Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland Contest 2016 - Nomination & Verification Thread by schumastic(m): 10:56pm On Apr 17, 2016 |
Monalisa185: lol, chuma, hapu godu nke anwu, leegodu anya na signature'm, kedu ife ilo? I don't know her but will check her out |
Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland Contest 2016 - Nomination & Verification Thread by schumastic(m): 10:03am On Apr 17, 2016 |
Monalisa185: schumastic baba, Nna bia ka anyi karia ezigbo uka....ututu oma  asa nwa, a kpo la aha gi..e cho ri je church, o kwa ya lol... |
Romance › Re: Girls Share The Horrible Things Guys Have Done To Them by schumastic(m): 12:07am On Apr 17, 2016 |
ngobaby23: Hmm.. My own story. I've had only two boyfriends which I loved dearly and stupidly. The first was emotionally abusive. Always comparing me to my best friend.. Saying she has bigger boobs and all that. Then always treating me with breakups then I'd cry and beg him. But when I got some sense I broke up with him.. Because he was destroying my self esteem. The second guy I dated I was so much older.. In my between 21 and 23..i loved him he loved me.. We were planning on our future and all that.. We were good till one day.. He sent me a text telling me he wanted out without no reason. I felt like a knife was pierced through my heart.. As I'm writing now I feel so much pain. It was latter that he told me cos of my health challenge that made him leave. Me. From 2013 till today, I've not dated anybody. I've lost that ability to love. But I still believe in love. believe not |
Romance › Re: I Too Love Igbo Guys by schumastic(m): 6:48pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
MrCork: Austistic man....are u IBO?...so why are u nagggin like she-goat...the beaurrriful babe asked me a question & then u jump in like kangarooo....I live in South London, Pekam not too far from Brixton Prision (South London)...98% of Nigerians in ther are IBO..how did i no?..well one of the prison guards, a nigerian is my neibour!!!  and he told you all 98% Nigerians in there are ibo and are linked to fraud right.please only a kid will believe that, why don't you come up with something better cus i don't believe that poo..the only hegoat here is you and the bolded part affirmed that. |
Romance › Re: I Too Love Igbo Guys by schumastic(m): 6:27pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Dating A Shorter Guy by schumastic(m): 5:45pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
layla129: Yeah, i was like you sis...always wanting taller guys. I've learnt to understand that there's more to a person than their physical appearance( i learnt in a hard way). I'm presently dating a guy i'm slightly taller than...its no biggie. And i can tell you he is the best guy i have ever dated so far. The question is, does he love you for real? Do you love him? If yes, go ahead. You have my blessings 
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Romance › Re: She Wants Me To Deflower Her; Don't Know How To Go About It! by schumastic(m): 4:42pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
SillyeRabbit: Lol...At a glance, you can tell OP is a liar. How could a girl at 26 now give in to have with you when it's obvious she's keeping it for marriage. What could have convinced her about you since you met not too long ago and to the extent of asking you to deflower her. Don't know what you guys gain by posting sh!t like this. my bro i was thinking a guy would do anything to hit a girl, but on nairaland a guy would do anything to hit FP with lies that scares the devil himself.
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Romance › Re: When Did U Loose Hope In True Love by schumastic(m): 4:34pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
ifeajikap: shuma awfa i dey bro, hope you are good. |
Romance › Re: I Like Igbo Men That Like Girls by schumastic(m): 4:18pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
onila: some igbo guys are so cocky, they think its all abt work, money or I am an igbo man I am only meant to work not play
makes them so sexy,when they like girls and less intimidating well that's true, is in our gene already. money comes first so we don't fall short of our responsibilities.
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Romance › Re: I Like Igbo Men That Like Girls by schumastic(m): 4:16pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
onila: some igbo guys are so cocky, they think its all abt work, money or I am an igbo man I am only meant to work not play
makes them so sexy,when they like girls and less intimidating |
Romance › Re: She Wants Me To Deflower Her; Don't Know How To Go About It! by schumastic(m): 4:06pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: See what this little Child was caught doing on camera! by schumastic(m): 3:51pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
misspicy see the reason why you should be careful when taking selfie around kids  this one don copy you now
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Romance › Re: What Does He Hope To Achieve? by schumastic(m): 3:28pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
Godsgal: it hasn't gotten 2 d stage where u haul insults around, ok. So pls, nxt time. Apply sense wen commenting. KIDS EVERYWHERE truth they say is bitter. if what i said got you, then too bad cus there is no other way i can sweet coat it. meanwhile, i did applied sense over my previous comment and that's why i went soft on you.the only kid here is you cus i don't see the reason why you can't ask him what his intentions are all because of your selfish and self centered attitude of not losing the benefits that comes from him..do i blame you? no, why? is a typical naija babe mentality to always have a maga around to foot the bill.after all said if you like get angry not my business cus you already got me pissed with the selfish thread already.
