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Regardless, I sha know say I no go miss this bull run ..


Team10m$

lrman:
To 1500naira sef

Wicked

I like as crypto Dey prove every body wrong

Both the oga and omo’se Dey collect back to back without mercy .

By the time una no see money buy data again, una go rest

Gerrard59:
So, what should she do? Stick with a never-do-well man? I don't get it.

If OP has a comfortable family, she should return to them. I cannot allow my sister to be in such a condition. She is moving back to the family house. I detest irresponsible people.

I support the bolded. But divorce? Ha, provided there’s no domestic violence and the man is not a womanizer, she should devise other means to tackle the situation.
I’m telling you bro, single mothers are not finding it easy , infact , the stereotype is too much and believe me , she’ll regret 97% chances ( this is not dem say dem say ). Taking such risk doesn’t worth it especially since children are involved, and if God one punish her make her kids be girls .


She is a dumbas marrying him in the first place when she knew he’s irresponsible. This is Nigeria not yankee, she’ll turn a menace in the society if she becomes single mother

I don’t know if your story is true, but verily I say unto you , if you divorce him , even though I detest irresponsible men, I swear there are 95% chances that you’ll regret it .

Single mothers are finding it hard out here, prepare your puna for general shagging wether u like it or not for crumb . I know this won’t go down well with u and you’ll want to claim “ mrs capable” but trust me, a bird at hand is better than thousands in the bush. Dem go knack u so tey, at some point, you’ll even wish to only bare a man’s surname. And if you genuinely love your kids, single handedly raising them is the greatest disservice you can do to them .

Don’t be fooled by this woke generation .

Rashord007:
Nigeria cannot be Goood again my brother
Just do what u want to do in Nigeria and leave immediately Hhmmm Nigeria Haa Omo be Country way person fit use ask blessing from God

shut up joor. Alaimokan.
You’re cursing your father’s land , is that something to be proud of?
The first world country una Dey run go, didn’t they face same thing , did they run? If they were cowards like you lot, una go see where to run go? Rubbish. White man slave .

buygala:
No you are not "very good looking".... Male attractiveness go far beyond a nice face.. You can't have body/mouth odor, any body/mental/financial deformities and be attractive to anyone except your mother .

Move away from that self deceptive premise, and you might find a solution to your insecurities.

If you are insecure around girls who have lots of male friends, find your mental health with a girls who doesn't have such male friends... And then when such girl later finds a male friend/ friends, disengage from her and begun the search for peace again ... Continue the merry-go-round until you find some lasting peace, if you will.

you started well, but your end is bad.

SUPERPACK:
Gotok. You can find it with crypto, bank transfer and credit card with cheap funding. I used it on AliExpress this week.

bro can this card work on Amazon sha?

Tbh, beating na him go reset him brain . I used to do this to my brother back then, one day, he deceived me and took me to railway lines at across, he beat me sotey my joint was dislocated. Infact no one came to my rescue as most people don go jumat. It was on Friday. I was crying and making mouth that I would tell our mom,omo this brother say, if I talk ,
Na kesekese I see, kasakasa still Dey come.
Ever since na him I Dey respect am. Na my mama spoil me then base on say I be baby of the house . Even till now self if that my brother shout my name, I still Dey get that panic even though dem no born am well now, I go beat am blue and black he’s married, his first born will be 15 this month meself Dey beat am die if e find me come for holiday. Lol

ppogba:
It is good you made the clarification. When I saw your comment too, I was just thinking of a wack comparison to attack your comment.

I for say, who dey compare Asake with Zino?

lyrically , he’s better than Asake

Kizzygentle:
I don't really know what this guy and naira Marley sings that people are head over heels with their songs. Their songs are the most useless and indispicable kind of songs to be ever heard...

you’re very dump human being if you think zinoleesky songs are useless. Infact, you need to be admitted to ARO .

dyera:
Earthquake never happen for Lagos state buildings dey collapse every week for the state. If earthquake really happen in Lagos state, 90% of the buildings in the state will collapse.

Meanwhile American people dey always know when their building is about to collapse, unlike in Lagos state Nigeria.

you’re a bitter soul

ghettochild:
Remove gift to people
Clothing n footwear.. you can't be buying clothes every month na...

Tbh, 10k cloth is not too much per month, that way the old cloth will last longer

Essenza01:
Ahh.. i cant give N40,000 oooo.. it is inside the N10,000 gift monthly.

from your spending break down, apart from rent, you’re not really spending so much tbh .


What you should do is.
Get a solar inverter, I have the one of 425000 naira, it will power tv, inverter washing machine,laptop, phones , blender and fan. It runs 24/7.. that will save you money on gen and maintenance .

Find apartment of 800 k max. This means your two months salary will cover your house rent .

Your car Maintenance is too high , haba, when no be fourth hand car u buy. Your car maintenance shouldn’t be more than 30k max including fuel since u no Dey waka waka much .

