₦airaland Forum

Persephone1:
At least she won't be emotionally invested in a man she thinks is hers and she wouldn't experience betrayal like a dagger to her heart. You all just don't get it do you? A woman cheated on can never be the same. Only a fool will think a woman cheated on stays married out of love and loyalty. LoL

we’re saying the same thing. Atleast she’ll know she’s just a sex and disposable object to the new man

Kiddogarcia:
God this analogy get as eee be.
Never had I saw it from this point.
Valid point made,but the emotional torture in it is just too much to bear.
Loving someone who has decided to make an idiot of you can be gut-wrenching sha.
It's better to leave and end up with someone you are not real deep innit with tho.
The pains won't be much in their other relationship and most times it is for the financial gain not emotional wahala.
Win-win I say

Lmao. You’re using logic but women use emotions. It doesn’t work like that bro .

godliman:
If you know the long term consequences of this side chic nonsense you won't be saying this. Side chocking can lead to
1. The chic using juju to turn the husband's heart from his wife for good. The make men abandon their real wives.
2. It leads to baby mama. The husband can simply marry the side chic on the long run and begin raising another set of family elsewhere.
3. The promiscuous husband can bring home HIV and other STIs to finish his innocent wife.
4. The side chic might kill him if she wants to.
5. The side chic might kill the real wife and reign without rival.
Don't blame wives who quit, aside the pain, the life is not safe.
The solution is marry as genuine christians with premarital sex. A man who only eats his wife's soup is content but the one who eats about compares.

Ok it’s good as she quits atleast it’s better to become second wife or side chick elsewhere .. lol.
Dey play

That you kick your parents or elders while greeting them shouldn’t give you any reason to rubbish other cultures.

TheBillyonaire:
Who invented a custom and Tradition that requires Human Beings to kneel down before other fellow human beings?

Such Tradition is totally against the Doctrine of EQUALITY of HUmans. If such tradition is right, then human beings are not equal. Do not preach to me about Respect. Respect is conditional and vested on interests. Personal interest, the need to be seen as humble is manipulation.

shut up and kill this woke mentality !
This is yoruba culture and there’s nothing bad in that .
We prostrate and kneel down to greet our elders.

In the old Egyptian culture , they bowed down to greet their kings, in Indian culture , they bow and touch their elders feet.

You people are just dumb , there are many pressing issues, yet na this one una see problem with. Radarada.

izunned:
So to your best of knowledge, that presidential election was free and fair? I keep wondering the type of people we have in this country.

so I’m the inec chairman ? Abi I’m the cjn ? Channel your frustration to the appropriate quarters

Nice . Nigeria to the world

Omo .

Peter obi should embrace spirit of sportsmanship

Foolish people on dick measuring contest . How does that affect price of garri . No go find work .
Una leaders Dey use una head , una dsy bear Dey compare regions , as if that go put money for your pocket

psalmz:
yes ooo,it’s a stolen phone from you,so make we no loud am,Nairaland and confusion is like 5 and 6,if u put price they will say it’s too high,if u reduce it,it’s too low,m not frustrated oooo,so u can’t multiply it as your signature say in your profile,Oga/madam,take a walk to the next thread,I don sell phone so waka go back to where you came from

actually the phone is underpriced .
Even for that condition , if you no Dey rush, you’ will sell it nothing less down 130k.

A neat one goes for 170k-200k

Reality don Dey hit una hard.
Learn btcee trading or go into phone accessories biz .
Goodluck

SKIBiNSKI:
That is how hopeless lazy people think, imagine waiting for some hotel guest from somewhere to come and change your life.

too much nollywood na him Dey cause am

Diligent1:
In Ikorodu ,Lagos you can get half a plot for one million which the area is developed where people are already living then you hire professional bricklayer and two supporters who will build the house to standard and you pay them daily they resume 8:00am and close 4:00pm.

lol.

easytig:
She no know say cement Is 5k per bag now.20 tons of sharpsand is over 70k,granite nko , wood work and roofing sef na serious money,finishing stage sef will consume shege,to build house now na war o

The lady is not serious

@ evolutionlove, I replied your mentions with a long post but the spambot banned me lol.

