₦airaland Forum

Ofadaman:
As someone who came from a humble beginning just as yourself, I also had to go to farm after secondary school , it was the garri made from cassava farming (on someone land in a deep swamp), and vegetables and stockfish I sold that I used to finance my education to waec, after school I started computer graphics and used it to work in mini cyber cafe to pay university education you till now, I'm out of school and earning well even though not fully there,I've been able to pay for my siblings education from secondary school down to university level for all three of my siblings and elders.

I'd tell you the truth, if you'd listen,
Family can be a set back, and if you allow them hold you back they'd drag you and keep you stagnant for years, you have to focus to take your head out of water first then take them along, (not abandon them ,but give yourself priority first), because even if you don't support them, they'd find a way to thrive, and if you reck yourself trying to pull them when they aren't willing to move, you'd carry on emotional baggage that may never be appreciated , help them but first help yourself, only when you have succeeded that you can pull others up

chinchum:
i am sorry to inform you that you have to focus on yourself for now. I am not saying you can't provide occassional assistance like when he was sick and you needed to buy medications for him. A mother with her toddler on a flight is always advise to fix her oxygen mask before assisting the toddler during a flight turmoil.

You cant pull him out of the vicious cycle he is stucked in at this time; you have to improve yourself optimally to find a sustainable help you can provide him. You may advise he learns driving and seek hire purchase of tricycle for commercial transportation. It appears your brother is mentally fatigue and laid back which is a recipe for failure.

VTJN:
interesting

I thought guys adore, worship and respect women who married struggling guys. I thought that's what some guys want. A woman who will start from a single room with them

Op mother is one of the numerous women out there who chose LOVE above every other thing. She stood with her man through thick and thin. She gave birth to kids. She was submissive as some guys want. She hawked with her children. I'm sure she never hawked while she was single. That is what marriage has done to an average Nigerian women. Marriage took most average Nigerian women backwards in life

Please what has the so called marriage benefited her? What was her benefits chosing love over every other things? What was her achievements being a submissive and respectful woman?

Her only achievements was to give birth to children suffering even in their late 30s to 40. Look at where her virtuous woman landed her into.

So pathetic

Kellie069:
I don’t have a child yet. But got plenty of lands around which appreciates on a regular basis. Have my building on one and that’s the only house I may build . If dem like , make dem sell the land take chop agbado when them grow, na them sabi. I’ll keep buying tho and I am thankful because I have never sold any land because of financial difficulties over the years . But for naira, nothing de. Na nkwobi and Heineken money de my acct plus emergency funds

Kobicove:
Personally I think before you allow someone to come squat in your house matters such as how long the person can stay should be discussed and agreed upfront

FireUpNow:
You are a bigger simp. Why mak a date with a woman who already had kids you who is right thing? You brain has shifted backward. Go and pound sand

FireUpNow:
My virdict is this:-
If the woman had told him before the date then the man was wrong and the man would have been a gentleman enough and honor the date with reduced expenses. If the woman wanted to take advantage of the date then I support the man

Slaysor:
I eat six to eight times a day,my workout session will kill most humans. So I must eat well to regain energy. What I eat in a day mostly are moi moi,egg,pap and milk,oats,rice and vegetables,potato and vegetables.
My workout session include 300 press up,200 squat,25mins jogging,5mins intense run,100 sit ups,100 bench press,100 squat jump...

Nawttiboi007:
reminds me of Terry G.. where that guy dey sef?.. hmmmm phases of life. When Terry G dey active this guy go still dey suck him mama breast

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DARLINGTON869:
I don't think there's any country in the world that has a never ending amount of this particular Corolla than Nigeria. If you think I am lying, just observe on a typical road, out of every 12 vehicles that drive past, 3 8 must be Corolla.

KingMack:
scratch my two sweet balls then sniff the strawberry flavour out of it 😆

Mitchy49:
Okkay. I empathize with you and condemn this act of cyberbullying. It is extraneous, unethical, despicable and an act devoid of affection for humanity. People have rights to support whoever they like in a political contest, so Nobody deserves such cyber attacks. However, Seyi , you bleeped up big time. I thought you were a sensible Nigerian youth who wants Nigeria to become Better, I neve knew you were happy seeing ordinary Nigerians suffer from Bad political leadership

N3TRAL:
You said you're working for your family so that they have everything they want ( including Super cars, elite education, latest gadgets, private jet trips, vacations in choice locations etc) 😂.

You further stated that if they weren't in the plan that you can afford feeding yourself to the end of time.

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That's the statement of a very well to do young man who has conquered being rich but wants to be super rich.