₦airaland Forum

dastroud:
how I wish I came from parents of same religion....tho love z blind u can't see the future in reality how it's gonna look like....I'll never repeat the mistake they made coz I don't want my children to pass thru what m passing thru ryt nw!

which of your both parent is the muslim or Christian?

Gaddafithe2nd:
In the Quran Muslim men are allowed to marry Christian ladies/women but Christian men are not allowed to marry our women. If her guardian doesn't allow you to marry please, look for a Christian lady.

selfish as usual

why must the under ware show during such fight lol ladies n their style of fight is truely a sight to behold if you want to laugh

since you said she is a nice person and doesn't deserve to be hurt I think you should let her go she has earned it with her decency..though I know how u feel cus have been there but there r som nice people who shouldn't pay for the mistakes of others..

Vickyydera:
GIVE LOVE A CHANCE AND YOU WONT REGRET IT. AM TALKING FROM EXPERIENCE!

SORRY LOVE DOESN'T EXIST IN REALITY IT DOESN'T, WE CONFUSE OBSESSION, LUST AND INFATUATION FOR LOVE...I keep saying it, most people are in a relationship cus of what they start to gain, be it cash, sex benefits or what got them attracted to that person n call it love...if they get those same thing or more from another person they switch n end up cheating on their partner..I stand corrected but CHEATING IS A TOOL USE TO KILL A DYING RELATIONSHIP..

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#52D017]°You mean my uh color?
...yep [/color]

YEAH, THOUGH THE OP SAID YOU WON'T CHANGE AND I FELT HE WAS LYING BUT AT THIS JUNCTION, MY LIPS ARE SEALED..ENJOY

garnet2:
When we Tell men not to fall in love..... They won't hear

When will Tell men "if you must fall in love then fall with your head and not your heart"..... They won't hear

When we Tell men" Be the boss of your relationship and call the shots"... They won't hear

When we Tell men that it is in our DNA to mate with multiple partners..... They won't hear, They will be forming Real, Gentleman, Nice guys to win women approval

When we Tell men our stories and ask them to learn from it..... They won't hear until they become victims

When we Tell men to stop spending on Girlfriends.... They won't hear, They will be forming Mr Responsible

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Anyways,.. Welcome to the club of the big boiz... Drink away your sins 'cos you have towed the path of self recovery and a player is born.

PUAs please join me and let's give a heartily welcome to our newest member!

YOU DESERVE A VACATION TO ANY PLACE YOU WANT...

BAR MAN MY BROTHER FROM ANOTHER MOTHER IS HERE PLS EMPTY THE WINE HOUSE AND BRING THEM HERE.

ilobasama:
OP thanks. Indeed a lot of lessons learnt. I also have learnt from my experience with ladies. The first is never compromise your hustle or future for her.

But i disagree on the part of side chick. If you love someone truly, then stay faithful no matter the outcome. Why do you want to become a cheat because someone cheated on you. Why will you wanna use people because others used you. Just stay focused and true to yourself and your dreams. You will still meet a lady thay will love you and complete you as a man.

Sorry about your experience. I feel your pain

SORRY

acxlers2014:
My experience buttresses the point that human nature is such that they look out for self first. I met, dated, proposed and did introduction with a lady in her thirties with the anticipation to marry her three months after that. Well I was charged up and ready to go and I was excited about the whole thing. She came over to my station in one of these northern states and she left after few weeks. I had thought everything was fine when I saw her off to the airport. Well a week after her attitude became funny, she started by asking for a postponement on the wedding, then she became very aggressive and later on she barred my numbers and started acting funny. Before I knew what was happening she started insulting me and saying different things about my capabilities as a man. Well by the grace of God I am a doctor in A government hospital and I own a flourishing practice in my domicile. Sadly no matter how much I tried she never seemed to be ready to come back. Well at a point in the deterioration of our relationship she returned my rings engagement and wedding bands and all the gifts I had given her
She was interviewed by her pastor, my pastor, my folks and she reiterated that she was not coming back. I did not relent even after all these but I had even a stronger resolve to carry on with the whole process. I thought it was a moment of temporary set back that maybe she may come through. How wrong was I. Several texts afterwards. She came out with a bold statement " MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE AS I HAVE MOVED ON WITH MINE". IT hurt but is didn't matter to me. Then the deal breaker.......... she sends me conversations between her and a guy who was chiking her via whatsapp and was professing his love to her and she was tripping. With the caption " I WOULD RATHER MOVE ON WITH THIS GUY, HE IS A BETTER MAN TO YOU". She calls up my folks and tell them that I should stay off her back as well as my siblings. That was the CLOSURE I needed and I must say it was a tough call.

As for her family, they supported their own.
Lessons learnt.
The truth is when it is gone don't fight it, just move
on.

Never put your eggs in one basket, the concept of a side chick for every guy is valid, it is for your sanity, little wonder our fathers always seemed to have one

Old women, middle aged women, girls and baby girls are all the same their psyche is way different maybe it has something to do with hormones.

Never stick to an opinionated women, you can't be so silly to think feminism can work in our society

Beautiful women always feel they have an option.

Lastly never compromise your hustle for a woman.

am always proud of my siggy when ever I read stories like this..I keep saying it, guy is not compulsory to have a side chick but is very important n necessary to have one to aviod stories that touch..is like going on a far journey without a spare tyre..
2.guys focus more on your hustle n don't compromise your dream for any girl because NO LADY WANTS A BROKE GUY NEITHER WILL THEY SETTLE FOR LESS.

I expect nothing less from an olosho bday, she should have made a condom n Love Machine cake so we can call it a wrap..oloshi

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#8ab2e2]and?.....Looocat yer face(no offense) [/color]

truely the spots on a leopard can never be removed lol enjoy

rosieluv:
really? its possible tho. Frm were?

