no amount of wealth they may acquire is ever enough to wash them off this stigma. Also their rise in the society of their ancestry is always stunted forcing most of them to take a long hard refuge in a foreign soil where they sometimes live out the rest of their lives agonizing of this fate; which though not self-inflicted but a result of generational apron string, are yoked down irrevocably to the tabooed status of being an OSU. It is such a very painful experience to undergo and no one should wish that - being an OSU on his worst enemy, indeed!
This blogger also knows one prominent well to do family who were living happily until one of the daughters decided to marry. She fell in love with this young medical doctor practicing in New York City – they moved in together and within nine months had a baby. Then the traditional marriage rites started in earnest wherein the man sent words to his family still in Nigeria to proceed with formalizing their relationship. Wherein it was discovered that the bride came from an OSU family and this was no brainier; so the child notwithstanding, the marriage or jactitation or semblance thereto has to be terminated [/b] forthwith because the father of the groom was a politician who would not want any taint whatsoever, of an OSU, as a daughter in-law. The girl moved to the west coast with her daughter and presently lives in southern California as a single mother. The groom has since re-married but the girl has not been that lucky as all the men who came around always jumps the ship as soon as the story of her ancestry reached their ears.

fromnigeria:
My Brother as long as the love is love. I will do all to convince my pagan father and mother to come. If they don't alternatives abound.

Sorry are you igbo? cus if your not then you won't understand..truth is this, both her parents and her people won't attend the wedding cus is a taboo..it is advisable before a person goes ahead with any wedding plans, they should investigate the spouse family to be sure of the lineage.

pretydiva:
See her pimple boobs

because you have water melon boobs now no1 we hear word abi

tens4real:
See as i chill dey watch una on 12D mounching my popcorn continue...

my brother no b only u o,, even the owner of the thread follow they watch yourmain and her boo they do luvi luvi..angway arsenal match on my mind le me laugh small

FP for what? after being played n how true is the story self

Greekgoddess:
AM ON MY WAY

come quickly n don't end up blushing when you do

Greekgoddess:
Just admit that u r lazy

Stop using Sunday as an excuse

Nd r u indirectly calling me a child?


If so..... SMH

lazy!!so you think, come over and find out

n for your ? no am not, can't see your pix so I can't tell

Greekgoddess:
LMAO


Just keep running ur mouth

I have seen ur pics,i have marked ur face

Anywhere i catch u it's gonna be royal rumble

Make sure you always have ur boxing gloves on

your saviour is that, today is sunday and i don't hit ladies talk less of children...will only punish u by asking you to pick pin or push a car on a wall

Greekgoddess:
U r bragging cos we are online

In reality if you see me u won't be able to say or do anything

Na mouth u just get

hehehe u go fear na...thanks your stars is online if not will jis give u WiFi knock n come there n twist that your mouth you'r using to talk like type writer *tongue*

Greekgoddess:
Don't let ur gender fool you

E be like say u never see where woman dey beat man before

hahaha I don't blame you at all...is basketmouth I blame for making that skit were his gf beat him if not..le me don't say what i will do to you

Greekgoddess:
Trust me i will if given the opportunity

kikikikoko I laugh in Swahili...if I knock your head eh, you il know you can't mess with me.