Your feeding fee is very ok, infact I spend x2 of that for food .

Other expenses up there are normal to me

Igbo Kwenu

Fahvvy:
I see someone up there asking why the guy couldn't tell her he wasn't interested rather than lead her on ...

Well...
First of...
It is not certain who was leading who on ...

How are we sure that the girl wasn't the one leading him on until it was too late for her? ...

Who knows, the guy may have been her plan B & unfortunately for her, both plan A and B failed ..

Secondly...
We all have got to come to the acceptance that not all relationships will end in marriage ...

So whether or not marriage was promised or you've dated for years, it's no guarantee that, that relationship will end in marriage ...

Accept this reality and move on![/b]

Thirdly...
How are we sure that it wasn't something that the girl that made the guy back off? ...

I mean, do you expect a guy to see a glaring red flag and still jump inside? ...

So before we crucify the guy, let's think first

.

And lemme address the ladies...
Understand that, All girls are date-able, but not all girls are marriageable b] ...

This is a reality you have to come to terms with ...

Men know EXACTLY what they want in a WIFE and if you're not it,THEY WILL DUMP YOU FOR SOMEONE ELSE ...

So just because your boyfriend is putting up with your excesses and not complaining doesn't mean he is okay with it ...

He will most likely be silent, but he has already taken a decision that he'll never wife you up ...

So before you "give him small drama", understand that, that "small drama" could be the very reason why he'll dump you for someone else ..[/b]

Nothing to add, nothing to subtract.

📍📍📍💯 most time, he’ll keep up with you till he go find better offer. And if by chance you get pregnant for him , he’ll turn u to baby mama.

plenitude:
after buying the fuel we drove back home. There was no electricity as usual so I had to put on the generator. Nah so I select film for prime video make banny Dey watch. I jazz enter kitchen like boggyman Dey jazz enter ashawo house. Omon I started preparing food oo. This girl came to the kitchen and she was observing everything while we gist along. Nah so good ready, we head back to the sitting room nah so we devour the food. Babe was showering me with praises 🤩 she said I cook very well…note we weren’t dating ooo and I wasn’t even asking her out self. After everything it was time for her to go home. Like usual I nor Dey give shishi. I just gave her a ride to her house. From that day on nah so babe begin profess love ooo. This babe actually came to my house to see how I am fairing. Omon when she got home she started giving me details of everything she saw in my house From my wardrobe to kitchen to every single thing. Omon I shock😳

Inu e bu

Ade3131:
Your submissions above says a lot about how much you've experienced in life than it says of the 30+ guy living with his parents.

Lemme ask you why you think everyone above 30 that still lives with their parents can't really afford to rent his own place?

And who told you that most of them don't have a job? Ifeel your perspective on life in this regard is so narrow and bereave of wisdom.

They're people that decide to stay with their parents due to their parents' health condition. I guess you didn't factor that into your submission.

They're also guys like Seyi Tinubu who's born into wealth. His parents live in mansion and they have a lot of them littered around the world. Whichever one he chooses to stay, it still won't change the fact that he lives with his parents.

Then lemme also ask you what economic or logical gain is there in renting your own house (even when you can afford it) and your dad owns an estate and they'll only sleep in one or two rooms while they're lots of vacant rooms available?

Or you just want to go out for the society to see that you're truly a man?

And if we're being realistic, the realities of the present day Nigeria is not in synch with whatever fantasy any of us have had growing up. Renting a room and parlor at Orile, in Lagos state now goes for as much as half a million for a year and landlords are demanding 2 year rent upfront in addition to agent and commission fee. Total package is 1.3m. That's a room and parlor. Tell me how your 20k of 2 jobs can afford that.

Let's not pressurize the less-privy men among us. Yes, it is expected that at certain age you should be financially stable enough to stand on your own, but if you're reading this and you're above 30 and still stays with your parents, and your reality says otherwise to the expected norm, pls don't go into crime bcuz you want to size up with your mates.

Life na turn by turn. You might be a late bloomer, and there's nothing bad about it. What's bad is knowing that you're down and still be digging. If you're down don't dig. Instead, stand up.

💯

Love800:
One of the worst tin to ever happen to a man

Number one, the nigeria situation is not helping matters. Another one is i feel parents are not encouraging their child more to move out. What i mean exactly is, during our adolecent, teenage nd early 20s, parents should be telling these kids that one day they will leave dis house nd stay on their own. It should be a remainder from the parents so these kids will know reality instead of pampering dem nd making dem ignorant of it.

Me if i have the money i will rent a home for my child in his early 20s. I will provide him with foodstuff nd allowances too till he is capable. And he must have a job doing. Whether is menial job or office job

it means the child is still under you. from this comment alone, I can guess your age.

