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Houseofglam7:
Can't complain

ok I trust your night was good

kanmie:
My marriage is just three months old, my wife said I should get her a washing machine or else she will stop washing my clothes.
I don't know why the sudden change, this is a lady that do wash my clothes right, left and center when we were dating, there is no weekend that passed without her coming over to my apartment to do my laundry.
I never believe she will change so soon, the same lady that will call me and tell me Honey, keep your dirty clothes I will be coming over these weekend to wash them.
I have tried to know why the sudden change but no reasonable answer from her.
Offcourse I know I will get a washing machine but at least when the kids start coming, business is very slow , no money for washing machine at the moment.
I love my wife so much and I don't want to start having problem with her at this time, our marriage is still early and fresh.
What should I do in this matter?, Should I borrow to buy her a washing machine?

EDITED:
after reading some ladies comment I couldn't help shake my head n pray to God not to bring such ladies in my life.
OP the last time checked, you are the man of the house, you proposed to her and not the other way round..I il say three things to u.
1.do not I repeat do not borrow to please her cus once you do, you will end up borrowing just to please her once issues like this comes up.
2.she is your wife and I believe she has good characters which you must have taken note of before settling down with her.draw her close n politely explain things to her so she will understand.
3.put the washing machine into your budget plan,so it will be the first thing you get for her to make her chores more easier cus it helps a lot..finally let her know that she doesn't have to blackmail you before you grant her request cus it won't help the marriage.

for all those girls running their mouth like parrot just pray u marry a good husband cus if you carry this bad habit of yours n enter your husband house, I pray your case won't b like that of J.Lo who has been into several marriages..

tosyne2much:
Bwhahahahahahahahaha roflwkmd


How many people did you sample to place such a stereotypical belief on Mbaise ladies?

I don't need to sample much n is not just the ladies cus the guys as well do the same..they r nice set of people no doubt infact my best friend in uni is from mbaise..the only problem is that they r too cunny are Jesus those people r cunny..they will have but will act like they don't v n will ask u to pay for them or give them from your own..the day I found out my bestfriend is from there, I just change system o, started following him bumper to bumper..before he will ask i will ask first n if he claims not to have i will empty my pocket for him to see....they v the most pretty ladies but most of the ladies n there ladies will ask you for money stylishly, you won't know when you have emptied your pocket..that guy can't say am lying cus he knows s the truth..an average mbaise person is twice as smart as u r, the only problem is that they use it against people that's all.

drealnamdy:
Wow...I got this today

sorry bro I think u just crossed the friend zone border line..better luck next time

chrysso83:
U dey crase. Is ur village better than Mbaise? Are u better than any Mbaise person?

I agree I Dey craze..my village is better than mbaise..stop getting all worked up, everyone knows that mbaise people are the most cunning n self centered people on planet earth..if you r from there u know what am saying so stop fighting it..am not going to argue with you over an issue every igbo person most especially from owerri knows, so you can keep your anger to yourself.

onila:
he has no tattoos
no piercing
does not show his chest, six packs on social media
engineering degree
a job
no baby mama
handsome

just perfect ❤

some girls are just lucky

such a young goodlooking couple

https://scontent-ord1-1.xx.fbcdn.net/t31.0-8/10658811_10101504047803398_8304364380399979911_o.jpg

don't judge a marriage from afar, that's all I will say to you.

pattybf:
maybe she was d one in traffic. men sef, they r all d same, cheats!

take it easy madam!

n the person he is cheating with is a man abi mscheww...if u don't have anything to say just go n sleep...as for me i stop blaming all this men cus some of this women monitoring their husbands, if u check very well, they are the type that slept with other people husbands as well or cheat on their bf n forming faithful...after all weytin concern agbero with overload

wow, my fav wrestlers then especially ultimate warrior cus of his costume

op sorry but did they mix anything in your food or drink this night cus it is reacting seriously

mizzkweenbee:
Have known this guy for over 8 years now, though we avent been together all this while. He proposed, I accepted, he met my parents, then started avoiding my calls. Called severely but he wnt pick, even went to his place but he wnt see me. I moved on, after two months, he came bck apologising, that he had some challenges. I forgived him, the day he was suppose to come meet my people again to fix the introduction date, he stopped picking again. It's been weeks now, haven't heard from him since then

u need prayer, go n see a pastor

PrincessAnna:
The guy is wicked


Lol@ I can't wait to injure you...this guy na idiot

hahaha is the truth, forget all those things she is writing, na she go still use her leg go back n this time she will go prepared lol. highest she will tell him to take it easy unlike the last time.. have you meet your prince charming..

