₦airaland Forum

Damibiz:
Imagin,is that how u want to achieve Ziafra ?...no respect for elders at all

Elder that is blinded with hatred and jealousy, is that one elder? Since when did succession defined as a drum of war? Only in Nigeria, Elder pls go back to school.

Damibiz:
All the people shouting Biafra here biafra there on NL are less 30yearz,let me ask u,what is ur personal contribution toward achieving biafra ?....go nd look for smthing gainful nd do.
They was Biafra,nd it died 50yearz ago......
Dont try to qout me...bcus if u do

look at this slowpoke

MediumStout:
The federal government should give kanu 50 million naira and a plot of land in Abuja and watch him abandon biafra agitations. Kanu has a price, he can be bought. He's already sounding tired and defeated in his recent speeches. Giving him money will make him patriotic to Nigeria. Then we can move ahead and face our dear country Nigeria and ensure biafra will never come

who told you everyone is hungry like you. You call Nigeria your country, dis yeye country without future. SHAME

Benekruku:
You said it all!

no mind them, ndi ara

sarrki:
Its because of your insanity your Excellency

Governor Nnyesom wike said only insane people will not be happy and rejoice with Baba recovery and coming back to the country safe

Go and sit down afo anu, truth is bitter.

jashar:
you're not yet married.
you're living together.
your 'future sister-in-law' even had the effrontery to pack load and come stay with you guys.
her parents know you're not yet married and they let another child of theirs come and live with you.
there's a young child also living with you and getting certain impressions.
Na wa ooo...

who told you that they're not married? na must say person go do church wedding? Once you don pay dowry, my brother you've married says the bible.

Jahblessme:


Gosh!! where do i start from What kind of local story is this?

1. Your wife should have discussed with you first before her sister visited you both-she was very wrong but everything after that made you look so petty.You were counting water used to bathe and asking your cousin helper to report to you first? If she wants to eat eggs will that also be reported to you?Do you also measure yam with ruler in your house?
Your actions have sown a very bad seed - belittling your SIL & your wife.I do not blame your wife for being very angry but she should have cooled off first and expressed her annoyance to you without flaring up.

Just a quick question OP,if your sister visits and your wife tells your little cousin to report to her first before doing anything she asks for nko?How would that sit with you?Just know your wife will never forget,be ready for your siblings to recieve the same hot soup

Yes,you should have been told before her sis landed ,but the deed had already been done.You should have controlled yourself instead of acting like a miserable being.What did your SIL do wrong?she probably thought she was coming to visit human beings who would treat her well not knowing her husband is a hot water measurer
Best approach would have been to discuss the issue with your spouse quietly.See disgrace!



Your wife raised her voice,you raised your own too,asked her to leave your room.'Yoour Room'??!!! i thought you both are married? I cant even believe what i'm reading here.
In the same sentence you talked about not wanting to be a woman beater.I do not see any reason why beating should come into this abi you normally beat or you were raised by a beater?Violence should not be an option.ah ahhh!!!


Both of you displayed shameful behavior and i don't blame your SIL for leaving,you disgraced her infront of your cousin helper,you disgraced your wife,your wife as disgraced you & you have made her feel unwelcome. Tueh
She will go and tell the story to family members who already don't like you and you will officially enter hate list with tattered reputation.

Please do the world a favour and delay this wedding till you both learn to behave like adults.


If you want to be the leader of your home you must learn to conduct yourself with dignity and self respect.You have to lead by example.
Discussions can be had without raising of voices.If your wife starts to shout,tell her you won't listen till she calms down and addresses you like an adult.I also expect her to do the same to you.That way you both will learn to trust each other and start building your little unit,she will also stop seeing the need to tell every little deed to her family as you will become her best friend and confidante.

Normally you should be in honeymoon phase but you people are already acting like cat and dog.
Good luck o.






By the way the way you worded little cousin and 2 big pots are you trying to imply that the girl is too little to do chores in general or specifically chores for SIL? If she is little,ideally she shouldn't be in your home doing housework.

God bless you, let's call a spade a spade the guy is at fault here and should grow up.

yomi007k:
So u prefer dey get married n later get a divorce?


I don't concur. If it was me, I wud postpone the wedding.

how can you postponed a wedding of 7days time after all the invitations and preparations in this recession? This issue is resolvable, both of them needs counselling, the guy shouldn't have told her cousin not to do anything for his sister in law without his permission, its uncalled for, the wife too on the other hand reacted based on that but she went too far. The matured person there is the sister in law, The man too is bossy and its not good in marriage. let's call a spade a spade

asuustrike2009:
And the Bible teaching doesn't mention white wedding either. If the church decided to adopt it then they must have derived their rules from the scriptures on marriage. If intending couple are not willingly to follow,they should opt out as is not a sin to not to have church wedding but becomes sin if the dowry isn't paid

Exactly, that's the point I'm try to make.

701ecilana:
Hmmm. Must they wed in church? If wedding in church is nonsense, then don't go there. Everywhere has it's rules, if you have an opposing view, you leave for where agrees with you.

i Neva said church wedding is nonsense, I said some churches, you said everywhere has its rules, what happens to teachings in the bible, they should follow the bible teachings and not this act of discrimination. God is merciful and kind, God is love, God is the head of the church, bible is our guild, anyway na dem business, no be the gullible ones dem fit teach nonsense.

