₦airaland Forum

NegeduGrace:
Hello romancelanders,,I got an issue that's really bothering me so I decided to let it out here to seek opinion..
I recently relocated from my former lodge to another,I met a guy @my new lodge who is very friendly n caring..he was so very nice to me n I thought it just normal until he requested to sleep in ma room n I declined that it not normal@all n he said that's how he do sleep there even if ma roomate(we re two)is around n I told him that me am not comfortable with it cos is just a mutual relationship n we have neighbours.
The problem now is on saturday,a male friend called me n we were together n he knows this guy very well.he flared up that am trying to break his heart(see me see wahala oo)I thought it was a joke oo until he started avoiding me,,
This is somebody I met just within a week oo,,please I need tips n opinion on how to handle him**note he is 23yrs
Sorry for my longwrite up and errors...

Sweetpkizes:
I'm an American woman. I met a 38 year old Nigerian man although I suspect that he is younger. I'm 48. He is the sweetest man I have ever met. We have been dating for several weeks. He is very attentive and kind. The sex is amazing and we have a lot of fun together. .

The problem is, he doesn't talk about himself. I have to ask him very specific questions and he always wants to know why I'm asking. He never shares anything about his personal life other than he has a son. He works but o have no idea where or what company. I've been to his home several times and have met a couple of his friends.

He asks me no questions about myself. We really don't know a lot about each other.

Is this a Yoruba thing or is he just keeping his distance as to not get attached? I'm developing feelings for this man and I need to be sure.

TreasuredLeidy:
ur friend or u

pissedsteve:
pray never to be in my shoes, you really dont know what am going through. if you are thinking its business ,come and walk a mile in my shoes and feel how it pinches

jonaifame22:
so because I said that she has a soft body abi?

Frankraj:
Is the guy that brought the problem upon himself for dating such a beautiful girl like you claim and the girl is very very stupiddd and uselessss for allowing the so called guy to seat In the same tabel with her and disuss to the extent of offering to pay her bills.if is me I can even end my relationship with that foolishhh cheap girl because of that alone

ucsparks:
But we'll won't deny the fact that it gets to a point where you have to lay your hands on your woman... Sincerely speaking from experience
And I've dated a girl who actually told me to beat her if she does something very wrong, she knows the truth and cos females sometimes could be unbearable
MY point is she has to do something really really wrong and push me to the wall, then YES I'll beat her

jonaifame22:
Now he beat her 2days ago and she came to me yesterday and she was wth me at my shop till night, she wanna break frm his life like michael scofield did from fox river prison and she came to tell me jus how she plans to do it, I like the gal and it's not because I wan 2 fvck her,it's jus that she has a very soft body jus the type I use to like and i knew cos of the times she has hugged me before as per her guys friend and I've begged her before to be giving me a full frontal hug as against the side of her body hug she use to give me and she has been complying and cos of dat when she asks favor of me I always grant it.

mhiz:
The stomach looks like a big br*ast

ItsQuinn:
Because she's my idol

ItsQuinn:
my bad ....never had the idea you were gay though ...or are you a female?

ItsQuinn:
....if you really want to know more about me, why can't we meet in person?

ItsQuinn:
Oh! you can't blame me na ...Yea I'm a graduate

Mikylopez:
*smiles* tnx

ItsQuinn:
ahan?! This is very early for me oh! this is not normal for me, I normally wake up by 11am, i don't know why I'm waking up by this time....yea I'm lazy because i don't have anything doing, I'm jobless lolz......i don't know what you're talking about in the Bold statement?

ItsQuinn:
hahaha....people are different you know, and I'm one of the different ones, been living here for more than 8 years .....it's either you take it or leave it

Mikylopez:
errn fisher man u wantu to go and catch eja NLA. d bone might be too big for him to swallow better bite what u can chew .. he is not even fine see biko ndi quoters hapu'm aka biko

Luckygurl:

Lmao
Here's another perspective to the whole brouhaha


Oya Op!! Best advice ever, please go do the needful

ItsQuinn:
really? ...how you take know? you've not met all the people in my area though

ItsQuinn:
As in, how are people meant to take him seriously? Not everyone is religious, just like how I'm not religious ....the bible is total crap, I don't believe in that stupid book ....only few verses in the bible make sense tho ....but 70% of the bible is very unrealistic of today's world

braimeddy:
Are u really sure that the only reason both parents refused to give their blessings is because u guys re still young? Let me tell u d truth, I don't believe what u re saying.

ItsQuinn:
Lagos, lekki phase 2. What about you?

krissconnect:
Please take time and read this, your candid advice is needed.

I have a friend, a married woman who I can swear on her behalf is 100 and 1 percent committed to her husband and family. She has 3 kids of age; 4, 2 and some months respectively. Her husband is a wealthy businessman but strictly conservative when it comes to money. He always found it hard supporting the family financially, even the children school fees must be resolved in the court before he pays them. The little snacks(meatpie) business she initiated by herself was met with less or no attention husband. He never supported it, though he always lashed on her each time she buys new clothes for herself.

The woman is a pretty black attractive woman, who catches the eye of many men. Now she's in dilemma, she doesn't wanna cheat on the husband, but with the situation of things, she's at the brink of fouling herself. She told me too that she's only holding on because of her kids.

Fellow nairalanders, what advice have you to give to this woman on this mindblowing situation?
Matured minds please.
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