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Some of una sha get strong head

I’m honestly interested in this ,

LagosFirstSon:
Initial gragra as usual . Buhari did more than this at the begining of his first Time.

But seriously, Bola Tinubu is too ugly , president no fit am.

tbh, you’re very daft

Ofemmanu1:
IGBO in their confusion, infusion and frustration arising from pride and over estimation of themselves leading them to a series of saboteur maniac syndromes.
Igbos broadly divided other Nigerians into three broad categories- Those they hate, those they deride and those they fear.
Those they hate are the yorubas whom they call traitors, tribalists and cowards. Yet no race in Nigeria have been more tribal than the IGBOS.
There are historical facts to prove this. If something is ten and igbos are not allowed to take 15, so that the rest of us can share minus 5, lgbos will cry marginalisation and label the rest us tribalists.
However there is no race in this country that have been more accommodating of the lgbos than the Yorubas, there is no single igbo leader that did not grow up in the South West or is a beneficiary of Yoruba largesse.
Zik went to CMS GRAMMAR SCHOOL, Adolphus wabara went to AHMADIYA COLLEGE AGEGE, Ken Nnamani went to LOYOLA COLLEGE IBADAN, Ojukwu and Ekwueme went to KINGS COLLEGE, Okpara went to YABA TECH while Phillip Emegwali went to AQUINAS COLLEGE, AKURE. Even my brother Anadu went to IMADE COLLEGE OWO, Peter OBI made Lagos Home after 8years of Ruling Anambra etc.
All major Igbo politicians cut their political teeth in the West. Their major religious leaders cannot thrive outside the West.
Pastor Muoka, Pastor Ezekiel of Four Square and Okonkwo of TREM are examples.
I remember that after the civil WAR, Igbos who came back to ILE IFE were allowed TUITION FREE while the YORUBAS in NSUKKA were rusticated. Example is Pastor Adeboye.
Yet lgbos reserve their greatest hatred for the Yorubas for reasons being that the yorubas refused to be dominated by the yebbos to confront the North.
As to the label of cowardice, had there been any war between the yorubas and the lbos in which the lbos defeated the Yorubas? In the whole ancestral history of Ndigbo, which war has the forefathers or great forefathers fought? Any empire in their history? Yet the yorubas have worsted the lgbos FIVE times in the political history of Nigeria.

As to the label of treachery, had there been any agreement the yorubas signed with the yebbos and they reneged? The answer is no. Yet the yorubas have records of Igbo treachery on the two occasions they formed alliance with them. In 1964 to fight the federal election, the yorubas formed an Alliance called UPGA with the Ibos to be led by Okpara because major Yoruba leaders were in jail.
There was an agreement that the election must be boycotted. The Igbos sabotaged it, went and contested election while the West kept to the agreement.
In 1979 the West went into alliance with the lbos and formed PPA - PROGRESSIVE PEOPLE ALLIANCE.
Again Igbo sabotaged it so that they can produce Speaker house of Representatives. Who then is traitor?

The second category are the Eastern minorities made up of present Rivers, Akwa lbom, Cross Rivers and Bayelsa. The igbos see them as subhuman with tidal brain. Until the creation of Rivers State by Gowon, no OGONI man can sleep on the hospital bed in Bori GENERAL HOSPITAL . As at 1977 only UYO ,PHC and CALABAR had electricity light. They were so underdeveloped by their Igbo overseers that you will think that you were in the Congo jungle.
Until Diette Spiff, there was no Ikwere named Street in Port Harcourt. To show how deep the derision is, the present Biafran agitatators changed the name of RIBISI (Phc) to IGWOCHA as if the IKWERES do not exist.

The third category are the Hausa Fulani.
The igbos pretend to hate the Fulanis but the truth is that the Igbo man is subservient to them. Ignore the noise. There are historical facts to justify this. Zik served under BALEWA, EKWUEME served under SHAGARI and EKEREMANDU zoned the PDP presidency to the North because he wants to be the VICE PRESIDENT to a Northerner.
After the civil war and OJUKWU was granted amnesty for his rebellion against constituted authority, he returned to Nigeria and he joined the Hausa fulani party (NPN) of those he accused of genocide against his Igbo people. It is Igbo tragedy that they hate and deride those who grow and sustain them while they cringe to those(the hausas) who kick them like balls.

