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Yuneehk:
None

fear god

flexyfit:
that of Abia I kinda agree...Imo is true...but the sex own....is NO....they don't love sex more than their life...Enugu own....I concur....

imo for life

MRBrownJ:
as much as you are entitled to your opinion, only a very simple person would agree to your explanation.. but hey, i believe that its because people still reason the way you do that women would try to prove you wrong, and gladly cheat.

hahaha you again they cheat cus they want to. it has nothing to do with the way i reason or not.

cuteraeh:
Maybe he has gone to Ghana

is that where you go to when ever you want to go hiding?

MRBrownJ:
pls care to tell us why/where/what/how it is so? or why it would be understandable for men but not for women?!

it's a man's world that's why, though is bad but that is just the painful truth

MRBrownJ:
women cheat for the EXACT same reasons as to why men cheat

sorry but that of the men is understandable

Hadez:
Sorry I don't cheat

I never said you were, even though I still find your statement hard to believe though.

Yuneehk:
In other words, you're cute right?
Anyways, its probably the fact that unlike poles attract .So its okay for "ugly girls" to get attracted to "handsome guys" like you of course.

epic reply

Most women have been taught since childhood to be "good little girls", "behave like a lady", and "grin and bear it”.

Fast forward to the 21st century, where women are now allowed to be tough, to say NO, to speak their mind, to become CEO's and to enjoy sex.

Some men like the fact that women are able to "talk the talk" and "walk the walk" while others feel intimidated by it. Without a doubt, this change has had a great impact on relationships between men and women, specifically the actions and behaviors of women.

Although women are not exceeding men in cheating, they still have emotional affairs and sex behind their man’s back. However, when a woman cheats, she is usually cheating for emotional intimacy while a man usually cheats for physical pleasure.

Women want to feel desired, wanted and irresistable. Considering how far women have come to this world, from a man’s rib, entering the workforce, becoming professionals, breadwinners of the family, and now getting their needs met even if it means cheating.

These are the major reasons I was able to come up with.

1. Lack of attention and intimacy:
How long can you go without receiving love and attention before you look somewhere else, days, weeks or years? However, in general, women need and desire intimacy, physical touch, and mental and emotional attention.
If you are not receiving this from your husband or boyfriend, it will only be a matter of time and you may seek it from another i.e. a caring guy friend, the attentive guy who feeds your emotional needs at your school or workplace. Women deprived of attention, compliments, and compassion; usually have emotional affairs. That doesn't mean it won't lead to sex, but initially they crave the attention and compassion that has been absent from their relationship.

2. Revenge:
Being cheated on is a very difficult act to forgive. For those of you who have been cheated on, you know how awful it feels. You feel deceived, hurt, angry, sad and even violated. It also affects your self-esteem. At the moment, you find out your man cheated, your whole body begins to shake, you begin to sweat, your stomach drops, and you feel like the whole world is crashing on you.
Clearly, it negatively affects your relationship, your mood, behavior, and your ability to trust the cheater ever again. When you have been cheated on, some of you may want to get revenge by making them feel the way you felt. This can lead you, to do the cheating next. The biggest truth is that cheating never solves a relationship problem. Communication, increasing passion and romance in your relationship are a much better solution.

3. Bad sex:
Women need to feel desired and experience REAL orgasms during sex. If women are getting bad sex, not enough sex, non-emotional sex, she may eventually lose interest in the relationship and look elsewhere for GOOD sex! This creates a temptation to seek sexual or emotional satisfaction elsewhere. In my opinion, it's best to communicate your needs to your man with the hopes that he will step up his game.

4. Low self-esteem:
When you feel insecure about yourself, you have a need to seek validation from others. This can be in the form of sexual, emotional, or intellectual attention. When you don't love or value yourself, you may project that onto the person you are in a relationship with, and believe they don't love or value you. Even if your husband or boyfriend loves you greatly, you still may cheat because you find it hard to accept their unconditional love.