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Romance › Re: What Does He Hope To Achieve? by schumastic(m): 2:00pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
Godsgal: I applied for this Job while i await service so i won't be idle and i met this guy who works @ my workplace but not the same office. He has been overly caring & too kind to me since the day he sets his eyes on me. He buys me lunch & sets it on my desk even before i realise it is time for lunch. He helps ease the tension while working in the office cos' he comes around often to make me laugh. He takes me out on weekends & calls like 5 times a day(i am not exaggerating). He has not said anything to me yet and i have been playing along( praying in my heart that it continues this way til the end), but being the 'no- kid' that i am, twice i've been tempted to ask him what he hopes to achieve in doing all these but my fear is that he might withdraw or spill the 'dreaded beans' and trust me, in as much as i enjoy his company, i do not want to be intimate with him. So, pls what do i do? Do i keep feigning ignorance? Matured response pls. see them causing problems for themselves  if only i can get in touch with this guy and let him know about your wicked intentions. what you need do is leave the guy alone if you can't ask him what his intentions are, so he will know his faith.
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Romance › Re: How Many Ex Boy/girl Friends Do You Have so far? by schumastic(m): 12:08pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
Michizzy: You are entitled to your thoughts.  Btw. What's wrong with you guys. A girl says the truth, u don't believe, she lies, you still don't believe. Not all girls are liars you know... hey hey hey sweet, never said all girls are liars but most girls choose to reduce the number of guys they have been with which is the fact.
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Romance › Re: . by schumastic(m): 11:57am On Apr 15, 2016 |
CaroLyner: school takes da toil on me  thought as much..hope you are good and nice hairdo  |
Romance › Re: See Photos Of The Plus Sized Bride Who Got Married To A Charming Young Man by schumastic(m): 11:54am On Apr 15, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: I Like Guys That Dont Like Bj's, Anal. .I Will Marry You Without Thinking! by schumastic(m): 5:15pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
kaziblake: BJ and anal is a no for me I can't imagine myself giving head hmmm
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Romance › Re: How Many Ex Boy/girl Friends Do You Have so far? by schumastic(m): 5:10pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
Michizzy: 1 serious relationship 3 short relationships.
4 exes. That's much I guess sorry but can we do the normal math on it cus there is this saying that if a girl says she dated only one guy then multiply it by 3. so yours should be 12 right? |
Romance › Re: . by schumastic(m): 5:07pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: My Sister And Her Boyfriend Just Got Engaged, Help Me Wish Them Well(pics) by schumastic(m): 4:59pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Are You Currently Cheating On Your Partner? If Yes?, Why? by schumastic(m): 4:39pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
how about those who don't have a gf but keep female friends, is that cheating as well?
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Romance › Re: To Maintain Your Virginity In Campus Is A Great Achievement. by schumastic(m): 1:40pm On Apr 14, 2016 |
Adaure4ever: 2 Top question that a boy should not ask a girl. 1. Are you a virgin 2. How old are you. Lols after creating this thread with such passion of words, you should be able to answer that question except if you preach what you don't practice. The only part i fault you, is where you mentioned the ladies giving it out for cheap food and recharge cards, some do it cus they want to and in love with the person they had it with so don't get it twisted.thanks |
Romance › Re: Is It Alright For A Girl To Masturbate? by schumastic(m): 12:55am On Apr 14, 2016 |
Julietcutie: Yea I am.. what about you? same dear cus my night was made great |
Romance › Re: Is It Alright For A Girl To Masturbate? by schumastic(m): 10:54pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: When Did U Loose Hope In True Love by schumastic(m): 7:20pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
MRBrownJ: you see the love you have for your parents/family?! then the day you feel the same way about a partner then you wont be too far from TRUE love (if you have a fukced r/ship with your family then disregard this) IMHO, love and true love is mostly the same thing, with slightly different intensity/aim. love has levels, there is the love for a buddy, then love for family/friends, which has the same intensity as the love for a partner... and then there is that extra push where true love finds itself... where your own being as an individual doesnt matter as much as what you guys are sharing. you cant find true love before finding love, and it is simply the obvious result when the LOVE plant has been watered right. its an emotion where you elevate to a state of mind where that feeling takes over and overlooks some things that love may not. see these old people who 1st loved each other for a certain reason (physical/emotional etc) and then after few decades, they havent got that physical anymore but yet are still deeply loving one another? they've elevated to that true love state of mind state, where you guys are TRULY one.
