₦airaland Forum

Puss360:
I so much love this question...
When I keep saying that marriage is not for everybody, people keeps condemning me...
Why will you get married to someone whom you don't trust?
Don't you know that marriage is more or less for life?
If all your life you are still searching for "the one" and you haven't seen, keep searching. Don't settle for less, because questions like this you will give the wrong answer.....
Marry your friend. Marry someone who makes you smile.

In my opinion, a Man's next of kin should be his wife in everything.
A Woman's next of kin should be her husband.
Then their properties will be inherited and shared among their children legally when they(parents) die....
Simple

wunmi590:
Add small money and buy samsung A14, I just bought it on Monday, is a beast....

kestolove95:
Those days them no dey fit see bone thugs ND twister lyrics for this book oo..

Mordecai:
1. You once argued on another thread (some issue in Ghana, if I'm not mistaken) to the effect that verbal agreements are enforceable in court. I guess we don't have to revisit that, unless you have no principles and change stance on subjective whims.

2. Nigerians are well informed about marriage, especially as it relates to their culture. It's the bigots that believe Western culture is superior that need education.

LordAdam16:
Depends on the laws.

If he was in the US, placing his assets in his mom's care wouldn't matter. All earnings while married are marked as joint marital property that'd be split at least evenly in the event of a divorce.

In UK law, marriages of 5 years or less (10?) are termed short marriages and the low earning partner does not get 50%. The Hakimi marriage is less than 3 years.

Not familiar with Spanish law.

Athletes and high earners should always sign prenups. It is not optional. Ideally, there should be a prenup that states how much she'd receive. It should be reasonably equitable, otherwise the courts will throw it out.

Unfortunately, you don't need to be married for the courts to split your property. Partners in civil unions and long term co-habitations get financial protections as well.

-Lord

virginprincess:
I'm sure a simp is far better than a mummy's boy,atleast a man i can control is far better than a man his mother controls his home.

oz4real83:
Betrayal rate will also increase, it will be another problem if the person they put over their estate turns out to be a betrayal. We once heard about two former governors in South south Nigeria whose refinery built in South Africa with looted fund, was taken over by the family of the person they put in charge

pansophist:
Women blaming Hakimi are short-sighted. They are after winning the battle, instead of winning the war. Of course few women will cash out from such discriminatory western laws, but most women will suffer.

If you think the amount of unmarried women that are desperate for a husband is an epidemic, just wait ten years more. It will be catastrophic. Especially when the so-called tiktok generation reach their 30's.

Like feminism, women against Hakimi are the biggest hater of women. Yes you'll win some, you'll score some goals, you'll feel fly you could rob a man of his wealth and that's justice for you, but you just deny millions of other women homes. Men are logical beings, and will always find a way.

No such thing as sisterhood when a high value man is in the picture. Such women will destroy things for other women for their own greed. And they are usually the loudest on social media, shouting "go girl", girl power, sisterhood lol.

Lamanii22:
SIMP… except she has a child for him I don’t see why half of somebody’s property would go to a woman after divorce…. I think they need to change their laws….

Tohmey:
I swear guy. . .
i only buy and hodl btc
last year one mumu coin nearly give me High BP, But thanks to btc i have recover 75% of the lost
anything apart from btc is not for me again

Richwallet:
Your face, complexion and build looks like Regina . You are not twins, or identical but I can tell that you are from the same area since most Nigerians look same for their region.

mignone:
As much as I frown at infidelity, where do we place karma?
More often than not, go check d past of those men who fall victim: "Cunning man die, cunning man bury am".

aktolly54:
crypto that people lost money, you still expect him to learn it?

Luckysbab:
Instead make you go talk to an expert, you're there Goggling this and that, forming Doctor.

PJtech:
thank you so much sir... you've put food on my table today

Hope2023:
Happy with this, we still have many good Nigerians out there.. so happy to see people requesting for people's details to assist them in one way or the other not caring about their tribe, religion or ethnicity, this is the kind of country we all wish for.. to Love each other indiscriminately. Bless up guys.
Wish someone can ask for my own details too..

Flapp478:
Eyaaa. I'm so sorry I misunderstood u. Forgive me pls. I'm sorry. There's nothing we have that is not truly given to us by God. I really appreciate ur concern dear. We live for one another. Pls I insist u tell him to send his details still, let me add something to what u intend giving him