Houseofglam7:
Been hibernating

how have you been

in lag then we call it stick sweet if am not mistaken with the likes of babadudu n the rest

Belaqua:
@ OP

Ask her when her last cycle started, and when she is supposed to start her next cycle. You can take a test at least one day after your cycle is supposed to start, but they advise waiting 7-10 days after the cycle was supposed to start. Pregnancy tests are 95-99% accurate, but they can also show false positive - it says she's pregnant, but she isn't, just a mix-up.

Doctors say 14 days, because a woman usually ovulates 14 days BEFORE her cycle starts, but obviously all women are different, and maybe you had sex at the exact right time to fertilize her egg before her cycle started and flushed it away.

How long have you been dating? Do you trust her? It's also possible that someone else got her pregnant, she panicked, and is trying to make you think you are the father. I don't know your relationship, so I don't know if that's a possibility or not. If you can, I would take her to the doctor to be examined. They can give her a blood test to find out 100% if she's pregnant or not, and can also tell you approximately how long she has been pregnant via ultrasound (not sure if you have to wait for the baby to grow a bit first), and then it's just a matter of math to figure out when the pregnancy was started.

GOOD LUCK

op take this lady advice, she seems to be of help here

ummeey:
Continue posting your sins online. Sorry I cannot advice you. You should have seeked advice before sleeping with her.

HABA TAKE IT EASY OR IS SHE RELATED TO YOU

rebelXYZ:
This is my second post today. I'm sorry abt that, it's just that i want to take the opportunity of less busy day to share this and seek advice..

Me and my gf had sex last two weeks sunday, but barely nine days after, My girl was taking abt Abdominal pain blabla.. She said she's having the symptoms of pregnancy.. Hehehe mogbe! I said, babe, go for a Test to confirm, she said she did a urine test and it indicated postive. She said she's pregnant For me which i find surprising . Because I believe it takes 14days before a pregnancy test can give a positive which my doc confirmed.

Pls docs in the house, educate me.. I'm confused. Is it possible?

OGA SHE GET BELLE SHE GET BELLE,, IF YOU WANT PROVE JUST GO TO A CLINIC AND RUN A TEST..CONGRATS IN ADVANCE AS E DEY SWEET NA SO E DEY BITTER WITH STORIES LIKE THIS

kuuljay:
bross the thing just dey pain me,i have learnt my lesson the hard way,infact I feel good when they call me stingy right now

YES OOO NO TIME IF A GUY LIKE LET HIM SPEND HEAVEN AND EARTH THEY WILL STILL LEAVE YOU AND FORGET ABOUT THE GOOD THINGS YOU DID FOR THEM

Houseofglam7:
Biko, where's this fuckery coming from

WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN

uc4uandc:
Nasoo
i wake up this morning jeje,
Na im my girlfriend cum call me
talking to me in a cry voice and said;
"Baby,How much you get
for your account?"
I replied "N5000"
She cried in a loud voice said;
"Ewooh,i don finish. . .Na wetin
N5000 go cum do for three of us naah?"
Na im i cum dey wonder and cum ask say;
"Which three of us??. . . . . .Na only two of us dey
here so,i no understand"
Na im phone cum cut.
Abeg make i ask una wetin
this kyn talk cum mean??
Don't forget to like up this

HAHAHA SHE WAS THINKING OF KEEPING THE PREGNANCY BEFORE BUT THIS ANSWER WEY U GIVE AM NA REAL EWOOH LOL...OP START HUSTLING AND PLS SEND ME INVITE WEN JUNIOR COMES INTO THIS WORLD

THAT GUY IS AN ASS ANYWAY SHE HAS HER FAULT BY POINTING IT OUT THAT IS ONLY SEX SHE CAN OFFER HIM...IF I SAY IT NOW THAT IS ONLY SEX MOST LADIES OFFER IN A RELATIONSHIP THEY WILL COME FOR MY NECK BUT THEIR FELLOW JUST STATED THIS CLEARLY

kekakuz:
got back home from work yesterday and was a little tired so I slept off without calling my love for the night.I had barely slept 2 hours when her call came in.
she asked why I did not call all day and how was my day. told her I was a little busy .she said no wahala hope you are not too tired?
I replied MY SISTER I no too tire hare.
she relied WHAT? what did you call me?
I was like what do you mean
she said did you just call me your sister?
I said well yea. my sister as in just casual way of referring to a lady. is there a problem with that?
she asked "you don't see a problem with that?
I said No
she said OK. and cut the call.

seriously I don't see anything wrong with that. I love her like I love my sister but why is she taking it wrongly. she has been rejecting my calls. pals what do you make of this?

op haven't you heard of the word drama queen ? that's what some of them are

naijamakossa:
LOL this is funny but I must say this..

guys will be like'' guy you don bleep that girl already?
come gist me my guy,how it take happen

and they will start asking some funny question like

guy wen u dey bleep her she cry?
she sabi work.?
she sabi do position?
she enjoy the thing...?