its easy to love and accept a person because of a few details about them, but finding that person that connects with you, to the point where you can let go of yourself, open up yourself, fully and that everything about them makes sense in your life, isnt easy.
sadly many african brothas cant trust a person fully enough to remotely fall in love with anyone. i wish we can see one on one and have this convo..meanwhile from your definition i see where you are actually coming from and my reason why i still stand on my ground... like you said up there about finding that person that would make you experience ''true love'' is hard and to me, the chance is 1% cus of the sacrifices required by both party to make it stand the test of time..another thing i will like to draw your attention is the fact that is not a one sided thing meaning both have to give it their all, not where one party is giving his or her all and the other is not. Also in this current world we are in, if we leave sentiment and face the realities in life, we would understand more about the true love itself.. if you ask a person to describe the person he or she would want to spend the rest of their life with, they would come up with a list and image of what they want that person to look like and possess in characters and possessions.meanwhile, they forget the fact that such a person may not want them as the someone who they would like to spend the rest of their life with as well.. ''sadly many african brothas cant trust a person fully enough to remotely fall in love with anyone.'' to me is not the africa brothers ish but a general issue and not only brothers but sisters as well cus often times they must have trust someone in one way or another but got disappointed at the end.. reason they find it hard to trust..a friend once told me ''IS GOOD TO TRUST BUT IS BETTER NOT TO'' and i agree with him. true love and trust go hand in hand but if you ask a person can you trust the person you are dating? you will get mixed answers but deep within those that say yes, you will notice an atom of doubt in them... Psalms 118:8 - It is better to trust in the LORD than to put confidence in man. Micah 7:5 - Trust ye not in a friend, put ye not confidence in a guide: keep the doors of thy mouth from her that lieth in thy bosom. that's for saying i don't know much about the bible..like i said earlier would have preferred a one on one argument on this to learn one or two.. atletico and barca match is next  |
Romance › Re: Lets Play A Game! Find A Nairalander Close To You by schumastic(m): 5:52pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Is It Alright For A Girl To Masturbate? by schumastic(m): 5:49pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
Julietcutie: mtcheww your mouth will long there  and i don't have the strength for e quarrel now so
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Romance › Re: Is It Alright For A Girl To Masturbate? by schumastic(m): 4:46pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
Julietcutie: be deceiving urself HOW AM I DECEIVING MYSELF OR DID YOU FIRST US? MEANWHILE JAMES BROWN HAVE THIS TO SAY
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Romance › Re: Lets Play A Game! Find A Nairalander Close To You by schumastic(m): 4:38pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
rosieluv: hehehehehehe,nt funny I DIDN'T SAY THAT TO MAKE YOU LAUGH CUS AM NOT A COMEDIAN BUT HE IS 
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Romance › Re: Lets Play A Game! Find A Nairalander Close To You by schumastic(m): 4:05pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
rosieluv: its ur business,i stay in lag,if i aint in lag,am either in benin city or ibadan CALM DOWN, WE ARE NOT FIGHTING JUST WANT TO BE CLEAR ON WHAT I NOTICED BY THE WAY CAN SEE YOU HAVE A BIT OF GENE TRAIT TO BUHARI WITH YOUR TRAVELINGS 
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Romance › Re: When Did U Loose Hope In True Love by schumastic(m): 4:02pm On Apr 13, 2016 |
MRBrownJ: it doesnt matter, NOT all r/ship will end up as being gifted with true love. the catch is to never give up on finding it.
again, ALL r/ship have conditions. true love is like a plant that needs to be watered with the right ingredients. if you dont water true love, it simply dies out. if you actually think that true love will last forever, regardless of the actions of the people involved, then i can safely say that you have no idea what true love is. WHAT IF YOU EVENTUALLY DON'T FIND IT, CAN ONE FINALLY SAY IT DOESN'T EXIST? IF YOU DO FIND IT AND ALL OF A SUDDEN IT DIES DOWN, WILL YOU STILL CALL IT TRUE LOVE OR A CONFUSED ONE? FINALLY WHAT IS YOUR OWN DEFINITION OF TRUE LOVE? MAYBE THEN I CAN UNDERSTAND WHERE YOU ARE COMING FROM. |