Igbos are the only race in nigeria that celebrate failure. In 1982, the igbos celebrated the defeat of biafra by welcoming ojukwu with fanfare on his return from asylum haven been granted amnesty by the igbo overlords- the hausa fulani. He revelled in the fanfare and promptly married FFK leftover Kpekus(Bianca)- Forgetting the over 3million lgbos that died in the war and with many of them languishing at OJI RIVER CAMP.

The second celebration is the release of kanu with the most humiliating bail conditions ever granted an accused in the annals of Nigerian justice system.
A bail conditions targeted at the entire Igbo race and granted by an Hausa Fulani judge, i could not believe that with all the noise, such bail conditions will be signed. But he signed and in his eagerness to leave kuje he abandoned his two conspirators in kuje.
The bail conditions wiped out the Identity of the ibos and EKEREMANDU was made the enforcer of the conditions.
Now Kanu is back at kuje prisons eating watery beans and Ekweremadu is languishing away in UK detention.

Pandorra Obituary was encumbranced fair and square with Ewedu and Amala Politicking pricision engineered by no one but the Jagaban, yet yeebhoes are still crying marginalization with Nzogbu-nzobu headless mob.

FFK is a polemist like Femi ARIBISALA and Deji ADEYANJU etc. They have the capacity to argue both sides of the same point. The igbos regard them as their hero just like Ayo fayose the Eze gburugburu the second and a comedian -Mr. Macaroni.
I hope very soon the igbo will not start blaming them as they blamed Awo for everything that went wrong with their prosecution of the biafran war.
Now a certain Opportunist named Patrick Chinedu Rhodes-Vivor who's riding on the back of Tinubu tenant in Lagos- Peter OBI and supported by the Gala sellers association of Lagos is threatening to Remove Oba AKINOLU if he become the Governor, he forgot the Yoruba saying that says- A child that said when he grow-up, he'll make Rattle-snake' head his Favourite meat, y'all know the rest.
I rest.

Jesussssssssss omo

Another hate year of crying

Non . But if worst come shove, infinix is better. Lumia kor, limousine ni

You’re 99% on point

Between usa and Russia ,
Who is stronger ?

like for USA share for Russia

I know up to 5 obidients that are now supporting Tinubu. When the ones that are doing strong agreed that he’s better then Buhari

Madmohamed123:
Nigerians are mugu the government just they use your brain because they know that you people are not thinking like a human being

Every year they come out whit this nonsense of removal of subsidy from #85 after Jonathan to #800
By next year they will say we will remove it again and the price will go up to #1600.

The question you Nigerians should ask is why are you still paying subsidy and the price of petrol is going up

Where is the money for subsidy going to

The fact is they don't want to tell you they removed subsidy immediately after buhari take over they just using it to increase the petrol price

The government are working whit oil cabal's they know what they are doing.

They are using back door to increase the petrol price to avoid trick

you’re very daft. I’m sorry to say .

Regardless, I sha know say I no go miss this bull run ..


Team10m$

lrman:
To 1500naira sef

Wicked

I like as crypto Dey prove every body wrong

Both the oga and omo’se Dey collect back to back without mercy .

By the time una no see money buy data again, una go rest

Gerrard59:
So, what should she do? Stick with a never-do-well man? I don't get it.

If OP has a comfortable family, she should return to them. I cannot allow my sister to be in such a condition. She is moving back to the family house. I detest irresponsible people.

I support the bolded. But divorce? Ha, provided there’s no domestic violence and the man is not a womanizer, she should devise other means to tackle the situation.
I’m telling you bro, single mothers are not finding it easy , infact , the stereotype is too much and believe me , she’ll regret 97% chances ( this is not dem say dem say ). Taking such risk doesn’t worth it especially since children are involved, and if God one punish her make her kids be girls .


She is a dumbas marrying him in the first place when she knew he’s irresponsible. This is Nigeria not yankee, she’ll turn a menace in the society if she becomes single mother

I don’t know if your story is true, but verily I say unto you , if you divorce him , even though I detest irresponsible men, I swear there are 95% chances that you’ll regret it .

Single mothers are finding it hard out here, prepare your puna for general shagging wether u like it or not for crumb . I know this won’t go down well with u and you’ll want to claim “ mrs capable” but trust me, a bird at hand is better than thousands in the bush. Dem go knack u so tey, at some point, you’ll even wish to only bare a man’s surname. And if you genuinely love your kids, single handedly raising them is the greatest disservice you can do to them .