Diligent1:
If I have the opportunity of having this amount, I will first buy a land and build a room and parlor self-contained then the remaining amount will be invested into my passion business.

you can’t even take the house to lintel with 4m

Gerrard59:
Someone like me. I am willing to spend any amount to eat good food.

I eat good food alot no be small .
That’s the only thing I enjoy of my own sweat

vickydevoka:
2.7 odd no bad. I for even cash out the 450,000k like that. Greed no let me. Before then I loose 100k , o say make I recover . Omo I don finally run. I go still recover but no be now abeg. Make I see better money again

just ensure it’s not affecting your savings and life in general. Betting no be husle , have it at the back of your mind .

SonofGod231:
I was referring to petty POS business...It's the mentality coz i don't know why many people here always make it look like everyone here is starving....So we should be arrested for Spending above minimum wage a week... Abi living a normal life now has suddenly become a crime?!

I get your point now .

DMCY:
I know, it do pass that sometimes sef but we move regardless ✌️

Just ensure you have multiple source of income and spend way lower than your income. Calculating how much you spend sometimes ehn, will be giving you headache .

emmaodet:
Bros I hail oo

10k to eat twice a day? Kilode? Wetin happen?
Una no get local buka or restaurant that you can eat 1k per meal max? 3k per day or even less.
Wetin happen?
With 10k as a single person eating outside, it should last you 4 days

bro
I had to edit it cos I know most people will doubt and think it’s joke.
Eating outside is expensive and most of these local buka are very dirty and unhealthy. Infact sometime eating at some local buka self is expensive .

There ogunfe na 1500 for big and 1k for medium ( u fit chop two if you no Dey careful ) , iyan 300x2 two bottle water 400.

Transport and take away nko that’s 3k atleast for morning o.

For eatery where I eat


Rice , chicken , plantain and drinks will cost atleast 3500 for morning sometimes 4500 self
Afternoon let’s say I change food, swallow , soup and meat will cost atleast 3500 too ,

Shey I no go eat for night ?


But if my girl help me cook with that , I’ll eat it for days to my satisfaction.
( I eat a lot cos that’s the only thing I sabi , I no sabi drinks , nor smoke, nor drugs, nor party ).

Dijita:
If you are a student in Lagos, Ilorin, or Delta please let me know how much you spend per week or per month. If you are a parent you can respond with how much you give your ward. I am sponsoring five kids, I pay their school fees and other major expenses like hostel, handouts and clothing at the beginning of the school year. I provide for their monthly feeding allowances. Those in Lagos I give #30,000 monthly and those outside Lagos I give #25,000.
I am considering bumping them by #5000 each but don't want to over do it as 4 to 5 students will be joining them next year if they all get admission. I want them to be comfortable without stressing myself.

Please serious answer
Thanks

Omo u Dey try o,

Tbh, 25k per month is low but considering the numbers of kids you’re taking care of, omo you Dey try even if na 10k u Dey spend on each ,
An average student in this economy will need atleast 50k for upkeep in a month .,


Again, you Dey try and I doff my hat for u.

GeneralPula:
Today is Monday. Let say i withdraw 15k;
Pepper to cook soup #500. I eat fish mostly, #1,500 making 2k.. Since it only me, pepper can last me for a whole week cuz I barely eat pepper, even tho I’m a yoruba. Me no like pepper oo . I store things in the fridge which makes them stay good!

That’s 2k spent from 15k. And I know I have pepper/soup already. Next is to buy myself drinks which won’t be nothing less than 5k... 5k + 2k is 7k!

Remember, today is still Monday and I’ve sent 7k? Cool. But I already have my pepper and drinks, cool!

Tomorrow is Tuesday. I want to cook and then discovered fish don almost finish, I can buy fish/meat/chicken, 1 or 2k! Which means I’ve spent 9k in 2 days. I still got 6k..

Next tomorrow is Wednesday - on this day, my drinks go don reduce. I’ll definitely want to restock. I could use 2/3k which means I’ll still have 3k left on day 3... Can you see that after day 3, I still got 3k left? The 3k, I’ll then use it to restock food stuffs like rice/garri or whatever I need.