I can't release. much info due to the fact that is a pub forum, but I guess maybe my (then sec school command or a camp gathering SF or an event) all in lag...I might be wrong though, cus we all v someone that looks like us somewhere.happy Sunday

[quote author=Kessythegeek post=46491857]lol see Film [/quote/] taking aa if you don't wan to be the star actress for the film

Vickyydera:
LEKWA NDI GROOMING, BROS ABEG I NO GET THAT KIND TIME.

onye ba ra gi...there is time for everything, just make out time for him, who knows he might become handy for you

Armanee:
Very possible... Especially if the guy isn't well endowed.

says who? leave that thing you are saying, if you can't back it up

christiese:
Can we talk About this, is it possible for a virgin not to bleed at first intercourse?






Lalasticlala

you are a lady so you should know better n enlighten us on that or didn't you bleed?

Vickyydera:
he is too young for me. Sorry I like chatting with matured guys.

why don't you groom him?

the heart in question has been replaced with a new one with no space for love either.

rosieluv:
dat ws abt six years ago,i wudnt term dem as sluts,evn afta evrytyn we stil tlk.

you kinda look like someone I know but I might be mistaken though

PoliticalThuG:
kingcheezypuff is smart and intelligent? Do u know her at all? Lol

nop not at all but at least after talking to her she picked a particular color and is more clearer than the other ones that were strenuous to the eyes.

EmtolalaaPRAISE:
If your bae hangs out with other guys together with her friends, and they go drinking, clubbing, shopping, yet she tells you that she's not doing anything, please my good people does it make sense?? Am talking of a regular outing...

Yet you won't be understood as a guy when you take your friends out and tell her nothing is happening?? Please your comments are valid!

I will be as cool as cool f.m after all is just outing and even if you tell her not to go, if she still wants to go she will, irrespective of what you say or think...just do your thing n don't bother yourself with what she will say or think cus that's what ladies do to pin a guy down from mixing with other female friends while they do the opposite..

farano:
Okay let me go straight to the point. This guy always check out my butt every time I walk past him. This evening he stared at it and called it a limousine. Don't know much about cars but I think I prefer Ferrari.
Don't know if I should be happy or not

e no get nyash self lol, no wander he called it limousine

not really cus it shows sex is the only thing you always v in mind but if you are going to visit the opposit sex n you know something might happen, the best thing is for you to go along with it..

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#D462FF]°Uuuuuhhh!!
You just spoil a persons fun!!
....OK! ......No more green![/color]

sorry about that and thanks for understanding...i know you are smart n intelligent girl..this is much better and make rhw color your own cus is better n I can read it clearly without stress.

NevetsIbot:
perfect!!!

my niggar am sure I spoke the mind of most nl guys here Abi I lie..after all what is love if one have more than eneough and cannot share or give to those who don't have.

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#7fe817]°You mean write in bold?
Wouldn't that catch and blind the eye the more?

*And I write in these colors cuz they pretty
...Don't you think so ?[/color]

is not my thing to insult ladies so I won't start now, but all I will say is this..they r pretty but with the right brain n use of it they will be much Prettier, sorry to say but your unique way of getting attention is sickening n like i said before is unhealthy to the eyes..just make it thick so one can see cus is affecting the eyes..be considerate for ones, later if i say some girls only think of themselves, they will end up crucifying me..but dear use a color that's okay to the eyes not the one that will make somone start straining his or her eyes to read.thanks

ForeverYoung197:
You drove them away simply because the conversation runs dry this is very common in men. They run out of topic and instead they will just listen rather than interacting.

statements like this baffles me..truth is this, if a girl is into a guy she will interact well with the guy even if he runs out of topic she will bring some up, another thing is that ladies love when guys lies about their fake life style, while some love the naughty kind of Congo...but all in all only few ladies can keep a convo going while the rest just act dumb

willace:
Hi guys
Am a marketer, I met this girl girl which I sold some goods for when we were discussing she was always laughing at everything I said, she seemed nice and we got along very well. So she collected my number to make sure I didn't scam her, she called me dat day to confirm the genuity of the product. she was kinda pretty so I just stored her number as a sharp guy but I didn't call her.

About two days later she called me and she was all gigly on phone. She told me she had my number but didn't know what to store it with( I didn't tell her my name before) so I told her my name. She seemed happy and she told me she would store the number. So I took that opportunity, I called her d next day and the day after that we just talked normally about work and all. So after that I stopped calling her, I just 4got abt her sef

About 2 weeks later she called me with another number telling me It was her watsapp number that I should store it. I said ok. Then I called her the next day she told me I just 4got about her dat its not fair
I apologized for not calling her cus I was busy(It was a lie) she said ok

Now the thing is dat am taking a liking to her but I didn't want to look desperate like all those other guys dats y I didn't call her and although she gave me her whatsapp number, I don't like wooing girls on whatsapp cus it seems lame to me, I only call her like once in a week. Am planning to take her out on a date on of these days.

Please guys I need tips on how to woo her

one advice, every build up emotions like this have expiring date, my advice is for you to quickly do the needful before she turns u to an assistant bf or worst still, friendzone you.

WebSurfer:
well, in as much as i dont think its just the car, im still wondering how you expect me to stop driving because of some random girls..

Solution please cause i'm pretty sure i'll soon have a knock on my gate. This is not the first or second time

I can see you really want a solution. ok then when they pay you a visit, just collect the number and drop it here, leave the rest to nl guys they will help you out n continue from there..how about that

na wa for the guy o, after gaining access to paradise he is still asking for escort again Hia..instead of him to leave what they wrote in the bus n enter the bus, he is looking for blood anyway maybe she is right, he didn't do it well...girls in the house is it true that if a guy don't do it well nothing will come out cus am curious?