Don’t be fooled by this woke generation .

Rashord007:
Nigeria cannot be Goood again my brother
Just do what u want to do in Nigeria and leave immediately Hhmmm Nigeria Haa Omo be Country way person fit use ask blessing from God

shut up joor. Alaimokan.
You’re cursing your father’s land , is that something to be proud of?
The first world country una Dey run go, didn’t they face same thing , did they run? If they were cowards like you lot, una go see where to run go? Rubbish. White man slave .

buygala:
No you are not "very good looking".... Male attractiveness go far beyond a nice face.. You can't have body/mouth odor, any body/mental/financial deformities and be attractive to anyone except your mother .

Move away from that self deceptive premise, and you might find a solution to your insecurities.

If you are insecure around girls who have lots of male friends, find your mental health with a girls who doesn't have such male friends... And then when such girl later finds a male friend/ friends, disengage from her and begun the search for peace again ... Continue the merry-go-round until you find some lasting peace, if you will.

you started well, but your end is bad.

SUPERPACK:
Gotok. You can find it with crypto, bank transfer and credit card with cheap funding. I used it on AliExpress this week.

bro can this card work on Amazon sha?

Tbh, beating na him go reset him brain . I used to do this to my brother back then, one day, he deceived me and took me to railway lines at across, he beat me sotey my joint was dislocated. Infact no one came to my rescue as most people don go jumat. It was on Friday. I was crying and making mouth that I would tell our mom,omo this brother say, if I talk ,
Na kesekese I see, kasakasa still Dey come.
Ever since na him I Dey respect am. Na my mama spoil me then base on say I be baby of the house . Even till now self if that my brother shout my name, I still Dey get that panic even though dem no born am well now, I go beat am blue and black he’s married, his first born will be 15 this month meself Dey beat am die if e find me come for holiday. Lol

ppogba:
It is good you made the clarification. When I saw your comment too, I was just thinking of a wack comparison to attack your comment.

I for say, who dey compare Asake with Zino?

lyrically , he’s better than Asake

Kizzygentle:
I don't really know what this guy and naira Marley sings that people are head over heels with their songs. Their songs are the most useless and indispicable kind of songs to be ever heard...

you’re very dump human being if you think zinoleesky songs are useless. Infact, you need to be admitted to ARO .

dyera:
Earthquake never happen for Lagos state buildings dey collapse every week for the state. If earthquake really happen in Lagos state, 90% of the buildings in the state will collapse.

Meanwhile American people dey always know when their building is about to collapse, unlike in Lagos state Nigeria.

you’re a bitter soul

ghettochild:
Remove gift to people
Clothing n footwear.. you can't be buying clothes every month na...

Tbh, 10k cloth is not too much per month, that way the old cloth will last longer

Essenza01:
Ahh.. i cant give N40,000 oooo.. it is inside the N10,000 gift monthly.

from your spending break down, apart from rent, you’re not really spending so much tbh .


What you should do is.
Get a solar inverter, I have the one of 425000 naira, it will power tv, inverter washing machine,laptop, phones , blender and fan. It runs 24/7.. that will save you money on gen and maintenance .

Find apartment of 800 k max. This means your two months salary will cover your house rent .

Your car Maintenance is too high , haba, when no be fourth hand car u buy. Your car maintenance shouldn’t be more than 30k max including fuel since u no Dey waka waka much .

Your feeding fee is very ok, infact I spend x2 of that for food .

Other expenses up there are normal to me

Igbo Kwenu

Fahvvy:
I see someone up there asking why the guy couldn't tell her he wasn't interested rather than lead her on ...

Well...
First of...
It is not certain who was leading who on ...

How are we sure that the girl wasn't the one leading him on until it was too late for her? ...

Who knows, the guy may have been her plan B & unfortunately for her, both plan A and B failed ..

Secondly...
We all have got to come to the acceptance that not all relationships will end in marriage ...

So whether or not marriage was promised or you've dated for years, it's no guarantee that, that relationship will end in marriage ...

Accept this reality and move on![/b]

Thirdly...
How are we sure that it wasn't something that the girl that made the guy back off? ...

I mean, do you expect a guy to see a glaring red flag and still jump inside? ...

So before we crucify the guy, let's think first

.

And lemme address the ladies...
Understand that, All girls are date-able, but not all girls are marriageable b] ...