LOL I come begin dey wonder wat we guys derive from hearing all those things

so girls do you also do this?

ANY LADY WHO HAS NOT TALKED ABOUT HOW GOOD HER MAN IS, LET HER THROW THE FIRST STONE AND QUOTE ME CU LADIES DO THIS, THOUGH THEY HAVE A STYLISH WAY OF ASKING.

no big deal there, i prefer mine smooth n clean

mrsheddy:
Hello nairalanders. I greet you all. I don't know if here is the right place to post this oo but I believe the mod will do d needful. Now to the point. There is this omalicha I have been disturbing for the past 3weeks now but finally she agreed to give me a chance after much toasting. But the problem now is that I don't know how to show love or even care to a woman. We both live in Abuja but not the same area. I don't even know how to start oo. ever since she said yes all I keep asking myself is'what next and how do igo about it. Pls NLs I need ur guidance and advice oo.
this is my first time of falling in love.

lord have mercy for this lost soul that have fallen in love

for the advice you seek, just be yourself, caring and understanding and let things flow o n before i forget( whispers in his ears) have a side chick too cus u will need it in the future, since you have fallen in love..thank me later

OP WHAT I WILL TELL YOU IS THIS. THE DEVIL WEARS PRADA.

YOUR GIRL SHOWED YOU HER TRUE SELF WHEN THINGS BECAME DIFFICULT FOR YOU N STICKED AROUND CUS SHE KNOWS YOU STILL HAVE THE POTENTIAL TO MAKE IT AND IS HARD TO FIND GOOD MEN AROUND, WHICH IS WHAT MOST LADIES THIS DAYS DO BY HAVING GOOD LOVING BF AND STILL FLIRT AROUND WITH THE RICH MEN OUT THERE TO SATISFY THEIR MATERIAL NEEDS.. ALL I WILL SAY TO YOU IS THAT YOU DESERVE BETTER..YOU CAN TAKE IT OR LEAVE BUT DON'T I REPEAT DON'T MARRY ANY LADY OUT OF PITY CUS YOU WILL REGRET IT

IF LADIES SAY THIS GUY IS STINGY I WON'T DOUBT IT CUS TRULY HE IS STINGY NOT THAT THREAD THAT A GIRL BROUGHT HER TWO FRIENDS ON A DATE MEANT FOR ONE AND CALLING HIM STINGY FOR NOT PAYING THEIR MOVIE TICKET.

HAHAHAHA I CAN BET MY ONE CUP OF GARRI AND SUGAR THAT SHE WILL CME BCK FOR MORE, NO BE LADIES AND GOOD SEX AGAIN.

BrideOfDracula:
What, is that a stitch on her ass or what?

yea is a stitch.

i would lye next to her and comfort her .

Beamborla:
what happens when members of your specie often fail to see beyond the sex? when the little things the females in their lives do for them on a daily basis because you see those things as their duties often go un-noticed? The lady must be a superwoman before she can be called a 'good' lady especialy in this part of the world.

Yes, some ladies have no shame when it comes to expenses. lets call a spade a spade our society is not fair to ladies.

quite alright the society is not fair to ladies but the truth is most ladies are not helping matters at all..is only when the time for marriage reach there head will now calm down and start working on their characters but in most young relationship, the lady believes once she offer sex to her guy, she has done her own bidding in the relationship which is wrong....if you read deep you will notice he said something similar to that but this particular girl proved him wrong..ask yourself this question, is this the only girl he has dated for him to realize all this now?

WHIZKIDEFE:
The girl suppose know say 2 na company, 4 na crowd.. Is that how she accompany those her friends to their dates? Mthcheeew.. If e easy, she for pay for her followers(friends) na..

schumastic, monalisa185,kuuljay,nnmadiokere45,henrydadon, rexhenrex, ifex370,israel5, mayorkyzo.. I hail o. Ona comments make lwkm..

my brother i dey hail you too, this girls want to kills us before our time

Boss13:
She truly doesn't know what a first date is and likewise many Nigerian ladies. I am shocked at her and the fact she keeps referring to the money. It is not about the money, but her irresponsibility to include her friends on a date where she is expected to get to know the guy.

She is in fact ridiculous. Good, she has embarrassed herself. My own pity is her friends who shared out of the irresponsibility of their friend.

LADIES WILL SAY THEY ARE NOT AFTER THE MONEY OR THE MONEY S NOT THE ISSUE BUT STILL THEY WILL CENTRE THE WHOLE ARGUMENT OF QUARREL ON THE MONEY N TAG THE GUY STINGY.TO ME IF MONEY IS NOT THE ISSUE THEN THERE IS NO POINT TALKING ABOUT IT TALK MORE OF BRING IT UP TO THE PUBLIC.