The day after next tomorrow is Thursday which I’m suppose to withdraw again. So I could withdraw another 15k. That will cover me till weekend. I do go to club on Friday but whatever I’ll spent at the club isn’t among my normal weekly routine spending. Nah transfer I go run for club ..

Your calculation is not feasible sir
What of data, gas, money u send family, money u spend on bitches , money u help people with, haircut, soap, cable etc

vickydevoka:
290k last week. I can show u receipt. Bet9ja chop 250k

na u Dey do yourself .


Set aside 5k weekly to fire. 250k is too much on betting,
99% of time, you can’t win the bookies. I’ve been there.

greggng:
When I hear some say they spend 50k in a week ..I begin to wonder what this people do for a living in a country where minimum wage is 30k and lots of people are unemployed... some don't even earn 50k in a month...I guess every one in Nigeria is fantastically corrupt ...if there is accountability...everyone should ve been in jail

not everyone is into salary job. Let me give u sample.
Some bike men make atleast 3.5-5k in a day .
some of dem do 1.2-2k contribution in a day .
That’s 40-60k savings monthly
70-90k on expenses.


Most of these office guys are simply lazy and don’t want to do hard job..

These dirty jobs pay pass some whitecollar.



Do you know selling phone accessories alone can give you average of 150k in a month in a very good location [/b]with capital of 400k?
Whereas a dummy will be working in a bank just to appear fine and posh and be earning 70k wey him no go fit see 10k save except he’s into shading deals .
And average crypto trader will make [b]at worst 5k in a day just buying and reselling on paxful in your room o.

Do you know an average WhatsApp tv makes atleast 4k in daily ?
That’s you just sitting in your room with your damn phone.






Only a foôl with no self worth will sit down and earn 30k salary. You can’t tell me a complete man will survive solely on 30k salary without tips from anywhere. If he tells you he does, he’s into something shading .

Him no go chop?
Him no go pay house rent?
Him no get family to help ?
Him no go buy cloth ?
Him no go buy data?
Him no go spend on transport ?



I will only agree if the bolded are being taken care of by someone else.


Point is, most people earn more than 30k in a month ,
Weather through business or through tips .

Don’t use stats to judge

DMCY:
I’m single and I spend over 50k/wk.. is it too much?

left to me, no. That’s just 200k in a month .

SonofGod231:
Will you shut the f up?!
Too many poverty striken souls on this forum.Tht you're one of those depending on your POS and petty business to survive does not make every one here broke or a criminal.
Go and learn something real and get a real job.
I used to earn 320k monthly working onboard a vessel as an engineer,if I overstay I would get paid more coz the pay is calculated daily.
Presently I'm earning 150k monthly because of how badly things are I gat to change place of work but if I rake all the money I make from rentals and car shuttle services a year,it's up to 3.2m.
I have colleagues and cliq of friends who are not so frustrated like you.
Just to mention a few,My younger cousin who is more serious in life than you.Just an able seaman in a reasonable and better maritime company drops with nothing less than 800k monthly.
Shey na crime to choose a career path that pays and prepare towards it deligently.
How people decide to spend their money shouldn't concern you.Worry about not adding monetary values to your life and others around you.
No go find better hustle dey do...most times you guys think you will just be here and nairaland will put food on the table for you in the morning...Dey play
The biggest crime is to blame the country for staying broke...If you don't know it now,know it MONEY DEY THIS COUNTRY.

Some POS business make around 400k in a month depends on the location and your capital . Infact some make around 600k ( selling phone accessories and charging join ). Don’t argue .
And some have more than 1stand.

EriMma1:
Sometimes you get bored with food at home and start buying yeye things outside and then get bored again and swtch back to home cooked food.

Cooking is more expensive because every time I cook, I buy things afresh and we all know how expensive food condiments are. Of course you're not going to be eating only one type of food which also cost more to eat varieties.

See, our money no get value again. So when you hear these thousands, just see it as hundreds. That's their value now.

Like now, I'm craving better afang soup and I need nothing less than 10k to make it. So will I say I'll not cook it so I can minimize my spending? mba o.

Bro, i don’t think cooking is more expensive than eating outside o.

Well I sha spend 12-20k daily sha ( both food, data and other miscellaneous )

Jacku:
the A14 and XR are within the same price range

Very close sha