This is a reality you have to come to terms with ...

Men know EXACTLY what they want in a WIFE and if you're not it,THEY WILL DUMP YOU FOR SOMEONE ELSE ...

So just because your boyfriend is putting up with your excesses and not complaining doesn't mean he is okay with it ...

He will most likely be silent, but he has already taken a decision that he'll never wife you up ...

So before you "give him small drama", understand that, that "small drama" could be the very reason why he'll dump you for someone else ..[/b]

Nothing to add, nothing to subtract.

📍📍📍💯 most time, he’ll keep up with you till he go find better offer. And if by chance you get pregnant for him , he’ll turn u to baby mama.

plenitude:
after buying the fuel we drove back home. There was no electricity as usual so I had to put on the generator. Nah so I select film for prime video make banny Dey watch. I jazz enter kitchen like boggyman Dey jazz enter ashawo house. Omon I started preparing food oo. This girl came to the kitchen and she was observing everything while we gist along. Nah so good ready, we head back to the sitting room nah so we devour the food. Babe was showering me with praises 🤩 she said I cook very well…note we weren’t dating ooo and I wasn’t even asking her out self. After everything it was time for her to go home. Like usual I nor Dey give shishi. I just gave her a ride to her house. From that day on nah so babe begin profess love ooo. This babe actually came to my house to see how I am fairing. Omon when she got home she started giving me details of everything she saw in my house From my wardrobe to kitchen to every single thing. Omon I shock😳

Inu e bu

Ade3131:
Your submissions above says a lot about how much you've experienced in life than it says of the 30+ guy living with his parents.

Lemme ask you why you think everyone above 30 that still lives with their parents can't really afford to rent his own place?

And who told you that most of them don't have a job? Ifeel your perspective on life in this regard is so narrow and bereave of wisdom.

They're people that decide to stay with their parents due to their parents' health condition. I guess you didn't factor that into your submission.

They're also guys like Seyi Tinubu who's born into wealth. His parents live in mansion and they have a lot of them littered around the world. Whichever one he chooses to stay, it still won't change the fact that he lives with his parents.

Then lemme also ask you what economic or logical gain is there in renting your own house (even when you can afford it) and your dad owns an estate and they'll only sleep in one or two rooms while they're lots of vacant rooms available?

Or you just want to go out for the society to see that you're truly a man?

And if we're being realistic, the realities of the present day Nigeria is not in synch with whatever fantasy any of us have had growing up. Renting a room and parlor at Orile, in Lagos state now goes for as much as half a million for a year and landlords are demanding 2 year rent upfront in addition to agent and commission fee. Total package is 1.3m. That's a room and parlor. Tell me how your 20k of 2 jobs can afford that.

Let's not pressurize the less-privy men among us. Yes, it is expected that at certain age you should be financially stable enough to stand on your own, but if you're reading this and you're above 30 and still stays with your parents, and your reality says otherwise to the expected norm, pls don't go into crime bcuz you want to size up with your mates.

Life na turn by turn. You might be a late bloomer, and there's nothing bad about it. What's bad is knowing that you're down and still be digging. If you're down don't dig. Instead, stand up.

💯

Love800:
One of the worst tin to ever happen to a man

Number one, the nigeria situation is not helping matters. Another one is i feel parents are not encouraging their child more to move out. What i mean exactly is, during our adolecent, teenage nd early 20s, parents should be telling these kids that one day they will leave dis house nd stay on their own. It should be a remainder from the parents so these kids will know reality instead of pampering dem nd making dem ignorant of it.

Me if i have the money i will rent a home for my child in his early 20s. I will provide him with foodstuff nd allowances too till he is capable. And he must have a job doing. Whether is menial job or office job

it means the child is still under you. from this comment alone, I can guess your age.

U must be between 15-19. Lol 😂

Edipet:
thank you sir. I have been feeling so depressed this days. Because I feel like I am a failure. This your comments will and me get better, and I will strive to succeed.

bro ,
Don’t pressure yourself.
Na poor man pikin Dey think of moving out of his parents house without genuine reasons . Most of them do that just to feel among and have access to different girls. Some of dem are extremely broke.


With this economy recession , only a foôl will be mounting unnecessarily pressure on himself for wetin him power no reach . The most important is, ensure you’re doing the right thing to improve your situations and make sure you contribute financially to the house no matter how small. May God be with you.