Yuneehk:
Stop having sex. You even wrote that once you stay away from sex, your face goes back to normal. Might be a sign that you're supposed to be a monk sev. Consider it

No No it can't be me, I will not take it. laugh wan kill me

701ecilana:
Am not against Dowry sir, No. But did they pay the dowry before the pregnancy?

You should know that before one is planning to wed in the church, everything about dowry which is regarded as traditional wedding has been taking care of. Why will some churches prevent one from wedding because of pregnancy. Nonsense

analice107:
Hahahahahahahahaha.
I smell Catholic. If you don't commit the sin of fornication, how will you get pregnant?

I was waiting for you to bring up scriptures to back up your OP.

Bible says pay her dowry not church wedding. Once you've paid her dowry its no longer fornication. Read your bible very well. church wedding is a choice and for me its just a waste of resources

Libo45:
Must the wedding be done in a church? If it's against their laws, honor their laws and jejely go to a court for statutory marriage, simple. We too like stress as Nigerians

As long as you have paid her dowry as stipulated in the bible, you are free to bleep your wife. church wedding is not recognize in the bible.

Wesporting:
Shina Peller richer than E-money...we have so many rich people in Nigeria they don't make mouth or live their life on social media.

who ask you? go and make your own money, fluent it if you like Ode

sarrki:
KANU and ipob miscreants should learn from this

History is good

God bless federal republic of Nigeria

At your age you still believe succession is equal to war, aboki mind

NwaAmaikpe:



Not surprised...
How do you expect something real from a fake person.

How did he know it's fake? by mere looking at the picture abi? Hushpuppi or whatever his name is can never see anything good in Kcee, so this is clear picture of HATE. beside e no concern any of you if he is fake or real.

sarrki:
Nah today mosques and church dey block road ?

shut up don't bring church to this Rubish

nextprince:
One day we go just see say dis man don pull shirt enter market.

On one hand, you were reliably informed the picture was taken during Ramadan, and on the other hand it was photoshopped. Which of the two? Photoshopped or Ramadan pic? And which of the Ramadans? The immediate past or the previous?

This is the same man who swore with his life that Aisha Buhari dared not visit The States only to start talking of diplomatic immunity when she later visited as if the concept of the so-called diplomatic immunity wasn't in existence when he was barking upandan. Funny as this sounds, he has followers, mostly from the wandering Jewish tribes.

Anyway, his fellow unchained mad dogs are always praising him, that may be the driving force.

Grow up, kids everywhere

toolovely:
no, perhaps, you are the one who will pull his shirt and enter the market because, your brain is programmed not to reason.

some of you people are just disgusting with the way you talk and thats the reason some few will keep taking Nigerians for granted. are you better of than FFK? because, if you do, you wouldnt have spewed that up there.

we keep complaining how some old men are running the country aground, the youths who should hold them accountable are there singing praises to them.

Don't mind him, he is still a small boy, I'm sure the only responsibility he has now is his studies. kids everywhere

Why is she sitting at the back of the car? is Banky her driver....Make Forever happiness fall on you both

AntiWailer:
and Ekiti get university.


No wonder LAUTECH can be closed for years. Their children are not there.

The f00lish electorates in Ekiti are ok with rice and palm oil.


Little Fayose is strategically positioned to continue the slave trade for their next generation.

Same goes for all politicians. They mess up our education system and take their children to a private school home or abroad.

It is no longer to take their children to abroad to school but now private university home and abroad. Nigerians I tire for una

greatiyk4u:
Convenant University is as expensive as foreign unis.......he no see Ekiti state uni, OAU, UNILAG et.al?

Nigerians can never be satisfied, you do bad, dem criticize you, you do good den go still find fault. I tire for una

MediumStout:
This man is nuturing his presidential ambition by building bridges across the ethnic divide. This is what the igbo's ought to do if they want to smell the presidency. They should learn from hausa and Yoruba's on how to play politics. Presidency is not given on a platter, you work for it by shunning politics of hate and tribalism. The sense of entitlement of the igbo's won't get them anywhere in the political scene. They feel they should be compensated with presidency because of the after effects of the civil war but they're wrong if they cant get off their butts and work towards aso rock. Their patriotism is questionable also because how do we entrust presidency on a people that scream biafra or death today and tomorrow they are back begging for unity? They need to learn from kwankwaso and stop all this useless agitations for a biafra that will never come

Your opinion doesn't count. wetin concern Igbo's with this kind gesture from kwakwanso? Afonjas with zero sense always

sarrki:
He failed his state polytechnic exam

He's a hardened criminal

I can bet you that KANU is more intelligent than anybody from your linage, look at this monkey calling KANU names.

evansjeff:
For how long shall it take you to have sense? A sick Buhari is still far better than this dead-alive brainless scum and his supporters thinking he's speaking for their interest not realising he's speaking only for his political ambition and that all these criminals are all the same. A sitting governor with no single project to show for his despicable years in office instead jumping up and down mastubating over Buhari...idiot

You're a compound fool, how can you compare buhari with fayosa, instead of you to comment on the message you're attacking the messenger. Idiota

Smart thief, Nigeria judiciary na joke

Memphis357:
Wizkid is right. Davido is a frog voice Muthafucka. How the f**k does Nigerians put up with so much mediocrity is simply beyond me. In Nollywood,Music,sports,politics. .....you name it.
Mediocrity dey everywhere for Nigeria. Little wonder Nigeria dey where dem dey today.

And wizkid voice is what? you talk about mediocre, tell me watin wizkid dey self? All na d same