To crown it all, a lady that wants to cheat will still end up cheating. it all boils down to self decision

janengozi:
to be serious I like it small

no wahala, every mallam with his own kettle n how is anambra

2dugged:
whether I looked for his trouble or not,doesn't give any man the right to hit me,it's no excuse o,I am glad I broke up with him,it was just domestic violence in waiting

yeah i get you.. not in support of any man hitting females generally but ladies to try as well not to provoke or test their man..ladies some times go over board in handling issues with their man but that's not enough reason to hit a lady..

Dunexxx:
I changed my mail, so I didn't get ur reply.

mail me with davidaaah@gmail.com

aii no p

Dunexxx:
what's up?

I want ur email

that's my mail which i used in replying your pm's

2dugged:
my brother, It was like a flash of light that sent me falling to the ground like a pack of cards,no man had ever hit me before, I wonder how some women bear kicks and punch from men,ordinary slap I saw darkness for 5 seconds, hopefully that was the first and last,I can't bear o

you self am sure you looked for his trouble or tried to test his patience

2dugged:
possessive guys have the tendency to become physically and verbally abusive like my ex,na so the guy land me slap one time,I see stars,i nor remember the last time wey my mama beat me,na from that day I begin dey withdraw till I finally see chance pull slippers from my leg whisk like usain bolt,I nor get body wet man go panel beat o

this got me laughing

Aisha96:
It's no wonder a large percentage of He-romancelanders are utterly dumb. They are as dull as the blunt edge of an ancient rusted knife.

All they do all day is to critically analise how to score an imaginary girl. A girl they would only get to lick the soles of her feet in their deepest fantasies.

After, when their advances are rejected, they ferociously attack any female nairalander in close range, thinking she is the creator of their woes.

Smh pitifully.

miss Aisha was going to say something as regards your annoying statement but decided not to..next time say a small percentage cus not every guy that comes in here come with intent to woo..some ladies say worse thing here

layla129:
Thanks Op *taking a bow*

tell him you have a bf so he won't die of heart ache

abeg who get seun number i wan collect my change for zobo wey i buy from him hand ..

Martins301:
My guy said he wanted to purchase something at the pharmacy close to our abode so I grabbed a T-shirt and off we went. We got there and I decided to stay outside while he went to the counter to buy whatever it was he wanted. He got to the counter and no one was there so he raised his voice and asked that someone should get him a pack of condom. 15 seconds later na so Ikechi bring condom come give my guy



Ikechi is one fine babe he has been asking out

hahaha can imagine the look on your guy's face, am sure he would wish the ground can open up and swallow him..if i was him, would just call you to come and collect your package

i know what he told him...o boy pick one from this top 8 most beautiful nairaland babes

Dunexxx:
cool but they didn't invite u to stay or visit?

u sound like someone s chasing u

lol naa that period was school calendar time so virtually all was in school, reason i spent just a day n left the next day for camp.

truth is this; all pu**y are the same but they come in different flavor.. by the way who real man don help? cus there is no guarantee that the so called gf won't cheat on him or is not cheating on him for being a real man..

cara06:
To all the stingy and broke guys, this girl on Facebook has this to say:

see her face like someone that rub sheri

Berlyn:
baby cuffer

you look like one though

PunkyV:
Hahaha. Ok. Can you drop the towel?

hahahaha for what you want to go blind ni

Dunexxx:
u wuda stayed longer if we were friends then.
I'd prolly be in lag next month. I visit and chill with ma cousins in ikoyi

o cool though i got female friends in abj as well

PunkyV:
Seductive squirter Can I get a towel?

wow lol n i bet you do nd i would v loved to pass you a towel but am using it at the moment

Dunexxx:
yes

been there just once during my service time in Niger..had to drop by at abj spent a day there though.

Dunexxx:
Yes!
in person, on facebook, on bbm and whatsapp?
Y u askin?

just curious that's all..so you in abj right

Dunexxx:
aii enjoy ur day dude!

hmm no offense but do you know evegran?

Dunexxx:
yeah u look like someone I know.

Pls put back ur full number, pple might wanna reach u.

I live in Abuja but visit lag often.

lol if they want to they will simply pm me, i guess that's why they created that in the first place..by the way is a small worl but your face doesn't look familiar at all though