U must be between 15-19. Lol 😂

Edipet:
thank you sir. I have been feeling so depressed this days. Because I feel like I am a failure. This your comments will and me get better, and I will strive to succeed.

bro ,
Don’t pressure yourself.
Na poor man pikin Dey think of moving out of his parents house without genuine reasons . Most of them do that just to feel among and have access to different girls. Some of dem are extremely broke.


With this economy recession , only a foôl will be mounting unnecessarily pressure on himself for wetin him power no reach . The most important is, ensure you’re doing the right thing to improve your situations and make sure you contribute financially to the house no matter how small. May God be with you.

Lol and davido is using iPhone

twosquare:
Those ones don't know wetin dey do dem...werey still dey disguise. If developers are the problem, they better hire...nothing of their products work...maybe cardify will take away the market and some other companies. If not Buhari's policies against this card stuff...Flutterwave is the way to go...who be PayDay...and they did PR for Starlink purchase....if you are looking for super incompetence...fill in PayDay.

please which virtual card can you recommend??
Wey no Dey fail, I don’t mind the rate

Tbh, at this stage I’m having doubt if anyone here is making gain from this shît

twosquare:
Those ones don't know wetin dey do dem...werey still dey disguise. If developers are the problem, they better hire...nothing of their products work...maybe cardify will take away the market and some other companies. If not Buhari's policies against this card stuff...Flutterwave is the way to go...who be PayDay...and they did PR for Starlink purchase....if you are looking for super incompetence...fill in PayDay.

if I can hold the ceo of that company , I’ll personally squeeze the life out of him .

I needed to place urgent order, they refused to top up my card and they still refuse to refund my fûcking money.
I’ve sent them messages on in-app support, email and Twitter , they’ll take 2days to reply , dem go tell u they’re working on it. This thing Dey pain me reach bone marrow, I’ve never in my life seen a very useless and stupid company.

Who else is having issues with payday?
They refused to top up my virtual card and still no refund till now.
Is there any better alternative?

It’s getting harder to make money regardless of your line of husle.
Before you pump your money into the market remember 1$ is currently 765.
Ire o

Nemesis0147:
Op avoid this woman
Unless you are ready for a serious question and answer this night

as I see your moniker , I don laugh scatter, na you fit that kobojunkie. Na u be the nemesis wey go catch up with am

Stable light atleast

Nwaetche:
This is Shameful indeed!

Not even the US Secretary of State?

This shows exactly shows how the Biden Administration regards the incoming Tinubu Administration. personalities involved in delegation for Presidential inauguration has always been a reflection of how the US Administration views any incoming government.

Sending a lowly placed cabinet secretary to attend to an inauguration of the "most important" country in Africa is an insult to say the least and unfortunately many Nigerians are tripping over this obvious humiliation of Tinubu and his incoming administration.

In Buhari’s first term, The Honorable John Kerry, Secretary of State was the leader of the delegation

In a normal clime, the US would have been represented by the VP Kamela Harris who is second in the line of succession.

For your information, per the US Power hierarchy as enunciated by the succession act of 1947, the order of seniority and the line of succession of US officials are as follows:

1. The President POTUS

2. The VP - Kamala Harris

3. The Speaker of US HOR - Kevin McCathy

4. US President Pro Tempo of the Senate - Patty Murray

5. Secretary of State - Anthony Blinken

6 Secretary of Defence - Lloyd Austin

7 . Attorney General - Merrick Garland

8. Secretary of Interior - Deb Harland

9. Secretary of Agriculture - Tom Vilsack

10. Secretary of Commerce - Gina Raimondo

11. Secretary of labour - Julie Su

12. Secretary of Health and Human Services Xavier Becerra

13. Secretary of Housing and Urban Development - Marcia Fudge

you’re very dumb

Prophetkelly:
Nna en my very first transaction on Nairaland with this dude was stressful. I almost die. I have been a normal viewer on Nairaland until this year when I needed to move out my accumulated fund from fiverr. After checking some exchangers profile here, I messaged some and I eventually transacted with this guy based on his rate and feedbacks on his page.

He sent Payoneer mail for the withdrawal which I later withdrew too.The very issue I had was communication. Our communication wasn't smooth at all. If I send message now, he might reply like 2hrs time. I wan die ooo. For my mind I say na so I go lost 3.5k USD just like that? He wasn't communicating well at all. I started crying blaming myself that I should have used escrow. A deal of 2m plus, I didn't eat until the following day or third day that he replied and paid. Overjoy wan kill me ;Di even sent airtime to his line but he later said he is not using the line that he is not in Nigeria.


Deals that supposed to take minutes or hours, we ended up using like 2 days for it. Though, I later got to know sey we no dey same country (not really sure of the country he dey). As e pay me, the following day I rushed go register for Driver L so I can open my own Payoneer account. Dealing with all these exchangers can give someone hypertension.